Men are without a doubt significantly more violent than women overall, but the vast majority of this violence is directed towards other men. Generally, men are conditioned from childhood to avoid violence against women specifically. This doesn't mean it never happens, but feminists greatly exaggerate the frequency of it and the proportion of men that perpetrate it.

Feminists also ignore the great body of research on the staggering prevalence of domestic violence and sexual assault perpetrated by women against men, with a lot of studies indicating gender parity or HIGHER levels of female perpetration. In particular, there is one study on IPV in young adults with a sample size of over 10 000, found that among nonreciprocally violent relationships(half of all violent relationships) where there is a clear and unambiguous perpetrator and victim, the woman was the perpetrator 70% of the time.

Feminists often cite rates of criminal complaints to argue for these crimes being heavily gendered, but this is ironic given the fact that the same feminists often point out that the majority of sexual assaults and domestic violence incidents are never reported to law enforcement. So how can criminal complaints be an accurate indicator of prevalence?