Living our best lives instead

AliCandyBar · 2021-05-11T23:04:18+00:00

When men say stuff like that it’s so clear they see women’s only value as being a partner to a man. They can’t fathom a woman NOT being with a man, blasphemy! 🙄

joliet_jane_blues · 2021-05-11T21:11:48+00:00

I saw some articles online dragging FDS because the "Dating Strategy" part doesn't "work." But being single is not a failure of the strategy. It's working just fine.

volcanic_equation · 2021-05-11T21:02:59+00:00

Losers always wanna threaten us with a good time. 💅

Hostileovaries · 2021-05-12T01:44:21+00:00

"The way you won't tolerate bullshit is the reason why you're single"

And thank fucking God for that

OrangeyPanda · 2021-05-11T22:33:36+00:00

If my standards are too high for anyone then they're working as designed :)

CynicalSucculent · 2021-05-12T00:32:51+00:00

Some woman made a tiktok about how women's standards are too high and they should lower them if they want a man.

I called her a pickme and some scrote commented word for word: "We will always pick her. We will love and choose women like her, always. You will NEVER know what that feels like."

Like, good lmao. I don't want to have to compromise my integrity to attract a LVM.

ScalesHaveFallen · 2021-05-12T04:19:54+00:00

Unhappy women and LVM are the only people hurling this insult so both may be immediately ignored

SakuraGirl88 · 2021-05-12T00:00:27+00:00

I have neither the heart nor the gumption to be in a relationship. Singledom is great.

MomNateChloe · 2021-05-11T21:13:50+00:00

I can do bad all by myself, thanks.

dinosaurnuggetzzz · 2021-05-11T23:54:44+00:00

Its sad how many women settle for nonsense because they are afraid to be alone. I would rather be alone than be with a lvm ever again. Being single isn't a bad thing.

Feral_Heartbeat · 2021-05-12T00:29:13+00:00

Funny thing? I broke off all my past relationships. Sometimes I still loved him. One of them he did the "i am just gonna mentally check out for years and make her break up with me'. But, yeah, I CHOOSE to be single. I don't WANT to be single. I want a partner. I want a great HUSBAND. but ..... I am not willing to settle for just anyone.

nurseofdeath · 2021-05-11T23:53:52+00:00

Celebrated 20 years single in February!

Life is awesome!!

partypancakesbacon · 2021-05-12T01:40:41+00:00

I had a friend say that during a friendly sports game when I beat her. Meanwhile she can’t stand her husband- they spend most evenings apart (with separate friends). I was married for almost 2 decades and heard this after 2 years of being happily single and dating. Unbelievable.

Big-Respond8481 · 2021-05-11T21:17:36+00:00

Good to know this is why I am single, now I know I just have to keep doing it! (go-to answer, am not even single btw)

DPCAOT · 2021-05-12T01:14:56+00:00

I feel the bare minimum part so hard..

TerryCrewsNextWife · 2021-05-12T07:26:12+00:00

So funny story cut down as much as I can...

Dating app. Got matched. Guys profile was basically empty bar self description "nice guy" (coughfirstredflag) and we had a match of 50%. So low effort profile of 2pics.

In two messages he wants to move to WhatsApp. I decline the stranger and ask for more info about himself.

He says he's going overseas with mates for a trip and to give my WhatsApp. Again I decline. Said "dude. Help me out here. I know nothing about you, I haven't met you. Give me something to work with here"

I received a 15 separate sentence rant about how I'm going all American saying dude, that this is Australia, it's so tacky, that I need to be more feminine, and that this was the reason I was single and childless at my age.

😂😂😂😂😂

Just to clarify he was also my age, single and childless on the dating site. His low effort profile was why he was getting mad at me.

Funnily enough the negging didn't hurt me at all! I know I am single which is why I was on the app. Childless??? Oh hell no MATE I'm CHILDFREE!!!

Dodged a huge dumpster fire of a bullet that day. I'd rather be single and enjoying my distance from trash like him, than tolerate bullshit like I received within 2 messages from that cockwomble. No ragrets.

Curiousquest2 · 2021-05-11T21:49:13+00:00

This is my whole vibe.

wordy_fries · 2021-05-12T06:41:00+00:00

In most of my relationships, scrotes always slowed me down in my progress. I decided to be single and happy to achieve new heights! 🙏🏼 I haven't been happier. No headache.

karabnp · 2021-05-12T00:35:50+00:00

1000% 🥂

spinsterchachkies · 2021-05-11T23:44:48+00:00

For real

lolmemberberries · 2021-05-12T02:45:54+00:00

I know, right? Refusing to settle for less is a good thing.

Title	Living our best lives instead
Author	sassenachpants
Upvotes	3350
Comments	60
Date	May 11, 2021 8:55 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/na7hgy/living_our_best_lives_instead/
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