Is everyone getting laid?

trust_me_on_that_one · 2026-06-06T05:04:26+00:00

You guys are getting laid?

Zyxoon · 2026-06-06T08:45:30+00:00

It has been so long I don't remember the exact number, but if I had to think it would be somewhere around zero.

breaktheice7 · 2026-06-06T15:11:42+00:00

Most people on this subreddit I feel lie about all the sex they’re having.

Certain_Pear2023 · 2026-06-06T04:44:35+00:00

Mountain-Elk8133 · 2026-06-06T17:52:29+00:00

Ive never hugged a girl

ethicalhooping · 2026-06-06T04:13:53+00:00

i'm not counting

Khower · 2026-06-06T09:27:29+00:00

Yes. Everyone is getting laid except you. Crazy world we live in

Exotic_Ad_4806 · 2026-06-06T05:11:13+00:00

I did well in my 20s and now in my 30s barely getting anything. A lot of dating and hookup culture is messed up right now but 30s dating isnt as fun

creackoff · 2026-06-06T08:24:44+00:00

Interesting to know the counter from the girls perspective

WebNew9978 · 2026-06-06T04:51:18+00:00

I’m defiantly not. Most likely never will

IEatSushiToo · 2026-06-06T13:15:55+00:00

I’ll probably never cross the 50 threshold. I’m very selective on what I stick my dick in these days. I’m over 20(body count) now BUT it’s been…3 or 4 new women in the past decade(mostly due to a LTR) and once I hit my 30’s(in age), I got way more selective.

One thing is, I don’t want boring sex and fun sex usually comes with time and getting to know people. It takes patience to build that up and once you have it built up, you likely aren’t going to have dozens of women in this space.

Boring sex shouldn’t even count. It’s pretty much just wasted time.

JackSquirts · 2026-06-06T04:56:58+00:00

Somewhere in the 50 range.

BrainFit2819 · 2026-06-06T09:30:53+00:00

What is statistically average. Want a bit better but feeling a bit more comfortable about it.

tlm000 · 2026-06-06T14:48:28+00:00

I haven’t done it in almost three years. I could’ve a few times after my breakup, but the women who were interested just weren’t people I was genuinely attracted to, so I didn’t go through with it. I guess I’m the type of person who isn’t about to Fuck with just anyone for the sake of doing it.

norwegiandoggo · 2026-06-06T16:26:16+00:00

130 something

bobbyjoe221 · 2026-06-07T08:21:57+00:00

I suffered a huge dry spell but I'm on my way right now to a hotel in the city centre to fuck this woman I met off Tinder....wish me luck.

Miss_Galoldriel · 2026-06-06T10:36:49+00:00

Yup. I'm not into ONSs, but I have a couple of FWBs I see on a regular basis. I'm considering finding another one for more spontaneous encounters, if the others can't meet up when I have the time, but I'm not sure about that yet. If someone really nice comes along, though, I'm open to new adventures.

FragrantPromotion435 · 2026-06-06T11:18:56+00:00

ChicoBrillo · 2026-06-06T13:54:24+00:00

I stopped seeing a fwb recently, it was just getting kind of weird. I got some prospects but I'm also in the middle of moving among some other things so I'm not that concerned at the moment but I think it's going to be a fun summer after I finish everything

Thierr · 2026-06-07T12:04:41+00:00

I was into pua and seduction in my 20s and barely got any action. Since my thirties this is like a non factor and I don't feel like I have to put in much effort. Count is in the hundreds.

The trick is to focus on living a good and interesting life.

Electrical-Salary232 · 2026-06-08T00:41:44+00:00

In what aspect?

Every second, day, week? Nope.

Every single person? No.

At least one experience in an adult's lifetime? Yes, but if you don't have one, that's not something to be ashamed of or definitive about you as a person.

Remember, people talk about experiences more than they have them. People work, people sleep, people have hobbies, people have lives outside the bedroom. It's easy to subconsciously believe that people are getting it on all the time. In this economy especially, more and more people are focused on surviving life as opposed to satisfying their libido.

Liikeri_1 · 2026-06-06T12:51:21+00:00

Been on 5 dates this week only all of which led to passionate kissing, some dates last week same result. Not getting laid though. I am not sure how to escalate things past that. On all occasions circumstances have been so that it would be hard to go past kissing.

Deffective_Paragon · 2026-06-06T21:53:28+00:00

34M, 13

TBearYCF · 2026-06-06T23:29:58+00:00

vertascend · 2026-06-07T00:30:38+00:00

I’ve got somewhere in the 60s and I’ve been lucky; I’m 34yo ; this is when I really figured my groove; thing is you realize that drunk mediocre sex is useless; so now I only get with girls I’ve got real chemistry with; that way nothing is off the table in the bedroom; I meet around 300-500 girls a year; take out about 50-80 on a pseudo date, close on about 8-10 a year that I have chemistry with; I wingman the other girls to my friends who just want to get laid and dip….you know it was real, when you’re still in touch with them after they’ve gone;

I don’t advocate drunk sex which is full of regrets the next day but not opposed to it; if that were the case then by bc probably be in the 100s; but I find staying awake chasing girls to the early hours of the morning very cumbersome and ends up with me wasting a perfectly good day feeling hungover and sleeping

O_Pacity · 2026-06-07T05:39:39+00:00

nope, never seen a women naked in the same room

NewZango · 2026-06-07T15:10:46+00:00

Im 26 and got around 20 to 25 tho it come and go it's usually period where If I have +1 I most likely will do 2more in 1-3 month then 6 month or more of nothing

OrlandoLasso · 2026-06-07T17:39:41+00:00

Not lately. My friend's sister was hitting on me and making me dance with her last night, but also hitting on a bunch of women. It was a fun night, but I've been having bad luck lately. The women that are into me aren't my type and I've kinda grown out of the phase where you sleep with anyone just because. I'm focusing on my health and building a better life to attract quality women.

Avanni24 · 2026-06-07T17:46:53+00:00

Heavy_Consequence441 · 2026-06-07T21:54:26+00:00

30-40s

Far_Performance7253 · 2026-06-08T02:55:44+00:00

If we were all getting laid this subreddit wouldn't exist.

TobiGalem · 2026-06-09T00:01:32+00:00

62
70% from dating apps
about 20% from approaching on other apps like tiktok or instagram and about 10% from girls i approached in person
im not a person who goes out a lot what can i say

billoverbeck00 · 2026-06-09T16:47:44+00:00

I have not gotten laid since February lmao

chunkyofhunky · 2026-06-10T00:10:07+00:00

3 :( A year of game and no hits yet, plenty of hilarious fumbles to tell my friends about though

deran6ed · 2026-06-11T04:18:38+00:00

I don't know. I'm an average dude and I can say, things didn't change much for me when I turned 30. What changed was me getting into more serious relationships that lasted years and therefore having less partners

FanAccomplished7407 · 2026-06-11T05:33:42+00:00

Lost my virginity when I was 27 but i actually had to pay for 🐱

Accomplished-End5479 · 2026-06-11T06:25:30+00:00

u think people getting laid are in this sub learning seduction?

Ok_Recognition_271 · 2026-06-06T13:19:52+00:00

Paid Paid

Started talking to a gal she said she had sex with a guy a d enjoyed it. She took 5k from me for something now im waiting to get that money back and get her in a room for some fun

Title	Is everyone getting laid?
Author	Forward_Leather4521
Upvotes	13
Comments	72
Date	June 6, 2026 4:05 AM UTC (1 month ago)
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