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I’m also unsure about carbs when trying to cut weight. I hear a nutritional doctor and athlean-x say carbs are the “furnace for fat loss”. Then another doctor and fitness coach say keep them minimal, or carbs spike insulin = fat retention. Then protein is .8g / lb of body weight, but Jim Stoppani says 2g per lb.. Only thing everyone agrees on is calorie deficit / surplus. So currently my focuses are on: keeping fat lower (getting plenty from meats, chicken, eggs, etc) with skim cheeses, leaner m…
/r/askMRP28/09/24 04:48 PM
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Honestly, sounds like an average experience to me. Obviously not great, but not too bad. A few things.. You’re going to want to keep in mind that dating will always be a numbers game. Always fish with a net, and not a hook. Keep finding new prospects and keep improving yourself. Keep a journal about the experiences and you write down what you feel you did wrong or what you did right. There’s always room for growth. There are many benefits to spinning a ~HB5 plate. Personally, it’s ok if the next…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/24 03:30 PM
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I recall in my early 20’s noticeably having a high libido and lasting twice as long in bed right after a leg workout. So, then when me and my LTR at the time had scheduled sexy time, I would make sure it was a leg workout that day haha. But it’s really just a boost of a few different things. You’re training the bottom 50% of your body, which contain the biggest muscles and can move the heaviest weight. So, big pump, increased heart rate, boost of hormones, flood of “feel good” chemicals in your …
/r/askMRP23/05/24 02:47 PM
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Both gyms should have 1 day or 1 week free passes. Try them out.
/r/askMRP07/01/24 06:31 PM
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When you’re in the deep end in life, no amount of David Goggins motivation or tough love will help. IOW, you can’t drive a car with a drained battery. Maybe have your parents drag him to a clinic where he can get his labs checked out. A solution could be an antidepressant or anxiety med temporarily. He needs something to get the ball rolling and moving him towards his goals. “Getting girls” is not a healthy motivator. He should not think about cold approaching or spinning plates. His current pri…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/24 04:57 PM
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It’s very likely you just don’t want to get married, regardless of who the girl is. That’s okay. OTHER people asking about marriage is redundant. If your SO isn’t pushing for it or giving ultimatum vibes, don’t stress.
/r/askMRP11/12/23 04:31 PM
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It’s normal to be unsure of a LTR as a guy. Biologically, men want to spread their seed to as many women as possible. So it is unnatural for a man to be 100% content being monogamous. The marriage thing is a cop out. I know because I broke up with an LTR of 5 years for the same reason. You can have “the talk” and give the ultimatum, and if she does leave you because marriage is a deal breaker, then there you go. Do the villain arc thing and hit the gym harder. Again, like someone else said. Gras…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/23 05:10 PM
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Every girl on the planet in 2023 is considering getting a tattoo. Add men to it. Tattoos nowadays are like buying a new necklace. 20 years ago, tattoos were a red flag, but IMO they’re basically like getting your ears pierced. (Face tattoos are obviously red af). You do have your right to not be attracted to women with tattoos. That’s totally fair, and if she does get these tattoos you think are unflattering, then break up with her with a “I warned you brother”. Giving you shit about “iM gOnNa D…
/r/askMRP21/08/23 09:30 PM
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It doesn’t sound like you’ve read everything in the sidebar. Read the books and STFU before you give us an update.
/r/askMRP26/05/23 09:05 PM
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You are attractive when you aren’t looking for it. Being in your zone and just having fun caught that girl’s eye, and applying kino and not hanging around was the best way to go about it. Unless you really couldn’t keep hanging with her that night, I would’ve pushed for an f-close. I do use dating apps and I’ve gotten a few new notches from them the last few months, but they are draining and it’s overall a huge numbers game. I deleted them but I’ve got 3 plates on rotation plus a few prospects. …
/r/TheRedPill01/05/23 08:47 PM
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How old is the kid? Not divorced, but I have a 3.5 year old and me and the mom signed a custody agreement in court 1.5 years ago. The lead up to the court date was pretty rough. She was making horrendous accusations about me but didn’t provide proof. My lawyer suggested I just show proof of being a responsible good person which worked out well for me. In the end, we agreed on terms before the court date so it wasn’t prolonged or unfair. I had only been living in our state for a few years and the…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/23 03:49 AM
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Never date coworkers. At best, it’ll be awkward and uncomfortable until one of you leaves. At worst, one call to HR and your job is gone. Girls flake. It will happen no matter how good looking you are. Because sometimes those excuses are actually true. Just this week, with different girls, I’ve been ghosted, one was apparently in a car accident, another one got covid and sent me a test strip proving it (we’ve met twice and have fucked 3 times, so I believe her). With that said, girls that flake …
/r/TheRedPill23/03/23 03:19 AM
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3 months is usually always the time that shit goes downhill fast. I Can absolutely guarantee that the relationship will never be the same as the first 3 months. Not saying it can’t be good, but I’ve wasted nearly years trying to “improve myself so the relationship is like it was” and it always failed. I literally just experienced the same thing. Met in December, and just 2 weeks ago we parted ways. I had the same thought. “On our first date I was facefucking her and creamed on her face! Why is i…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/23 04:29 PM
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Overall sidebar stuff OP, but still welcome to see nonetheless. TLDR, always put yourself first. Hell even with your kids, put yourself first. Us as men have the unconditional responsibility to be the example of what men are or what men are supposed to be. Not taking shit from women and not letting them pussy pass through life is what we desperately and profoundly need more of. Better men and women = happier men and women.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/23 04:16 PM
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All plates eventually push for a “date” outside the dick appointments. AWALT and not a big deal. It’s up to you if you want to “reward” them by going out every few fucks. Some girls just don’t want to feel like you’re so embarrassed by them that you won’t even be seen with them. Also, oftentimes girls aren’t in a position to smash (heavy flow, IBS, gassy, sore vagina, etc.) but still want your energy so they invite /shit test to get feels or attention out of you.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/23 05:41 AM
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Honestly, if your gut isn’t in it then you should cut ties with it. “LtR cAUGhT lYiNg!” Reading like a god damn click bait YouTube video. Like, please try and prove me wrong, but EVERY single girl who turns 18 by now has baggage and a double digit body count already. And that’s as early as you can legally start fucking them. Idk I’ve been on TRP since like 2014 and with my experience through the years with LTR’s and plating, I’ve found that I’m pretty satisfied and content with spending time wit…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/22 09:16 PM
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If he’s beta, she doesn’t need to divorce him. She keeps his security and commitment, and all she has to do is keep her bulls on the DL.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 05:12 PM
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The advice in the comments are all good. Reward what little positive behavior she does, ignore and do your own shit with the bad behavior, continue initiating and learn how to take a rejection. Give your nurture and attention as rewards. Train her to be a slut for you so she earns to get what she wants from you. Dread game should be prioritized and you should have a foot out the door already. Be aware of what your divorce situation is going to look like and only settle into staying if you are ge…
/r/askMRP04/11/22 05:10 PM
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Gather evidence and talk to a lawyer.
/r/askMRP04/11/22 05:02 PM
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Best approach is to just go full alpha. If you are trying to “get” with her, you’ve already lost. The winners mindset is for her to beg for your commitment and for you to make her work for it. Scenario A is her husband is alpha. This is bad because she will be an alpha widow, meaning her pussy will always belong to him, but her friends and heart tell her that she deserves someone more nurturing (blue pilled). So she’s found you, and potentially others like you, to either “emotionally” (and physi…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 04:40 PM
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Always assume that she’s talking to or seeing other guys. 4 hours of not texting back and you getting all anxious about it means you have oneitis. And all this desperation on your end is making you more and more unattractive. The goal is for her to be anxious about you not having texted back for 4 hours. Lastly, this might take you years to really internalize, but her liking all of your social media content is an IOI, and you should have assumed the sale (DTF). Whenever you get any IOI, always e…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 04:22 PM
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I almost always journal before meditating, just so that my meditations are more about mindfulness, and less about trying to let go of my thoughts. I just write based on what would benefit me best. If I’m feeling angry, sad, anxious, etc. l I’ll rant about it. I’ll write down what’s bugging me and really just try and jot down the issues. This helps with at least painting a picture of the issue, instead of it just seeming like noise in my head. If I’m feeling neutral or content, I’ll lean more tow…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 04:14 PM
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I’m in the same boat now where I dwell too long on my L’s. I do my best to remind myself that “you pass failure on the way to success” and put more of my thought into just not making the same mistake twice. Almost all of the time, the solution is in your frame, and not your memorized responses. You’ll always better pass a shit test after a heavy squat workout, than a morning of tossing and turning all night.
/r/askMRP31/10/22 12:48 PM
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I’m going through the same motions right now. 1 year LTR, broke up 8 days ago. It was toxic towards then end as well. Worst part for me is sleeping. It’s harder to fall asleep, then I have dreams about her, then I get up after a few hours and just start my day. My routine right now is work, gym, meditate, journal, and walk my dog. If you aren’t meditating or journaling then definitely start now. They help a lot. Cut out substances. Drop anything now that lowers your inhibition like alcohol, weed…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/22 12:26 PM
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Dad university on YouTube has some practical tips and tricks. Surprisingly, MMSLP and WISNIFG has some solid mindsets for being a father / parent. Overall, the first few years you really just need to keep the baby alive. They give plenty of learning in day cares, plus being around other kids helps them develop accordingly. Until they start talking in short sentences, that's when you need to be on top of them as that's when they start pushing boundaries and try to be independent.
/r/askMRP10/08/22 04:01 PM
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Money gets a bad rep here cause "betabux", but money is literally power. Every man in a relationship / marriage should have an exit plan. Meaning, you have the funds or logistics to just up and leave one day. Either because she's cheated, died, or you just do it on a whim. If you "don't know" what you're going to do if you split, you're failing. 5x a week of starfish sex is doing more harm than good for both of you. You're building resentment because you're not getting what you want, and she's d…
/r/askMRP09/08/22 04:04 PM
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Just to clarify, she has 2 sons, only one of them is yours but you love them both just the same? There's a few mindsets you need to cement before deciding anything. It is not your legal, religious, or spiritual responsibility to support a child that is not yours. It is the moms fault and responsibility. It is her mistake to have had a kid with someone who seems like is not around at all anymore. It is already a humble service and selfless act to be an active male figure in a child's life who is …
/r/askMRP15/06/22 10:01 PM
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The correct word is abundance.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/22 01:43 AM
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There's a red pill rule where you wait at least 6 months before you become exclusive with a plate. The point is for you to properly have the time to vet them, the time has her prove to you that she really does want you, and ultimately that you are the prize. I'll be honest and admit that I've not followed the rule. The ego boost from a hot new plate craving my dick gets to my head. But, I have realized that in my relationships, around 6 months is when things go down hill. Either her best behavio…
/r/askMRP06/06/22 02:49 PM
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Her value is lower because now she's older and her n-count is higher. Your value is higher because now you're older and you've done shit for yourself. All any ex ever wants is attention and validation. Even if it's negative or positive attention or reactions, it's all validation for her. The biggest revenge is indifference. Anything above that is stepping into her frame. IOW, continue ghosting. Bang her friends.
/r/askMRP01/06/22 05:33 PM
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I guess the worst thing you could've done was not think much of it, let her bitch 20x, then confront your brother about it as a result of her bitching. You don't have to control everything. The captain's first mate does still have responsibilities, but you do need to be aware of everything. The captain knows the full scope of every operation, trusts his crew to handle their responsibilities, and he makes the important decisions.
/r/askMRP01/06/22 05:29 PM
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This passes, IMO. Obviously you could've done this or that, but not stepping into her frame is always a success. If this shit is happening a few times a week, then get you exit strategy in order. If you're dependent on her for rent or her car, then fix this asap, or figure out what you're gonna do if you need to leave right now. Overall your frame and mentality is what's most important here. How did you feel during? Were you naturally aloof and indifferent? Or were you fuming inside and just rea…
/r/askMRP30/05/22 09:52 PM
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There's "healthy" red pill /alpha traits and "healthy" blue pill / beta traits. Women can enjoy sex with a blue pill man but most likely they won't because they don't want to fuck him. Women who would probably enjoy it are post wall women or alpha widows. This is only because beta traits establish comfort and trust. Something post wall or alpha widows finally find refreshing. But it's only because it's different and safer. It's like drinking coke all your life and then drinking diet coke. It doe…
/r/askMRP28/05/22 03:15 PM
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A few things. What's your SMV compared to 2 years ago? Even if it's the same, it's bad because it should be much better. Don't lie, you've gotten comfortable. You've gotta act and improve yourself as if you're single. Then, why should she try to overwhelmingly please you if you've already put a ring on it? It's not as simple as changing your Facebook relationship status anymore. She has you, and she very well knows it. Any sex acts from her right now are just "maintenance". They're just band aid…
/r/askMRP27/05/22 04:22 PM
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First things first, do all of the reading on the sidebar. Read all the books. I was in a slump a few months ago and dusting off the WOTSM e-book in my phone was the first kick in the balls I needed. The books actually fucking help. Plenty of chapters will relate to your situation or current argument and you'll go, "ooooooohh, I AM a loser." If you're in a current argument or some specific anxiety that's gnawing at you, use the search bar. Usually you'll find someone in the same situation and ans…
/r/askMRP26/05/22 08:02 PM
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Just always have something to do, and then go do that. About to go to the gym in a bit, and sex would be a good warmup? Kino and escalate. Rejected? Shrug your shoulders and go lift. Rejected in bed? Shrug your shoulders and go to bed early. Would you fuck you? Do you have options and preselection? Go read the sidebar and books.
/r/askMRP18/05/22 10:40 PM
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The thing is, focusing on your mission and goals helps you get laid. Years ago I ended a relationship and hyperfocused on spinning plates. It wasn't a terrible goal as I was always monogamous before, but so much of my time and energy was spent on reading and learning game. So much red pill reading, so much time spent on dating apps. I remember I used to meditate before replying to a girl to make sure I said the perfect thing. Or waiting until after I had the pump from the gym before calling a pr…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/22 05:58 PM
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I agree. The book was the first step I took to get myself out of this little comfort rut I was in for a few weeks / months. It definitely motivated action and helped my game / shit test skills with the SO. It was more "think like this" vs. "Work on this" which is what I more so needed at the time. I definitely plan on rereading it once I improve on the practical stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/22 04:29 PM
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This. Just finished TWOTSM and now reading MMSLP. They literally read like, "try this on her, and do this so you can have X, and when she's like that, do this for Y." I have to consciously remind myself each chapter to "do this for YOU. Try this if and because YOU want to." A clean house and cooking promote comfort in the marriage. Just, no. I'll scrub the shit out of my kitchen counters because I just learned that X% of bacteria linger after a few days. Anyways, I'm rereading MAP after. At leas…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/22 04:15 PM
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The alpha(s) she's cheated /cheating on you with are satisfying her dopamine fix, but not her oxytocin (comfort), which she is easily getting from you. You are her #1 orbiter, and she knows exactly how to dangle the carrot in front of you. Even if she has sex with you, it is only to give you a lick of the carrot to keep you chasing for it. Solution - go eat the abundance of carrots, which will be free to eat and savor. Yes, you may need to cross a river or traverse a valley to find more carrots,…
/r/askMRP03/05/22 07:00 PM
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The waitress being flirty with you in front of your wife = high value You bragging to your wife that some girl gave you attention = low value You also do not want to have a battle on who gets more attention. She can simply open up her DM's and show you the dick pics she's been getting. Also, 10 guys checking out your wife = not a big deal. 1 hot girl giving you "fuck me" eyes in front of your wife = preselection = high value.
/r/askMRP03/05/22 06:45 PM
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Where's the preselection? Your wife is just one hole you can stick your penis into out of potentially millions, or at least hundreds of thousands, if you're picky. Doing XYZ to get XYZ from your wife is a losing strategy. Do XYZ so that your own personal value rises. Maybe you will be HV enough to attract a younger, hotter, wealthy, and better partner, who could be a successful real estate agent who can help you with your farm situation, or she's a great divorce / custody attorney, or she will j…
/r/askMRP03/05/22 06:36 PM
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Mindful Attraction Plan is very practical.
/r/askMRP03/05/22 06:18 PM
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I had this happen for a few weeks when my daughters mother ended things with me. I'd feel anxious when I woke up and anxious when going to sleep. I'd meditate twice a day, journal numerous times a day, and was even going to the gym twice a day to distract myself. A week after the breakup, I had a mild panic attack when I saw her on bumble. I had to call a buddy and he walked me through deep breathing and listened to my rant. I immediately went to the gym to hit 1RM sets on my squat. It did help …
/r/newTRP19/04/22 03:26 PM
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Yes, it'll literally just a strong frame. It's not a fantasy.
/r/newTRP19/04/22 03:06 PM
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Is she ball and chaining you to the couch all weekend? You're the one that's deciding to spend your time with her and waste the weekend away. What are you expecting? For her to pull out her laptop and invest in stocks for you? Everything is in your court. Even sex. The lack of the sex that you want is your responsibility. Fuck her brains out, cuddle for a few if you fucking want, then get up and say you're going to the gym, and that she's welcome to come with you.
/r/newTRP19/04/22 03:02 PM
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You're on the right track with bars and board games. It seems like you're framing the first date as you wanting the girl to clearly indicate that she's sexually interested in you. First off, first dates should be expected to be short. Within 15-30 minutes you should know and solely decide if you want to keep investing your time. Are YOU having a good time? Second, you're probably framing the date as trying to get girls to like you, or you're waiting for them to give you what you want. Both of th…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/22 02:33 PM
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Another example of frame. If you feel self conscious about doing anything, you're going to react to any evidence that supports how you feel. Self conscious - (HB taking a jog and looking your way while she passes) "damn, she probably thinks I'm a loser for working out by myself." Confident - (HB taking a jog and looking your way while she passes) "That's right, I knew you wouldn't be able to keep your eyes off me." It's also a huge asset to be able to workout anywhere. During covid 2020 when gym…
/r/askMRP14/04/22 04:19 PM
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There's no reason to put up with that much arguing and not talking for days. That's just toxic and not good for either of y'all's mental health. The performance issues definitely just snow balled and it doesn't seem like you put in any actual effort to rectify that. I'd say a huge factor to the ED is lack of self respect. You don't feel like the man, you're not the prize. I'd guess that you've just been riddled with anxiety the last few months. If you feel like your LTR is to blame, then you hav…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/22 11:53 PM
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Yeah, right now. Has your MV gone up two points and she's still starfishing you? The answer is no. She's going to enjoy the precum and full load of whoever she's attracted to. It's just not you right now.
/r/askMRP26/03/22 04:22 PM
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It's also that you just see that the grass is greener. STFU = better outcome, your brain just tells itself, "ooo yes let's do more of that". It's like training a monkey to hit a button to get another banana. Funny enough, my last "argument" with my SO was that I sometimes don't acknowledge her (ignore a shit test). I called her out on it and it got resolved, but we really need to learn all the shit test troubleshooting.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/22 01:30 PM
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Shit test = fitness test. Shit tests are woman's version of vetting. It's really not for lack of respect, it's simply just to see if you're socially competent, or if you're a "niceguy", or an AFC. I do agree that, at times, shit tests become too much chase for the hunt. Like, I don't want to be having a conversation with a HB4 and it just be continues deflecting or AA. And lastly, shit tests aren't just from gaming. It's literally older than language, when tribes would test to see who was the mo…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 01:12 PM
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I found TRP around 2015, and at first, I was sending some posts to buddies if I felt they needed it, but, I've never actually encountered anyone else who knew about it, or I've never been "found out". At most, I'll use some general terms in a conversation, like "wamanese", "frame", or "ghost", but at this point, there's dozens of online blogs and websites replicating the manosphere that it'd be difficult to pinpoint this specific quarantined sub.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 01:00 PM
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You have to "let go" of her now. Let go of hope and expectation. You have a much higher chance of getting sexually satisfied from new prospects. I had a plate who allegedly had never given head. She promised I'd be her first if I became exclusive with her, and she'd only do it with her under the sheets (?). I seriously just laughed it off and did not care. I had other plates whom I was face fucking. The point is, you can't give a fuck about what it takes to get a specific girl to be the king's w…
/r/askMRP17/03/22 08:01 PM
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Attraction does play a huge factor. I dated this girl for about a year and she had a similar background to your gal. Mormon upbringing, sexual assault history. Didn't trickle down too much into the sex. Just some hard boundaries at the time. No facials, no anal stuff, not very submissive. Not deal breakers and I didn't care much at the time. It didn't work out so we part ways. A year later we start hooking up and there was much more obvious attraction from her side. She initiated the meet, she w…
/r/askMRP17/03/22 04:59 PM
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That threesome chat should not have affected your relationship much at all. And your career is your career to worry about. The only that matters is your frame around it. You won't admit it to us but what's your MV been the last few months. Any dread levels applied at all? How are you handling the rejections? And lastly, you may need to just call her out on it. Women are super insecure about body stuff, especially vaginal issues like a UTI or yeast infection. Just approach her and lead with, "hey…
/r/askMRP02/03/22 03:20 PM
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I wouldn't dwell much on the second question. Imposter syndrome is a thing, and life is too short to be shaming yourself. Knowing what you want is such a key in RP and in life. It is arguably the essence of frame.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/22 01:40 AM
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There's a shit test solution where you repeat yourself. Choose any of the following: "I'm not doing this right now, mkayy" "let's sleep on it and chat tomorrow" "why are you so obsessed with me? Is it the new Cologne?"
/r/askMRP01/03/22 11:07 PM
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Based on the comments section, your frame needs a lot of work. Outbursts are for women, children, and AFC's. The only time you should ever scream is during sex, or when you need to call upon Thor's might in the middle of a new PR. STFU, frame, stoic and whatever isn't FOR your wife. It's for you. Example: Wife stormed downstairs one evening, yelling at me for thinking I was mad at her for making some comment about not having sex. I didn't feel like navigating those waters for sex that night, so …
/r/askMRP01/03/22 10:56 PM
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I tried the clean break with my baby mamma and it resulted in her enforcing supervised visitation on our kid for months. I had to serve her, spend thousands of dollars, and wait months for the court date to finally get overnights with the kid. Your mindset on a breakup should strictly be, "it just didn't work out" or "we just have different expectations." That's it. Literally nothing else matters. Every adult should be able to house themselves. If she has to move in with mom or couch with a frie…
/r/askMRP01/03/22 01:02 AM
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You could've had the conversation after. It's a matter of trust in terms of parenting. Try easing into the dinners. Maybe every other night or just on weekends for now. Reward her by offering to take her out to dinner every other week or something. Also, understand thy enemy (kids / wife). What does your wife care about in terms of food? Healthy? Delicious? Convenient? What does she hate about cooking dinner? Grabbing groceries? Cleaning? The time? Maybe the solution to this is simply just buyin…
/r/askMRP15/02/22 09:09 PM
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I wouldn't say the moment. Things are gonna feel off when you fail shit tests. Or when you toss and turn all night and get anxiety from overdoing it with the caffeine the next day. More so, when you're doing everything right (on your terms) and there's a lingering gut feeling. But if you have options and want to dip out the moment things feel off then more power to you.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 01:40 AM
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Who cares? She could've been fucking other guys while you were with her. It's just anxiety. Let that shit go. You won't be stressing over what she's doing when you have new plates. In LTR's you need to know what comfort tests are. Be proficient in them before you consider another LTR.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 08:13 PM
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Best thing to do regarding the Nintendo is tell your wife that you will not be undermining each other in front of your son. If your wife had a problem with getting the Nintendo back early, she should talk to you privately. There's no reason why you couldn't tell your wife, "I've noticed he's improved, and he deserves the shorter punishment." Being a tyrant doesn't equal being a good head of the house. Have you looked up comfort tests at all? Failing shit tests = unpleasant wife. Failing comfort …
/r/askMRP11/02/22 08:08 PM
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Definitely take your kid or a buddy out for the valentines dinner. Do what you want to do and extend an invitation (when you want to). You know who does silent treatments? Teenagers. Are you gonna comply and respect this when your son starts doing it? No. You're gonna tell him to clean his room when it needs cleaning. They completely ignore you, you tell them to nod yes if they understood you. Regarding her current silent treatment, you said you argued over cleaning your desk? Any negative feeli…
/r/askMRP11/02/22 07:48 PM
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You fucked up with the flowers shit. Huge DLV. Regarding her telling you about the skater, it was just a shit test. It went downhill from the flowers cause you showed you had zero other options. What you should've done was demote her to plate and picked up other girls on rotation. Always have options, especially when plating. How long did you wait before making her an LTR? The longer she waits, the more power you have because the relationship is more valuable to her. If a girl is gonna cheat, sh…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 07:33 PM
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Always trust your gut. Your gut is just your subconscious picking up many micro details, piecing them together, and then sending you feelings about them.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/22 03:25 PM
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We got into a fight last night. I fucked up by trying to let go of shit but letting it build instead and then being passive aggressive about it. Anyway, I got to a point where I'd already said what I wanted to say. She did that thing where she'd leave the room and storm back in to say some shit. I either ignored it, or would reply, "I'm not going to argue with you" or, "I need to collect my thoughts. We can continue this later." I obviously should've just laughed at her tantrums and patted her o…
/r/askMRP28/01/22 09:21 PM
1

You spend all your nights drinking and watching TV? when is the last time you fucked her, and how often do you fuck? A lot of her actions seem like comfort tests. I'd say that she's very well at least emotionally cheating. What do you want?
/r/askMRP27/12/21 04:18 PM
9

It's a red flag that she's bragging about it and doesn't feel inclined to feel private or reserved about her sexual past. This is because she's hamstered it in her head. She's hamstered not slut shaming herself. So the question is, what else will she hamster about in the future?
/r/TheRedPill26/12/21 06:28 PM
2

You can't get her to do anything. Doing anything on your part to try to get her to do something your way is seeking validation. How's dread game? On a scale of 1-10, how much does she fear that you'll leave her for someone who actually celebrates your successes?
/r/askMRP21/10/21 05:02 PM
1

IOW, Always be hungry, but never thirsty. We can go weeks without food, but only a few days without water.
/r/askMRP11/09/21 12:01 AM
2

That process should be exciting. And it's really not that difficult. It can all start with 1 decent friend and build a connection with their circle and grow.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/21 06:44 PM
15

In the last year I've put strong effort into the "you are the average of the 5 people you hang out with most" and it's helped a lot. Hanging out with people who have serious fitness goals, solid game, or great career ethics. Even just removing toxic people is a huge boost to your frame.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/21 02:05 PM
1

Anything that doesn't involve sitting them in front of the TV is a win on my book. I have a 2 year old, and I'm always jotting down new things to do when I have her. Recently we've walked around swap meets, plenty of parks (I WFH so I try and get as much fresh air as possible), shopping malls, she really loved bass pro shops. There's an aquarium that has a $40 season pass I'm considering getting, waterparks, libraries. I have on my list to hit up a dollar store, buying some glow sticks, and havi…
/r/askMRP07/08/21 03:27 PM
10

Being seen as creepy is still better than being seen as a loser. At least being creepy makes people feel something.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/21 08:05 PM
3

First of all, have patience. The ideal state is: her noticing other woman hitting on you and wondering if maybe you're cheating on her with someone hotter (dread game). Until you are at that state, do not expect the relationship to be in your control. Keep boosting your MV. You have over a decade of dead bedroom to unfuck. Secondly, there are some things that do need to be talked about prior. There could be some hard limits that every woman has that just can't be budged, even if you are Jason Mo…
/r/askMRP21/07/21 07:12 PM
1

A lesson I've learned recently is that nobody feels "great" 100% of the time. Even the most charismatic extrovert needs to be alone once in a while. I'd make excuses for not making progress because I didn't feel "great" that day. I couldn't sleep because the neighbors were partying until 3am or it's too hot to step outside. An amazing skill I've acquired recently is that I learned to drag my feet. Even if I had to pull my tooth out to sit and meditate, I'll sit my ass down and close my eyes for …
/r/TheRedPill09/07/21 08:33 PM
3

You've made too many big fuck ups and you're way too new to dig yourself out of this with any sense of sanity. Your best and only option is to scrap the whole thing as soon as you can. Make a list of what needs to be done to 100% remove her from your life. Transfer your part of the lease to someone. Some people will continue paying their half of the rent but still move out.
/r/askMRP20/06/21 04:03 PM
6

Women develop long term issues with breakups because they are often incapable of not milking the victim mentality. The friends and families will always side with her. Even if she broke up with you because she's been fucking some other guy and now she wants to officially date him, it's somehow still your fault. The only thing you can do is stick to your guns, show your integrity, and make a note of who your real friends are.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:57 PM
9

I'm not disagreeing, but OP's topic is "woman hide fat". The discussion of attention whores is on a whole different thread.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 03:23 PM
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Not really. The corset was invented in the 1500's. Rule of thumb, if she doesn't have bikini shots online, then she's probably fat. If she ONLY has photos from the chest up, she's definitely fat. The arms / shoulders are the biggest giveaways. The neck and chin area also but it's not as definitive as men because they have softer features. Maybe us not knowing if they're fat until they're naked is the equivalent of girls not knowing our dick size until they're staring into the barrel of the gun l…
/r/askTRP19/06/21 02:12 PM
7

There's nothing wrong with not being an open book with coworkers. In fact, I personally advice men not to be buddy buddy with their coworkers because there's too big of a chance of them using that information against you to get ahead, or women giving you problems with HR. With that said, you DO have to put an active effort to socialize and meet people. About a week ago I snapped out of this mental funk I was in and realized that I'd been lonely and depressed. Working from home is starting to get…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 05:50 PM
1

Both men and women do not like responsibility. Some men don't like the responsibilities of being a parent and they fully opt out of that, women too, but men more likely. The problem is, women get way more of a pass on quitting their responsibilities. I know 2 women who both were on "disability" for 5 months because they had suicidal thoughts. 5 months of full pay. I care a lot about mental health, but I've never known a guy who has been on disability for suicidal thoughts. And even if he were, h…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 05:44 PM
6

I recommend reading the sidebar in the marriedRP subreddit. Read all of the books as well. Do so before posting another question. Also, look up the levels of dread and apply them today. Saying that you "can't get away during the day" is absolutely ridiculous. Just leave often and don't say where you went. And most importantly, take a very hard look at yourself. What are your 1RP in the gym? What's your body fat percentage? It's easy to consider cheating as an option, but be honest with yourself.…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 05:21 PM
1

You need to focus on your health. Whether that's your diet, supplementation, sleep, or maybe you just need some more heavy squats. Maybe 2 hours to recover is normal. 2 days though!?
/r/askTRP17/06/21 02:02 PM
1

Sometimes it just takes time to swallow the pill. Read the sidebar, and read some of the fucked up stories that too many men suffer through. You don't have to spin plates and forbid yourself of connecting with different people, but you absolutely NEVER want to wake up one day and wonder how you got into a situation where now you have a crazy baby mamma, you're fat, depressed, and for the first time in your life, you're considering ending it all. So OP, if you're just starting out, yes, feeling l…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 01:53 PM
1

How you are today is a culmination of what you did yesterday. But how you will be tomorrow is a culmination of what you decide to do today. Just imagine your life as a video game, where when you start you have no stats and you progress the more work you put in. And it's better to have a lack of a childhood than a really fucked up one. Stop victimizing yourself and quit the excuses.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 01:48 PM
1

You should put zero value into those pillow talks. The reality is that the next day she can wake up and decide to ghost you, for whatever reason. Don't even put an expiration date on it (summer fling). It's only when she starts inviting you to meet her family, or go on long trips, etc that you should either have The Talk, or pull back on the comfort.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 12:12 PM
2

You shouldn't ever be talking about women with coworkers. Losing your job for sexual harassment is not something you want. If you're insecure about your virginity then yes, people can read micro-expressions.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 12:08 PM
1

If you were to ask which woman I'd value more between a 24yo or 31 yo I'd obviously say the 24 yo. But nowadays, woman can hit the wall before they're old enough to legally drink. It literally only takes one partner to alpha widow a girl. I was spinning a plate once who was already divorced at 19. I'd honestly say that we should assume that AWALT and that they've all hit the wall. OP, the best thing you can do is keep improving your MV. improve your chances of attracting higher quality women, an…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 11:58 AM
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If I made enough money and I wanted a lot of kids then having my partner be a stay at home mom wouldn't be a bad idea. Daycare costs alone are $100-300 a week. Although I strongly disagree about expecting an energetic partner when you get home. She's most likely going to be stressed out from being around a crying baby all day.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 11:40 AM
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This is how it was a hundred years ago. Men go to work and women stay home to raise the kids and clean the house. This changed drastically during WW2 when the men were overseas so the women had to join the work force and keep the economy running. Since then, it's progressed steadily where there are more woman in colleges now than men. Men still populate the CEO and top positions, but a reason for this is because women tend to take time off for maternity leave. But there's absolutely zero obligat…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 11:30 AM
2

OP, use the search bar. This question has been asked a million times. Why not seek answers from when the sub wasn't quarantined? And to give my advice on porn / fab addiction for the guy who does use the search bar and finds this comment, USE the sexual urge to DO SOMETHING that will get you to your next healthy ejaculation (sex). Meditate, read a chapter of a book, go on a walk, fold your laundry, write in your journal how sexually frustrated you are, hit the gym, etc. If you're so horny to the…
/r/askTRP10/06/21 05:13 PM
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Been following since your last post and it just sounds like her hamster is spinning full speed for some reason. Either soft next, and make her come to the conclusion that she enjoys sex as much as you do, or have The Talk. If I were you I would just shut off from all of this and focus on your her plates and prospects.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 05:06 PM
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Its well explained in the sidebar. Glossary section I believe
/r/askTRP10/06/21 03:34 PM
2

Use paragraphs. Use the search bar. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 02:25 PM
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Do you do other shit when she's over? Play video games, cook? Maybe you just need to add more variety. A FWB requires more work than a plate. Once in a while I'll intentionally do things that don't lead to sex, like bringing her to the gym. If you're already doing all this, then consider soft nexting. Women don't realize this, but the real problem is when you don't want to have sex with them anymore.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 02:24 PM
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It's really all it is. And to be honest, I've never been rejected going for the kiss. Maybe once or twice they turned away, but they reciprocated when I tried the second time. Just look them in the eyes, hold their chin, and slowly make your way towards their lips. Again, even if they move away, try again a little bit later. If they "brutally" reject you, just say,"I apologize. I must've read the signals wrong. I'm going to get going, but it was nice meeting you."
/r/askTRP08/06/21 06:51 PM
1

I keep my room at 71-73 degrees.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 06:47 PM
1

It noticeably helps me. It can't hurt to try out.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 03:59 PM
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Problem is your mindset. You need to REALLY value your time. When you make a move, it's not about how you do it or if you're "ruining" the interaction. It's just a statement of what your intentions and expectations are. When you go for a kiss on the first date, you're boldly and directly asking, "Is there enough attraction between us for me to invest more time and energy into this?" 7 dates in 2 weeks is a lot. More than plenty to feel confident to know that you have consistent prospects. So, ag…
/r/askTRP08/06/21 03:58 PM
1

I at least for sure take ZMA. It doesn't tranquilize me, but it makes my sleep quality better and deeper. Last year, I was having really bad sleeping problems. I would go to bed at 9pm and wake up at 12am fully awake, absolutely unable to go back to sleep. I realized after some time that my bedroom just had poor air circulation. I then slept with my door open and it helped a lot. Also, sleeping in a cool room helps too. You can try white noise. I also use a 30lb weighted blanket. I sometimes lig…
/r/askTRP08/06/21 03:47 PM
3

It's crazy to believe that you've tried every thing in the book but lift some weights. There's a strong chance that that is the key you need, and there's dozens of more benefits as well.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 03:41 PM
1

I think it's nearly impossible to not have any obsessions / habits. You can live like the Buddha, but then you can argue that he had meditation and mindfulness. This is why it's suggested to replace bad habits with good ones. Replace porn with gym, replace cigarettes with meditation, etc. The only thing you should be listening to is your body. Just as long as your nutrition is on point and you aren't creating any muscle imbalances, you're good.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 02:01 PM
1

You really shouldn't worry until you get an officer knocking on your door. Most often than not, she's reacting heavily to another notch count, or her friends found out, or her boyfriend found out and she's trying to change reality and make it seem like you were forceful. I'd give her a call and sort it out over the phone. Anything over text can be used against you.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 01:05 PM
1

I'll feel this exact same way from time to time and I recall back to what my mindset was in high school. I had some killer confidence, especially when I was riding around on my skateboard. But I was such a "yes man" for every opportunity to go out. I was broke, but I was still out every weekend or every other night going to awesome and lame places. I'd go to church events, randomly hit up friends, ask what they are doing, then ask if I could tag along. I searched under every rock for opportuniti…
/r/askTRP04/06/21 01:01 PM
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In a way, you're a bit lucky in that you've gotten the hard part over with. The hard part being the marriage, divorce, kids, etc. You now KNOW (hopefully) that the white picket fence dream is a load of crap. Some guys on here will bust their ass for years, meet someone, then lose everything and fall back to their blue pill ways. In other words, it should only be uphill from here. It's important to just focus on your future. How do you want to spend your 30's? Who do you want to be? You can make …
/r/askTRP04/06/21 12:55 PM
8

No you shouldn't. YOUR exclusivity is your power. Make her beg and work for it.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 10:02 PM
0

If your career requires you to build a professional network then just add people in LinkedIn and maintain a professional relationship. If your career does not require you to have a huge network, then I would suggest not trying to be buddy buddy with your coworkers. The smartest thing to do is keep your head down and do your work. Your coworkers will use things about you against you, if it helps them in any way. People will spread rumors if your personal life isn't so personal. Then there's the H…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:37 PM
1

Best bet is to relocate. I grew up in a county that was 90-95% my ethnicity, so you'd have to be really attractive to stand out. I've moved to a much more diverse city and I easily get much more IOI's and success with more attractive women than from my hometown.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 04:34 PM
3

Always wrap it of course. Even if she promises she's on BC. Enjoy it while it lasts. She's either going to A. Be really horny and fuck you, and get out of it what you're getting out of it, but then she'll want more and you'll need to have the talk. Or B. She'll pretend that she's obsessed with your dick, but a he'll eventually burn out of holding up that mask, and tell you she needs more, again, have the talk. So be safe and just enjoy it. Use her as a plan b while you're out gaming. It build co…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 02:30 PM
1

First of all, you do want to try and keep your personal life as private as possible. Let people find things out on their own. Secondly, you want to make sure that every decision you make is done unapologetically. Maybe you got back together with your ex or you picked up smoking again. Maybe the shame is telling you something, but that's for you to decide.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 11:39 AM
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I get bad anxiety when I PMO. It literally drowns my drive. A 5 minute wank isn't worth 24 hours+ of brain fog and mediocrity.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 11:25 PM
3

Just because you're in the early stages doesn't mean that you can't approach and game. A ton of guys here always wait months or even years until they're attractive or confident enough to start approaching, but it's just a very sad excuse. There is no checkpoint or starting line that you'll see to tell you you're ready. It would benefit you in the long run to start approaching and gaming now. There is a TON to learn from talking to women and trying to escalate. With that said, the best mindset to…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 06:57 PM
1

I believe that the #1 rule of game is to have fun. You should go out to the club to have fun, and then approach girls around that. Example: I've gone to concerts by myself. They were fun bands I really love so I knew I was going to have a good time. Then, between sets, I'll talk to people and approach everyone. I'll get some numbers or cold shoulders, but I don't feel any pressure because at the end of the day, I'm gonna rock out to the live music and have a good time no matter what.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 06:51 PM
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Make her believe that she's 100% going to be a single mom without your support. You should make yourself seem like a deadbeat who can't keep a house plant alive. That's your best bet. Women will go through a pregnancy if they believe it'll get you to stick around.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 12:29 AM
1

I treat LTR's as my "team". It takes a lot for me to be in an LTR and I vet heavily, so, if I do become exclusive, I trust and care for them a lot. In short, yeah it's 50/50. I tend to build connections with girls who are pretty responsible, so they have a good job and some pocket change. Our "dates" usually go something like, "I'll get this one, you get the next one." Or, "Let's split it?" I wouldn't LTR someone who can't afford to split the bill, because they most likely do not have anything t…
/r/askTRP28/05/21 06:05 PM
13

I've had to make some tough decisions. Particularly when I heard "I'm pregnant" a few years ago. And honestly my best advise is to keep doing what you're doing, but push yourself harder to pick one and stand by it 100%. Unapologetically. Trust me, it gets easier. When you make tough decisions, and see them through, you start to realize and see that the consequences weren't that bad, and the rewards weren't even that great either. This is a reason why older men naturally get the genuine DGAF atti…
/r/askTRP27/05/21 03:20 PM
2

What did you reply? I wouldn't be surprised if she did the same thing to 5 other guys at the same time looking for a specific reaction, like giving her money.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 04:25 PM
1

You're hanging with her friends too much. You have too much free time to be tagging along with her like a puppy. Almost all of the time spent with her should be either private time or the occasional date. More time spent with her friends = more time needing to be on your best behavior.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 08:59 PM
1

Maybe give him some RP books that aren't so on the nose. "The Game" and "Way of The Peaceful Warrior" are 2 of my favorite novels. Then there's "The Mindful Attraction Plan" which is an amazing "How To" on how to boost your SMV.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 04:27 PM
8

First of all, don't listen to her BS. A flake speaks a million times louder than 5 paragraphs of how much she misses you. At this point of my RP journey I don't even play anymore. I'll sit them down and call them out on it. I tell them what I expect and what my boundaries are. It may seem like I'm losing frame, but if they stay, they sure as shit adjust their behavior.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 04:25 PM
4

You're surely building a wall, of fucking text. Use paragraphs bro.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 04:22 PM
15

At least it's a good reminder that this type of shit exists. A lot of us on here often seem to think that females are clueless deers in the wild, unsuspecting of our lion prowl about to manifest. They're absolutely not. I guarantee that a lot of the women we've all dated have known about TRP. But they don't want you to know that they know. They'll use TRP to their advantage. By understanding what type of women we praise around here and put on the mask. Only for months later baby trap us or manip…
/r/askTRP20/05/21 04:21 PM
2

You really don't have to prove that. She should be the one who puts in the good word for you, and all you have to do is not prove her wrong. They should like you already before meeting you because your girl has talked you up. The ONLY time you need to try and impress am girl's friends is when you cold approach someone in a group. But that's only until you isolate them, and that's a completely different sport anyways.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 04:16 PM
3

Bro you're straight. I was "coasting" for a few weeks recently. I struggled last year pretty hard. The first third of the year was fearful, of the virus, my job, my health. Then I had money problems and toxic people draining me out. I made a move and quit everything. I moved to my mom's couch to regroup. A few months later I moved back and I was much better off. I made a list of goals and I hit all of them. Got the job, car, and respect I wanted. I let myself have a breather, because I felt I de…
/r/askTRP20/05/21 01:43 PM
15

You don't really want to 1-on-1 with your girl's friends too much. There's no value. Sure you can maybe consider them as a rebound, but that's just drama and not likely to happen. Literally just display 2 things. Don't be a psychopath. Your girl's friends are looking out for her and need to know that you ain't going to kill her or bring drama into the group. So just be chill. Be decently polite. Display some value. You don't have to give them a ride in your private jet. If you have a friend with…
/r/askTRP20/05/21 01:29 PM
1

My older sister is hilarious. They out there, but the more important point is that women don't have to be funny. More than 99% of guys know that they're going to fuck a woman before they even talk to her.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 01:17 PM
1

Have you called him out on it? A lot of people weasal their way into shit and use the plausible deniability card "well you didn't say anything so I thought it was cool!" If that's been his only issue then just address it.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 01:14 PM
1

It's a problem if you feel like you're going to explode without some pussy. You're saying you'll be in a better situation in 8 months? Bro, it's not going to kill you to not have sex in 8 months. There's dudes here who are still virgins in their 30's. Just sit the fuck down and ask yourself how you want your life to be in 8 months. That's enough time to make decent gains in the gym. That's enough time to learn a coding language or learn how to do car maintenance.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 03:57 PM
1

I'm non-white as well but I don't cry at home about it with my dick in my hand. I do what I got to do to live the life I want. Yes, people in your situation (or worse) have achieved success.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 03:53 PM
1

Then strive to be Dan Bilzerian in 5 years or gtfo.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 03:50 PM
1

Are you scared to teach? Then wtf was the point in putting yourself through school for it? Starting a job isn't going to weld you into your position forever. Unless you're in some kind of contract, you can always quit and do some other shit. I have a friend who teaches, and she crafts custom lampshades on the weekends where she pulls $1K+ just from a few hours of work. She keeps her teaching job for the benefits and job security, but she can quit if she wants.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 03:49 PM
1

I call bullshit that 0% of the women in your area are unattractive. Maybe you're just racist, but YOU put yourself in that place, so either accept that your mission is worth being where you are, or stop bitching. Also, I here has to be tourist spots in your area with a better mix of women. Venture out and make the best of it.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 03:41 PM
4

The "American" routine can seem like a daze after years and years of the same crap. Any 9 to 5 job should never be seen as the end goal. You need to have a financial mission in which you'll be "free" from slaving 40+ hours a week for a mediocre paycheck. It's not wrong to have a job, but you NEED a vision for getting out of it. The 9 to 5 struggle should be seen as an investment. So whether you start your own business, make enough money to do part time, or you live off your car, have a mission f…
/r/askTRP18/05/21 03:38 PM
3

I used to be like this. And I'm not gonna claim I'm a champion conversatioanlist, but I can do 1 on 1's pretty well now. First things first, NOBODY is ever 100% a charismatic person. Even the hustlers, the extroverts, the "Donkey's" from Shrek, will be off and not want to interact. So stop thinking it's some on/off switch. It's a volume knob. Secondly, just make an effort to be curious about individuals. Have some interest and lead with that. Some people just look boring and are most likely bori…
/r/askTRP18/05/21 03:31 PM
1

Is it low effort for you though? It sounds like you're dressing up for them, and are you seriously doing dinners? First "dates" are ALWAYS coffees, drinks, or a walk in the park. 15-30 minutes max. That way if she show up looking like a trash bag, you order your late, say something came up, and dip out. THAT'S low investment. Now, to the WHY. You seen the guys on here brag, "yea I just matched with some chick on tinder and I spit perfect game, got her to my place and I ended up hitting it raw, a…
/r/askTRP18/05/21 03:20 PM
6

Probably whiskey dick, or too excited, or both. Shit happens Playa. Maybe next time just eat her out or finger her so she's more inclined to come back. Set up another meet and try again.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 03:10 PM
14

Instagram can be a tool. If you have great photos of yourself and, once in a while, you post stories of you doing fun shit, you'll get girls messaging you or, probably, more importantly, you'll stay on a girls mind. If a girl is on the fence about you, posting a video of you around cute girls might make them interested in you to meet up. Then, if you soft next a prospect or some girl flakes on you, you being on their feed displaying value could make them chase you. If you have zero online presen…
/r/askTRP18/05/21 03:00 PM
6

Feminism. Magazines and toxic podcasts making them believe that they can let themselves go, have cases of baggage, no personality, and the shittiest morals and still deserve a man's best. The other fucked up part is that some men still treat them like Queens.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 02:52 PM
7

26? That means that you have 3-4 years to set up your 30's to be awesome as fuck. And honestly, your 20's are about figuring shit out. Making mistakes, finding your likes and dislikes.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:13 PM
85

That's either crazy, disrespectful, or both. And I'm certain there are other unpleasantries. Set a good example for men and hard next her.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 03:16 PM
0

Usually I'll fuck them good the first round. Foreplay, dirty talk, toys, etc. The when I'm ready for round 2 I'll go ahead and do the face fucking and get myself off. You want her to be satisfied enough from the meet.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 01:47 PM
6

Sometimes, but you shouldn't concern yourself with it. The less you care, the more value and preseleftion it brings you when people find out on their own.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 01:43 PM
2

I'd consider relocating. I'm Hispanic and I grew up in an area code that was 95% Hispanic. I moved to a different state a few years ago and I get a lot more IOI's. It's more ethnically balanced, so I stand out more.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 09:42 PM
9

Be honest, are you super ugly or extremely short? I'm with the group here that says that frame and game matter more than looks, but looks does have an impact. If you're just blindly cold approaching, maybe take a step back and gauge more carefully for IOI's.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 07:18 PM
1

Wonderful breakdown bro. I don't love that it takes "a lot" to pleasure one of my plates, but it's still fun and exciting on my end; pushing the boundaries and learning all the ways to give pleasure. I guess I can say that I'm a "visual" lover. Like, if I see her toes throwing up gang signs then it gets me hotter.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 07:01 PM
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I hear ya. The good news is that after we fucked yesterday we had the pillow talk and I brought up some questions. It was my first time playing with an anal plug so I asked what her thoughts were on penetrating in/out with the plug, and then what about taking the plug out and me inserting my dick, and what if she used her vibrator while I fucked her ass. She seemed pretty on board and curious about it all, which helps for the next time cause, like you said, it ruins immersion when I'm trying to …
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:53 PM
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Yeah she has a vibrator that she's brought over, and I told her to bring it next time she comes, but in my head I'm like, "are we really adding another item?" I think most guys would agree that once in a while we would like to just have regular PiV and it be satisfying enough for both of us. It's more difficult to keep immersion when I have to wear a whole suit of knight armor.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 02:08 PM
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I've read it twice. And you're absolutely right. The immersion has been an issue.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 01:35 PM
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I guess maybe, but before doing so, you should just tell her to tone it down. I had a plate a few weeks ago blowing up my phone for a few days, talking about us going on trips together and asking if I've ever been to (X). I straight up replied with, "hey, I'm putting a pause on this." IOW, I soft nexted her for unwanted behavior. You have to give women the responsibility to check themselves.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 01:04 PM
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It takes time. It's like detailing a beat up car. It takes time, patience, experience, hard work, and the right tools. Something most guys on this sub struggle with, is not being able to invest for some long term goals. All the newbies start off by eating a stick of broccoli and saying, "this tastes like shit and I'm still not alpha!" Well, it's not the stick of broccoli that's going to act as the magic pill, but the choice to eat the veggie, and what continuing to make that choice will bring in…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:55 PM
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LTR'S are only great for a short while (honeymoon phase), but they get boring pretty quickly. You can listen to TRP and do the traditional 6+ months plating before LTR consideration. Or you can learn the harder but more effective way and LTR some chick you just met a few weeks ago. I can tell you now though that if you can't spin a plate for longer than 3 months then you have zero chance of having a decent LTR. Read "Models" by Mark Manson. It seems like more than half of the guys on this sub st…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:43 PM
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Security, bragging rights (show off to their friends that they found a decent dude who will commit to them). Also, after years of dating Chad's, a beta can be refreshing for a bit. The beta himself doesn't have any redeeming qualities, but the perks of being in an LTR can be enjoyable for some time. It's like always eating junk food. A salad sounds kind of good after a while.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:28 PM
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Just because they can doesn't mean they want to. With men out to wars and the wave of feminism, it forced women to join the work force and grind the 9-to-5. I have a friend who got a WFH job, made 70K+, didn't even have a degree or experience, and she's quitting. Because 72 hours bi-weekly is too much (every other Friday paid off). I know another female who does personal banking with a qualification in notarizing documents and advising business owners, and she's going to quit to be a personal tr…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:23 PM
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So you're saying that you have some chemical imbalance so you need medication to be normal. Alright, but then you're giving us an example of how much you care about someone's validation, before you start the medication? All I'm saying is that if there is something "wrong" with you (social anxiety), then obviously address that first before you start making moves and expecting results. If someone has ED, would you tell him to read Sex God Method and go approach 10 women? Or should his first step b…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 11:57 AM
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thanks uwu
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:12 PM
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You can be completely direct which will save you the time and energy you're looking for but it will increase your chances of ASD and LMR. and if a girl has been on the fence about you, being sexually direct might nudge her to next you. What if the last 2 guys she fucked were also sexually direct? Are you not interested in her life, or are you just fucking lazy and incapable to lead a conversation? If you can't have a friendly banter with any of the girls you meet, then that says much more about …
/r/askTRP12/05/21 01:55 PM
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One of the best answers to most sex questions on this sub is "Sex God Method." The author goes in depth about variety. So the obvious answer is to switch things up. Go to her place, go to your parents place when they're out of town. Sex in the car, her car, her parents house, etc. Switch up the initiation. Maybe the next time, as soon as you're alone, don't even kiss her. Just pull off her pants, spend a minute or 2 getting her wet, put the condom on and start railing her. Then, weeks down the l…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 01:23 PM
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If you're not obsessed with having sex or fapping, then use that to your advantage and focus on your mission, finances, physique, etc. A few months ago I was so hyperfocused on some goals I had, that sex was such an afterthought and I didn't care for it. I can say that a part of it was due to covid being serious in my state at the time, but, I took advantage of it. I achieved all of the goals I had and my sex drive came back. I'm still not obsessed with it, but I'll get sexually frustrated if it…
/r/askTRP11/05/21 10:12 PM
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I browse the BDSM subs once in a while to get ideas for the DEVI method.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 10:02 PM
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Eh, idk. I can't relate to that mindset. AWALT is simpler. They're all sluts. Enjoy your time with them and fuck a lot of them.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 04:39 PM
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But yeah I highly recommend that book. Not only does it teach you how to be more charismatic, but it even teaches you techniques to improve your game, or how to reduce anxiety quickly if you're ever in an important situation.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:53 PM
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It's a pros / cons situation with spinning plates and doing an LTR. You can still talk / flirt with other girls when you're in an LTR. In fact, it's encouraged. Sometimes just knowing that you can smash other girls is satisfying enough, and it gives you more power and dread game in your relationship which will then, be more fulfilling. You can always just end the LTR and ho around. Life's short.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:51 PM
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Bro my bad, I thought you were OP this whole time. I tend to give them a hard time / tough love.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:46 PM
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You still don't even know wtf the word means. 90% of being charismatic is just being a good listener. Go buy "The Charisma Myth". Let me know if you need help fucking your mom too.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:10 PM
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Google for a book bro, come on.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:07 PM
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Thank you bro for using the search bar. TRP has less than half the members it used to have before the quarantine and it pains me when dudes post a common question that they can have easily accessible quality answers for just by searching. To answer your question, I'd have done the same thing. The thing about having a strong frame is that sometimes, women will cross a boundary to try and get a reaction out of you. They're so desperate to poke a hole in the alpha that they'll say some tasteless sh…
/r/askTRP11/05/21 01:48 PM
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It's pretty simple. Just search better for opportunities to go out. Like, hop on Facebook for a second and see who's birthday is coming up. Hit up that person and ask what their birthday plans are, and ask if you can tag along or maybe they're throwing a party and they extend the invite. Or just randomly hit up friends and ask what their plans are for the weekend and ask to tag along or make up your own plans. Just, do more shit. If you to to church and they have singles activities then do those…
/r/askTRP11/05/21 01:37 PM
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Just focus on the numbers game. Don't get too hung up on the perfect formula or how to salvage a broken china. Give it a day or two and initiate another meet. If she doesn't jump on the opportunity then lose her number.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 01:29 PM
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You're broken up. Who gives a fuck what she wanted. Why are you obsessing over an ex? If she isn't mentally retarded, then there's no reason why she couldn't handle the responsibility of either accepting you, or finding someone who she'd be content with bringing around her family and friends. It's beta to change for someone. Lastly, get all these dumb fucking labels out of your life. Don't base your whole life around the definition of one word. Next you're gonna tell us that you want to get back…
/r/askTRP11/05/21 01:25 PM
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"Destroy your chances". Jesus dude. Your shitty attitude is what's destroying your chances. Some people wear a bald head better than others. There's Jason Statham and then there's Walter White. But even if it knocks a MV point down, if you gain 3 points by having a great body, solid frame, and DGAF, you'll still be a lot more attractive than when you made this post.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 01:10 PM
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If you fuck her again you won't need any lube due to all the creampies she has in her. On a serious note, I don't know how this has 15 upvotes. Literally every single guy here on this sub who found TRP after a breakup or during a failing relationship will have this exact experience. At as well tell us you've grown hair under your arm pits. The best thing you could've done was not acknowledge her. You shouldn't of picked up cause you should have her blocked. You don't even remember her cause you'…
/r/askTRP11/05/21 01:02 PM
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First, stop watching porn. Porn fucks up your brain and makes you have dreadful thoughts like you're having. Secondly, you just have to make peace with it. Even if you find a virgin, you're still going to get anxiety if she's cheating on you. And then when the relationship ends, you're going to get anxiety about who she's fucking on the CC. Even if you lock her away like rapunzel, can you stop her from fingering herself to fantasies of Chad and Tyrone? Just, take a visual step back and take a th…
/r/askTRP11/05/21 12:51 PM
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So spin her as a plate while you spin other plates? I know for a fact that she's not fulfilling all your desires. She can't even kiss right and you're saying she's the diamond in the rough? If you LTR her then you'll be settling for stiff vanilla sex.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 12:29 PM
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OP just look at the top field reports of all time.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 12:20 PM
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It's gonna sting. It's normal to feel dread about the next guy fucking her, but that's life bro. It's best to just make peace with it as best you can. You have 2 options, and yes you do have to end the LTR. The first is to just officially end things. But, what works for me is to spin it so that you have her best interest in mind. "It's not fair for you that I'm moving away for work. I want to give you the time and freedom to be happy. Maybe when I move back.." etc. The second, is to not label th…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 04:58 PM
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Keep doing what you're doing honestly. TRP is tough to swallow, and right now you have it lodged in your throat. My dad was never around either. For the first few years of my life he was abusive, did drugs, and was just overall a bad example of a man. He then found religion and fortunately for him, he turned shit around and became "good", but for me it just meant he was trying to spew NiceGuy principles into my life. Every 6 months I saw him it was: your hairs too short, that's gang-oriented. Yo…
/r/askTRP09/05/21 01:52 PM
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"Well then, let's go back to dancing." There's a chance that this is just a shit test, and after you pass it and continue to escalate to an f-close, you'll more easily have her on rotation. This could be a good thing, as in, she'll be less likely to branch swing or be in the CC when she's plated, as her resting bitch face will deter approaches from other men. I wouldn't reply to her text. Text her again 2 days later and say you're gonna be at X at Y time and for her to come meet you. If she does…
/r/askTRP09/05/21 01:41 PM
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So now you're a victim and you're seeking validation? No wonder you don't get laid. You're like a sniveling child. Ever heard of gratefulness? Your parents are still together? You should be happy you're in the 5% on TRP who's not traumatized from a broken home.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 01:31 PM
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Start meditating and you'll stop pondering on past conversations that don't even matter anymore.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 01:22 PM
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There's a few things you can do before you cry us a river. First, you have a victim's mentality. "Boohoo I didn't have plates in HS, boohoo I'm not having threesomes with sorority girls in college." Secondly, it sounds like you have absolutely zero edge in your life. Have you ever thrown a house party at your house when your parents are out of town? Have you ever snuck in to your high school late at night for skinny dipping? And you haven't socialized with women your age in over a year? Dude tha…
/r/askTRP09/05/21 01:17 PM
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Yes you can (and probably should if you're dating 3's). The thing is, IMO, the alpha is still a decent person. And when I say alpha, I don't just mean the guy who attracts women, but the guy who can keep women coming back (which is more difficult imo). Every other day there's a post about a douchebag who can get lays, but is wondering why they ghost him after.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 01:04 PM
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Why move out in 2 years? You said you have a solid job, why can't you rent a small bedroom with a buddy? I currently pay 1/6th of my monthly income on rent and I'm very happy where I'm at. I can bring whoever I want over whenever I want. I think the recommended monthly income percentage to spend on rent is 30%. It's 100% okay to not have a drive to chase girls. But, you HAVE TO have a drive for something. What's your mission? What are your priorities right now? Where do you want to be in 6 month…
/r/askTRP08/05/21 03:24 PM
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Yeah. I missed so much tail in HS and college cause I would be the one to friendzone them. I'd sexually reject them cause "friendship is more important than hooking up!" Then they'd grow distant a few weeks later. But almost all of the time when I look back, I just laugh. I laugh at myself but also pat myself in the back for having the will and strength to improve myself. If I hadn't gone through all the blue pill embarrassments, failures, and disappointments, I probably wouldn't of swallowed TR…
/r/askTRP08/05/21 01:29 PM
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Efficient film probably thinks you're going to rent a whole house. Best case scenario for you eight now is renting out a room with some bros and having a month to month term.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 01:16 PM
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I moved out at 23 and it was one of the best decisions I made. Not just for having more privacy and more easily and comfortably bringing plates over, but having that independence and responsibility taught me so much and humbled me. Don't get your own apartment or house though. You really don't need all that. Be a minimalist and just rent out a regular bedroom. What's more important is who your roommates are. You don't have to be best buds but you do have to get along and your lifestyles should b…
/r/askTRP08/05/21 01:12 PM
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I got some solid gains during lockdown last year with a pull-up bar (the ones that go on a door frame) and some resistance bands. That's really all you need.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 11:54 PM
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Overall, just become healthier. Build strength and lose body fat. Eat nutritionally. Even homemade burgers are a ton better than a drive through. Essential vitamins - Omega 3, vitamin D, and ZMA. Meditate. Good sex is all about immersing yourself into it. Feel the sensations, ride the sexual energy. "making love". I do have 3 "crutches" though. These will help you last much longer, but they are not really fixes, so make sure you still do everything I outlined above. The first is to hit HEAVY squ…
/r/askTRP07/05/21 03:19 PM
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Have you tried just not returning their calls and texts? You don't have to cut them out completely, but you can distance yourself.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 03:02 PM
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I'm glad that you're aware that it's not good for you to be the one who wants the relationship. Optimally, you want her to beg you for a relationship after at least 6 months of plating. I think what stings the most is that she basically clearly said that she's seeing other people. I think I'm fortunate to say that I've never had any evidence from my plates that they were seeing other people. Lol I'm wondering right now how I'm gonna feel when I find out one day.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 02:46 PM
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32 is long enough to know who you are. I can't believe I have to say this to someone who's in their 30's but stop comparing yourself to other people. I don't dance or sing in the car. It's not me and I don't feel like doing that. But I'll head bang and growl to a heavy guitar riff. At parties, I'm not they guy making everyone laugh or break dancing on the floor, but I'll make an effort to meet new people and ask them questions I'm genuinely interested in. I do get pretty rowdy at beer pong thoug…
/r/askTRP07/05/21 02:41 PM
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There's a few rules you're breaking. First, don't text about sex until you've built more trust and comfort. There's a reason why we say "only text for logistics", and you're a prime example of that. She threw a comfort test at you and you failed. You're not being 100% alpha, you're being 100% retardedly narcissistic. Don't ever tell your plates or anyone that you're seeing other people. Especially don't brag about it. When people find out on their own it's preselection and raises your value. Whe…
/r/askTRP07/05/21 02:36 PM
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It really comes down to what YOU want. Me personally, I have no problem getting rejected and properly vetting for the girls who are "fuck yes" about me. "Fuck yes" meaning that they are super into me, submissive, they'll let me order them around and do favors for me. I'd rather plate a HB6 who will wiggle her work schedule for me than a HB8 who I have to constantly be guessing how she feels and dealing with the headache of our schedules not matching up or whatever. And honestly, once you get to …
/r/askTRP07/05/21 02:24 PM
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Could be anything. Maybe she's had diarrhea or she's binge watching Game of Thrones. Just put her in the back burner and focus on other shit for a few days. Check in one last time and if she doesn't give you a "fuck yes" response then hard next. It's that simple.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 12:50 AM
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If you think sex is good on the first or second fuck then you're going to have your mind blown when you (hopefully one day) actually build trust and a connection with a plate and fuck her for the 10th time. If you just want to raise your n-count and fuck new girls then keep doing what you're doing and don't even worry about them coming back. But if you're trying to build some reliable plates where the sex gets even better and better then yes, you do need to build comfort and trust.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 05:10 PM
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Consider a side hustle, maybe something that requires you to go out and talk to people (even promoter, sales, etc.) Spin some plates. Whether you go out at nights and cold approach or you're good looking enough for dating apps, having a few girls you could hit up to fuck provides huge confidence. Try a craft / creative hobby. Whether it's music, drawing, or hand-made lampshades, having a creative outlet can help add balance to your life.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 05:06 PM
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You can go ahead and try to be 100% alpha if you want but you're not going to have very long or high quality connections. With that said, I don't think the slapping is "too alpha". Overall in my experience, woman are way freakier than men. Most of them love the BDSM dynamic and if you were smart, you'd start studying and practicing. For example, regarding the slapping, you set some "safe words" before hand. Yellow for "be careful" and red for "stop". So to slap properly, you'd start with a light…
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:57 PM
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I've been there. 5 year LTR and I caught oneitis for the first girl i fucked after. Check yourself. Plate other women.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:47 PM
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Birth control has different side effects for different women. There are some pretty negative side effects of birth control like weight gain, hormonal, less aroused, etc. Even psychologically, if we study our lizard brains, we as men would be more attracted to someone not on birth control because we then have a chance of getting them pregnant and our biological imperative is to spread our seed as much as possible. So there's a huge gray area, like for example, maybe psychologically you are more a…
/r/askTRP06/05/21 03:31 PM
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LTR's require some beta. And I mean the good beta traits, like tapping in to your emotions, giving a gift, taking her out on a date, etc. Pillow talk is one of the only times you should say cute shit. NEVER giving any validation to your LTR isn't alpha, it's narcissistic.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 01:27 PM
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Isolate. Literally just ask her to hang out after school or over the weekend. "I can't escalate". All you have to do is isolate and make a move. There's ALWAYS a move that we have to do that's risky and scary but almost all of the time you won't be rejected. Even if you get rejected, it's a great thing because you can stop wasting time and energy wondering "what if".
/r/askTRP06/05/21 01:10 PM
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Your subject and body are completely different. Your subject is asking how to build quality connections and your body is asking how to approach. Read "Models" by Mark Manson
/r/askTRP06/05/21 01:05 PM
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One of my plates just brought up wanting to work at a weed dispensary. It's not prostitution but I feel like any "be nice and flirty for extra tips" jobs leave a bad taste in my mouth. Bitches have zero interest in working an honest living.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 12:54 AM
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I remember listening to a video clip of Peterson on my way to work one day last year about power. He says something like, "power, is the father abandoning his wife and child". It was such a crazy thing to hear, but I understood it. A few months later I was in a real bad place. Toxic relationship with baby mamma. Bad paying job with asshole boss. All savings were gone and I was a few weeks away from living off my credit card. I thought about what Peterson said about power and I said fuck it and h…
/r/askTRP05/05/21 01:19 PM
1

I worked at different warehouse / production departments for a few years after HS and I remember it being like this. It was before TRP so I lost frame a few times and probably gossiped myself as well. Overall the work place will always be like this. When you're just waiting on the clock, people will start drama to help time pass faster. Even executive and professional positions are more political and passive power plays. It's not ghetto gossip but a different type of power talk and overall just …
/r/askTRP05/05/21 12:47 PM
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I'd do it if I had some sort of heathy work/life balance situation down the line. Like, if you can work from home 6 months from now then you can deal with the travel for now. I've had mediocre and unimpressive jobs all my life but I recently got an amazing WFH job where I only work like 14-20 hours a week but I get paid a full salary.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:11 PM
2

I agree to that! I remember dragging myself to parties and events to practice talking to people. I had some embarrassing approaches and awkward conversations, but I also k-closed with really hot girls, n-closed, and met amazing people that I'm still friends with years later. I even went to concerts by myself and tried talking to anyone. It's scary but overall much more rewarding than any negative experiences.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:07 PM
2

Yes, that could be #4, but honestly, talking to people becomes a million times easier when you do #123
/r/askTRP04/05/21 07:58 PM
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It's just mainstream shit. It's like putting #YOLO under your photo 10 years ago. Nothing will be a better vetting process than meeting for a coffee for 15 minutes. Seeing their body language and facial micro expressions should be enough data for your gut to decide to move forward or next. 15 mins drinking coffee or countless hours stalking their social media?
/r/askTRP04/05/21 07:57 PM
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Honestly, if you REALLY want solid and permanent progress from here on out, you HAVE to focus on your daily habits. Make a list of things you MUST do every day, or every other day (for some). There's 3 things I MUST do. I don't get all depressed and grow a fedora if I don't do these, but if I DO do them, then it's nearly impossible for me the have a "bad day". Sleep. Sleep is my main priority because if I don't sleep well, then I'll have to pull my teeth to force myself to do the other 2. I'll o…
/r/askTRP04/05/21 07:04 PM
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No worries, I'm glad you got my reply. You can DM me if you have more questions.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 07:48 PM
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First of all, how sure are you that you could be the Dad, in terms of, did you cum inside of her? Were you pulling out or using condoms? Secondly, the "safest" approach you can have for this to protect your money and time as much as possible is to: Know that you legally don't have to do anything until you probably get served, which won't be until after the baby is born. You legally are not required to pay for any ultrasounds (or show up to them), any doctor visits, or hospital bills. You don't p…
/r/askTRP03/05/21 06:47 PM
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None of that means shit if it's not written down and signed by a judge.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 01:32 PM
2

Many different reasons. Baby trapped, or they catch oneitis, or they think the honeymoon phase will last forever so they marry early.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 10:51 PM
2

Bro there's Chad's who only know English and read at a 3rd grade level with triple digit n-counts. STFU. And I'd start with Kevin Hart. His facial expressions and catchphrases are iconic. Chris Rock is also a great one.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 04:37 PM
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If you see her and you're still as attracted to her as you were before, then please unsubscribe from the red pill subs. You've had a whole year to improve yourself, and you're gonna go hangout with an ex platonically? Do you have some kind of disfigurement that you can't ask out the other millions of available women?
/r/askTRP01/05/21 04:34 PM
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It seems like she just let all the simps and DM's go to her head. I've had a date like this and I also walked out and hard nexted. But honestly don't even think on it much. The important thing is: you didn't enjoy her, and you respected yourself enough to walk out on someone you didn't want to be around. Good job setting a great example for men.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 04:30 PM
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Knowing few languages? Lol, that's a first for a bullshit excuse I've seen on this sub. First of all, you don't have to be witty 100% of the time, so start by removing that pressure. The best thing you could possibly do is watch stand up comedy.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 04:22 PM
1

Okay, so throw yourself in the deep end of the pool. Go monk mode for a few weeks and focus on this aspect of yourself. Meditate, try new solo hobbies like learning an instrument or drawing.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 04:27 PM
3

So why don't you do your family a favor and preorder your headstone with "here lies sitch, social inept"? I was voted "most shy" in 7th grade. So, fuck, is that my destiny!? Is that just who I am? Or could I maybe change myself so that when I'm at a party and someone asks, "so Don, what's something we don't know about you?" and I tell them I was the most shy in 7th grade, they'll go, "dude you have to be lying! You're the most charismatic guy I know!"
/r/askTRP30/04/21 03:00 PM
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Uh, basically all of the guys here on TRP? Most of the "alphas" from high school settled down early, and are hopefully browsing marriedRP wondering where things went wrong.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 02:54 PM
0

Then you're a pussy, and you should keep calling yourself a pussy until you one day decide you'd like to stop being one, pussy.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 02:46 PM
1

You've had a year of forced isolation and you didn't take advantage of it by learning to be independent and happy by yourself?
/r/askTRP30/04/21 02:43 PM
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Most men are jealous and desperate. You shouldn't be surprised with shit like this. Don't ever brag, don't ever kiss and tell. Keep your sexual life private, even with prospects. I had a friend of mine (who I just lost some trust for) tell a plate of mine that I have been hooking up with this other girl. Why? Cause we went to the gym together. That's it, that's their evidence. It was actually a good thing because it provides preselection, but it was annoying when the plate texted me, "so I heard…
/r/askTRP30/04/21 02:42 PM
1

That's one of the symptoms of alpha-widowed.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 02:30 PM
1

Firstly, don't blame him completely for you not closing the girl. I'm sure you can imagine at least a dozen reactions Chad could've made. Called him out "bro, that wasn't yours. Be a good boy and fetch the lady a new drink." or told the girl, "let him have that, we don't usually bring him out." laughed at him, "damn bro, I didn't know you were that thirsty." But like you said, he's unreliable. If someone doesn't provide value in your life then why have them around. Nearly 8 billion people in the…
/r/askTRP30/04/21 02:28 PM
1

She cheated cause you're a non-action pussy. So, stop being that. Read the sidebar, read the books, read the top posts of all time. And take action. If you start doing one thing in life, start doing 5x5.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 02:19 PM
5

The obvious answer = stop being nice. It's not being nice or being an asshole. There's a whole spectrum in between and having frame and DGAF means that you've found your sweet spot. My advice = be an asshole. Make jokes of other people. Call people out, pressure flip. Say bold things. Yes, it will be uncomfortable. Yes you might get slapped on the wrist. But if you keep pushing, you'll be surprised as to how much of an asshole you can be before people express a problem over it. Or better yet, yo…
/r/askTRP30/04/21 02:12 PM
2

Just reply "I'll be back in a few." and leave.
/r/askMRP30/04/21 01:26 PM
5

The journey will be full of adversity. If you're gonna piss your pants from a rejection or have a panic attack when you can't get it up in bed then don't even bother and stop wasting our time. The progress is slow, but fruitful if you keep at it. If you keep at it for months, you'll look down from your new heights and realize how much you've improved. There's no checkpoint, or special sign, or racing flag you pass to know where you're at. If you keep steady on the journey of un-pussying yourself…
/r/askTRP29/04/21 08:59 PM
1

What do you mean untouchable? As in, sexually unavailable? No. Why tf would they be? They'll just ask you what your sign is and then you fuck them.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 08:36 PM
8

Yoga and meditation are practical though. You can actually scientifically measure improvement in the brain and body from these. What OP is talking about is just straight up placebo. Any mediums or "readings" are just guesses (although not completely useless, you learn to pickup on tiny details and you get good at bullshitting. My sister has been doing tarot for years).
/r/askTRP29/04/21 08:35 PM
1

Eh, 12 rules for life won't really help the best with what you need to improve. I personally like Jordan Peterson, but for me, I gained better and clearer insight from his Joe Rogan podcasts and other YouTube videos. His book was kind of hard to really digest. At least the audiobook version.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:44 PM
2

What other books are on your list? I would add "Models" as the priority. It would help you the most with all of your current issues.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:38 PM
2

There's a lot in your post, but I'd say your problems are: you're still in the anger phase. Eventually you are supposed to accept reality. Start using hypergamy to your advantage. you have an ego problem. You may feel like woman are supposed to treat you a certain way or that you deserve to have the unicorns. No girl is ever 100% perfect. It's up to decide which ones are pleasant enough to invest a little bit of time and energy into. 100% alpha isn't a thing. Only psychopaths would be 100% "assh…
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:19 PM
2

No you're thinking too much into it. If anything it says, "I acknowledge your reply, but I have better things (or other girls) to do than to keep this convo going". But like I said, i don't really do it. It's more like if my non texts me some old photos. I'll just "heart like" to acknowledge I received and saw the photos, but I'm not gonna sit there and pretend that I have but emotional response to it.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 02:15 AM
3

Lately, like in the past few months when I really started focusing on my mission, I'd say that 90% of the time I leave women on read. I really don't give it much thought. And the outcome mostly revolves around me not really liking to text unless there's some value to it like setting logistics or talking about something I really want to talk about. I never try and "keep a conversation going". And if their text doesn't require a response, l I'll leave it on read or even change the subject hours la…
/r/askTRP28/04/21 08:10 PM
11

It's not impossible to find a SO that you enjoy and don't worry about. All you have to worry about is not getting comfortable. Stay hungry. Keep raising your MV, keep your charisma and game on check. I think that there could be these seemingly unicorns, but one possibility I've seen play out is that these "good girls" uphold quality standards and beliefs, but sometimes it's just pressure building and could "blow up". They'll get tired of always doing things right, not utilizing their prime years…
/r/askTRP28/04/21 06:49 PM
2

That's great man! I'm happy for you, and the best lessons we can teach the newbies are taught by just being red pill. Haha the "revenge" was even more great because it was absolutely not intentional. By my birthday, enough time had passed where I was over the HB7. So when she came to my party, it was like, "oh, friend-of-the-group came." But like I said. I was really into the plate I invited over, so I was having fun with her. It was only when I opened my eyes for a few seconds from making out I…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 06:30 PM
6

Not only game, but for me it's the self improvement. One time I approached this HB7 at a party we threw at my house and we hit it off really fast. Within 15 minutes we were making out. We partied all night until sunrise. I tried to f-close but she gave LMR and left. She ended up sending me a bunch of paragraphs an hour later about how much of a connection we had and how much she liked me. I hit her up a few days later for a meet and she straight up just ghosted me. I was so confused because I'd …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 04:50 PM
8

Women will woman (regarding the app). Have you ever stopped to imagine what type of pressure young woman feel in today's society in terms of using their femininity (bodies) for money and perks? They all KNOW that their 20's are their prime years, so if they are ever going to do an onlyfans, it's now or never. Can you imagine what it's like being a woman making minimum wage while going to school to make 40K in a few years, and then seeing that some fat ugly chick is making 6 figures a month by ac…
/r/askTRP28/04/21 02:56 PM
1

Just don't talk about fight club. I remember the first few weeks after finding TRP, I was sending posts to a bunch of people and preaching like I'd found the secret to life. When you do find the secret to life, you keep it to yourself, because otherwise it's not a secret anymore.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 02:46 PM
22

You're enjoying your time with her and that's that. Maybe she's fucking other guys and maybe she's not? I come across these "flags" once in a while with plates. Yes, I'll overthink shit for a few minutes and get a bad taste in my mouth, but it's never really been hard proof that she's seeing other guys. Simply just remember that it's just your turn. You can't supervise, control, or monitor what she does when she's not with you, so your only choice is to not sweat it.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 02:40 PM
6

"And do what" aka "what should my boyfriend think we're doing?"
/r/askTRP28/04/21 02:24 PM
1

Not a red flag, based off your post. Just follow RP guidelines, and trust your gut.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 02:22 PM
5

I believe "ghosted" literally means that someone has stopped communicating and replying to you, most often by indifference. IOW, it's just rejection. The first rule of rejection is to just stop chasing. Stop giving it time and hope. You'll still think about her, and it's fine, that's normal. Rejections are pretty humbling experiences.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 01:55 PM
7

I guess the important details are if OP has been plating other girls and if the FWB knows OP is non exclusive.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 02:32 PM
2

Going through some shit is probably the most practical advice. I'd say that half of guys who stumble onto this sub ask how to be a pro BMX, but will hamster a thousand reasons why they can't take off the training wheels in their tricycles. Some of the most humbling, ego-checking, wise, etc. "awakenings" I've achieved have happened because of adversity. The harsh rejections, getting ghosted by oneitis's, getting bitched at by my boss for speaking up, getting an LTR pregnant, etc. Meditating and l…
/r/askTRP25/04/21 03:13 PM
3

Any time we hear "girls boyfriend" we always associate it with some beta chump (cuck porn conditioning?) My advice would be to just meet him. Let him see you. Let him see you're not a cuck and he needs to be careful with his little jokes, because you aren't harmless. Best outcome would be for him to feel like you might be fucking his girlfriend or setting her up with some of your friends.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 02:54 PM
1

OP, with matters like this, it deserves a clear and direct conversation. Most of the time, people continue to output unfavorable behaviors because it seems like no one has a problem with it. I understand it's uncomfortable confronting someone, but it's better to speak your thoughts now vs. letting it go nuclear in your head and everyone see you overreacting. Express that it's been crowded, express that you signed the lease with understanding that it was only you +1. Maybe suggest that he and her…
/r/askTRP25/04/21 02:50 PM
1

People should be friends with you for being who you are. Speaking up for yourself should be an extension of who you are. So your friends should appreciate, or at least understand it. To my friends, I'm one of the chillest and easy going ones in the group. I never have drama with anyone, I never take anything up the ass, and never take anything too seriously. But, some of them know me long and well enough to know that I'll make some tough decisions when I'm pushed. They know that I stand wholehea…
/r/askTRP25/04/21 02:45 PM
3

Just push boundaries / get out of your comfort zone. Be more risky and bold with your questions and responses. Some times you will get an unfavorable reaction, but more often than not, you'll be surprised at how well received or arousing you can make them.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 02:01 PM
6

My daughter is turning 2 soon. My parenting goal is to just simply teach by example. I have to be the standard for what a healthy male is supposed to be. Also, by teaching by example, is showing her what a person is supposed to be. Teach her manners, but also how to ask for what she wants. Teach her to be independent, but also ask for help when she needs to.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 01:57 PM
13

No, it's frustrating for guys who have been on TRP for years seeing the same cringe sad questions. And what makes it worse is that this post isn't going to change anything. Dudes are still going to be posting the same questions, when they could you look this post up.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/21 05:26 PM
28

Why ghost? THAT is a HUGE reason why women report us. Woman HATE getting pumped and dumped. Fuck, guys. A sprinkle of comfort won't turn you into a beta cuck. When she goes home, a cost less text - "hope you got home safe, I had a good time ;)" That's minimum. And why wouldn't you want to hit that again btw? Sex only gets better and better the more often you lay with them. Send a morning text, "good morning, let's meet up again in the next few days."
/r/askTRP22/04/21 02:55 PM
1

I tried different shit. I paid attention to some of the senior / top level positions in the companies I'd work at and assess if I was interested in working towards any of them. I often pondered on what skills I'd like to be proficient in and assess if the difficulty was worth the reward. After a few years I have many different skills, but more importantly, I know what I like to do, and what I strongly dislike.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 02:50 PM
13

At this point in society, will you ever actually meet a woman who has not taken prescription for depression, anxiety, or talked to a therapist about previous trauma? Even if her brain chemicals are prestige, how many of them have not been sexually abused in their lives? TLDR; it's better to plate someone who takes medication vs someone who is left untreated / ignorant of whatever tf is wrong with them. Always wear a condom. Never LTR.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 02:45 PM
35

Vetting heavily is the best advice. More often than not, she'll tell you some red flags, without you even pressing. She'll randomly bring up that she's been sexually assaulted, daddy issues, or she'll talk shit about an ex. ONS and same-day-lay are "sO aLpHa BrO!" but this is when you're at most risk. Fuck all of you but I'll tell a date that I like her uglass haircut or that I "feel our connection." I bring comfort to the table right off the bat, and I've never had any worry of a lay falsely re…
/r/askTRP22/04/21 02:39 PM
3

She's the one in power, not you. You need her more than she needs you. Boost your SMV and apply dread game.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 01:45 PM
4

It will happen. So stop putting so much pressure on yourself. You can have the best alpha / high vibrational mindset, but you eat the wrong thing one evening, spend the night on the toilet, and the next day you're obviously going to be off. Also, stop seeing it so black and white. You got drained, it's okay. So what, you're a little less focused? You're not immediately going to be a 100% beta. You're tired, go rest. You're never going to be at 100%, 100% of the time. It's ok to rain check on pla…
/r/askTRP22/04/21 01:42 PM
2

The important thing is the impression you give off. "Telling her off" is textbook NiceGuy. You're communicating, "I'm so needy and low value that I require attention from you, because I can't get it anywhere else." The impression you want to give off is that you're busy doing fun shit and fucking a bunch of girls. And you communicate this more by what you don't say, vs. what you do.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 01:23 PM
5

This is red pill 101. Probably one of the reasons why you're just one of her plates.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 01:15 PM
2

Neither of that really matters. Frame is how you respect yourself and having your view of reality be the strongest one in the room.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 09:22 PM
1

Sounds like a male shit test. More importantly, there's something low value about yourself that makes other people boss you around. Lift, improve your frame, DGAF, and all these micro situations will barely be an afterthought. Build your frame up so you can confidently bark back, "sure, I'll set up the beer pong table if you shotgun your beer. 1 2 3, GO!"
/r/askTRP21/04/21 06:31 PM
1

You don't have to be happy being alone, but you have to at least be okay when you're by yourself. Needing to be around others, their attention, approval, etc. is very needy. The RP thing to do is embrace this (hopefully) once in a lifetime opportunity and learn to be okay being by yourself.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 06:26 PM
-1

This gets posted every other week. Use the TRP search bar.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 06:22 PM
8

It's better to be a good listener than be someone who displays ADHD that can't sit still and process what someone is saying. Charisma is high value, and #1 rule of charisma is to be a good listener.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 03:33 PM
2

Right? At this point just start charities and start helping those in need.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 03:22 PM
3

oof, it's gonna be a rough few weeks for you, as you will never know for certain if she took the plan b or not. Don't ever make this mistake again. If condom breaks, go with her to the pharmacy, pay for the pill, and watch her take it. Don't EVER trust a woman with contraception. A side effect of plan b is her having a "small period" where "brownish stuff" comes out. Lastly, throw comfort tests out the window. Keeping this plate should be the last thing on your mind. Be receptive for the next fe…
/r/askTRP21/04/21 03:18 PM
2

Usually yes, it can decrease her attraction. But, if Chad were to apologize for an honest mistake, it could make her even more attracted. Most people don't love Mr. Perfect. Someone who sways without flaws or weaknesses. But when he displays responsibility and vulnerability by owning up / apologizing for a mistake or bad decision (especially a situation where he may have been able to sweep it under the rug or "get away with it"), it can actually boost his value. It builds trust, respect, empathy…
/r/askTRP21/04/21 03:08 PM
13

When you dominate them in the bedroom, you own them in real life. I'd say a "healthy" dynamic is to, yes, have them do things for you, overall, have them do all the things you listed. But, for an LTR, you have to reward them for being "good girls". Whether she feels the most "loved" / appreciated with words of affirmation (I appreciate you / it means a lot that you did that), quality time together (dates, movie night while cuddling, trips), or even gifts (flowers, lingerie, band t-shirt). Sorry …
/r/askTRP21/04/21 02:24 PM
4

The simplest and best approach is to get them talking and ask questions you are actually interested in. If you really can't find anything interesting to ask about someone, then that says more about you. Yes, you will interact with some tofu ass people who can't reply with more than 1 word. They're either so shy that you'd need a crowbar to peel back those layers, or they're uninterested in you. If they're attracted to you, then 80% of the journey to get into their pants is to let them talk while…
/r/askTRP21/04/21 02:13 PM
4

Minimal investment. Tell her to come over at X time and leave it at that.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 04:01 PM
-2

Sure. If you're dominant (most of red pillers are), you'll naturally attract, and be attracted to, submissive women. Especially as they get older, they become more comfortable with their bodies. Also, again, as they get older, they have more responsibilities (kids, career, bills, house, etc) so they almost NEED to submit themselves to a dominant, to get a break from being the responsible one.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 03:54 PM
1

I didn't read but best you can do is gift him a beginner RP book like NMMNG (married RP also has good recommendations). Maybe he won't receive it well at first. "Wtf? I'm not a nice guy!?" Maybe he'll only read the cover, and stick it in a drawer for weeks. But the point is to plant a seed, like Inception. Maybe his wife hasn't given him a blowjob since his birthday, or he spent an entire Sunday cleaning the whole house and she barely acknowledged it. Hopefully, he'll ask himself, "what am I doi…
/r/askTRP20/04/21 01:33 PM
5

The full "BDSM" dynamic is really just a kink. No girl is born with the desire to be tied up or spanked for "being a bad girl" (and this is just a "father kink"). But we could say that most girls will respond positively to being told what to do (by a high value man) and "letting go" and submitting to an actually dominant man. Not all though. Lots of women will take years to be comfortable with that, and with OnlyFans and BDSM being more main stream (50 shades of grey), a lot of girls will think …
/r/askTRP20/04/21 01:21 PM
5

Anything great in life requires investments (time, energy, money). This is why you'll hear "grind in your 20's". You're planting seeds and watering your plants so that in the future, you will bear fruit and live the life you've wanted. No one loves doing homework. You're not gonna develop a love for that. And everyone in the world wants a "work ethic" as if they are on an NZT pill (from the movie "Limitless"). When you're doing homework, ask yourself what the investment is. Is it not to earn the…
/r/askTRP20/04/21 01:13 PM
2

Too invested. Anything online is fishing with a net. If you're doing text gymnastics for a match, you're trying way too hard.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 01:04 PM
1

"Higher chance" is the keyword here. You're not NEVER going to still have some drama or catch mild oneitis for a plate. But also, yes, congrats. From here on out, you will be viewing the world with red pill lens.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 12:59 PM
9

Honestly, if you satisfy her completely (physically, emotionally, etc.) she will naturally gravitate away from her orbiters, at least enough where they're not talking all day. Or apply mild dread game so that she checks herself and doesn't risk doing anything that will result in you leaving her. All in all though, a woman having male friends is not a red flag. A red flag would be if she doesn't have any female friends, or if she does sleepovers, trips, etc. with other guys. Always just trust you…
/r/askTRP20/04/21 12:56 PM
23

Taking her v-card doesn't automatically mean that you've alpha widowed her, if that's what you're asking. Yes, everyone will always remember their first, just like everyone remembers their HS prom date. But the first time for most people is awkward, uncomfortable, mediocre, etc. Most people's first time's are so lackluster that it's not something they're going to be day dreaming about.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 12:50 PM
9

"bUt sEx No CoNdOm FeEl GoOd!" I hope these idiots are into pregnant sex.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 12:45 PM
4

I've kind of grown out of video games. I have a switch that a plate let me borrow to play Zelda BotW. I've had it for weeks and have only played 2 hours on it. I also have a "gaming PC" with a good graphics card with dozens of blockbuster games on Steam and I haven't touched it in weeks. I really want to play RE8: Village, but only if my cousin shares his steak with me, I can't see myself spending money on games anymore.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 02:58 PM
1

You can see her as early as you want, but definitely don't put your mission aside for her. If you're busy on Monday, then just say you'll see her Wednesday. Most importantly, you want to keep the attraction for you alive, by simply just "being who you are" (charismatic, determined, dominant, stoic, etc.) Be the captain. Don't be afraid to say, "I have things to take care of, and I will reward you on Wednesday for being patient."
/r/askTRP19/04/21 02:48 PM
5

Ive done this once or twice, and at best, the interaction was mediocre. If you're absolutely certain you can get head from her, then maybe you could invite her over. Never go beta to try and stay in a chicks mind. If she shit tests you and says you only want her for sex, then say, "yeah, that's what I'm interested in, if you're not, then there's the door.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 02:43 PM
1

Honestly just take it piece by piece and try different stuff on. As important as what you wear is, how you wear it is probably more important. Simply looking yourself in the mirror before you go out and thinking, "man, I look great today." sets up your "swag" for the rest of the day. Gaining references from catalogs and fitness models isn't always a good idea. If you're above 15% body fat, you shouldn't wear anything. If you have a beer belly, love handles, or moobs, you have to wear shit that h…
/r/askTRP18/04/21 04:02 PM
4

Bummed nothing happened? Bro you expect her to walk up to you, pull off her shirt and start making out with you while everyone claps? Nothing will ever happen because you're a passive pussy. It is the males responsibility to approach woman. That is life, that is reality. Literally so easy to talk to anyone in HS. Do you have any of her friends in any of your classes? Approach them, say, "hey you're in my class right?" Then introduce yourself to the rest of the group. But to be honest, you're mos…
/r/askTRP17/04/21 07:08 PM
5

You can still build and enjoy the "perks" and rewards of being in a committed marriage, but there's zero benefit for a man to bring the church and courts into it. The only reason why thousands and thousands of dollars are wasted on a marriage is so that the woman can rub it in their friends' faces for just one day. that's really all there is to it, besides pressure from religion or culture, but it's beta as fuck to be guilted into doing anything. You can decide to have kids with a mommy / wifey …
/r/askTRP17/04/21 07:01 PM
4

Before all that, ask yourself if you'd be okay with shit being awkward and uncomfortable when things stop working out.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 03:03 PM
2

Have you met her before? If not, do you know how retarded you sound wanting to invite a stranger straight to your place? Vet your plates you dumb ass. Don't let anyone know your address.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 02:59 PM
4

You don't just instantly go RP in a relationship. It sounds like you spent a week or 2 on this sub and now you're expecting her to willfully submit to you. Truth is, once she sees you as a beta, she always will. The question is, why are you putting up with that behavior? You should put so little value into her bitchiness because there's "3 other girls you can call who provide the respect you demand." All in all though, your LTR is done. End things and start making actual changes.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 02:57 PM
5

marriedRP has some tough love content. Personally I really like JulienHimself's content on YouTube. A lot of it recently is about mindsets, social skills, etc.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 02:51 PM
11

No it's not safe. Never ever do it. You're risking it even not wearing a condom.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 02:33 PM
1

Did you read OP's post? He's not asking how to be alpha, he's asking how to not feel like he's not enough. Everything I outlined will help build confidence.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 02:30 PM
3

You really shouldn't give a shit, as long as she's paying for her drinks when y'all go out.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 08:52 AM
2

Cut out work or school. What's the point of investing time and money for school if you won't be alive to utilize it, or why work so many hours to not take out school loans if it won't matter if you're in debt or not when you're dead.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 08:45 AM
1

I saw a list somewhere, perhaps posted by u/VasiliyZaitzev or on marriedRP /askMRP with recommended books on management.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:25 PM
1

Honestly those 3 are the main ones and any other form is just a branch of one.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:21 PM
3

Then definitely don't move. You're gonna resent her for it which will lead to you losing frame and then her losing attraction for you. Then when you guys break up, you're gonna hate her for making you move, you're gonna victimize yourself for doing such a good boyfriend deed of moving for her and her not appreciating it. No LTR is worth you losing progress on your mission. If you comply, she will respect you less for it, and you're the one with everything to lose.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:20 PM
2

Emotions are contagious. If you're having fun, then the energy in the room will follow. It don't matter if you're a high energy Kevin Hart type, or a stoic Jason Statham. As long as you feel comfortable and have outcome independence, you'll get positive results.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:07 PM
7

That place seems so toxic. Any "notice" should be seen as a huge favor to them. Do they give you a 30 day notice when they fire you? If it's required by law, then just stay the minimum amount and wait it out. Stop DEERing. Follow through your decisions unapologetically, always.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:01 PM
1

Only possible reason to make that move is if: you've wanted to move there yourself, and you know you'd be happy with that environment / location. occupationally you'd be getting a pay raise, or you stop paying state taxes. you'd be okay living there by yourself if the relationship ends (financially can afford your own place, you're social enough to meet new people, etc.) Moving out of your hometown is almost always a great idea. New perspective, new opportunities, etc. If moving aligns with your…
/r/askTRP16/04/21 03:58 PM
1

Have you read "how to get laid like a warlord?" Also, what is your goal in terms of having to approach? Higher n-count? Multiple plates? LTR/ marriage?
/r/askTRP16/04/21 03:51 PM
5

What's your portfolio? What's your mission, and what have you accomplished recently that has gotten you closer to it? What's your body fat % and what's your PR on squat, deadlift, bench and shoulder press? IOW, wtf are you offering? A giant dick? A well equipped sex dungeon?
/r/askTRP16/04/21 03:50 PM
2

What are you getting out of the exclusivity that you weren't already getting when you were fucking her with no strings attached? You could be plating 2 girls right now without any stress or drama, but you've rationalized that it's better to give your balls to someone 4 hours away with poor head game? If she's not ok with period sex, then fuck her ass. If you guys are going to be living close to each other in a year, why not tell her that she needs to wait to be official until you live close toge…
/r/askTRP16/04/21 02:47 PM
0

Things didn't "move fast", she flicked her pussy wand and made you believe that breaking TRP rules (plate for 6 months) was worth it for her. You're 100% sure she's not cheated? Next you're gonna tell us that you know her actual n-count. Lastly, do not ever fuck without a condom, even if you see her take her birth control in person every day. She'll tell you she has a cum fetish, tell you it's 100% safe, then OOPSIE, it slipped her mind that antibiotics counteract BC. You LTR'd stupidly early, y…
/r/askTRP16/04/21 02:36 PM
12

I appreciate this post. And the attractive vs. aroused comparison is a solid mindset, one that I will now keep in mind with my dynamics. And it is true that when you completely satisfy a woman in the bedroom, you can dominate her in life. Something to add though is that most (maybe all) women know that men like to dominate them. So some will play along. They'll let you smack them around, they'll make your dick disappear down their throats while looking up at you with puppy eyes. You'll think "wo…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/21 02:24 PM
1

The only option is always to hard next. It's the only way to get rid of oneitis.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 01:54 PM
3

Spot on man. Not only do the plates last longer, but they'll borderline be obsessed with you. It's sometimes too much and you have to tell them to tone tf down.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 07:58 PM
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A RP woman is aware of these things and will take action to eliminate the discomfort. She wants you to feel good, and feel good about her. If your LTR isn't doing anything at all to address this, then you should be dating someone better. Regarding the guy, consider calling him out. "Hey man, are you trying to jump in to our set or something?" But always trust your gut. You said that you feel like there's something mutual between them. You said you've been lazy. Maybe she wanted to fuck the guy w…
/r/askTRP15/04/21 03:35 PM
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It's not beta at all to (properly) display some emotion. In some cases, it will drive women WILD when an alpha sprinkles a pinch of cinnamon and sugar. EVERY girl has been with the 100% alpha. Asshole all the time. Girls will leave him because eventually they have to maintain some pride. They need some reciprocation. And all girls have been with a complete beta. Self explanatory. But what is rare and really valuable is the alpha who is comfortable showing emotion unapologetically. This is THE gu…
/r/askTRP15/04/21 03:28 PM
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Well first, internalize that you're not going to easily connect with every person you meet. There's no "secret" or formula to get everyone to love you. And second, maybe too much talking? You don't need to know everything about a girl. Honestly, in time, they'll tell you everything. Maybe you're putting too much pressure on your interactions. First dates don't have to be hilarious or perfect. It's normal for them to sometimes be awkward or even a little boring. When meeting women, there are only…
/r/askTRP15/04/21 03:02 PM
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It seems like the kiss was what turned her on, not the game you talked. And idk wtf is wrong with saying "LTR of one week". I don't think she rewarded you, because you didn't say something like, "I'd love to go on a trip with you anywhere." The things about LTR's is that you have to pass comfort tests, and make her heart feel warm once in a while. An option for the "do you think we will last question?" Question is, "I'd like to see where we can take this.. but it depends on your good behavior."
/r/askTRP15/04/21 02:38 PM
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Always a red flag. But, some much worse than others. A small percentage can still be LTR material, but so unlikely, and not even as optimal as a girl with a healthy parent relationship growing up. What I don't see discussed here are women raised by single dads. Very rare, but they're out there. I've honestly seen some pretty green flags from it.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 06:15 PM
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True. Good dick holds a lot of value. For us guys though, cmon, there's obviously more to it than "make feel good". The psychology also turns us the fuck on. Psychology and visual. How hot is it seeing them on their knees, hands tied behind their back, looking up at you with puppy eyes while you inch your way into their throat? Sorry for the NSFW, but it proves my point. If you're just viewing them as a tight wet hole, then you're missing out.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 06:12 PM
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You're looking at it backwards. What's your goal? You want a triple digit n-count? You want 7 LTR's, 1 for each day of the week? Not a big dreamer? You just want a plate or two? Whatever the fuck you like in your juice box doesn't matter. The question is always, "what will it take to achieve this?" Big n-count like Genghis Khan? Fine, whatever. You'll have to focus more on maximizing your looks, going for ONS which means: hitting up clubs, bars, dark alleyways, etc etc. The sidebar hasn't convin…
/r/askTRP14/04/21 03:56 PM
2

She just had you in her orbit. The "games" is just her push /pulling you to be exactly where she wants you, like cattle. You wouldn't be stressing with this BS if you had a few other plates who were on stand-by for you to summon them. The "made plans with her 3 times but she had things to do" was 1 too many. If I initiate a meet once and she's busy but doesn't counter offer, then ok, soft next. If I initiate the second time with no counteroffer it's a ghost and hard next. If you've never had a p…
/r/askTRP14/04/21 03:40 PM
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"Take advantage of the simps" is such a feminist and toxic argument. Why not sell crack to drug addicts and curious teenagers? Honestly, just the fact that she brings up being a whore is an immediate hard next. Why are you in an LTR? Future mother of your kids? "Hey kids, mommy used to be an internet whore to make money to pay for her tits!" OnlyFans is just another crack in the wall for women to feel free to be ho's, just like they're free to wear thongs and pasties in public on Halloween.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 03:32 PM
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The "unique situation" is just an alarm to proceed with caution, which should always be your mindset anyways because, AWALT. It sounds like you just get oneitis with chicks right off the bat, and you're just hamstering "I am an LTR type of dude". "Plating is exhausting". Uh, you know what's more exhausting? Being in a dead end LTR and not having sex for weeks. Have you plated before? Have you moved past the first chapter? You're considering doing a LDR with some girl who's obviously drama, and y…
/r/askTRP14/04/21 03:21 PM
2

It's just another skill. Uncomfortable at first maintaining that eye contact, but challenge yourself to hold that gaze until they look away. I went from always immediately looking away, to "eye fucking" the cute girls until they looked away, or I'll smile (or squint if wearing mask) if we're holding the gaze for a while.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 02:58 PM
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It's bold. And this video doesn't show all the rejections he got.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 02:51 PM
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I don't feel bad that I still (and will always) only need "ol' reliable right hand" for my occasional release. I got a little intimidated recently because a plate was talking about her toys, saying things like, "there's this one called the "soul crusher" and.. it does hold up to its name.." But regardless of whatever shape, size, or vibration is out there, always remember that psychology is the most important factor in sex (Read Sex God Method). No toy will ever be a substitute for a masculine m…
/r/askTRP14/04/21 02:13 PM
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BDSM is almost a whole world to explore, and there are rules and guidelines to it. It's not just about leaving your handprint on her ass. If you're interested, do your research. But most importantly, ALWAYS establish trust first, and build up towards things. Pillow talk is a great time to talk about y'all's likes and dislikes. Again, do your research and understand the dynamic. And be careful, some girls might be using BDSM to deal with some past trauma. They'll want to be smacked around because…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/21 01:31 PM
1

Generally yes. Better to have bulk vs. be average. But a lot of girls also go crazy for lean bodies. Ask a girl Zac Efron vs. Tom Hardy (when he's bulked) and I'd put my money on Efron. There's a different between lean and skinny. If you're gonna be lean / ripped, wardrobe is much more important. If you're not wearing a well fitted shirt, then you'll just look skinny.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 03:47 PM
2

I'd definitely much rather be angry than depressed or defeated. Anger is so energetic and powerful that it's probably the best time to make habit changes. Anger can be exhausting though. You could burn out after a week or so and easily fall in to that depression or defeated place, seeing all that hyper amounts of work slip through your fingers.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 03:46 PM
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Programming. I took the art route and I'm happy I did, but I didn't see a decent salary until I had 6 years of experience. I would definitely do art as your side hussle, hobby, creative outlet.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 02:20 PM
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The problem, is that OP broke a lot of "rules". He's shitting where he eats, he LTR'd before 6 months of plating, etc. These rules are just "guidelines", but for newbies like OP, they should be treated as laws. OP's immediate problem is that he's half committed. He's either going to break things off and save himself some heart ache, headaches, and drama, or worse (STD's, career, baby trap, divorce rape, etc.) or trade a lot of time and energy for some hard lessons.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 11:47 AM
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2 things you can do. Trust everyone's advice and end things, or sit through the roller coaster in the tunnel of fire. I think you're too old to be making these stupid decisions, but if you're a newbie (obviously you are), then riding through these poor decisions could give you some solid insight, lessons, and wisdom. I've rushed into an LTR before asking, "what's the worst that can happen?" I decided to cohabitate out of wedlock, asking the same question. Both decisions I mildly regret on one ha…
/r/askTRP08/04/21 11:38 AM
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My baby momma has been obsessed with me since day 1. I feel bad for her next LTR, unless he's Chad. But the whole point of this post is that Chad doesn't LTR single moms.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 12:35 AM
1

The solution is to maintain frame, and always continue to make decisions that lead to your mission, aka "dream lifestyle".
/r/askTRP07/04/21 05:48 PM
1

Okay so troubleshoot it. Like I said, meditation. I personally last 4x longer after a heavy lift session. I last 4x longer if I smoke a hit of weed. If a shot of whiskey or 2 beers will help you relax then remedy with that for the first few interactions until you build that confidence. Loosen your paralization
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:16 PM
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Okay, so it's dread. Remember, women have their own "TRP". Listen to a few minutes of "Call Her Daddy" and you'll immediately realize women are playing the game too. Wouldn't be surprised your girl is following her own 12 levels of dread. She's got your hamster spinning.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:14 PM
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Hey man I'm happy for you. I would definitely love to make double comma annual income. I'm happy with my pace and progress.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:12 PM
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It could just be anxiety. Anxiety can be paralyzing like that. If you don't, try journaling and daily meditation. This helps a ton.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:49 PM
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You don't have to close your eyes to her life. If something feels off, then trust your gut and see if something shows up when you put the pieces together. But if you're dating 5 girls, and one of them sleeps with someone else, how upset will you / should you be if you yourself have 4 other girls?
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:48 PM
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This. It's best to disappear for 2 weeks than to trust your dates with your emotional experiences.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:44 PM
1

There's zero value in "getting hot online girls", whatever the fuck that means. You want to have sex? Go on more dates.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:40 PM
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What the fuck? Those are your 2 options? They're both the worst things you can do, and I really hope you're trolling. You're obviously too in your head, if your story is true. Meditate for 10 days and then give it another shot. If you're escalating and can't get it up, ask for a break. Most girls should be cool with it.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:38 PM
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It could all be just a big giant shit test, but way too big of a headache for some girl. She's really not that special. Definitely not amazing enough to prevent you from spinning quality plates.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:33 PM
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Is it "wet" or excitement? It's 2 different things. If it's just "wet", it could be just a side effect to birth control or other medication. If it's excitement, then what do you think? 4 years is a long time to just be doing vanilla sex. I've experienced recently with 2 plates that they both respond strongly to BDSM. I never cared much about learning how to tie girls up on my ceiling or build a fucking dungeon, but I've made an effort in the past few weeks to add some tricks and build a D/S dyna…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:31 PM
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$30 / hour for entry level. $30 is $10 more than the median income in the US. Be realistic here.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:20 PM
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First of all, marriage and kids need to be discussed and agreed to BEFORE becoming exclusive. Removing you from social media is a very big bad. This tells me she's cheating, or at least "emotionally cheating". 3 weeks of giving you the cold shoulder is 2.5 weeks too much. I'd just next her, or at least start moving things forward with the other prospects you have lined up.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:14 PM
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Don't do cardio if you can't stand it. Consider doing HIIT training. It'll make you much more athletic anyway. If you only did ONE thing to improve your health and appearance it should be to quit sugar, and all processed / fast digesting carbs. Do some heavy research on sugar and internalize the disgustedness you'll feel while reading. You can't out train a bad diet, so get your nutrition on check. If you have to demand to your parents to quit bringing sugar in the house, do it. If you have to t…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:05 PM
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I have friends who make more than me but complain heavily about their jobs every time I see them. They also drink every evening and on weekends. $30 / hour but be miserable with a Mercedes just isn't worth it IMO.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 02:56 PM
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Same experience. Been doing digital and print design for 8 years which is "fun", but definitely not driving a brand new Lexus. Currently working for a company that has been giving me the opportunities to learn photography, videography, digital marketing, social media, and web design. Web design on its own averages 70K / year. I plan on doubling my income in 1-2 years.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 02:54 PM
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You don't know what you're doing. You're just doing what you think you should be doing, and then wondering why you don't feel good about it. Marriage and cohabitation should be seen as "advanced skills", where you need to know exactly what you're doing and taking the lead on everything. If you're just winging it, everything is going to blow up in your face.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 02:31 PM
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It's not a good thing. If it's casual, then usually you'll need to be more open and patient with her schedule. But just because a woman is not a parent does not mean it's a green flag. There's also abortions and miscarriages. These can lead to trauma and other issues / red flags. IMHO, if being a mom is her only red flag, then she's, usually, going to be more pleasant and submissive than the average.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 02:11 PM
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She either has a beta baby daddy who she left and you'll see him constantly trying to get back together with her, or she's alpha widowed.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 01:58 PM
2

What do you do for work? A job like sales isn't for everyone, but having to talk to people for a living really sets you up with communication and charisma skills. Dive in the deep end to learn to swim.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 04:23 PM
2

Read "Models" by Mark Manson.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 02:36 PM
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Maybe, or maybe the internet and social media have made these crazy things more accessible to us.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 01:00 PM
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She sounds like quite a flowing river. She might be used to texting other SO's 24/7. Don't be afraid to go against the grain and maintain texting for logistics. It's okay to include some sexual or witty back and forth banter, but you're a busy alpha remember? You've no time for entertaining or small talk. Be prepared for the "you suck at texting" shit test.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:57 PM
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I'd point something out that I may like, or dislike. "I do like her haircut" "Eh, not my type" Go ahead and say something silly, "well, she's definitely edgy and i like a good eyeliner. 5/7 finesse"
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:46 PM
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There are shinier things in the world. NSFW - The other night I was with a plate. She was giving me head and she did this thing with her hands.. and let's just say she really raised the bar for blowjobs. And it was a new thing that I've now been introduced to. It's different than with X or Y girl. Stop chasing that high. There are different "drugs" and likes you'll come to fancy.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:39 PM
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Ok then, she isn't a goddess, so what do you think the issue is? Have you tried disassociating her with the way you felt with her? Let's say she made you feel "like a man", y'all liked the same music, and she did that one thing with her finger.. These are just things and feelings that someone happened to have grouped together. IOW, there are thousands of others like her, and thousands of girls "better" than her who may provide things, and then some. Lastly, have you tried having multiple girlfri…
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:45 AM
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Here's a laugh for you.. there was a situation one time, at some place, where a guy ejaculated in a woman's mouth. She ran to the restroom and transferred the semen from her mouth into her vagina, and got pregnant. There was a court case and her lawyer's argument was that the semen was a "gift" to the woman, and she could do with it as she pleased..
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:36 AM
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I don't recommend this, but something that helped me 100% get over an LTR I was with for 5 years was to expose myself to her, after some time. I'd had this filtered image of her in my head where she looked and behaved, maybe at her best, aka, I'd fantasize about her. Anyways, I reached out to her (after many years) to ask how her family was doing, as they were like a 2nd family to me while we were dating. We chit chatted a bit, and while talking to her, and seeing what she actually looked like i…
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:29 AM
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Bad attention is still attention. If by"burning a bridge" you mean victim puking on your way out the door, then it's better to not. When you ghost / hard next, you do it without explanation. This is because women will get value from closure. Even if you're cussing her out on your way out, it will feed her ego because she's aware she was able to get this emotional reaction out of you. You want to just ghost and let her hamster spin wondering where she went wrong. But, TBH, once you decide to hard…
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:15 AM
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I'll share my honest experience. As we get older, we require more maintenance, and are more sensitive to things. One example for me is gluten. 5 years ago I could eat whatever and be fine. Nowadays, if I eat burgers or pizza, I'll get severe brain fog the next day. But, because of this, I eat much better. WAY less processed carbs. I eat smarter and therefore, my nutrition is much better than it was 5 years ago. Same with other things, like, if I have more than 2 rest days in a row, my overall en…
/r/askTRP05/04/21 10:58 AM
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1 month of lifting.. Minimal social skills.. Rejected once.. So you took the first step and are disappointed that you don't have pussy lined up at your doorstep? If this is how you play video games then I feel really bad for you. I was playing a Zelda game the other day and you start off in your boxers with a tree branch as a weapon. I promise you won't have zero results after 1 year of solid consistent lifting. Social skills is that, a skill. Level it up. Read "The Game". 1 rejection 🙄, some of…
/r/askTRP03/04/21 12:17 PM
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I agree and I'm well aware. I'm just saying girls handle rejection much worse than guys.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 04:24 PM
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Exactly, even if she really wants your dick, she's still going to be passive about it. She'll "tell you" through IOI's and womanese language. Pre-RP I could've had a girl sitting on my lap and wonder, "we're probably just good friends." But thanks to TRP, I've developed a great radar for picking up signals and knowing how to escalate properly.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 01:59 PM
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Exactly, most girls won't sweep the driveway to their pussy for you. Sometimes all it takes is a little bit of game and voila, you f-close and plate.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 01:55 PM
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Yup, very true. And it's frustrating, after you swallow the pill, when you start having girls give you "fuck me" eyes, you start thinking back to all the girls in the past who gave you clear signals that they wanted you, but BP conditioning had us blind and dumb.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 01:53 PM
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Unless you don't want to. Red flags should turn you off, or maybe she's not your type. When you have options, you don't have to fuck every hole at your doorstep. But seeing a girl go through rejection is kinda sad lol. Flashbacks to HS.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 01:50 PM
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She'll be more indirect before. Asking you out for drinks, changing her schedule to match yours. Then after the first time and so on, especially if you've fucked her well, she'll just start sending pics in lingerie, just waiting for you to snap your fingers to summon her.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 01:48 PM
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That wasn't the only problem. On our second "date" she cried in a bowling alley bar about her dad. I put up with much more BS than I would now because I was new to the game and wanted experience. And the sex was just, the worst I've had. Felt more like a "reward" that I earned vs an intimate experience. I don't care if her n-count was 1 or 20, it was just unpleasant all around.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 10:47 PM
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We can agree that woman will lie about their n-counts. Undisputed. Yes, if the topic arises where she says her n-count is 30 at 20 years old, then you want to ghost her of course. Because yes, woman will always say a lesser number, and never a bigger number, unless she's trying to reject you. But do look for red flags. I'd rather plate a 30 year old with an n-count of 30+ who pays for everything, drives to my place, does everything I say, etc. VS an 18 yo (who claims her n-count is 3) but won't …
/r/askTRP01/04/21 10:19 PM
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Any behavior or action that they do that if you were to tell a friend about it, they'd go, "that's kinda, weird?" Some quick examples for vetting for red flags, sorry I have to get going to the gym.. she talks about her exes or other "alphas". she has a ton of guy friends and/or doesn't have any girl friends because "they're all fake". alcoholic. Talks about "blacking out that one time". flirts with others around you. bad or lack of relationship with her dad. bad or lack of relationship with her…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 10:05 PM
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No I wouldn't but that's a terrible analogy. And with my argument, what if you asked shit girl how many people have shit in her mouth and she said 2? But in reality it was 30 but how would you know the actual number? She'll 100% lie. And I've never slept with a girl who I've seen get fucked or anything like that with someone else, and if I did see that, then yes, it would turn me off. But 99% of guys on this sub share this opinion, so again, terrible analogy.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 09:51 PM
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They honestly do. I smashed a 19yo and she was the loosest I've ever been in. That, plus the fact that she was so mentally detached during sex, made me pull out and not even be close to cumming. Then, one of my last lays was a 34yo and she's been one of the tightest girls I've been with. Like, just one finger in there was tight. Guys on this sub are paying attention to the wrong shit.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 09:48 PM
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It's really nothing personal, I just get frustrated when the n-count obsession gets brought up. But I know how to vet my dates so I got mine.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 09:42 PM
2

You'd laugh? At the girl you just vowed to, legally, whom you assumed was a virgin before you, but turns out she had a DP foursome with Abra, Kadabra, and Alakazam? /s
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:05 PM
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The n-count obsession is the most disappointing thing I see in this sub. OP's nonsense post based solely on a never-factual number getting 30+ upvotes is just sad.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:03 PM
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It has to be a rule to stop asking this question. First of all, it's asked every week, use the fucking search bar. Second, what kind of question is that? "Uh, HoW mAnY gUyS u FuK?" If I were ANY girl, I'd divide my # by 20, to protect your little ego. "sO wHaT dO"? Vet for red flags. if they are alpha widowed or have been ran by a train, the signs will shine through the cracks. Seriously, I feel so bad for anyone here begging for a virgin. You find her, you marry her, cause unicorn, then on your…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 03:45 PM
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This is the way. It's kinda fun living life genuinely and owning yourself.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 03:34 PM
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I see. Well, you've got to own it. And frankly, you're playing a little too close to the fire here. Plate is your neighbor, knows where you live, knows which park you go to, etc. I hope you vetted properly as some girls will go nuclear if they were in her shoes and found out you had an LTR. Go with your gut on this. The smart choice might be to tell your plate that you've met someone and that it's turned to something serious. Plate outside your zip code from now on.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 12:10 PM
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Yeah, I have never had a plate or LTR ever say anything like, "I won't cheat".
/r/askTRP01/04/21 11:53 AM
2

Plus the "everything alright?" Follow up from her.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 11:51 AM
2

You're plate spinning on hard mode, but the rewards are HUGE, I bet. As long as you are mentally prepared to lose them both, then just apply amused mastery. But why are they meeting though? I'm curious.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 11:46 AM
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The only useful thing about social media is if you have prospects / plates following you and you want to stay in their mind. If you're like me and hate texting, then it may benefit you to post a photo or story every few days. It's an easy excuse for a prospect to reach out, and you can easily set a date from there. It's a "wide net" approach. If all it costs is posting a quick video of you at a cool museum, and you get 3 prospects reply to it, then it's a very low cost/ high reward approach.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 02:11 PM
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Only if they're post wall, or, non eastern society. HB7+ want to be seen. They need it. They're aware of The Wall, so they're going to get as many eye balls on them during their prime years as possible. It's not impossible to be charismatic and outgoing.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 02:02 PM
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You do not want unattractive girls harassing you, stalking, sending unsolicited pics, etc. Men have it better where we don't get bothered all day, and we have the dynamic to go talk to who we want. My advice is to stop being a bitch and play the game. Learn to handle rejection.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:56 PM
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It's not 100% peaceful, but it's more peaceful than wasting mental calories guessing if some girl is a virgin. "Future mother of your kids was once a ho" You can always adopt. The reality to internalize is hypergamy. Read the sidebar, and remember that the whole analogy of TRP (besides blue vs. red) is that it's a pill, and it's tough to swallow.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:50 PM
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Yes, there the "if". Obviously OP should communicate the wingman dynamic with the girl. Worst case scenario, OP should "friend-zone" her and just interact with her on a "hi, bye" basis, if the friend group is high value.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:45 PM
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It's natural to feel possessive, and I personally enjoy the goal of having multiple women compete for your attention, but, in a way, you're becoming too attached. Don't mean to get hippy here, but focus more on the feeling you want to have. Aka, if your goal is a girl(s) to be FUCK YES about you, focus on the "fuck yes" part and less on the girl. This will work better for you. It helps with vetting, removing attachment / oneitis, and you'll more naturally treat yourself as "the prize" because yo…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:41 PM
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There's a lot more value to be had if you use her as preselection. Like you said, you're around her a lot, so why risk making shit awkward? (Don't crap where you snack). What if every night y'all went out, this girl wing-manned you? If she's HB7+, she'll provide huge social value. One time I approached this HB8 at a day club. We were chatting for a few minutes but she was glancing around, seeming uninterested. My HB8 roommate walks by and I call her over, I introduce them to each other and my ro…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:25 PM
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OP you have to assume that all girls have high n-counts. Your life will be much more peaceful this way.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:10 PM
2

Exactly. AWALT.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:00 PM
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I can seriously say that at least 95% of girls have had a FWB. Especially in HS, a relationship is a BIG thing, so fooling around with someone is often preferred. I always just assume that every girl I'm meeting has routine dick on her calendar.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 12:58 PM
0

I'm in the US, in a known "party" city. Maybe me and you just give off different vibes. I have a more "mysterious" personality.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 09:13 PM
1

I did 4:30am for a few months because there was just 1 gym in my area open so it was always packed. They opened at 6:00am and there'd already be a line at 5:45am. If I went after work (9-5 job), I'd have to end up doing push-ups in a corner from how busy it was. Also, trying to go out in the evening was almost impossible. By the time 6pm rolled around I'd be yawning. I met up with a date one time at 4pm on a Sunday and she shot a shit test at me for it lol, but I still f-closed. The plus side wa…
/r/askTRP30/03/21 09:10 PM
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Monk mode 🙄 god damn mobile.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 09:03 PM
1

Obviously change yourself. Read "No More Mr. Nice Guy"
/r/askTRP30/03/21 09:03 PM
3

I'd enjoy the ride until the plate breaks. If you're not interested in plating or LTR then maybe go link mode for a bit.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 05:30 PM
3

Regardless of age, it's impossible not to judge someone for willingly deciding to make that kind of decision (sex for money). That could've been the worst she's done, but not the only red flag. Is she pressing you for an LTR? Has she given you an ultimatum? A one sided open relationship is THE gold standard for what most men want.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:25 PM
1

It's climbing a steep uphill when you are trying to improve yourself with the same group of friends, aka, crabs in a bucket. My advice is to drop these friends and find higher quality social circles.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:01 PM
2

Yes, and this is just a side effect of focusing on yourself and raising your SMV. What will probably happen is that she will use you, just for validation. You may think to yourself, "you know, I want to hit that again." But, once you send that, "come by my place later" text, she'll take that to re-feed her ego, and ghost you again. Ghosting someone is absolute disrespect, don't even be decent to her. Ghost her back.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 02:58 PM
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Our bodies need rest. Especially in our century where we are expected to be hyper productive. 2 things you can try. Wake up later. Getting up at 4:30am to lift, and then trying to go out with the boys at 9pm is just never going to happen (optimally). With that said, workout in the evenings. Some days I'll get that afternoon crash. But, I'll start sipping on a pre-workout. I personally, sip on my drank for up to 2 hours. I continue to add water, keeping myself hydrated, and I get 2 hours of finis…
/r/askTRP30/03/21 02:49 PM
4

1) you don't have to have something to say all the time. The first rule of charisma is to just be a good listener. By providing interest, you are already contributing to the group. 2) don't even get started on social media if you're doing it for other people. ONLY reason you should do social media is for creative reasons: share pics / vids of you playing an instrument, drawing, graphic designing, etc. And I doubt many people have even asked if you have social media. That's a question I thought w…
/r/askTRP30/03/21 02:13 PM
1

By evolving past those people. You move away, meet new friends who respect you at your current value. Yes, even family. They'll either succumb to your frame, or you "keep the peace" and just be indifferent. Internalize the fact that most of your relationships with loved ones will never be the same (but you'll establish relationships with people who treat you better, so it makes it up for it).
/r/askTRP29/03/21 01:08 PM
3

And having logistics is sometimes half the battle. Having a nice little place for privacy and entertainment takes a huge burden off your shoulders.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 01:03 PM
5

Listening to her and not making her feel bad about about it is already a big help. A lot of people don't have anyone to talk to, and every girl is going to appreciate telling their personal issues to someone who's opinion matters to her, and then not judge her for it.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 01:00 PM
5

Why is it black and white? You're either passive, or you get in trouble for being an asshole? If power and the food chain are that important for you, then yea go into sales; where manipulation, charisma, and influence are encouraged. Me personally, I'm happy just putting my head down, riding the flow of my work, and letting my skills talk for me. I don't need to "prove" anything when people see my craft and go "wow!" I don't need to dominate or be assertive when my manager transfers the spot lig…
/r/askTRP28/03/21 01:10 PM
2

Widow - deceased husband aka, always going to be mourning the loss of the Chad.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 12:52 PM
1

The body controls the mind, and the mind controls the body. So if your mental talk is sad, then let your body talk and hit some 5x5's. I bet your mind will stand at attention when you tell it how it's going to be from now on. Half assed workouts are always better than no workout.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 08:51 PM
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I'm happy to hear this OP. Sadly, too many men aren't able to find the pill and "save themselves" and they end their lives. I've been up and down a lot in the last year and the things that either held me together or improved my life have always been the most simple habits. I was suffering from anxiety and insomnia the last few weeks and it was awful. I even started smoking weed before bed after a year of not doing it. Yesterday I was finally able to go to a gym were there are actually squat rack…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 08:48 PM
1

I tend to focus more on the feeling I'll be in when I get a good workout. I'll wake up and visualize: man, it's great feeling a pump at the gym, cute girls to look at, muscles pumped, great energy and focus after the workout, and gives me a great boost for my day. And the first time going back to the gym is always the hardest. Drag yourself that first or second time but trust me, it gets easier, and you'll start feeling more and more charged for a lift when you wake up.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 04:47 PM
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Be more boring. That's right. In these situations you'll feel like you should be stoic or friendly. But the biggest turn off is boring. One word answers. You're just there to make money and that's it. Something else that may work is is to call her out in front of everyone. Like if it's a slow few minutes and everyone's just chit chatting and she's inching closer to you just go, "hey ma'am, you're getting really close to me." Make it indirectly known through the staff that she's making advances a…
/r/askTRP12/03/21 01:16 PM
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When I dwell in the past is when I'm not focused in the present making progress towards my future. If you're going to be fantasizing about "what if's", then at least utilize it to double down the theory that "rejection is better than regret".
/r/askTRP12/03/21 01:08 PM
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You can still learn things from this sub but it's useless for any of us to give you advice that is going to get trumped by your cultural direction. Best thing you can do is find a mentor from your culture who's as RP as can be and express to him these concerns. Lastly, the feminists are checking the RP subs and having the exact same thoughts you're having about them. At the end of the day, it's just sexual strategy. Don't listen to a woman about how to be a man.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 01:05 PM
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Yeah definitely don't do more than send her flowers and maybe visit her once a week if you want. But again, even if you're on the fence, be CAREFUL that her family doesn't dump her on you. People can be shitty, especially with these stressful situations. Just be there emotionally as a friend. That's it.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 11:04 PM
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Take away all the focus from "the DM's" and all that. All that shit comes easily and naturally just by raising your SMV, so put all your thoughts on that basket. Be real with yourself. Say, "yea I've let myself go. I've been lazy and obviously I'm not getting hit on, but today is the first day of the rest of my life, and I can have everything I want, but I have to be hard on myself and put in the work." Start small. Wake up and say that your only priority for the day is to meditate and exercise.…
/r/askTRP10/03/21 04:41 PM
2

Check out "The Truth" by Neil Strauss, author of the one and only "The Game". I think your fetish is just a symptom of an addiction to sex. It's like a nicotine addict complaining about favoring a mango juul (e-cig), but the nicotine is the problem. I'd say you should go 6 months minimum zero PMO and zero sex. Rehab yourself. Also, delete all the triggers. Get of Reddit if you can't help but look at the nsfw subs. Keep meditating and lifting. Go MGTOW. Think less "shameful kink", and focus more …
/r/askTRP10/03/21 04:36 PM
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Yep, this. OP doesn't have to be guilted into being her rock during her situation. It's best to just be genuine / real about how much support you want to give. And it's cool that OP is thinking about the positive traits of the girl. That's the best I can hope for if I were going through a life threatening experience. And to add some grim advice for OP, don't let yourself become the "angel" during the girls recovery. Support is exhausting, and sad to say, the girl's friends and family might not d…
/r/askTRP10/03/21 04:24 PM
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You can either soft next and set up a meet later on, or you can just stop wasting time and gauge her interest level now by immediately setting up a 2nd meet. Yea you're "double asking", but hey, you got girls to date and places to be. Ask if she wants to meet on Saturday, and if it's not a "fuck yes" then hard next.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 10:28 PM
2

So this is just basic "set up a meet + neg".
/r/askTRP09/03/21 10:23 PM
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In the future, plate for 6 months before considering LTR. Sexual compatibility is a MUST for LTR's. If you go on, you're going to start resenting her because you'll blame her for not being able to sleep with chicks you're actually attracted to. I'd break up with her, tell her there's some things you need to figure out and ghost her for a few months while you both move on. When the timing feels right, you can hit her up to try and rebuild the friendship. I just re-communicated with an ex-LTR of 5…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 05:09 PM
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Red pill is "facing the reality and overcoming it, to live the most happy and peaceful lifestyle, without the feeling of hate for anyone or anything." If you are not ready to "get out there" and think as you like, but behave like others, then there is MGTOW. "Hate" for women or hypergamy is like hating the direction of a river, or the temperature of the air. It just is. Accept it, and overcome.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 03:58 PM
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The only reason you should have gone through all that trouble was if you were getting paid, or if you just had a strong interest in the specific law situation and you wanted to get experience in it. With either reason, you'd genuinely not give a shit about her actions afterwards or the audacity of the lack of appreciation, because you got what you really wanted out of it.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 03:50 PM
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1) people are still going to be wearing masks for the next year. Right now is the best time to "hide" braces. 2) you're going to be 36 years old anyways, why not be 36 with a better smile and less teeth problems.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 03:45 PM
2

Alright, so my career mission is to be a a creative director. I have 8 years of experience in a specific skill, and I'm currently employed with a company who is giving me the opportunity to learn and practice all the other multimedia skills required to apply for a creative director position. So in a few years I'll be able to either apply for this position or pitch the director position to my current company, depending on where they are on growth. Not a priority but dating wise I want multiple gi…
/r/askTRP05/03/21 03:35 PM
2

Damn man, being upfront with her and just telling her that you were on her profile would've been a lot better than the BS you spewed out. If she calls you out just say the truth. You were stalking her dating app profile for whatever reason but I can't even think of one.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 03:20 PM
1

Seriously. The real truth is that all women 18+ have done a lot more than they'll admit to. The last girl I fucked told me that she likes being put into a full leather mask. In my head I was like, "uh.. alright let's not dig any deeper. Let's put a paper bag over that". Cause honestly everything about the girl is really great so far. She initiated the meet, she drove 30 mins to my house, she brought wine, she let me lead, submissive, she was really into the sex, I had to put my hand over her mou…
/r/askTRP05/03/21 03:17 PM
2

Your game is just sad. Barely mediocre. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 02:42 PM
2

With girls, just hard next. Nexting is your most powerful weapon.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 02:41 PM
2

First of all, stop being needy. Stop "needing" anything. All you "need" is water, sleep, and lifting. If you care that much about status then join the football team. Top of the food chain at any HS. Then in college, join a fraternity.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 02:36 PM
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LTR material after 1 smash at a party? Lo and behold, a real unicorn. srs OP, no LTR consideration until 6 months of plating. If the girl has high interest then I'll just meet her. If I feel like I can smash her behind a dumpster then I don't even try to be my best. If she's not drooling over me then yea I'd try to be at least at 80%. You don't want to be 1 good nights sleep away from having a quality plate.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 02:31 PM
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Even better. Less pillow talk. Go home, have a bowl of cereal, invite the next girl over.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 02:24 PM
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Dude, be a man and just lead. Initiate the meet, and just hard next all of the time wasters. Girls know exactly how to keep you orbiting. They'll dangle "meeting up" in front of you like a carrot. Most of them just want attention and validation. Match > minimal back and forth banter to build interest > n-close > set a meet.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 02:23 PM
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"High interest" doesn't get your dick wet. In high school I had 10 girls I could hit up to meet. I was too nice guy to f-close, but I had enough confidence to k-close a lot of them. Lose the fishing line and use a net.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 02:14 PM
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You were in her frame the entire time. She used you for validation and when you got too needy, she moved on. Next time any woman ever refuses sex, end the interaction there. Be respectful but stern. Tell them that you have "something coming up" and that they need to leave, or just leave if you're at their place. Small chance they'll change heart if you give the impression that you're going to meet a plate. "Gotta get going, my friend keeps blowing me up" / "friend wants to come over, I need to c…
/r/askTRP05/03/21 02:12 PM
1

This. If you aren't at least k-closing on the first date, then why would you even want a second?
/r/askTRP05/03/21 02:02 PM
2

Enemies happen when your personal values and boundaries outweigh the power someone has over you. Never seek out enemies, but always put yourself first, regardless of how it will affect other people.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 01:31 PM
1

BJJ. Kicking a guy on the head sounds cool and all but why risk a manslaughter charge? BJJ can teach you how to incapacitate people bigger / stronger than you.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 12:56 PM
2

You need to clear things up in your head first before deciding on tangible actions. Right now, it would be productive enough to just plant some seeds in your heads and be open for an opportunity to present itself. Example: just watch some YouTube videos on what it actually takes to start and run a business. Then maybe the next day look up what the highest paid "side hustles" are for 2021. Maybe you find out that starting a YouTube channel pays well, but you've never thought about making videos. …
/r/askTRP05/03/21 12:47 PM
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Impossible. I have a "girl best friend". We're real close and I trust her more than almost anyone. But I will never feel like I can cry or break down in front of her. I think any woman that isn't your blood family will uncontrollably "lose interest" in you / distance herself. I think that every person is hardwired to be conscious about the "vibration" of those around them. It's all subconscious but we always are aware of who in our tribe is dependable.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 03:36 PM
1

Lay together, start massaging each other. Have them start kissing each other and getting turned on, and then insert yourself in.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 09:34 PM
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iow, girls will do anything for attention.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 02:19 PM
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I like them all. Inexperienced girls are "cute" cause they get so shy in bed and you can train them to do things you like. The veterans are also nice. They have confidence in bed so even the first session is enjoyable and they might even teach you a thing or 2 if you're open. The only ones I can't even finish with are the "I know the drill" girls. Like you escalate to bed and they're already mindlessly removing their pants and undies. Treating it like they're just brushing their teeth for the mi…
/r/askTRP28/02/21 02:01 PM
1

She'll tell you she's on BC and to not use a condom cause she has a "cream-pie" fetish. Then a month later she's telling you she's late. A woman who does not want to use a condom, especially a girl on the first date, is a big red flag.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 01:44 PM
1

I will check him out, thank you!
/r/askTRP27/02/21 05:50 PM
1

Why? What's your experience or research on it?
/r/askTRP27/02/21 04:44 PM
1

Maybe just be straight up with him and say that you and the other roommate want him to move out. Don't threaten eviction, but just make it clear that neither of y'all want him there. I strongly feel like the saying, "you are a mix of the 5 people you hang with the most" is more true than we think. Be around 5 high value people every day and your life will improve at hyper speeds.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 03:54 PM
2

I'm 6'3" and there was this one real short guy in HS who I was jealous of cause he was always dating all the hot alternative girls in school, most of them taller than him. This other guy as well who was not good looking and short, but he attracted the really hot petite girls. These guys just didn't give a fuck and both seemed like they would fight anyone if push came to shove. Just overall confident guys with the best frame in the room.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 03:48 PM
2

Best thing you can do is fuck all her friends because her friends will tell her about the good dick so now the girl will be curious.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 03:44 PM
1

Fair concerns, but what can you do about it? You're not going to be putting an ankle monitor on her and checking the room she's in every 30 minutes. Honestly though all of these fears are just insecurity issues. If you can't be in an LTR without being confident enough that she's satisfied enough with you then don't consider LTR. If you can't be in an LTR without going "oh no! Anyways.." when she cheats then you can't LTR. The phrase "she's not yours, it's just your turn" implies that you can nev…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 03:41 PM
1

Live with girlfriend AND you work with her? God, that's rough.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 03:32 PM
1

I encourage MGTOW, after you've spun a few plates for a while and want to take a break. If you can't approach and game a woman, then MGTOW is just a sad excuse for you to avoid being a little bitch.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 03:29 PM
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You should stop cohabitating. One of the biggest fuck ups I made but I learned my lesson. One time LTR was acting up and I just left and came back 4 hours later. Never told her where I went but she stopped acting up after that. Endgame was such a good movie in theatres btw.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 03:26 PM
2

Am 26. And again, on the number thing. You shouldn't ask because you're forcing her to lie.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 03:23 PM
1

Good LTR's are just rare lol. Almost all of us grew up in broken homes. But once you live with a healthy couple or you connect with someone who amplifies your life in every way, we get a paradigm shift. I will always still believe it crucial to plate for 6 months before LTR.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 03:21 PM
1

Truthfully we don't always want to be meeting up with random new women and always vetting for red flags, the escalation is never gonna get boring, that's my favorite part, but once in a while you get some lays that are just not compatible at all. Like ugh, just throw me my romper, I gotta get home. Good LTR's are rare, but damn they can be so rewarding. Like, sex gets better and better cause you 2 learn each other's bodies, wants, and fetishes. You build comfort so it's never awkward. Quality LT…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 03:16 PM
2

Yea idk. The only n-counts I've been told were from my first gf (I was her second) and from my last LTR, she said I was her 5th. I believe my last LTR because we were both high on ecstasy which is basically a happy truth drug. But again, I just can't see myself caring or putting any value to that number. Low n-count girls are inexperienced so you have to put in the time and patience to "train them", but wtf I want good sex now. I don't want to potty train a dog. I just smashed a 34yo and honestl…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 03:03 PM
1

Don't drink alcohol before driving 40 miles. Don't take dick pills. If you smoke weed, then just bring some over. Honestly the best mindset is to not have the expectation. Just go to have fun. Bring a bottle of wine.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:54 PM
1

This. If you're looking to be in the service industry, bartending is a great place where women will want to talk to you. It's not that hard to be a bartender and they make pretty good money depending on which bar you end up.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:49 PM
1

1) disqualified for marriage but maybe not to plate. 2) sure, but it costs you literally nothing. 3) I have texts saved from all of mine.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:46 PM
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But look at how guys like you are judging women based on their n-count. They all know this. If guys weren't judgmental about it, then maybe they'd be honest. But they're just going to always lie to you so your little ego doesn't get shattered. And why wouldn't they lie? How the hell can you ever verify? If women were like this I'd say I was a virgin, but I gave a handjob once! So I think we can both agree that we obviously have to vet for red flags through many venues. And this is why the 6 mont…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:43 PM
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With emotion
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:34 PM
1

Yeah I can. Most people can't afford their own place, and it's not often that you can live with people you actually get along with. If she is not hiding their friendship then that means there is nothing for her to hide. If you were to catch her lying about hanging out with him then that is a reason to become suspicious. But even if she lies, it might be because she doesn't want to hurt your fragile self esteem.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:32 PM
1

The facial hair draws attention away from your bald head, so the mask photo is doing you zero favors. The purple / burgundy shirt is way too big on you. Get rid of that. A porn joke is for Reddit. There's no room for cringe on dating apps. Women are showing your profile to their friends. Aim for sexy, fun, and give the impression that you give good dick. Your bio line is years outdated.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:23 PM
1

It'd be really impressive if you took dates to places where they speak these languages. I believe Mandarin is the most spoken language. Spanish is good to know and French is a somewhat culmination of Spanish and English so you can learn that pretty easily after Spanish.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:17 PM
2

That book is too advanced for him. Give him, "No More Mr Nice Guy"
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:14 PM
2

Exactly. Fucking morons basing their life decisions on something they'll never know the answer to. Meet girl. True n-count of 30. You ask her n-count. She says 2. Ah, wonderful. Let me help you with all this baggage you dragged in to this Starbucks and let's go put a ring on it! Wow, 2! I'm such a lucky guy.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:12 PM
2

How do you know what any girls number is? How do you know she's not lying? Can you lead me to the app or device you are using to get these honest answers?
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:09 PM
2

It varies by location. In my hometown, all lower class were minorities. When you went to the "rich areas", all white or Asian. Moved out of state and it was 100% a mixed salad. Plenty of minorities in upper class homes, plenty of white people in lower class. I have to point out that this city is very "hussle" oriented, so being more of a "people person" gives you the advantage.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:04 PM
1

I'm always very outgoing and energetic after the gym. If you're going out with friends, maybe do so right after some heavy squats.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:58 PM
1

STD's. And antibiotics counteract BC. I'm curious to read your experience on askmrp this summer.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:56 PM
1

It doesn't feel that much better than using a condom. If you really want to raw dog and cream pie a hole, use her mouth or asshole.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:55 PM
2

Attraction for your LTR is a great thing. Most women have self esteem issues so they'll work harder to keep you if you make them feel wanted and sexy. The extreme oneitis part is the problem. Women like to be admired but being obsessed with her is a huge turn off as it displays low value, as in, you can't get girls like her. NEVER make her feel like she's out of your league. Make her feel sexy by slapping her ass and dicking her down really good, but don't ever say anything like, "I don't know h…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:51 PM
1

It could be a good thing as in, women being around you makes them feel comfortable and "child-like". If you don't like it then just call them out on it.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:44 PM
2

Women can't handle rejection so this is why they never approach men and why some won't initiate sex. If you want girls pushing you onto the bed and pulling your pants off against your will, then aim to be top 1% or sell hard drugs. Also, after a while, you won't want the girl to be initiating. Believe me, if you could have sex all the time, you wouldn't want sex all the time. My last LTR initiated more than me but it feels bad when you have to let her down sometimes. Their self esteem gets all s…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:42 PM
1

The quicker the better. I don't like texting, so I will make my intention known early on to save time.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:27 PM
3

I'd lean towards same day unless you're meeting up in the morning. There's nothing low value about confirming. Impress that your time is valuable.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:25 PM
1

If you're comfortable with yourself then yea I can see the tables being turned as a great way of having variety and it displays high confidence. If you're comfortable with plate, then just communicate more on what you both like and what you'd both like to try.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:22 PM
2

Woman love feelz, and being around the dead is a great way to feel alive. Seems like a decent way to get her blood pumping if you are able to work with it.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:19 PM
4

A 10 minute meditation before a date will do so much more for you than rubbing one out. Use your sexual energy to be hungry for the lay, but never thirsty. Hungry: can eat, but can go a week or two without food. Thirsty: I need water now! Pee in a cup so I can drink your urine!
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:17 PM
1

Who? /s But yep, great pop culture example.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:12 PM
1

Watch The Matrix. When people are plugged in and you "disturb" their reality, they will defend with all their might. So no, you don't want to call your friends out. When they come to you and ask for advice, then you can share your insight. But even then, you can't expect them to agree or follow through.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:11 PM
1

I'm a bit of an asshole in a sense that I'll end conversations when I'm not interested or I'll interrupt people when they're talking to change the subject. But I do this so that I'm actually interested in them, which is a heck of a lot better than pretending you are, cause people can always tell. Therefore, I am the messiah, i am their savior. I am the alpha and omega. Aka.. lead the conversation.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:07 PM
2

Be girl. Inviting an unknown human larger and much stronger than you to your safe and comfortable space. Half of the shit on Netflix is serial murder crap, which all girls love, but can freak them out. You want to have sex with a girl who is cool inviting random strangers to her home? Man, offer to pick her up, pick up some drive through ice cream, and have a chat in the car for 15 mins then escalate to her place. The god damn mindset of some of y'all's I swear.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:02 PM
1

If you're a father then your answer is "always".
/r/askTRP26/02/21 12:56 PM
1

It's hard to give anyone advice who makes excuses for not approaching. Being too scared to get told "sorry I'm not interested" by someone half your size just tells me everything I need to know about your level of dedication or lack there of.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 12:55 PM
2

Yep it was cool. It was in a hussle / edgy city so it was interesting meeting all kinds of characters. My position was commission based so it was real useful learning sales techniques. Also, super cool being able to print free stuff. I had some awesome art hung up in my bedroom.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 12:50 PM
1

Cool man. Happy to hear you're planning on reading.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 12:45 PM
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If you can bring plates over to your moms then definitely stay. Investing 1 year of your life in order to gain such a valuable life long asset is a great idea. If you're in your 20's, then having your own house during your 30's and beyond is setting you up for an easier ride down the line. Unless you are completely miserable at your moms, then you should move out cause imo, mental health is always more important than money.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 12:43 PM
1

Neil Strauss has 2 novels / autobiographies with solid examples of a fun and attractive mindset. Meditation helps a ton with this. I definitely feel more "child-like" with meditation.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 12:39 PM
1

A good way to reassure yourself of your beliefs is to be open minded of the opposite sides ideas, and conclude that you for sure disagree with them. How do I know that the earth is round? Cause the flat earthers "proof" is all jokes.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 12:36 PM
2

I used to work at a print shop and I'd tell girls that I "made people's vision come to life".
/r/askTRP26/02/21 12:33 PM
1

Do your parents have money? Cause privilege behavior is a thing, and it displays high value. But this is obviously a shit test and taking anything from a girl at face value is failing the shit test. Just say "yea Elon Musk is my dad, but I'm legally not allowed to say that in writing".
/r/askTRP26/02/21 12:31 PM
7

There's so many things you can do that you aren't doing now. Sleep should be priority. 1-3mg melatonin + ZMA. I light a scented candle before bed and use a weighted blanket. Do what you gotta do. As much as you focus on boosting T, also focus on lowering Cortisol. Meditation, massages, journaling, hot baths with bath bombs if that's your thing. Overall diet, vitamin D, animal based foods: eggs, red meat, high fat foods: avocado, peanuts, olive oil, fish. Avoid alcohol and sugar. I personally get…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 12:26 PM
1

Yep that's cool. The important thing is you didn't take it at face value.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 12:18 PM
1

Tell her that for the new quarter, you are looking to improve safety in the workplace. Tell her hard hats are also required, and then smack her on the head. But seriously, just put on a condom and if she brings it up, just say, "let's just be safe". She might call you out on it and ask if you don't trust her, but just say you'd rather be safe from now on. Also, raw dogging a plate is just retarted. Even if you're supervising her taking the BC pill every day, she can still take the antibiotics th…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 12:14 PM
2

All women like to poke (shit tests), but these girls are just running over you. The "professional" type that you say are giving you attention are honestly like that with everyone. It says more about them than it says about you. Your problem is you have no game, you have no chaos, zero edge, insecurity and confidence issues that you are trying to overcompensate by having more material stuff. iow, you're rock bottom boring.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 12:07 PM
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Maybe your last name sucks or she just loves hers. But imo, if a woman wants to traditionally get married, then she better commit to all the traditions. If you settle for less then that's 100% on you.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 11:57 AM
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David Fucking Goggins. Man, if his book doesn't make you want to climb Everest then you need to flip the book cause you've been holding it upside down. OP, David Goggins was an overweight loser who one day decided to lose 100 lbs in 3 months to become a Navy SEAL. and OP, if you're gonna cry, "but I can't work and exercise it's too much", then go hear Arnold Schwarzenegger's story. 3 hours at the gym, 8 hours of construction work, and night classes for acting. Every day.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 11:52 AM
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Blessing for sure. If high value people are your competition then you're going to be more motivated to boost your value to match up. If anything, moving to a different area will offer new perspectives which is essential for growth and improvement.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 11:44 AM
1

Sorry to hear that. If you can move, you should.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 11:41 AM
1

Are you Neil Strauss? Author of "The Game" and "The Truth?" Seriously, I'm in the middle of reading "The Truth" and you've basically just outlined the authors issues. Quick plot description: Neil is a well known pick-up artist but he becomes aware that he has severe commitment issues. He finds someone who he really wants to be with, but continues to cheat on her and wonders if he's just doomed for life. He goes to rehab where he realizes his issues and attempts to overcome his childhood trauma. …
/r/askTRP26/02/21 11:40 AM
2

You've already started the pill. Sorting out your mental issues is now part of the journey and a great first step. I'm sorry about your mental health. I'm happy to live in a generation where we are now aware of these issues. I personally suffer from anxiety occasionally, but my daughters mom has diagnosed depression and chronic anxiety. She sees a therapist and takes meds for it, and my cousin who was my role model growing up has schizophrenia. The only things I hate in this world are mental hea…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 11:31 AM
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You have 2 problems in this post. First is your mental health. Having these concerns in your LTR while dealing with personal mental health issues is just a bad feedback loop. Ideally in an LTR, you want to be your "best". It's SO god damn easy to peddle down the beta stream, and then just look around one day and wonder how the hell you ended up in a situation where you're getting divorce raped and losing custody of your kids. Don't LTR if you're not mentally "there" (and arguably, LTR is advance…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 11:22 AM
1

It seems like something you will always be dealing with because you put a lot of value into being THE alpha male. You're basically a group of monkeys trying to decide who gets the first banana. And if I put some thought into it, I feel like always having to prove that you're THE alpha in the group comes across as insecure. If you and those you're around are always competing with each other, then how can you help each other out? It seems like there'd be more sabotaging and ill intentions. I think…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 10:55 AM
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Man just stop making excuses. Take ownership for everything. Your life is 100% your responsibility. And just to inspire you a bit more, I'll share with you a 6 month beginning and end from a period in my life. December: worst month of my life. Severe anxiety and depression. I'd just quit a decent job because I couldn't stand one more day of the new manager. Living with mom. PMO multiple times a day. Playing video games all day, binging Netflix all night. Extremely addicted to e-cigs. Disposable …
/r/askTRP26/02/21 10:43 AM
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You're in the right place. Attractive guys who stumble onto this sub go, "wait, guys don't know this stuff?" And then move on. I'm not the most attractive either. I have a pointy nose, natural bags under my eyes, and racially a minority, but that doesn't stop me from spinning plates with girls who others consider "out of my league" or developing by body enough where I get steady IOI's. There's some UGLY guys out there, but they're jacked and have a great sense of humor, so they TONS of ass.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 10:23 AM
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I think what OP is saying is that they only communicated via the dating app and she deleted the interaction when she unmatched so he doesn't have any hard proof.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 10:16 AM
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OP, you're reasonable to be worried about a false rape charge accusation. I just came from the post from the dude who got threatened for a rape charge from their ex. Most likely, like everyone said, she's just cheating. All she did was destroy the evidence of any interaction between you. Always try and get the "I had a good time last night (;" text, but unfortunately, if you have no way of contacting her now, then you just have to move on and try vetting your girls more.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 10:14 AM
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It shouldn't be very expensive to have a lawyer mail her a "cease and desist or else" letter.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 10:06 AM
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Or her new boyfriend found out so she lied and accused rape in order to prevent the responsibility of dishonor.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 10:05 AM
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1) vet for red flags. Err on the side of caution and always ask yourself, could this girl false rape charge or baby trap me? 2) before penetrating, always ask, "are you sure?" If she is recording then you have her consent on tape. Also, even verbally just giving permission shifts the subconscious enough to prevent buyers remorse the following day. 3) *fish for a "thanks, I had a good time" text, *either later that night or the following morning. If you're a judge, and a rape victim texted the su…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 10:03 AM
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The thing is, you should always assume worst case scenario. ALWAYS err on the side of caution. OP should be fine because the girl continued contact after they met up. Video recording in the bedroom without the others consent could be illegal but it depends on which state or country it took place. Also, if a girl is going to report you, she most likely will just do it, and not give you a courtesy warning about it. *Guys, PSA: make it a hard habit to always ask if the girl is sure, right before yo…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:53 AM
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Whenever someone makes any accusation like that, immediately stop contact. Any word and letter you say from then will be used against you. Hopefully she is bluffing and is just fucked enough of a person to try and rattle your fathers like this, but 100% always protect yourself. 100% go and get consultations from lawyers now. Let them know that you've been threatened to be pressed charges against and what you should now to prepare yourself in case the cops come to your door. There's detailed post…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:42 AM
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I feel like almost all of the hard lessons and beliefs I've gained in the years since I've known of TRP have been because of experience. Like I knew not to stick my dick in crazy, but I didn't preach and fully apply it until I'd gotten one pregnant. So I'd tell myself to continue to experience life. Rejection is better than regret so go ahead and talk to the cute girls and make those embarrassing mistakes. I grow better because of them. If I could talk to my 22yo self I would choke hold until he…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:36 AM
1

30, but I focus more on chest dips, incline press, and cable flyes for strength and size development. I would like to focus more on "endurance" and be able to hit 100, but until recently I was very flat chested, so muscle size is my priority right now.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 08:54 PM
1

I don't see meditation as "spiritual" really. It's actually all mental. Noticeable positive changes, mentally. A healthy sleep schedule should be your priority. You can write down every positive action people are posting in the comments, then go ahead and cross them off if your sleep is shit.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 08:51 PM
1

No. Guy brags about having girls = cringey, try hard, etc. Girl brags about being proposed to = wow! Omg congrats! How wonderful!
/r/askTRP25/02/21 08:45 PM
1

I'd probably set up something quick with low expectations. You can spit your game and make a move if there's IOI's. When you meet up honestly don't even acknowledge the boyfriend. Treat it as any other Tinder meet. If you don't bring up the bf and she don't and you f-close, then it's not your problem. But imo, a girl who was happily taken wouldn't of even replied to your text, so if she meets, I'm sure she's wondering if something "might just happen". Maybe try offering extra plausible deniabili…
/r/askTRP25/02/21 08:43 PM
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I guess, but I've never been in a situation like that. All I gotta say is to make sure that you're checking other indicators of red flags. And if you're looking for virgins then prepare for stiff starfish sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/21 06:30 PM
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And woman know this so they're going to lie to you 100% of the time. You wanna ask them, go ahead, but at as well ask how many lies she's ever told and how many times she's said God's name in vain. Seriously dude, just drop it. If I were a girl and my n-count was 50, and some dude asked me, and I said 10, and he got insecure and fussy over it I'd laugh and gtfo.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/21 06:09 PM
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Yep, move out. Best decision I ever made. Also, you have insecurity issues. Her n-count is 2 and you're having anxiety over it? Your LTR is communicating to you what she likes to help YOU out. If being dominant in bed isn't your cup of tea then do her a favor and end things so she can find a compatible sexual partner. If the only thing limiting the 2 of you from being happy and satisfied is you watching a few YouTube videos on bondage and buying a rope then just do it. She's not asking to penetr…
/r/askTRP25/02/21 06:01 PM
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NO. The way I see it.. a girl with daddy issues, full time on onlyfans, alpha widowed, but her n-count is less than 10 will, on average, have more red flags vs. a regular girl with a healthy father, doesn't have onlyfans, has not been in abusive relationships, but has an n-count of 20-30. Also, why would a girl ever tell you her actual n-count? Is her hand on the Bible? At the end of the day, why would n-count matter if her answer is always going to be a lie? If your only vetting process is aski…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/21 05:32 PM
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In 6 months, she could be singing the tune to her friends of, "yea when he started he pushed too hard and hurt himself. But look at him now! I didn't think he could look like that so quickly!"
/r/askMRP25/02/21 03:31 AM
2

Social circle game, networking, non nightclub night game.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 07:30 PM
2

I don't have the most accurate advice as my preference is multiple girlfriends / long term sexual relationships. Ideally at a night out, you want to open multiple women. Build those instant relationships and feel them out. Then once you feel like closing, pick one you want to try and escalate with. A lot of girls won't want to f-close hours after meeting someone. Yes, grab their number and hit them up in the next few days. Keep in mind that if you open a girl at a nightclub and get her number, s…
/r/askTRP24/02/21 06:55 PM
8

It's hard to imagine many guys being chosen over Jason Statham if he was at that bar.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 04:31 PM
1

It seems like you need more time boosting attraction before getting into bed. My game is usually to meet up in public, ( I'm careful about who I want in my house) k-close, and then escalate back to my place. By the time we're in the bedroom they've already decided that they want to fuck me. Also, are you push/pulling at all? To get the girl, you have to be willing to lose her. If a girl is pushing your hand away when you try to rub her clit, you HAVE to be able to say, "are you uncomfortable? I …
/r/askTRP24/02/21 04:23 PM
2

4 month monk mode very recently. Friend of friend hit me up for drinks. I actually had to mentally drag myself to follow through because I'd been so hyper focused on my mission and goals that I felt like if I f-closed with the girl, I'd be too tired the next day to hit the gym / work on my goals. I met up with her and honestly, it was unexciting. During our date she'd say shit like, "you know, you don't have to keep peaking my interest, you already have me." I f-closed and I was hoping I'd be re…
/r/askTRP24/02/21 04:12 PM
1

You're gonna keep looking back all your life and regretting the same things if you stay in the same place. The truth is, you're going to keep making mistakes all your life, as long as you keep bettering yourself. Honestly, beta mistakes from relationships are the last thing keeping me up at night. Being harshly rejected in front of my friends, or regretting opportunities that I didn't take, or kicking myself for taking an unnecessary rest day are all the main negative thoughts I have. LTR's are …
/r/askTRP24/02/21 03:56 PM
1

It's not a bad idea if you're top 5% in looks.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 03:45 PM
2

OP, you would benefit a lot from reading "The Game". It is a bit outdated but it is an amazing read for understanding dynamics, frame, and overall what a "pick up artist" used to be. I remember audio reading this book on my way to an out of town music festival and I ended up approaching all kinds of people. And what you're describing is ONS. You need to really understand what this means because ONS requires a certain scene, mindset, type of girl, etc. Everything moves at hyper speed: escalation,…
/r/askTRP24/02/21 03:43 PM
1

Figuratively pat them on their uncombed head and say, "there there young man, it's time for your nap."
/r/askTRP24/02/21 03:33 PM
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You have 2 pretty solid options. 1) you can just tell your parents that a friend is coming over to hang out. Frame it as not a big deal. They'll probably know but 20 yrs old is old enough to be doing adult things. 2) sneak her in. Know when your parents go to bed and bring her in when they're sleeping. If you get "caught", just own it. I have to say though, do yourself a favor and meet this girl in public first and vet her for red flags. The last thing you want is a girl in your house starting p…
/r/askTRP24/02/21 03:23 PM
3

My first big RP sacrifice was breaking up with a 5 year LTR on a whim. She was actually a pretty good LTR, but I wanted to spin plates. I've quit 2 jobs, I've moved out of state, twice. The most recent and even harder decision was moving away from my daughter for work and to escape BPD baby mamma. I didn't see my kid for 4 months but, during this time I regrouped and completely readjusted the playing field so that I set myself up to have everything I want.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 03:18 PM
2

Obsession is a red flag
/r/askTRP23/02/21 08:45 PM
7

Phone number. It's harder to ask for but you should do it because it sets a more direct intention and the fact that it's harder makes it more of an "alpha" move.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 06:28 PM
1

It sounds like an anxiety issue on her part. Like she can't handle meeting someone new at a new place. She can only handle places she's been. Next time just talk on the phone for logistics. You can catch her "vibe" much better.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 06:19 PM
1

It was just a seed I planted. Around the time when my boss told me to take a covid test but refused to pay for it. I'd put in hundreds of applications for months with no offers. I figured my only chance to regain my soul was to move back to my hometown and hit up past employers for a job, plus other connections. My plan was to provoke my boss to fire me so I could collect unemployment while I job searched. Moving away from my daughter was just something I'd have to deal with, although distancing…
/r/askTRP23/02/21 06:17 PM
1

Honestly that's my lifestyle objective as well. Having multiple quality girlfriends that know about each other, but are willing to share you. I love the difficulty of it, but browse TRP long enough and you'll know it's possible.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 04:55 PM
1

At most I can agree that a girl will want to LTR someone taller than them. But, between a boring tall guy and a short Chad, she'll deep throat the Chad 100%
/r/askTRP23/02/21 04:52 PM
1

He's so controversial because he's mainstream. Especially with his recent rehab, all his work and teachings is being shit on. But I read a lesson about him about power and it literally changed my life. He says, "power, is the father who walks away from his family." And it just affected me so much that I quit my job and moved away from my daughter and mom for a bit because I was living my life under the thumb of my toxic boss and BPD baby momma. Literally living off my credit card. Overworked and…
/r/askTRP23/02/21 04:14 PM
1

If you're the same chum you were last year then you're 100% going to repeat the same behavior. If you want to plate your old oneitis then fine, it's not completely impossible, but wtf has changed? Your SMV went up by 2-3 numbers and you've fucked 20 new girls since then, right?
/r/askTRP23/02/21 04:08 PM
1

But like, wtf do YOU want? Do you want to f-close? Spin as plate? If so then just set up a meet. Escalate and f-close. Why all this wishy washy textathon? You can't f-close if she don't want to meet so then hard next if she flakes.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 04:06 PM
1

Yup exactly. Being responsible, and decently charismatic and outgoing already puts you in the top. Only problem is that more women will want to tie you down, since you're a male unicorn. So handle "the talk" and get a vasectomy. The only problem with my female friend is that she branch swings too quick. Obviously an insecurity issue. She was hanging out already 1 on 1 with her new boyfriend before she ended things with her last boyfriend. If she would just learn to be ok with being single for a …
/r/askTRP23/02/21 04:02 PM
1

"Things not working out with her baby daddy" is a red flag, so not all of your boxes are ticked. Only "pass" I can think of is if she's a widow, but then she's always going to be mourning the ex so that's not even acceptable. I don't man, if she's a plate then why LTR? Explain to me what you have to gain. If you have this quality plate, then why not just stick to plating and spin even more quality plates.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 03:55 PM
3

First of all don't ever consider someone LtR mAtErIaL until you've played for six months. Getting oneitis for someone you didn't even kiss is really just a sad low budget Netflix film. All that should matter is "can I escalate things with this girl to f-close?" Especially if she's moving out of town, push harder for a rejection. "I like you" is such a wannabe boyfriend move. Did I bring up already that she's leaving town so all you can hope for is at least 1 f-close? Cut all that talk. Next time…
/r/askTRP23/02/21 03:46 PM
6

Being confident in approaching people (not just girls for their numbers) opens up a million doors. I've gotten well paid jobs because I start conversations with random people at the gym.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 03:40 PM
1

So then aim for perfect if you feel like that's what it takes to get women. /s Yes, women have an abundance of attention and validation, but women also want dick! That's right. Women want to be dicked down, and dicked down good. And who's doing the dicking down? Dudes who are not making these dumbass excuses! Dudes who dick down are dudes who know that girls want to get dicked down. And then another thing to realize is that almost all women are insecure. Getting 10,000 likes on Instagram with ph…
/r/askTRP23/02/21 03:36 PM
3

Crabs in a bucket. Unavoidable unless your childhood friends rise up with you but extremely unlikely. This is nothing new and it is why RP tells you not to go digging through the trash when you raise your SMV to try and ask girls out again who've rejected you. Honestly it's best to just ditch them and find new circles that match your league. You can hang out with the old friends once a year but it'll end up just being a reminder as to why you stopped hanging out with them in the first place.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 03:18 PM
2

Dudes be getting girls like this but then put their hands on their hips and go, "but I don't like how their n-count is in the double digits, hm". A) you settle for experienced girls with high n-counts and accept that she probably has a high n-count but you don't care cause it really doesn't matter. And they're more likely older too. B) you train them. Requires patience. Requires knowing how to manage your bitches. Arguably a step up from plate status, pushing on FWB. C) LTR. Escalate from vanill…
/r/askTRP23/02/21 03:13 PM
1

Not with that "repair the damage" mindset. Wouldn't it be awesome if you had an LTR who continued to support you and love you, even when you weren't at 100%? Or am I just daydreaming again? Or in Tumblr terms, "I you don't love me at my worst, then you don't deserve me at my best." Aren't we the prize or something?
/r/askTRP23/02/21 03:04 PM
1

There's OP, and then there's not remembering if you put on deodorant with the last girl who was over.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 03:01 PM
1

Dread game should be your main tool. But also, the strong want to keep something from leaving is actually working against you. It promotes neediness, insecurity, and scarcity. Even if you don't consciously agree, your subconscious has a voice, and it speaks through your micro expressions and it influences your behaviors, actions, and reactions. Keep boosting your SMV, keep gaming other women.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 02:58 PM
1

This just seems like a "being struck my lightning" situation, if you're not regarded. I keep repeating this in multiple askTRP posts but the best way to minimize the chances of a worst case scenario happening is to first meet in public and vet properly for red flags. I'm willing to bet that if that guy you know who was killed was asked if there were any red flags, he'd be like, "well now that i think about it.."
/r/askTRP23/02/21 02:53 PM
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Hey OP, you can PM me if you want. I've been through the exact same shit as you, only I share a daughter with her, so I can't 100% block her. But some things you can do now is to just gtfo of social media. If you're gonna get all triggered from a photo then go off grid for a while. Just deactivate all your shit. Social media is a waste of time, regardless of whatever situation you're in. If you have to, then move somewhere else for a bit. Change your number. You're a victim of domestic abuse, so…
/r/askTRP23/02/21 02:48 PM
1

Is it your LTR on Valentine's Day? Or a ONS? If the latter then gtfo
/r/askTRP23/02/21 02:33 PM
1

Then use the search bar or go to a different sub or website. TRP is how to get laid, not therapy 101. Sorry to be harsh but although mental issues aren't your fault, it's 100% your responsibility. Own your shit.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 02:32 PM
1

Obvious butthurt response from you. Obvious display of low value. The girl is glad that she didn't have to waste time meeting you to decide she doesn't want to fuck you. Yes, be the one to make the decisions but still, be open minded. You never know, you might find a cool new place you can start taking dates to. And at the end of the day, "no thank you, have a nice day" is a WAY BETTER response than some butthurt shit.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 02:30 PM
1

The only people who put height on a pedestal are short dudes. If you want to "pass on women or date around" then start with a decent frame. Stop looking at other dudes dicks at the urinal.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 02:12 PM
1

Lmao, weeks of eye contact. So romantic. OP, say "hi" you autist.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 02:09 PM
2

PSA: so many recent posts of dudes with mental issues. Mods, we need to consider a sidebar post to address this. Non-professionals trying to give advice can't be a good idea.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 02:06 PM
3

Smells like oneitis.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 01:59 PM
1

If she was born in California state then she has a social security. She doesn't need a green card. Also, why are you asking her all these pointless questions like how many guys she's been with? Listen to her actions, not her words. What probably happened was that you popped up in her "recommended friends" list (even if you have zero mutual friends, you can still pop up), she was curious and stalked your page and liked what she saw. Based on all the red flags, I would 100% not hit that again unle…
/r/askTRP23/02/21 01:58 PM
2

Twice in my life I've jotted down my honest goals / dream lifestyle, packed my shit into my 2 door coupe, and stuck out my middle finger while driving far away. When in doubt just change everything. Change your environment. Move out of your hometown. Throw out everything that brings any kind of negative feeling.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 01:41 PM
3

Most of them are very insecure. Search "how to get laid like a warlord"
/r/askTRP23/02/21 01:34 PM
2

General warehouse / labor.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 01:31 PM
1

OP if you're not trolling, then go to the unethicalLPT sub and stop embarrassing yourself. Nobody here is going to encourage low value behavior.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 01:31 PM
2

First of all, congrats. That's a very big jump in income. I'd say don't change too much until you have 3 months with the company. Worst thing you can do is sign a lease for an apartment, get the new car and end up losing the job. Be skeptical. 75K is nice, but if it's salary and you're working 80 hours / week = $18 / hour. 3 months is long enough to gauge what your budget actually is, and to know if you'll even like this company. Some people, after some time, would rather drop their salary to 40…
/r/askTRP23/02/21 01:27 PM
1

The answer is no in your case. Ask her again and you'll just double down on your neediness and oneitis.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 01:12 PM
2

It'd have been much more effective if you got the confidence boost from the IOI's vs you reporting to your LTR "Look! Look! Other females sometimes give me attention!" So yeah, never brag. Always let preselection speak for itself.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 01:09 PM
3

It's part of the pill swallowing process to feel this way. It sounds nice making 6 figures a year by spending a few hours / week taking nude photos.. but I don't know about y'all but I personally love the feeling of accomplishment. I love the fact that I'm setting up my 30's to be more fulfilling than my 20's and then my 40's to be even better than my 30's. I'm very excited for my upcoming decades of self-made happiness and genuine peace with myself.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 01:05 PM
1

Yep it will happen. It could be symptoms of her soon bringing up "The Talk". Be ready to point to the door and be ok with her walking away.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 12:55 PM
1

It could be a comfort / trust issue as to why she feels she can't be open with you. If you don't know how to build trust / comfort then you can't LTR.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 12:52 PM
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If you're scared of canceling a date cause of what the girl might feel then that is a problem. It sounds like the risk is greater than the reward (that you don't even want). If you're going to move forward and you trust this plate, you can ask her straight out if she has any symptoms or has been around anyone with symptoms. It's not gay to be safe bro. We can argue about covid and how serious it is, but, almost all of the people I know in their 20's who have had covid with symptoms have told me …
/r/askTRP23/02/21 12:50 PM
2

Again, your first will always stick in your mind more than the others. I'll admit that I look up my first's IG page like once a year to see if she's as cute as I remember (she's not lol). I'm willing to bet that if you were to have that same experience again today, it would really disappoint you. You have to believe that you remember the interaction a lot better than it actually was. Also, deepthroating is actually a skill that could be learned. All girls have different levels of gag reflex, so …
/r/askTRP23/02/21 12:36 PM
3

No one can expect anyone here to look like Arnie in his prime, but to get fat translates that your overall house is very out of order. If you can't even maintain an average body weight then why should anyone bother giving you career advice? At least go for a 15 minute walk right now. After you've taken the walk, go on Craigslist and apply / call for warehouse positions. My cousin has schizophrenia and walks out of every job after a few days but he can still land a job in less than a day.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 12:29 PM
1

marriedrp has some good "mature" advice once in a while. Obviously centered generally for dads, husbands, and divorced men, but it'd be a good idea to browse once in a while. Also askmarriedrp. Great reference on why to never get divorced and to get a vasectomy yesterday.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 12:21 PM
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Yea, seems normal for that kind of interaction. There's girls I've slept with that I don't remember the names of half the time, even though I've seen them more than once. The problem is that "you never forget your first" so you'll be thinking of this for a while from now on. It also doesn't get much more casual and exciting than a quickie at a nightclub bathroom. Try not to let that set the bar.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 12:17 PM
1

The god damn trust some girls place on their secret partners.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 12:12 PM
1

Happy to help. Last tip, it's a great idea to get together with a bro and go out to the city or nice looking park and just take some photos of each other. Completely social distancing, get some fresh air, and have some good organic shots of yourself.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 12:10 PM
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Any photo can seem try hard. Take like 15 of the same set and go with the most organic looking one. I would completely forget whatever advice some 15 yo's told you, you aren't trying to plate 15 yo's I hope. Honestly OP just Google "attractive Asian tinder pics" / profiles. Save some shots that align with your personality, then set up a shoot or 2 in the next few weeks.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 12:07 PM
1

Your description reads like the basic female tinder bios we all roll our eyes at. Just put "looking for connections and to live a fun life" or sumtin. Your photos are obviously low effort. Take a lifting photo from a good angle and great lighting. Then, have a professional photo of you in a suit or dressed up. Maybe a group photo of you with hot girls.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 11:58 AM
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The 4's are good to have for when the 7+'s all flake and you don't want to go home empty handed. Believe it or not, having any girls available helps with abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 11:53 AM
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In your case, yes. The 9 month dry spell is messing with your frame and a great way to address that is to just fuck one of the 4's. I was just in a 4 month monk mode / dry spell to handle some big recent changes like a custody agreement, new job, relocated out of town, etc. Now that the dust has settled and everything is aligned how I want, I'd been asking myself if the 4 month dry spell was a monk mode thing or was I just cockblocking myself and making excuses? A HB5 hit me up for drinks a few …
/r/askTRP23/02/21 11:50 AM
2

"The Game" is a bit out-dated in terms of content of the approaches being too well known and obvious nowadays but it's still a recommended read for knowing what vibe you should have when gaming. I listened to this book on my way to an out of town festival a few years ago and it pumped me up enough to approach a ton of people that night. For overall Charisma, I recommend "The Charisma Myth". It's not a novel and a bit methodical but very effective, has some great tips on frame.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 11:33 AM
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It could've just been an exaggeration OP. If I couldn't go to the gym in a year I'd say, "I can't wait until gyms are open, I'm gonna be there 3 hours a day!"
/r/askTRP23/02/21 11:28 AM
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Yup, exactly. It's comical. I know that she's definitely wishing that the current guy had the last guys job + car + overall sense of responsibility.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 11:25 AM
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It just seems like self esteem issues. Not a lot you can do on your end besides besides keep holding frame and know how to pass comfort tests once in a while. Don't simp for her, but it would benefit you both well if you nudged her towards being more confident: going to the gym together a few times, meal prepping together, etc.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:39 PM
1

Always just respect your boy. You don't have to stop being yourself because if you're just naturally respectful towards him, then it already makes him look good that he's getting respect from a high value man.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/21 02:35 PM
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Never opt for "the one". At least settle for multiple girlfriends. A mans strength is in abundance mentality, so when you just have the one and you show it, it ironically turns girls off because it removes preselection.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:28 PM
2

Cooking in my air fryer
/r/askTRP20/02/21 11:28 PM
1

I don't know where you heard that but it's ridiculous. Kissing is the first step towards sex. You have to kiss to have sex. Are y'all doing anal on the first date without having kissed yet? Lmao
/r/askTRP19/02/21 07:40 PM
1

Monk mode is useful at certain times, but it can certainly disconnect you from reality.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 05:32 PM
4

Yeah bro just breathe and relax. You're okay right now. You are not out in the wilderness with a lion on your ass. You are safe, you're okay. Do not compare your lives to others. You'd be surprised at most peoples lives when you look under the curtain. Delete social media and stop paying attention to others. Write down your current objectives, however big or small they are. Just jot them down so you have it down on paper and not bouncing around in your head like a ping pong machine. Now, ask you…
/r/askTRP19/02/21 05:31 PM
1

I don't buy it. If that actually happened to Chad, she'd be all "omg I'm so sorry, I laid down to close my eyes for a bit but I fell asleep and didn't set an alarm. Plz don't hate me! Let me make it up to you please!"
/r/askTRP19/02/21 05:23 PM
2

Yup, it's a balance. And the difficult realization is that when we go "monk mode" or find our mission and go full throttle towards it, we tend to somewhat lose our spirit, because it doesn't benefit us in that moment. So a few months later when we raise our head up after keeping it down to hyper focus on our goals, we become hollow, and we have a great report card to show for it, but a gold cup is still an empty cup.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 05:21 PM
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Yes, as adults we get less of a pass for doing "bad things", or like you said, we can't bust all nighters anymore. But the creativity and outcome independence has to still be there. I'd rather come across as immature and goofy vs. boring and basic.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 04:44 PM
1

First off, change your mindset about a girl being an "easy lay". In your situation, you're using that as an excuse to not apply game and build attraction. Don't expect the girl to lead, that is your job. You need to read the room (car) when you want to go for the kiss. It should feel organic, but you're always going to need to take that leap of faith to go for it. But I can say that if she's reclined back to the car door with her arms crossed then I would either consider ending the date soon, or…
/r/askTRP19/02/21 04:40 PM
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Did you follow up before she was supposed to show up? "Gimme a call if you get lost." Maybe she Google mapped your house and wasn't impressed or Chad hit her up. Regardless, flaking is disrespectful and I would hard next for sure.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 04:26 PM
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Hard to tell what happened but I bet you can grab a pen and paper and jot down 5 things you could improve on based on the date. It could've been that she wasn't happy with her haircut and was thinking about it the whole time. Just shrug it off and move on. You got a date and that already puts you miles in front of most guys.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 04:24 PM
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I pull a lot of reference to when I was a teenager and I had to be extra creative with dates cause I always had less than $20 to last me the whole weekend. Sneaking in to movie theaters, night swims at the high school pool, or just going somewhere with a view. "Fun" isn't a location, it's your frame.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 04:19 PM
1

IMO mistakes are fine. We're human and you shouldn't feel too bad about them. It's repeated mistakes that it the problem, so try to only put value on that.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 04:15 PM
1

Rejection is better than regret. "Alpha males don't go for the kiss if she's not looking for anything serious" ^ this advice is 100% BS. "Alpha males" go for the kiss if they feel like it. OP what are your intentions / goals? Do you want plates? I always go for the kiss on the first date, unless I'm personally not interested in them or they're clearly not interested in me. My time is valuable and I know I want plates who are attracted to me, and if a girl will not kiss me on the first date then …
/r/askTRP19/02/21 04:12 PM
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Yeah, just escalate from first touching to PiV. Be aware of her reactions and just read the room. Keep pushing until you get a physical rejection, and try again later if you're comfortable. If she's into you then things should just "click". Don't overthink it, have fun.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 04:05 PM
3

Put a lot more attention into plating new girls. Once your mind is busy with new prospects, you'll stop giving a shit about how one of them is behaving. She'll work harder to get your attention.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 04:01 PM
1

Meditation, lifting.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:59 PM
2

In the past few months I've achieved the "skill" of being "okay" without pussy. And godamit if it isn't the most freeing experience in the world. Over Valentine's Day weekend I visited some friends and holy smack, it was so god damn refreshing and eye opening seeing all my friends being so "needy" in meeting up with their dates and being overly attached. Like, pay attention to people around you and try and figure out if they are genuinely happy with themselves. Full disclosure bro, I was as horn…
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:56 PM
4

Yup, ask her out immediately. There were a ton of girls from HS who were interested in me but my blue pill ass wanted to be friends with them and not be too forward or direct. Now, literally all of them I have not spoken to in years and they are now much heavier or have started families. Again, in a few years you are never going to talk to any HS people ever again, so just be direct and escalate.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:40 PM
1

Try and build professional confidence. What are your strengths and why should the company be grateful to have you? And then everyone has weaknesses so be honest with yourself and work to improve on those. When there's a problem at work, always own up to it and get in front of it. When presenting a problem, offer a solution. "Hey boss, just to keep you in the loop, the machine is down. The technician says it will be ready on X. Meanwhile I could use this time to focus on Y and Z." It's better to …
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:35 PM
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Do it now OP. Your time is valuable and you do not have time to wait days to see if a girl is interested in you or not. There's other girls in line so you need to move through your list productively. Or at least this should always be your mentality, even if you're a kiss less virgin.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:29 PM
3

Decent exchange for a beginner so don't feel bad. Maybe too much back and forth before stating your intention. I don't think there's anything wrong with first asking if the girl is interested in meeting up before setting the actual date. If a girl has zero interest and she gets a "meet me at X at Ypm, wear a red dress" text she's just going to laugh her ass off. Your intention should be to find out if the girl is even interested or not. A solid indication for this is for you to offer a day and t…
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:26 PM
6

So you're boring, uncreative, and like to succumb to excuses. Jot down 3 ways you can fix each one of these and you will have boosted your SMV. But seriously OP, can you fly a kite at your local park? Even drive through Starbucks and sitting in your car chatting (vetting) is decent. Obviously we're all in a great situation where leading girls to our homes is much more acceptable due to lockdown, so just Google "open public shit near me" and jot down 5 random things you can do for 15-30 minutes b…
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:17 PM
6

OP, just go to a doctor.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:06 PM
1

Just ask for her number next time so you aren't staring at your phone for days. Be the one in control. But with any tinder interactions, all you should care about is meeting up, as soon as possible, cause there's girls who will try and string you along for weeks without any intention of meeting up so try not to waste your time.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:05 PM
2

Facebook groups could be a solid start.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:01 PM
5

The main important part is that you have some personal issues you need to resolve because it comes to a point where your baggage is resulting in your relationships doing things like this, or you're just attracting these types of girls. I don't think I would ever even consider going through an LTR's phone more than once, for the same dude. Truthfully, all the suspicious activity would just turn me off where I wouldn't give a shit anymore and just end things. Even if she's 100% cheating, she has 5…
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:00 PM
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All of these questions should be posted on the personal finance sub. But if I were you I would definitely take some college courses on business. Life changes and you won't be able to rely on 2 media platforms in 10 years. You should learn the tools to be able to jump in the wagon the next time a new app comes around. But definitely learn to protect your assets. Money is a target. Especially for someone your age.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 02:41 PM
1

I personally am only comfortable crying by myself or to a close family member. I don't feel like anyone else genuinely cares about me. Only time you should cry in front of your LTR is bereavement.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 02:32 PM
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It seems like you feel guilty when you game women to fuck them and they fall for you. You really shouldn't. You can get the crocodile tears and she'll still stop by Chad's house right after yours. Honestly though it's so simple. You get pussy, she gets good dick. Fair exchange. She wants more but you don't? Show her the door. You save her time by letting her move on to find the commitment she's looking for and you look for more plates.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:10 AM
1

Best thing that's worked for me is just trying different cuts and seeing if I like them and also seeing what reactions I get from hot female friends. Just Google your ethnicity +length of hair you like. Face shape is important, and if you're fat, don't do skinny boy peaky blinders haircuts.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:05 AM
3

Even if you're a 9, your insecurity brings you to a hard 5. It sounds like you have no game, and you care way too much what other people think.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:01 AM
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The thing about IG is that if you want it to be really good (1K+ followers) you have to constantly be putting in work and it's really not worth it. You have to be top 5% in looks for girls to DM you, and if you're top 5% then you wouldn't be on TRP. Best thing to do is post 6-9 great photos of you (group photos, photos with attractive women, "off guard" shirtless pic, and maybe buy a few hundred followers.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 02:58 AM
1

That will happen. I've enjoyed smoking weed before but a few times I've gotten "too" high and all I wanted was to be sober again. With any kind of weed that isn't yours, always just take a small hit (if you want), and wait like 10 minutes before deciding to hit it again. Weed can be very fun. It can be a lot better than alcohol, without the hangover or calories.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 02:54 AM
2

Sure, exactly. And if you enjoy the process, then the flight to the moon will be awesome, regardless of where you land.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 10:45 PM
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What I love about these posts or field reports is that it gives you some solid perspective on reachable goals. I've read some success posts of dudes approaching some girl in the middle of the day and then fucking her 2 hours later. It's easy to call BS until you experience your own success stories, or meet guys like this in real life. I'd rather die trying to be where OP is and beyond vs. call bull and continue eating Doritos and watching Hentai
/r/askTRP18/02/21 05:36 PM
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You have a lot of issues and I'm glad you're jotting them down and realizing that you don't have much going for you. This is literally the first and probably hardest step. First of all, one of the best changes I've made recently is learning to be "okay" without intimacy. I can not talk to a girl or have plates spinning, etc. and honestly be fine. I focus more on my mission and in result, I'm getting rapid results. No PMO helps with this. Go 1 week without PMO and you'll feel much more "free" of …
/r/askTRP18/02/21 04:11 PM
6

lmao. I'd expect all carpet replaced with wood floor.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 03:54 PM
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This is my favorite comment so far this week
/r/askTRP18/02/21 03:52 PM
1

Yeah I hear you. The "girl eye fucking you but when you approach she's like, what"? experience has happened to me more than once. I just want to be successful in gym game because that's usually when I'm around other attractive women who are my age and are my type, I currently WFH. Maybe I can make a trail blazing RP post in a few months about how to spin plates at the gym? Or maybe I should just walk around the mall and practice approaching there. I guess we will see.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 02:33 PM
5

Best case scenario is to take some BJJ classes and learn how to restrain someone. A good way to make someone look like bitch is to have them in a choke hold and make them scream uncle. You don't want to be in a fight, you don't want to injure someone or get a manslaughter charge from dropping them on their head, and you don't want to get your ass kicked either.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 05:02 PM
1

OP you might benefit from reading "The Truth" by Neil Strauss. It's a sequel to "The Game". In the book, the author opens up and talks about how (while he was in rehab for sex addiction) his mom was using him for "emotional incest". Look it up. Your mom could be basically emotionally dependent on you and therefore can not allow you to distance yourself from her in any way.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 04:57 PM
1

You don't have to be friends with women. But a few of them can provide value to your life so don't avoid them 100%. Maybe they can be a quality plate. Maybe they have a large social circle of hot friends. Maybe interior design is their hobby and they'll remodel your living room for free. So it's ok to not be interested in the woman, but at least be open enough to consider that you might meet someone that can be useful.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 04:50 PM
1

Wait OP can you clarify? You're saying precious gf (ex-LTR) and she's bringing you along to meet her friends? What?
/r/askTRP14/02/21 04:40 PM
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Yup, do what's genuine for you. My type of comfort reward is just bringing them along to something I had to do. Bringing them to the mall to get my watch battery replaced, taking them to guitar center cause I need new acoustic strings. To them, they like that I'm taking them out in public and not just Netflix & chill, but to me I'm just literally bringing someone along for something I was gonna do anyways.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 04:38 PM
2

I think you would find a good balance in studying more charisma skills vs pickup hacks. Charisma skills help you with game and attraction, but it also applies to literally every single interaction in your life. Networking, making friends, getting hookups, etc.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 04:34 PM
1

I think every girl is a bit different where some require 18/82 or 22/78, etc. Some actually love to just be dominated and treated badly (potential red flag), and some will move heaven and earth for you cause you surprised them with flowers and helped change their shower head. Looking back, age has a huge factor in this.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 04:19 PM
1

It's okay to have a few "what if's" once in a while. This happens with any type of attachment. "What if my car gets stolen? Shit, did I remember to lock my doors?" You're not going to feel like Mr alpha 100% of the time. Only a few hours ago I woke up after some bad dreams and I laid in bed for a few minutes and all these worries and anxieties kept coming at me. I just took a hot shower to relax and took some deep breaths and I was fine. But if you're feeling all the time the anxiety of your gf …
/r/askTRP14/02/21 04:16 PM
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She might be getting to the point where she's more amused belittling you than enjoying you as her husband. So maybe reaching out to the ex to gossip and find new things to castrate you with.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 04:09 PM
2

Spending the day with her tomorrow
/r/askTRP14/02/21 07:41 AM
1

Okay, you don't have to be as suavé as most of the guys here so stop putting so much pressure on yourself. You're attractive, let that work for you and just keep things casual. The attraction is there so just focus more on building comfort. Be friendly and lead the interaction back to your place. Daddy issue girls is a Tinder thing. Deal with it or look elsewhere for chicks.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 02:42 PM
1

Just sounds like mild anxiety. Meditate for 10 minutes every day and you're going to feel a lot better. And I think you're also feeling imposter syndrome, which is way more common than you think. They asked a large group of students at Harvard who felt like they didn't belong, and most people raised their hands. I had a plate over one time and we had "the talk". I basically said, "there's the door" and that was that. But the next day her best friend came over and I remember thinking in my head, …
/r/askTRP13/02/21 02:36 PM
3

Feelz. A lot of girls prefer the YOLO drug dealer who sleeps on a mattress on the floor vs. the boring dude with the newest Toyota Prius and yee yee ass haircut.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 02:25 PM
4

I get it man, it's frustrating as hell right now. I'm horny too, don't get me wrong. I'd just rather settle for monk mode for a bit vs. waste my time being a AFC throwing my fist in the air. Let's be the sexy dudes at the pools this summer with high SMV. It's just a few months of hard work away.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 02:20 PM
1

Just put yourself in a women's shoes for a second and imagine what it's like for them to meet strangers from the internet? It's scary as shit dude. If she ain't into first date fucks then she's either not what you're looking for, or, you'll just have to settle for second date fucks, which aren't bad imo. Also, be way more casual with inviting girls over. Do not mention Netflix. It's too "har har, I'm gonna try and have sex with you". Just say, "hey let's go put my dog inside." Be casual. First d…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 02:17 PM
3

You really should never feel disrespected from a chick. Your only state of mind should be "she ain't interested enough for me to give a shit". That's it, shrug your shoulders and move on. What about if you stopped putting so much thought and effort into convincing out of town old plates to visit, and focused more on boosting your SMV so that girls start approaching you and start paying for their own flight ticket to visit you? You're fishing with a line but what about if you spend the time to ha…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 02:08 PM
1

I've always been pretty responsible so I can't give you further advice from here, but a solid mindset that works is to jot down some goals that you'd like achieved in 5 years and every day, make a small conscious effort to take steps towards those goals. Some days will be fucking boring, and some days you'll feel like a soulless robot dragging their feet, but having these "adult" days can make a huge difference in being a Chad for the rest of your life, or being Bam Margera, looking 60 at 41, as…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 02:02 PM
3

If you're top 5% on looks then social media can benefit you a ton. You post a few photos of you and girls will start randomly DM'ing you for easy lays. For the other 95% of us, the most you should do is put some solid effort into having a few 5-10 great photos of yourself. Schedule a photoshoot, take some professional headshots for your linked in, or ask some friends to send you the group photos of you guys at the waterfall. Idk what the future of social media is, but in today's market, girls AR…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 01:57 PM
1

Ignoring isn't the only shit test response. One of my favorites that works well is, "damn bro, why are you so obsessed with me?" (Pressure flip). You say this in front of your friend group and now every time the dude makes a comment about you just double down, "damn bro can you make it more obvious that you're obsessed with me?"
/r/askTRP13/02/21 01:50 PM
1

I'd do it. You're going to be 23 anyways, at as well have a more attractive jaw and smile. The biggest problem for me would be the severe restrictions on foods. You'll be having lots of liquid dinners.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 01:47 PM
4

Damn bro, pussy is just pussy. When you put less value and attachment to it, then that's when it starts coming to you more effortlessly. If you can't go a few weeks without getting laid and be okay about it then that's probably your biggest problem.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 01:43 PM
1

Then that's your problem. You're irresponsible. It should only take you 1 bad experience, max, to learn to never ever do that shit again. If you need to get 3 DUI's and spend time in prison to learn that maybe you should just call an Uber when you drink then that's what it's gonna take. Idk if you've seen what's going on with Bam Margera recently but he just posted a video throwing the biggest bitch fit because he got kicked out of Jackass 4. He's crying that it's so hard and unfair that they ex…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 01:40 PM
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Man, some chicks will hide your car keys and watch you search for them for hours because they're bored. The relationship is probably boring as shit and she came to your house with a fun game in mind of what will bf do if I don't give sex tonight? Whether you're single, LTR'd, or married, you ALWAYS have to give the impression that you have girls in queue to fuck. Leave the house for a few hours and never reveal where you went. Kick her out and say you have a "friend" coming over soon.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 01:32 PM
1

Do not be so hard on yourself. No guy on the sub is perfect, and if we were perfect then life would be boring as shit. We'd all be doing drugs and getting DUI's. I knew about TRP for 4 years and I still decided to cohabitate with an LTR. Obviously ended up bad and I had to learn my lesson the hard way. You now have experience and perspective on why oneitis is bad and why opening up emotionally to women is bad. It's not that big of a deal. You didn't get a false rape charge, you didn't get a ONS …
/r/askTRP13/02/21 01:24 PM
6

Tattoo of their ex is a factor in your dream girl? Some of y'all's have weird ass bingo cards.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 01:15 PM
1

It's impossible to tell. I'd say, optimize your physical well being and see if things improve.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 01:13 PM
5

The tattoo is an extremely red flag. I'd distance myself from her and, at most, hit her up every few weeks for a shameful fuck if you're having zero luck with new plates.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 01:12 PM
1

You have the right angle of letting the women do the talking. Rule #1 of being charismatic is being a good listener. I think the most important thing about talking to anyone is asking questions you actually are interested in hearing the answer to. Change the topic if you want, or ask questions that you are genuinely curious about. Jordan Peterson is a controversial figure but one of his "rules for life" is assume that the person you're talking to knows something you don't.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 01:08 PM
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Anything can be improved. I think the most important thing is your posture. If you're walking with proper posture then everything else shouldn't be that focused on, because if you're hyper focused on yourself when you're out then you're going to be way too disconnected from everything around you. Also, most importantly is your state of mind. If your state of mind is, "I'm the prize, I own the place" then your body language will follow.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 01:01 PM
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Don't self diagnose something like your T levels based off a few random symptoms. The symptoms you mentioned could be a result of literally anything. Dehydration, vitamin deficiency, not enough sun light or fresh air. Are you lifting and meditating? Our bodies constantly change. I'm 26 and all of a sudden I get brain fog if I eat bread.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 12:53 PM
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You're too invested and need to read the sidebar. You're saying "girl I'm dating", so LTR right? You're exclusive to a single mother that you don't even enjoy sex with. That's your problem. You'd rather train her to be your unicorn (making her do kegels) than to put in the work to boost your SMV and plate tight women.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 12:47 PM
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Some women are just looser than others, even if they've never given birth. My daughters mom regained her tightness after she gave birth.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 12:44 PM
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Solid contender for most scarce mentality of the week. There's nothing wrong with fantasizing, but, damn man she has both you and your manager cucked, gossiping about her at the gym like some teenage girls at summer camp. It's also a massive red flag that she's "hanging out" with her ex at the park at night, iow, deep throating him in the back seat of his car. So you have oneitis for a cheating ho. You're hitting the gym with your manager, which gives you an awesome opportunity to use him for co…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 12:40 PM
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I think you should just change your goals. I'm not always in the mood to fake it till I make it either, but I also enjoy challenges and pushing boundaries. Remember that rejection is better than regret. So it might sting and feel embarrassing if you push too far with a girl and she responds harshly, but you'll also get some favorable responses that might surprise you.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 12:27 PM
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Calling off work for a week for dick has to be for top shelf dick. Plus, like you said, there ain't shit to do in your town. I think a whole week is what's turning her off. I wouldn't want to spend more than 2 days with a plate. I think she's just trying to reject you without directly rejecting you. She's trying to angle the situation so that she "never said no". She can brag to her friends that some dude is trying to fly her out to see him. Your problem is that you don't have options, and it cl…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 12:19 PM
2

If your social circle isn't partying any more then you can find a new social circle to party with. I have a group of friends who have been out constantly this year. They just went to a rave, they go to house parties, bars & clubs. But me personally I never really loved bars and clubs. Especially crowded ones. Waiting in line to get in and then you gotta wait in like to grab a drink and wait in line to use the bathroom. It's a great place to approach women cause they're very open and receptive bu…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 12:09 PM
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My older sis has told me that I'm like a robot or that I have a stone heart, because I never react emotionally to things. Being stoic is never a bad thing, but some "strong" guys can be boring as shit. It's cool to not live in other peoples frames, but have enough outcome independence and amused mastery so that everyone isn't on their phones when you're in the room.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 01:01 AM
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You have to get out of your comfort zone and push peoples boundaries, little by little. "Fake it till you make it" works, but only because it changes your perspective about how surprised you'll be when you see some of the positive reactions you'll get from being an asshole to people, or just shit you can get away with. It's like when virgins are obsessed with sex, and us non-virgins are like, "it's not that big of a deal." But the virgin will continue to insist until finally they lose their virg…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 12:40 AM
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You don't have to text a ton and entertain girls with messages. I've seriously just called the girl after I get their number from tinder and set a date and then that's it. I'll get some "you suck at texting" comments but if they're a spinning plate then I really dgaf. If your only intention is to cold approach then you're already successful. If you paint a tree 20 times, then what's so exciting about painting the 21st? Try and push yourself and maybe try and ask for their number from now on. Eve…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 12:29 AM
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I'm sorry OP. There's some trauma you're gonna have to move past once you're finally free and away from your dad. Like others have said, have a plan b set up. It doesn't have to be pleasant, just as long as you have something you can fall back on. I hate to admit it but sometimes we do have to wait things out that are uncomfortable or painful, for successes in our future lives. Sometimes you have to negotiate and anxiously wait things out until the other cracks first.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 12:16 AM
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My niece is 12 years old and this is the same stupid shit I hear her talking about every other day.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 12:04 AM
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30-40 years old are when things start manifesting in men's lives. 20's are typically spent grinding and discovering your mission. 30-40 we get those senior / executive positions or our businesses take off, we develop a solid workout routine that we stick to, and the most important determining factor imo, is the dgaf mentality. So yes, your 30's & 40's can be your prime, but only if you've been putting in a decade of hard work. If every day you scream YOLO and constantly make bad decisions for si…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 12:01 AM
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Everything starts from the inside out. A lot of guys in this sub have come from the same place you're in and they overcome it. Do what you have to do to get you where you need to be. Take action, even if it's small, especially when you don't want to. A 5 minute meditation is better than none. A quick walk around the block is better than staying on the couch.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 11:12 PM
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When you get oneitis for someone you HAVE to next them. Cause if you keep wracking your head on what behaviors and actions are acceptable you're just going to be more and more needy. And don't feel too bad about displaying bp behaviors every now and again. Every one of us goes through adversity and we can't always make the perfect decisions each time. I knew about TRP for 4 years but I still got my LTR pregnant and I still decided to cohabitate for a year even though it's a hard tule not to. I l…
/r/askTRP12/02/21 11:04 PM
1

That's the problem with TRP. You swallow it, improve your SMV and change your life but those around you don't move up with you. There's not enough context to tell you why they stole from you, but it's a shitty ass feeling when you feel like you need to hide or put things away when someone comes over. You NEED to be able to move on from these friends. There ARE social circles out there that better align with the new you. There are friends out there that won't just not feel from you, but they'll b…
/r/askTRP12/02/21 10:55 PM
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That's what it seems like to me. Some guys are only focused on the n-counts (which is fine), but others would rather have a few quality girlfriends (yes at once). If you go out every weekend only looking to bed a any new girl then that's at least 50 new chicks in just one year. From my experience, I've been burnt, I vet heavily on red flags, and I'm ok deciding not to fuck a girl if she rubs me the wrong way.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 10:43 PM
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I had to buy guitar strings for my acoustic once and I brought a girl along to guitar center and called it a date. Bring a girl along to GNC for protein and call it a date
/r/askTRP12/02/21 08:29 PM
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Gangsta recognize gangsta
/r/askTRP12/02/21 08:22 PM
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They're great man. Amazing for sex. Even great for when you're out with friends and no one knows what to play
/r/askTRP12/02/21 08:21 PM
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Filing a police report is your best route. Read up on your states laws about breaking your lease. Try and avoid having trouble down the line leasing a place again. I don't know much longer you have on your lease but some people might just keep paying their half of the rent even though they aren't staying there. But in regards to your new ex, you're just gonna have to fully commit to leaving and hold the line. Block her on everything and if she keeps harassing you, let people know that she's assa…
/r/askTRP12/02/21 01:02 PM
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If you're going to drink, don't drink a lot. Whisky dick is a thing. If you have trouble getting hard don't stress too much about it. Just tell her it's been a while if you don't want her to know you're a virgin, or just be straight up and tell her she's your first one. Some girls would be honored to take a guys V. Probably, most importantly, just try and relax. If you smoke weed go ahead and smoke. Play some chill music (Minus The Bear, Eden, Eden Project). At the end of the day I'd probably ju…
/r/askTRP12/02/21 12:49 PM
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You could put more focus on foreplay. If she's starfishing you then tell her what to do and take control. Lead her. But inexperienced is inexperienced. People want to fuck the virgin but then complain that she's so stiff. Then, women have their own killswitches on what gets them to climax. You gotta poke some on the forehead and say Bloody Mary three times so she can come. Communicate with her on what she likes but women need to learn to also tell the guy how to get her where she wants to go. La…
/r/askTRP11/02/21 06:51 PM
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You have such boring Boy Scout mentality.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 06:46 PM
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Always lead. Always be the one to set the plans. Be creative, find out of the box shit to do. Chad would tell the girl what to wear and when he picks her up and drives her to the local high school he'll be like, "surprise bitch we're going skinny dipping."
/r/askTRP11/02/21 06:46 PM
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You're just insecure about your height so you're going to face this problem with any chick who's "tall". Obviously come to terms with your imperfections and own it. Plenty of short guys playing girls taller than them. At the end of the day, dating is all psychological. Focus more on giving women "feelz" and work on your frame.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 06:43 PM
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It seems like you're just dealing with overall anxiety. Anxiety could be "cured" by healthy activities: lifting, meditation, journaling, etc. But if it's serious then you should talk to a doctor.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 06:36 PM
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You need to know when to be bold / forward and when to be more passive and indirect. If you're never going to see the girl again (tourist areas, traveling, nightclubs): bold, forward, if she throws a drink in your face it's ok cause you'll never see anyone in the room again. But if you will probably see the girl again (your local gym, your hometown, your social circle): definitely tone it down. You get labeled a "creep" or a rumors start about you sexually assaulting then your reputation is goin…
/r/askTRP11/02/21 06:34 PM
1

Idk what the girls ethnicity is and it shouldn't matter but the girl who would bite my lip off and the girl who would pull my arm hairs were both Hispanic. I don't know if they just feel inclined to live up to the "Mexican woman are feisty" stereotype but white girls don't play like that at all. I'd see the slap as a pink flag, like if that's the only thing off about her then I would just proceed and not overreact. Remember, there are no unicorns. There's ways you can call her out on it without …
/r/askTRP11/02/21 06:28 PM
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What was her follow up to the slap? If it was a straight up, "don't say that shit to me" response from her then it could be a red flag. If it was a "omg, staaaap, you're so mean!" Response after the slap then just a shit test. Some girls just "play around" like that. I've had girls bite my lip extremely hard in bed and one plate would pull my arm hairs until one point I was like, let's get you home.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:04 PM
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If this is your focus and your "game" then you're going to live a sorry life of women only pretending to be attached to you, for your money. You're also going to mostly attract post wall single mothers. If you want to play the "wealth" game then do a materialistic approach (appear rich: leased car, expensive looking watch) because you should NEVER ever let your SO know about your financial assets. If you want plates, then focus more on other areas of game.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 04:12 PM
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You're being cucked. If you're into that, keep doing what you're doing. If you had any self respect you'd block and delete her 100% from your life right this instance and let her wonder for the rest of her life why you did it.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 04:07 PM
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low smv - who are you? High smv- I wonder what Chad's doing rn? Let me stalk his social media for 3 hours.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 04:05 PM
4

OP is worrying more about this girls problems than half of parents do about their own children.
/r/askMRP10/02/21 04:33 PM
1

Unless you're studying your experience to write a New York Times #1 Best Seller, you're living a toxic life and you're doing it to yourself. "Waiting until things get better" is the same state of mind that so many men have when they stumble onto the pill. You really don't owe her anything. That's the reality. If you're staying with her due to guilt then you're self-manipulating yourself. "Control intimacy" is blue pill mindset. "Control" of anything besides your own actions is blue pill. You REA…
/r/askMRP10/02/21 04:30 PM
1

Quitting is always seen as the losers route, but I don't think I've ever felt more powerful than when I basically gave a big foam middle finger to my old boss and baby mamma. But no, I wasn't immature or salty about it. I didn't go cussing them out. It was just a straight up, "hey, here's what's going to happen, deal with it." and if that isn't a a great example of frame, then I need to go back to RP 101. I "ran home to mommy" but I have a war chest to show for it. I got my "dream job" (great co…
/r/askMRP10/02/21 02:29 PM
1

Gotcha. I can definitely focus more on more natural and casual interactions vs. an "alpha" approach. I'll save cold approaching for the nightlife. Thanks!
/r/askTRP10/02/21 01:41 AM
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I don't know what your SMV is or what your success has been so far with straight up inviting tinder girls straight over. I'm also not experienced with inviting girls straight over, cause of that bad experience. I can tell you that some potential lays could be slipping through your fingers just cause they're not comfortable with coming straight over. I think you should know if you're Chad looking or not. If inviting girls straight over isn't working out well then just do the 15 minute public date…
/r/askTRP09/02/21 11:06 PM
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I've just had a bad experience with a tinder date where she was going to come over but we switched plans last minute and met somewhere public. 25 mins later I was in my car locking the doors, blocking her number and Tinder. And I always thank the Gods that she did not come directly to my place. There's was a post today about a dude asking if he should get a restraining order on a bitch. I get the whole angle you're going with though, imo a key component of TRP is deciding your preferred lifestyl…
/r/askTRP09/02/21 10:23 PM
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Yeah you can use it as vetting but imo it's too direct. Idk, if I was with a girl and I wanted to redirect the convo into relationships > sexual topics I could see myself asking if she's single. But it's more fun to make assumptions: "is your boyfriend here?" / "won't your girlfriend (to a girl) be mad that you're texting me?"
/r/askTRP09/02/21 10:14 PM
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It just seems like a lot of dancing just to try and get her to decide to leave. It seems to me as inconvenient as going down the street to grab a coffee, beer, or take a walk in the park.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 08:46 PM
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Well now you know. Block that person as well. The reality is, you should try and keep your sexual life as private as possible. The only people who should know are your roommates. I don't tell my bros who I'm fucking. I just don't like to kiss and tell.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 08:17 PM
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Fair enough. So, a land whale shows up at your door. You immediately realize you're not going to smash. What do you do?
/r/askTRP09/02/21 08:06 PM
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Cause you're a creep. Imagine being a young adult female, can't fight off a man, having a stranger on a dating app trying to get you to come straight to their house. Dating is scary for women. They know pepper spray can't keep them 100% safe. You're also an idiot for not seeing anything wrong with inviting strangers to your house. They could be catfish, they could have layers of red flags, and you're cool with all that being in your personal space? What the fuck is so awful about meeting these t…
/r/askTRP09/02/21 07:25 PM
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Yes. As soon as puberty hits, they start noticing that all the women in the make up ads look the same - young, and not like mom. If they don't realize that they sure will when they notice that big sis is getting all of the attention and mom isn't.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 07:18 PM
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You could be plating and living the fuck out of life if you really wanted to. You don't seem to want to, or at least, really want to enough to get your shit together. You're gonna be 30 anyway, at as well spend it living the life you want. You're gonna be 40 anyway, at as well spend it living the life you want. Etc.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 07:15 PM
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Asking if she's single isn't the worst topic to redirect a conversation with but I feel like you meant it literally. If you're gonna ask if she's single, do so as a neg.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 07:11 PM
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Man just initiate a meet up, to "hang out" or "let loose". Then escalate and close. Why ask a girl if she's single? If she's dtf then it don't matter. And it doesn't matter at all either if a girl says she's gay. If she's down to meet up and reciprocates escalation then obviously she's at least bi. Too much texting, not enough sidebar reading.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 07:09 PM
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But why would you consider getting a restraining order if you haven't even tried blocking her? Block her on everything. Social media, texts, email. If it ever gets brought up, just say she makes you feel uncomfortable. Consider doing your best to keep your sexual life private for now. I don't know, the fact you haven't blocked her Instagram tells me you like the attention. You do not want to dance with a woman like this. You'll poke your eye out real quick.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 07:06 PM
1

Got it. I guess getting eye fucks at the gym aren't that valuable.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 05:31 PM
1

Yeah it could just be the location. I used to go to a different gym in city well known for its community and people were so much easier to talk to. Lots of college aged people at my current spot.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 04:59 PM
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Damn bro, you have some trauma you need to work through. A single mom and an abusive step mom is a rough upbringing. Best thing you can do is speak to a professional. Seriously.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 04:41 PM
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Dirty bulking is really only for guys who immensely struggle to put on weight. OP is skinny, but 165 at that height isn't bad. OP can look great with +10 lbs of muscle mass.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 04:38 PM
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It's much harder to be lean so I would maintain that 15% and focus on that 300-500 cal range. Aim for 1-2 lbs a week while maintaining your body fat %. It'll take a little longer for noticeable results but in the long run it'll pay off.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 04:37 PM
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I hear you. I guess it could be more casual. My approaches have been more "approaches" vs. just making a comment to a bystander. COVID has hurt my social butterfly skills that I put a lot of effort to develop (I was voted "most shy" in 7th grade), so I'm trying to get out of my comfort zone by approaching, even if I don't get a positive outcome. I still Pat myself on the back regardless, but I can be more casual with my social advances. Thanks!
/r/askTRP09/02/21 04:34 PM
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It seems like the new girls are triggers for the toxic emotional attachment for the oneitis. I would say, find some mental exercises or techniques that help you overcome the paranoia attack. Meditation, a mile run, heavy lifting, whim hof breathing, diet, cold showers, journaling, etc. You can also bring this up to your doctor as no one here is a mental health professional.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 04:30 PM
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There's some principles you can really only learn once you go through them. You can "know them", but you won't fully internalize until you're in the thick of it. Like, you'll hear plenty of people mention girls with BPD. You'll read the post and be all, "yea, my sister has lied a few times. It sucks." But once you actually are in the belly of the beast with a BPD girl, you'll be, "ok yea, never again." But with LTR's, you ALWAYS want to have swallowed the pill before hand vs. finding the pill af…
/r/askTRP09/02/21 04:23 PM
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It's "outside". On the second story of a parking structure. Kind of nice working out with that fresh air, and there's a fresh breeze in some areas. I'm there at 6am so it's pretty cool seeing the sunset in between sets.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 04:12 PM
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"She she she she she she" Own it. My ex went through my phone and saw that one of our friends was sending me pics of her and asking me out to dinner. I just shrugged and said, "why aren't you taking me to dinner?" I owned it. I got one of the best blowjobs of my life that night. It's called preselection. Look it up. Any attention from other girls provides value. Better to me the guy with drama than the boring loser with zero friends.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 03:56 PM
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Even as just knowing them on a first name basis? I can see everyone's point though. There's not much value in being "friends" with girls you aren't fucking. But man, I just want to be less introverted and the gym is one of the only open places in my county.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 03:50 PM
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You need to put all your eggs in 1 basket. A lot of successful people with businesses understood that they had to invest 10-12 hour workdays, 6 days a week, with no profit the first year. also, big risk, big reward. Some people grow rich, some people go broke. If you're afraid of risk, you can't expect greatness. you can always perceive a high senior position and strive for that. Go online and see what big positions you would like to be in 5 years, 10 years? There's some skills you'll need to le…
/r/askTRP09/02/21 03:48 PM
2

Brother, there could not have been a bigger red flag than her telling you she's been raped, on your first date. You fucked up so bad by sleeping with her. Did you use a condom? Will the police find your semen in her? Fuck your ego dumbass, if you have any texts of her being sexual with you, save them now. Text her NOW and try and get a comforting response that suggests she reciprocated to sexual activities.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 03:40 PM
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I'm honestly just trying to build a personal community at the gym. I'll number close if the conversation leads that way, but I'm gonna keep the boldness / directness to a minimum. And yes, a classic series. I just landed my first "salary / professional" position and the creative pursuits / social techniques the characters portray are helping me a ton."
/r/askTRP09/02/21 03:35 PM
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She could mean that you're not closed off or have a "just woke up / asshole" look which isn't bad cause, to be charismatic, you need to make yourself appear friendly. But the way your conversations go with your coworkers, I'm leaning towards them seeing you as a simp. You don't give women feelz. At work, always always always keep it professional. No gaming, no flirting, no practicing RP principles. At most, just observe. When I doubt, be the boring quiet guy who just keeps his head down and gets…
/r/askTRP09/02/21 03:32 PM
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I guess I agree with you. I am disrupting their workout, but, I've been at a different gym a few years ago and I knew half the regulars on a first name basis. I knew all the employees, most of the guys, and a lot of the women. It was amazing walking in to the gym and everyone waving at you and telling you good morning. I'm also not actively trying to "close" because I don't want to shit where I eat. But waiting until after our workouts isn't a bad idea.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 03:22 PM
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She's most likely fantasizing about you and is "sexting" to scratch that itch. She's trying to escalate and get the 2 of you excited for a hard fuck sesh later on. If you kill that momentum then you're shooting yourself in the foot as having her turned on all day can result in some very hot and rewarding sex later on. If you don't dance with her and she's still horny, she might traject that energy onto someone else. Just text her, "send me something to get me excited" and send some fun nudes bac…
/r/askTRP08/02/21 08:16 PM
1

Could be a sign of huge insecurity which is a red flag.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 08:07 PM
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Women who don't want kids will always be like this. They'll approach the wall and they'll start having suicidal thoughts. They're losing all that attention they've been getting all their lives so they'll start victimizing themselves, start an OF, etc to get that attention back. Some will try and convince themselves that they've found some unique passion but, like all men know, interests require work and effort, something some women have never had to produce. Some will settle for a beta and revol…
/r/askTRP08/02/21 07:35 PM
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Keto is good but you need to have some oatmeal, brown rice, or sweet potatoes at least every few days if you're trying to maintain your strength and not feel mentally drained every day. I also have some honey after my workouts to replace glycogen depletion. This is my go to "diet" to lower body fat and increase strength.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/21 06:54 PM
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Yeah I'm aware that it's gonna bug her seeing me happy without her. If I'm ever publicly official with someone else, her hamster is going to spin and there's gonna be some curve balls. Probably try to find loopholes and bend the rules of the agreement. But I get exactly what you mean. There's gonna be shit tests and I'm certain she will use the kid to get reactions out of me. But I'm gonna take the stoic approach. Anything she throws at me I'll just reply with generic responses, "I'll make a not…
/r/askTRP05/02/21 03:01 PM
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Oh now I understand, and I completely agree. The bridge is already burning so at as well enjoy the view of the fire. Thanks for the kind words. I'm doing well now. Me and my daughters mom are polishing off a parenting plan which will be signed off by the court, so fortunately the only interaction I'll ever need to have with her is, "I'm here to pick up the kid."
/r/askTRP05/02/21 01:31 PM
2

Yup lifting is #1. And if you want to advance your discipline you can add some daily "must-do's": sleep well, meditate. And even some daily "must dont's": no PMO, no bread (for me, as I get severe brain fog the next day).
/r/askMRP05/02/21 01:09 PM
1

When you're at rock bottom it is the best time to make those risky tough decisions. Last year I was in a place where I'd put myself in a hole that I just couldn't get out of. I was the dad to a 1 year old I didn't want with a pathological liar and toxic partner. I was working a job where I was taken advantage of. I was putting up with so much shit because I wanted to be there for my kid but it got to the point where the kid was going to grow up with an active dad with no soul. Anyways, hours bei…
/r/askMRP05/02/21 01:04 PM
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Yes I agree 100%. Unfortunately I've experienced it first hand, for much longer than I should have (baby mamma, did my best to make it work). But I don't know if I'd call it "fun" to poke holes into a pathological liar. You can call them out and all that but honestly just run. They are prepared to drag you down to the depths of hell while you've been comfortable on your balcony. Sorry if I seem dramatic. I left my daughters mom only a few months ago and I'm still not fully over it.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 05:06 PM
1

Plating and having a social life need to be more of a priority for you to actually take action towards it, realistically. A lot of people look up to Arnold Schwarzenegger about how successful he is because he would work out for hours every day, work a construction job, and then take night classes for acting. But ask him how many plates he was spinning at the time or how many people knew him at the local nightclub. It's zero. The truth is that finding your mission and working towards it IS overal…
/r/askTRP04/02/21 04:16 PM
2

And game. OP's bragging about getting looks and DM's but this isn't the amihot sub. Everyone here only gives a shit about getting plates.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 03:28 PM
1

Sounds like he grew up with entitlement which, realistically, helps your frame. He's playing the "I'm the prize" angle, even if he doesn't have anything to materialistically show for it.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 03:25 PM
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Idk how OP got awards for this. And the problem with OP's "advice" is that he's saying that he appears average in person, but high status on IG. So what if you get some DM's? Is OP capitalizing and turning these into plates? Maybe you'll get more attention but you can't get your dick wet with attention. With that said, a high status social media presence could be useful, if you're using it right. Having the right photos and outputting the right image of yourself could get you some numbers and da…
/r/askTRP04/02/21 03:20 PM
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"Even with hard proof, they will deny it." Gosh, if that doesn't hit too close to home. One time me and the ex went out for food and when she dropped me off, my phone slipped out of my pocket. When I went to go pick it up, the phone was locked from too many passcode attempts. I called her out on it and she gave me some BS excuse that she'd thought up already in her head, saying "the phone had slipped between the seats so it locked itself when I was reaching for it."
/r/askTRP04/02/21 02:21 PM
6

Any kind of a reaction or counterattack to this is playing a woman's game. It's a waste of time and will not win you any points. Red flags aren't shit tests where you give the perfect response and their panties get all wet. Red flags are indicators that something is wrong / toxic with this girl and you should definitely next. Take it from me, you look past a red flag a few times cause she's really hot or you just don't have options. Next thing you know, you're spending a whole weekend looking fo…
/r/askTRP04/02/21 02:02 PM
2

Yeah man. They live so much in their head that they come up with and throw every manipulative/ gas-lighting tactic at you. It'll change you for the worse but hey man, in the long run you benefit a lot from it. You know what red flags to look for, you know how to vet properly, and most importantly, you learn first hand what a toxic relationship is, so a healthy LTR will be much more clear and enjoyable.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 08:02 PM
1

It sounds like you were shaken up from the first text and it just snowballed into an unpleasant outcome. Next time, do a 10 minute meditation before you speak to her on the phone. Nothing good comes from reacting. Always observe, and then act.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 07:54 PM
1

Yeah man, it really gets in your head. even with knowing RP principles, it sometimes felt like I was trying to swim to the shore with a weighted vest on. At times, things felt straight up insidious. These people need professional help. I'm glad I'm on the other side of it now though. There's some cemented radars and hard dating rules ingrained in my life now.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 07:35 PM
1

Way too much talking. Just do your own shit and if she throws a fit, kindly show her the door. The one in power is the one who is willing to walk away first. IMO there's no salvaging. Her making the rules and then breaking them is a bad sign. You can very well spend more time suffering and at least you'll cement and experience first hand the reason why so many men come to the RP. Sometimes we have to get burned by the fire to know not to touch it. I got my ex prego after 4 months of dating. This…
/r/askMRP03/02/21 04:22 PM
2

Anyone else wondering what value this girl brings to OP's life? He didn't say one decent thing about her. Gaming other women is a must for LTR's / marriages. If you're too spineless to say, "I'm talking to other women and if I get suspicious of you being too friendly with other guys then we're done, deal with it" then you're always going to live in your SO's frame. Getting rattled up about Snapchat as a grown ass man is too much for me to comprehend right now.
/r/askMRP03/02/21 04:01 PM
4

Make her go without you most of the time. Tell her you have shit to do or that you're just not feeling it. If you give a little shit about your relationship with her family just go once in a while. Take separate cars so you can leave whenever. My daughters mom used to give me shit whenever I didn't want to visit her fam, even though every time she would ditch me to gossip upstairs with her sister. Just learn to say no and don't take her shit.
/r/askMRP02/02/21 03:42 PM
5

Pull up bar + push-ups. Bonus: $25 resistance bands for the advanced lifters.
/r/askMRP02/02/21 03:36 PM
-1

Had a similar situation with a roommate one night. Didn't do PiV. We didn't do anything after that cause 1. Don't shit where you eat, 2. Her ex is one of my best bros and she's close with my daughters mom. Both felt guilty. We were quarantined alone together last year so it was tense and she'd be flirty but I couldn't get drunk again and cross that line. Anyways, the whole time I felt like she wanted me to just "take her". Meaning, almost force myself. She obviously didn't want to be the one to …
/r/askTRP01/02/21 09:45 PM
15

I'm going to speak in general terms in case my advice doesn't help to but helps someone else. If you don't already, do meditation. Meditation helps you accept things and not be so resistant to things you can't change. Meditation overall helps you stay content throughout your day. If it's a specific obstacle you're going through then maybe you need to tell yourself that you're going to focus on this one thing until it's over. The best way out is always through. Not a health condition but I had a …
/r/askTRP01/02/21 03:47 PM
1

It's hard right now to meet people in person but it's not impossible. Everyone else is also feeling deprived of physical connections. Meet up with your boys, meet some dudes at the gym, go on walks with women.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 04:49 PM
3

Yep, it was RIP for a bit but I'm good now though. It doesn't make me special when I say that I love my kid but there are some developments I've achieved since that I can't say I'd have by now if I didn't go through these trials. For one, I was struggling with an on/off nicotine addiction I'd had since I was 17. There were more weekends than I'd like to admit where I'd spend them in bed binging Netflix with an e-cig glued to my hand. Come Monday, the withdrawals I had were fucking brutal. Cycle …
/r/askTRP30/01/21 04:17 PM
2

Imagine OP dating someone new and telling the old plate, "it's nice being with someone who isn't so heavy." Lol. Men need thick ass skin.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 02:50 PM
1

No. There are some low value 6ft+ betas and some ~5'6" chads who are plating girls who are much taller than them. If anything, being tall might get you a few more IOI's at the nightclub but once you approach, it's pretty much a level playing field aside from a few shit tests about height. But if you pass shit tests about your height then there is not going to be a lot more things she can throw at you. And if height is an absolute deal breaker then it's a bit of a red flag. It means she's more in…
/r/askTRP30/01/21 02:46 PM
1

Dread game and having options. The one in control is the one who needs the other the least. Be sure to always wear a condom or get a vasectomy cause once she's pregnant she'll own you for 18 years.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 02:32 PM
1

You'll frequently notice in this sub that people will mention that men age like fine wine. Their prime is late 30's - late 40's. This is true but only if you put in the effort and investment. All great things take time so it's not such a bad thing to view your 20's as a period to plant seeds and grind. All your life you're going to notice guys who have "live fast, die young" personalities and they'll be pulling girls easily. But only because their short sighted way of living is fun and exciting …
/r/askTRP30/01/21 02:27 PM
3

If you're top 1% in terms of looks (if you were, you wouldn't need TRP), then you can definitely get away with matching with a girl and saying, "my place, 8pm". Other than that, you need to practice game and escalation like everyone else.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 02:01 PM
1

Just escalate normally. Focus more on the momentum than on the destination. I've had a girl in the back seat of my 2 door Accord with windows barely tinted in a public parking lot outside a music venue after a DJ we just saw, on our first "date". Logistics are a must, but if she's turned on enough, public sex is just an afterthought.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 01:46 PM
0

Yes I know. Half the people I've known who've had covid either had no symptoms or only felt a cold. But like I said, I err on the side of caution. I still go to the gym and put myself at risk BUT, not to the extent of going to an indoor rager. And my other point is that if you were to jot down your lifespan on a graph and pinpoint when in your life it'd be most convenient to focus on monk mode, it would be right now, by a long shot.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 01:34 PM
1

The most dangerous people are the ones that have nothing to lose. It seems like your brothers actions are a result of his severe insecurity issues and jealousy. Overall I would distance myself from him. Keep in mind that you are the result of the 5 people you are around with the most. His low value can rub off on you. IMO, people who are toxic need to be lonely. They need to spend their birthday without anyone reaching out because they need to come to the conclusion themselves that they are the …
/r/askTRP30/01/21 01:26 PM
10

"In a couple months or so" I don't know if you're dry cause of the pandemic or if you're a newbie but you have severe oneitis. And it looks like she's trying to reject you nicely: she has a boyfriend, she won't travel to see you. She has more sense than you and doesn't want awkwardness in the workplace. Read the sidebar or don't be a troll.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 01:10 PM
1

Sure you can see it as "missing out". Or you could see it as "the next 4-6 months are going to be the easiest and best time to focus on monk mode." I err on the side of caution and to me, the fact that people that have had Covid have reported loss of taste, smell, or breathing problems WEEKS after, freaks me out. I saw a post a few weeks ago where a jogger was patting themselves on the back because they finally felt well enough to run (slow walk) a mile in 20 minutes, where there time used to be…
/r/askTRP30/01/21 01:00 PM
2

Have fun with the potential plates curiosity. Her: "Who is she?" You: "Wait, she's not your ex girlfriend is she?" Just own it and always remember, outcome independence.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 12:53 PM
9

Yes. This is why it's recommended to block ex's. Either she'll hop on the CC and "miss you" when no one is giving her commitment, or vice versa, she's disappointed that none of the chumps on Tinder are giving her the feelz you provided so her hamster is spinning, causing her to do very sketchy shit.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 12:15 PM
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If this was last year and your mental health depended on it I'd say go for it. But now that the vaccine is only months away, and Covid deaths are record high by the day, you'd have to be an idiot to go to an indoor party. You don't have to quarantine yourself like a Supermax. You can hang out with a few bros and keep meeting up with your plates.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 12:07 PM
14

Cheesy as fuck but whenever I'm in some sort of dispute, I always tell myself that "I'd rather die on my feet than live on my knees." It's from some gladiator / Spartan movie.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 04:11 PM
22

Worst mistake I've done is letting my red pill success go to my head. NEVER EVER assume that you are above the pill. Had a weekend where I met with a plate I had for a few weeks (plate #1), she was pushing for commitment so I showed her to the door. The next day I meet up with plate #2, and after she leaves, plate #1's best friend comes over and becomes plate #3. This shit was so unbelievable to me that I got overly cocky and thought I was "alpha" enough to LTR plate #3 shortly after. Fast forwa…
/r/askTRP29/01/21 04:09 PM
1

I've been there. Kind of hard for me to give concrete advice but for me, it just developed with time. After you plate girls and become attractive enough, the game just doesn't excite you anymore. Instead of spinning plates that you don't even enjoy spending time with, you start putting more value into quality connections with people in general, not just girls to fuck. You let go of those friends that aren't even really friends and you look past the pressure of needing to have good relationships …
/r/askTRP28/01/21 05:32 PM
2

Yes, it's called having a stronger frame than her.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/21 05:21 PM
2

Seems like you're just interested in ONS and plates which is fine. You should still know how to vet and look for red flags so you don't stick your dick in crazy. It's still a type of gaming though to make them qualify themselves. It builds attraction. Look up negging ".
/r/askTRP28/01/21 03:55 PM
14

One positive thing about living with your SO is that they call out your shit. I grew up with mom doing all the dishes, laundry, chores, etc. Didn't even know how to clean a toilet when I moved out. One time I got in an argument with the ex and she ripped me a new one. Went off on me about how poor my cleanliness was. Shit was brutal because I realized how my quality of lifestyle was ass. Turned that shit around though for myself. My home is much more cleaner and well kept now and I wish my mom w…
/r/askMRP28/01/21 03:53 PM
5

If you're unattractive, this "I had dirty thoughts" approach will be creepy. If you haven't already, look up a TRP post about a guy making a fake tinder account using a male model's pics and stating in their bio "I am a registered sex offender". You just can't believe the type of interactions this account was having. The catfish dude was being vulgar with them and the chicks were eating that shit up and giving their numbers. Also, READ UP ON IOI's. Like OP was saying, she had "fuck me" eyes. Tru…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/21 03:44 PM
1

They're comfortable with you, which is a good thing. Just tone it down in terms of time spent with them. Meet up, escalate, fuck, then let her know you have something coming up soon. You want plates but they're pushing for FWB, which eventually leads to LTR. They have game too.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 04:17 PM
7

The truth is, people are deprived of physical interactions and everyone is avoiding each other in public. If you were Chad, before Covid, there were very few reasons why a girl would reject you. But now, any Chad can get rejected by a HB5, simply because the girl has a grandparent at home she doesn't want to put at risk. The silver lining though is that girls are hornier than ever. If a girl is open to a hookup and she's already made up her mind about fucking you, then the escalation will be eas…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/21 04:13 PM
1

Sounds like anxiety. You're manifesting potential bad situations that will never happen. Heavy compound lifting and meditation help with this. Look into whim hof method.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 06:29 PM
5

Sometimes you have to go through different roads to be certain about your destination. I got a girl pregnant 2.5 years ago and I had to make some serious decisions. I grew up with an absent father so one of my values is to not put my offspring through the same thing. On a whim I decided to sign a 1 year lease with baby mamma. TRP told me NOT to do this but I just felt in my gut that I had to be absolute certain that I wasn't quitting before giving the whole happy family thing a solid shot. Obvio…
/r/askTRP24/01/21 06:25 PM
1

Sure, definitely shit tests but these aren't to "betafy". These shit tests you're facing are just jabs at your frame. Someone with a weak frame will defend, explain, etc themselves which is a low value trait. Girls just want to know "WHO IS ALPHA?" Who Can give them something that most guys can't? Who can put them on an emotional rollercoaster?
/r/askTRP24/01/21 06:19 PM
6

I'd definitely do it to "get it over with" in a sense of, losing your virginity is a necessary step to actually know what it's like and you can see the other side of the fence. Just a heads up though, people tend to become attached to the person they lose their virginity with. You can definitely plate her but i would just be very self aware of how you're feeling. I'd definitely recommend spinning plates for at least a year before thinking of being in a relationship. You don't learn much in a rel…
/r/askTRP24/01/21 06:13 PM
2

You've made the first step and have awakened from the matrix. It doesn't getter easier from here but now your efforts will bear more fruit to you and you alone. Start with the sidebar and read the top posts of TRP and askTRP. The main sub is dead but frequent askTRP and pay attention the the comments. Field reports helped me the most. I personally love success stories but reading about people in your situation applying RP principles and enjoying the results always helped me have a concrete goal …
/r/askTRP23/01/21 05:52 PM
1

It's also the types relationships they've had. If they're all Chad and Tyron then a more average dude isn't going to excite her very much
/r/askTRP21/01/21 11:23 PM
2

The reason why could be because girls like to show off their high quality social circles. If you have a ton of followers or are good looking, she wants to show that off to her friends.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 03:56 PM
3

This could be a result of a high n-count. So most common with girls you meet off dating apps. Girls who have low n-counts are self-conscious about sex. They actually try to be good at giving head and knowing how to ride. They're inexperienced but they show enthusiasm and mild embarrassment. Girls with high n-counts just don't give a shit. They think that most guys just want a pussy to masturbarte with, cause those are the type of guys they're attracting. I had one experience that was so unenthus…
/r/askTRP21/01/21 03:49 PM
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I read this as a sort of a minimalism lifestyle / "Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck". Both are good studies of focusing more on your goals / necessities and putting less value and attention on things that aren't part of your mission / dream lifestyle.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/21 01:07 PM
1

OP, if you want to learn more about the "why" of visualization, check out "The Charisma Myth". It teaches you how to boost your charisma / vibration / frame before a meeting and also what to do if you're in a low frame mid-meeting. Also, before I have a meeting for work I do 5 minutes of "bioenergetic" stretching. It helps loosen me up and have a quick boost of energy.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/21 01:02 PM
2

I'd say "the way of the superior man". But one of the best things you can do is maximize your frame. Take the gym as seriously as ever. Communication is key during these 9 months. Talk things out and again, maximize your frame.
/r/askMRP19/01/21 05:34 PM
1

OP, I would NOT go along with it at all. If you give her any impression that you're going to give commitment / beta bud, she's going to cash in and milk that golden ticket. Ghosting her and getting a paternity test after the kid is born is an option. You really don't have to do anything until the kid is born. Another lucky possibility is that if you ghost her, and she keeps the kid, she could very much likely hook some poor soul who she also fucked within that month to be Mr. Dad.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 03:34 PM
3

Half the time it's the girl who pressures the guy to cum in her, says it's a fetish of hers, or lies and says she's on BC. But some guys, even here on trp, think it's so alpha to raw dog a ONS and cream pie.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 03:29 PM
1

A quality connection. These are rare to come by but once you establish a "flow" with someone, it's quite a ride. They bring a lot of value to your life.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 02:26 PM
1

It's most likely a shit test, but, how would the girl you're seeing going to react if the new girl sends her screenshots of your guys' texts? If you have the right frame then you don't have anything to worry about. And this shit test is possibly a red flag. New girl could be a can of drama and you haven't even fucked her.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 02:22 PM
10

Yeah I get that same answer from my mom too. My mom complains about her spouse and my sister and I'm just like, "mom, you've dealt with peoples shit all of your life. It's time to get your own little place and live in peace." And she'll be like, "nah, I don't want to be alone." But yea, I have to keep reminding myself to focus on my own problems / goals and let others figure out their lives.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 02:16 PM
0

Completely depends on the context. Drunk girl at the bar? Ignore, pressure flip. Roommate, co-worker? Cant just walk away from a confrontation. Hold frame and come to a compromise, or, consider moving out / finding a new job.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 02:12 PM
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That pisses me off too. That my sister still has the audacity to complain about my mom. "I'm tired cause mom was making a lot of noise at 5am when she was getting ready to go to work, so I'm gonna lounge on the couch all day and do nothing." And my thought is just, "dude, if our mom were to drop dead tomorrow, you and your daughter would be on the streets." Sorry for ranting, I just worry about my mom worrying less.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 02:06 PM
2

This is the best route I can suggest as well. Minor downfall is that women go crazy when they're told no, so while you're trying to reject her so she can move on, telling her you're not interested will make her more attracted to you. But it's better to be straight up vs. ghosting her cause maybe you'll see her in public and things can just get awkward.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 02:00 PM
1

There's one rule to keep in mind when you're at work. KEEP THINGS PROFESSIONAL. Keep far away from drama, do not game your female coworkers, don't even try and be buddies with the guys BUT, you still want to build professional relationships for networking. Last year, I was unemployed due to covid, but I was able to contact some connections with previous companies which had offers made for me. I was able to use these offers with a company who was interested in me and I was offered a salary positi…
/r/askTRP14/01/21 01:56 PM
2

Fat is only a part of it. Frame, confidence, etc play a huge roll in your interactions. But, being unattractive hinders your frame, confidence, etc. You're experiencing the opposite of the "halo effect".
/r/askTRP14/01/21 01:35 PM
2

Avoid using the word "dinner" and "date" in your interactions. Remember, girls speak in womanese and assume that guys do as well. So they'll break down your vocabulary, and ask their girlfriends about it, because apparently everyone speaks in riddles. And for first dates, I would avoid inviting strangers to your place. Never underestimate a girl with BPD and some free time. Grab a cup of coffee, ice cream, boba tea and go for a walk or do anything in public that gives you the opportunity to vet …
/r/askTRP14/01/21 01:27 PM
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Any time you break up with someone you always want to ghost them. There's absolutely zero value that can come from continuing contact. When you quit a job or get fired, does one of you reach out after a few days and go, "I can't do this, I changed my mind"? The point is also that if Chad was ever in a relationship, and he got dumped, he would just shrug his shoulders and say, "ok" and immediately move on. If that girl were to contact Chad in a few days he'd probably confuse her with one of the n…
/r/askTRP14/01/21 01:18 PM
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I often think back to the fact that most lottery winners end up broke again or bankrupt. My older sister is turning 30 this year, has a 13 yo daughter and they've both been living with our mom their entire lives, and our mom makes minimum wage. My mom often talks about us buying a house together and having the garage for my sister but I keep telling her that my sister is only lazy with no ambitions because she (my mom) has taught her that it's okay to live with mom and have no repercussions for …
/r/askTRP14/01/21 01:05 PM
2

It's still smart to use your brain before committing to every little interest that pops in your head. Wake up one day and decide that you want a Tesla? Do you go to the lot immediately and try and drive off the lot with your new Model S? Or isn't it alpha to take a few weeks to do research and check out some of the finance subs for car buying tips? I think I'm diving too deep into OP's post but overall I agree. Just clearly knowing what you want and being able to follow through that interest add…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/21 12:55 PM
3

"Since everything is closed, how about I bring some wine to your place tomorrow"?
/r/askTRP09/01/21 10:51 PM
4

At the end of the day, you gotta ask yourself if these friends even bring value in your life. Similar to never going back to game an ex-gf after discovering trp, always seek new friend groups. Keep raising your SMV and you'll start joining quality social circles with people who respect and admire you. It's night and day.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 08:14 PM
3

IOW, OP found a good quality connection with an attractive female and imo, these are best case scenarios, depending on your preference. The LPT here is to shift your mindset from, "can I convince this girl to fuck me?" To, "this person looks cool, let me approach and see if we can connect." This applies to both male & female. To add to OP's main point, the best charismatic people are great listeners. You don't have to have premeditated topics in mind to connect with people. Just having a decent …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/21 08:11 PM
1

Meet halfway for a quick drink and then escalate to her place
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:08 PM
11

Meditation should be on everyone's priority. Journaling is also really helpful. We're all basically forced to do monk mode so just focus on coming out with a higher SMV, whenever shit is "safe" again.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 06:15 PM
15

There's $15 pull-up bars that attach to a door frame
/r/askTRP29/12/20 06:07 PM
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I came here to say this. You're inviting a stranger to your house. And at the end of the day, do you really want to stick your dick inside of a girl who goes over to some guys house that she's never met? Why not just meet at a local park for a walk and vet her for 15 - 30 minutes? Then you escalate to your place if you don't notice any red flags.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/20 03:51 PM
1

I'm sure she's feeling really awful and embarrassed. I wouldn't bring it up but look out for a comfort test from her about it. imo it's RP to make girls feel comfortable about things in bed. She'll probably be more attracted to you if you're cool about it. Not as awkward as your story but I used to plate this chick that would always queef whenever I pulled my dick out. She'd always go beet red and bury her head in a pillow from embarrassment. I'd just kiss her in the cheek and not react to it.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 03:58 PM
1

You really don't. You can dream for whatever you want, you can live wherever, do whatever, and most importantly you can be whoever you want. Take the time to write down on paper some things you would like to have, and slowly just work towards that.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:50 PM
1

Honestly you can see your scenario as a blessing. Like, you can make big changes in your life and ask yourself what more do you have to lose? I will share my story, short version because I'm on mobile. Found the pill. Wanted to spin plates. Broke up with decent LTR of 5 years. My birthday was 2 weeks later and I'd booked a 6 person stay at a beach side motel. I remember being worried that some friends wouldn't be happy that they couldn't come cause the 6 spots would quickly fill. Only 1 friend e…
/r/askTRP17/12/20 04:53 PM
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Anytime you try and raise your value, people who knew you at a lower value will try and shit test you and poke holes in you. It's always better to meet new friends and game new girls because they will treat you at your current better value. But I see how self-improvement can seem unattractive. It's honestly kinda boring, especially the monk mode phase. No alcohol, no drugs, not doing dangerous or illegal activities, having a bed time and schedule. It has to be a lonely road. Typically what you w…
/r/askTRP13/12/20 02:08 PM
4

Yes, you step thinking about them when you are inside another vagina. Until then, read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 10:28 PM
3

If it's negative gossip then it's a red flag. I have a close female friend who will praise friends behind their backs. Whenever I meet a friend of hers they always admire or are attracted to me because my friend already put in a good word.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 10:26 PM
1

Water retention. Try tracking your BF% every 2-4 weeks and base your progress off that.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 10:21 PM
0

What more of an excuse do you need other than COVID? Say you don't feel comfortable being out unless it's essential business. And honestly it's incredibly irresponsible for your work to allow this.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 10:19 PM
2

It's important to have some interest in your field but you don't have to know exactly what you want to do. With that said, in my experience, I've had success in marketing my skills and experience. When applying to jobs, I shine light in what my strengths are and what I can immediately contribute. I'm also honest in what I have strong interests in to learn and develop. In other words, if you have some passion in what you're doing and you learn how to market yourself you'll more easily open doors …
/r/askTRP09/12/20 10:07 PM
1

Focus more on the outcome vs. the tiny details. If she gains the weight back you can apply dread game to nudge her back on track. Also keep in mind that every person has their guilty pleasures / weakness. Porn, alcohol, weed, tobacco, drugs, food, sugar, etc. Maybe send her an article about how consuming sugar immediately after a workout is the only beneficial time to eat it as it replenishes glycogen and helps transport protein into the muscles.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 07:08 PM
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It's feels. The guy is offering something that other guys aren't that trumps the other factors. Usually these guys are just fun. They do fun shit or they know how to have fun on the spot or they're just always in a fun mood. Girls HATE boring. They'd rather fuck a fun unemployed pothead who's mattress sits on the floor in their moms basement vs a boring "regular" dude with a car and job.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 07:02 PM
20

It's important to focus on the intention. When you think about talking to women, you shouldn't think "let's see if this girl will bang me". You should have the state of mind of "let's see if I can have an enjoyable interaction with her." And this doesn't just apply to women. You can start conversations with guys. Honestly, just knowing that you can have quality connections with women gives you abundance mentality.
/r/askMRP09/12/20 06:50 PM
1

Stand up comedy
/r/askTRP07/12/20 10:18 PM
3

I've been dealing with anxiety most of the year due to COVID and it's mostly because I haven't been able to go to the gym and get that solid pump. I work out at home or at parks but nothing compares to that feeling and pump you get when you hit a new PR on a deadlift or squat. Anyways sometimes if my mind is going dark I'll journal down my thoughts. I'll just rant and it honestly it makes me feel better 100% of the time, even if it's just a little. Also I've been doing the Wim Hof breathing meth…
/r/askTRP04/12/20 02:36 PM
2

Yes, study and practice are key. Also, remember to own your mistakes because you learn the most from them. It's tough as shit admitting to yourself that you messed up but it's the best way to improve and avoid making those same mistakes. The more real life experience you get the more you naturally stop giving an F which is hella attractive.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 08:10 PM
2

Right, plausible deniability is VERY important to women because that is what they tell their friends they did when they ask if she doesn't want to kiss and tell. "Oh me and Don just had a glass of wine and watched The Office."
/r/askTRP28/11/20 08:06 PM
2

Yes man no problem. Mistakes happen and honestly if the main sub wasn't quarantined there would be a few blue pill reports from myself even though I've been "RP aware" for 6 years.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 07:59 PM
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Correct, and don't feel bad about being targeted as an orbiter. It happens and it's honestly a hole that guys put themselves in. Also, girls after a break are most def on the CC. Again, just keep boosting your SMV and REMEMBER THAT ITS A NUMBERS GAME.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 07:40 PM
4

Try getting a job or going to school. In other words, establish your mission. It's cool that you have your day to day goals figured out but all men need to work towards something.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 07:27 PM
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Girls will always hangout with guys after a breakup. It's to make the ex jealous and for emotional support. She'll say what she thinks you want to hear to keep you in her orbit. At the end of the day she is not giving you what you want and even if you did smash it wouldn't of been worth all the hoops you went through. Be more aware of her genuine attraction towards you and always remember that it's a numbers game.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 07:24 PM
2

Hey bud, this is answered in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 07:19 PM
5

You're confusing being bold with being direct. And when asking a girl over it's honestly not that important how you do it. Remember that if you're inviting a girl over (for the first time) she has to decide that she's going to a strangers house by herself probably at a later hour. Men don't understand how scary it is for women to be out alone. So keep this in mind. Once you've established trust and attraction then you may go ahead and be bold and direct and tell her to come over to dine & smash
/r/askTRP28/11/20 06:11 PM
2

You're gonna be doing plenty of working out and such so I wouldn't focus too much on it right now. I'd say definitely focus on building social circles so you have groups to hit up when you're able to visit home. Think about building some social media following. This girl I dated has a brother who I met when he was in your position. He was really skinny and would just play fortnite all day. When he went to the army he would post his progress pics and I was surprised how muscular he got in just a …
/r/askTRP28/11/20 06:05 PM
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Yea. I was smashing a Tinder plate for a few weeks and I'd hang around her friend a few times when we'd go out (I was new in town so I enjoyed going out with the locals). There wasn't really any sexual tension between me and the friend but we followed each other on Instagram and had the same sense of humor. Anyways, the friend hires me to design a logo for her photography and I invite her over to get it done in person (she'd been to my house before with my plate for a swim). Honestly my intentio…
/r/askTRP28/11/20 02:19 PM
2

Based off this info I'd say the best course is to just have a talk with him. Normally any other bro I'd say to drop him but being friends with your musician friend is probably giving you a lot of value.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 01:57 PM
2

It's important not to get too hung up on the outcome (sex, bj). Just go to her place and have a good time. If things escalate then you can put her hand on your crotch area and when she's giving you a handy, just ask her, "how's your head game?". If she refuses then just accept the handy. You can try to escalate to sex if you're ok with period sex but READ THE ROOM. A lot of girls aren't into period sex, especially someone who they just met. If she's the one escalating and leading things to sex t…
/r/askTRP26/11/20 05:19 PM
1

It's just a low self esteem result. Your friend is rejecting the girl (in his head) so that she doesn't have the chance to reject him. He's also putting "attractive" girls on a pedestal. Basically saying that he would only put effort if the girl was a 10 but we all know he'd never approach.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 09:32 PM
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The more attractive you are the more chance you're gonna have of coming out good in photos obviously. Keep in mind that you only need 3-5 photos good for a dating app so don't get too hung up when you don't look good in some photos.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 04:12 PM
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Go on a dating app and set your preferences to men. Go through profiles and see what poses, angles, etc other guys are doing. Save some of these. Find a photographer. Really, anyone with a professional camera with some amateur skills will do. Agree to their rate and pick a spot (s). Take a few outfits and show your photographer the photos you liked. I recommend taking some professional photos and some more "sexy" ones for multiple uses. Also whenever you're out with people and friends are taking…
/r/askTRP19/11/20 03:03 PM
1

Maybe "emotionally" cheating but if you're raising your SMV she'll be less inclined to physically cheat because she'll be more attracted to you.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 02:51 PM
1

Search up push/pull. Every woman reacts to their own "formula" but a great attractive skill is knowing when you push and when to pull.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 05:27 PM
1

As long as you keep taking action towards your overall goals then things will work out. I developed really healthy habits as soon as I moved like meditating daily and waking up at 5am to hit the gym before work. Make sure that right after you get settled in (big changes are exhausting, don't push yourself too hard the first few days) you start developing a routine. Find out what gym you're going to and what market you'll be shopping at, etc
/r/askTRP09/11/20 10:52 PM
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I moved to a new state 3 years on a whim and it gave me a good shift in perspective. People are different enough where you can learn new personalities and environments. Big changes can be really nice. Just a huge heads up that I wish someone told me. You might attract some girls who like that you're from out of town because they're trying to move out of their hometown and tying down some guy who's not born and raised is a huge opportunity for them to relocate. Seriously be careful. She might "fo…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 10:18 PM
4

Just go and dgaf. You're doing nothing wrong.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 10:05 PM
2

Calisthenics is a great alternative to free weights. Boost your total push-up, pull-up count. You can buy resistance bands for cheap for isolation exercises. You can also work on your cardio (HIIT).
/r/askTRP09/11/20 09:53 PM
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I had a plate who claimed she'd never given head, and said that if we were official I'd be the first guy, BUT, she'd only do it under the sheets. I didn't care. PIV was adequate, she only lived like 2 miles from me, and I was getting head from other plates. Still hilarious though.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 07:14 PM
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If you're into computers I would learn how to do motion graphics and videography. These 2 skills are gonna be in demand for the next decade and if you're good enough you won't even need a college degree
/r/askTRP03/11/20 11:39 PM
1

15 dates 15 dates? Why? You should only be going out with her 1-3 times for vetting purposes and building trust and then only hitting her up to smash (plate). ​ maybe texting chad Yea maybe she is texting Chad, "Hey I'll crawl over to your place later tonight. Right after I'm done eating this free dinner." ​ If you're making a post about a girl using her phone while you're out (for the 15th time) then you need to study more.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 02:28 PM
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It depends on the girl. Almost all girls will tell other people about it or they'll use it against you to try and break your frame. I told an ex-LTR about the worst date I ever had at a Chipotle by my house and each time we would drive by she would bring it up, "hEy IsN't ThAt ThE cHiPoTlE wHeRe YoU hAd ThAt BaD dAtE". It annoyed me as shit but that's probably why she'd keep saying it. But in general I'd keep personal info to yourself. You're very much more likely to drop your value when you tal…
/r/askTRP28/10/20 05:48 PM
1

We are having a good time aren’t we?
/r/askTRP27/10/20 02:37 PM
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Ask about family and see how she talks about her parents and siblings. If she “doesn’t talk to them”, huge red flag. What’s cool about vetting is that she will just tell you about red flags without you digging at all. Like randomly she’ll bring up that she was in an abusive relationship.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 09:36 PM
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This is understandable if you just stumbled into this sub and you’re in the anger phase. But just know that this is a toxic mindset. A girl’s history does not determine your level of value.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 08:58 PM
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This happens to every single guy who improves their SMV. People will tend to treat you at the level of quality that they met you at, even if you reunite years later and your SMV has drastically improved. Your time and energy is much better spent meeting new people who will treat you at the level of respect that you are at now.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 08:44 PM
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I was in a 5 year relationship and we also both had the same group of friends. I broke up with her 2 weeks before I had this birthday trip planned. I remember thinking that I'd be stressing because I could only bring 6 friends along and I'd have to be selective. Only 1 friend ended up coming to my 6 person trip, and I had to pay for everything cause he was broke. All of our friends stopped talking to me, even some that I were friends with me before they met the ex. Keep this in mind. Once you ki…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 05:14 PM
2

My bad I meant Thailand
/r/askTRP29/09/20 03:24 AM
2

Look up "Multi-Orgasmic Man". It's a process but it helps train your PC muscles and you can teach yourself to orgasm with ejaculation. Also, not ideal for everyone but I have my best fucks when I'm high. I have godly control and I'm extremely immersed in the moment.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 08:36 PM
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I have some friends who live around the world and work minimally. They both do freelance web design. They have about 11 websites that they've designed and they only work a few hours a week updating and maintaining these websites. The companies pay them a monthly service fee and that is how they afford everything they need. Disclaimer, they do not own any assets. No car, no house. They are citizens of the US but I don't believe they have even drivers licenses. Basically, they have very minimal bi…
/r/askTRP28/09/20 04:49 PM
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Probably just reply with "I'm sorry to hear that". Based off this info I'd say that this is probably a red flag. I feel like most girls would be sharing this info with their friends. So if she's telling you then it probably means she doesn't have friends, which is a red flag. I got out of a relationship a few years ago and I was trying to hit up this girl I went to prom with (so we were kinda close). She flaked on me twice and I hard nexted but I later learned her younger brother had just passed…
/r/askTRP27/09/20 03:42 PM
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Say the lighting is terrible and you’ll need them both in your room to make a clear answer
/r/askTRP17/09/20 03:12 AM
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Just be cautious she'll be hella acting like a perfect wifey material (if she's trying to trap you). I'd say to make your intentions known and definitely have "the talk" early on.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 10:11 PM
3

Idk be prepared for some post pregnancy body effects. Girls can hide 25 lbs easily nowadays.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 10:09 PM
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You know it's tough to know what any of us would do in that exact situation. The limitless variables play into this so only you can know if you made the right move or not. Off the top of my head I'm thinking an appropriate response could've been, "excuse me but it's 'pretty please ma'am' to you". But then again like you said, if this dude does just speak on impulse then he should be getting checked. You probably did him a favor and he can check himself from now on. He can say the wrong thing to …
/r/askTRP15/09/20 10:06 PM
1

Best way to not come off as butt hurt is to not be butt hurt. You don't notice her not getting back to you because someone else got back to you and now you're fucking her brains out. Honestly there's a million reasons why she didn't get back to you "in a timely fashion". Maybe she's getting her brains fucked out. You've already soft nexted and you can't soft next back to back so you should hard next. She isn't that into you.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 09:58 PM
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The first few times with any one girl won't be great. There's comfort and preferences that need to be built and learned. This is why always trying to do ONS isn't fulfilling. Just a bunch of mediocre sex. LTR sex is great cause there's strong emotion and trust between you 2. My advice is to keep meeting girls but only escalate to sex if you feel like there's a genuine connection. I'm saying connection not attraction because you can be attracted to people you don't like (bitchy co-workers). Inste…
/r/askTRP15/09/20 09:45 PM
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Probably just demote to plate in your head. Assume that she's most likely going to cheat while you're away. Best you can do is raise your SMV and approach new girls. Once you're back you can hit it again but I wouldn't LTR.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 09:34 PM
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There's ONS, then there's plate, then there's FWB, then there's LTR. It seems to me that you were on the FWB level with her as how you said you enjoyed spending time with her. You have some emotional investment in her and that's normal. I'd say that most RP guys would probably be ok with their ONS or plate having slept with someone they know. They probably just see her as fuckmeat so her sexual past doesn't matter. Most of the girls I've been with have been FWB as I typically like to enjoy the p…
/r/askTRP15/09/20 09:32 PM
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Think about it as TIME. Look at 2 individuals. One guy has been simping hard for this girl for 6 months. Typical beta bux, buying her gifts, giving daily compliments, etc. Dude hasn’t even thought about talking to any other girl cause he thinks if he keeps pursuing her she’ll far for him. Obviously this will go nowhere and the girl will probably be the one to ghost him eventually. Let’s look at a different guy. Guy goes up to girl at a bar, says some generic opener, girl looks at him, rolls her …
/r/askTRP15/09/20 09:21 PM
1

Meet new people. People tend to treat you generally at the standard of how you were when you first met. If I were to meet up with old friends from my old home town who are lower SV they would bring up old shit to get a laugh at my cost and not really respect me as much as people who I’ve met more recently where I’m at a higher value and they are even higher value themselves. I get respect and admiration from my newer higher value friends. They want to help me more and there are more resources an…
/r/askTRP15/09/20 05:25 PM
1

She wants closure. Hard next and block on everything
/r/askTRP11/09/20 03:51 PM
2

Ironically the low value chicks are the ones who expect this treatment. Had a hairdresser tell me she went out with a guy but won’t “consider it a date” because he had them split the bill. She was in total disbelief about it. She was probably 50lbs overweight at 5ft tall. She had that penguin egg look.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 11:48 AM
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I have a co-worker who complains all the time about his girlfriends weight. He'll rant about how she's not supposed to weigh more than him. He says that when he met her that she was fit and curvy. Don't lose the weight for him, obviously do it for yourself but don't blame a man for not wanting to get naked with an obese woman.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 03:51 PM
1

Up to you if you want to do all that work. You could potentially spend dozens of hours learning all this stuff and have her page not ever take off. I’m assuming there’s a ton of competition. It’s up to you if you want to keep as player but this is a sign to not promote her to anything else. Also, keep in mind that “working together” could ruin the relationship. Conflict of ideas and such.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 07:44 PM
1

Exactly. 8-10 hours for me.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 02:00 PM
1

No they aren’t hot at all. They breathe pretty well. It just helps you feel really snug and comfortable. I’d just look up some reviews on Amazon. Sorry I’m just not good at describing items lol
/r/askTRP13/08/20 10:43 PM
1

Yeah I have an eye mask too if I’m sleeping elsewhere but I’m more comfortable without the eye mask which is why I do the black out curtains. Some white noise helps a lot too like having a loud fan blowing through the night.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 05:26 PM
2

Honestly any you can find work fine. Breathing, mindfulness, guided, etc. Just look something up on YouTube and start practicing a daily habit.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 05:24 PM
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Sleep is my absolute priority. Exercising and meditating daily are 2 other essentials but both of these are performed poorly if I don't have a good night's rest. I have black out curtains on my windows, I use earplugs and I even have a weighted blanket.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 03:49 PM
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Each person has their own shit to deal with. Maybe it's not her fault that she has mental problems but it is her responsibility and only hers. The best you could do is have understanding and empathy for her conditions but that's honestly being generous towards someone else because you really aren't obligated to give a shit. The best thing you can do for yourself and for her is to block her on everything. If she somehow gets a hold of you and threatens suicide or hurting herself then just send a …
/r/askTRP11/08/20 06:56 PM
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You assume that every single girl has had way more partners than you have, internalize it, and just approach it as such. Never ask how many guys she's been with because it's always going to be a lie. Best thing you can do is just be a good fuck. I met this girl on Tinder, fucked on the first date and had her as a plate for a few weeks. She pushed commitment so I ended it and her friend ended up coming over the next day. We fucked and she ended up telling me that she was curious because Tinder gi…
/r/askTRP08/08/20 03:19 PM
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Check out the levels of dread. You need to be as prepared as if you were to find out tomorrow that she's been cheating on you with that friend she told you not to worry about. Keep lifting, keep your game up, keep approaching, have potential plates lined up. You need to put yourself in a position where you would be minimally affected if the relationship were to end. Surprisingly, by having one foot out the door, that is when she is most attracted to you and the relationship is best.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 03:14 PM
1

If you were too drunk then know your limits. You also never want to be too drunk the first time you have sex with any girl. You should always keep in mind that her boyfriend will find out down a week later and she'll #metoo you and lawyers are expensive.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 03:11 PM
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Listen to her actions, not her words. Don't even believe her when she says that she's a virgin or inexperienced. It could all just be a shit test. When girls get bored they get off on this shit. Girls calling you "nice" or "asshole" or whatever really means nothing. Go with your gut and hold frame.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 03:07 PM
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That's rough. I have a 14 month old kid as well and I can completely understand about second guessing what you should let slide and when you need to put your foot down. At the end of the day OP just remember, it is better for a kid to grow up with a happy mother and a happy father vs. a broken and toxic home where parents hate each other and fight.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 03:05 PM
2

You should be hanging out with other high value men. If your social circle doesn’t boost your MV then you’re hurting yourself.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 02:04 PM
6

I just take a hit or two of weed and I end up lasting as long as I want. It makes the experience a million times better because I'm immensely in the moment and physical sensations are much more intense. Even better if the girl smokes too.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 03:26 PM
1

Journaling helps clear my mind. If my mind is busy I'll just jot everything down. I'll victim puke if I want to or write down some goals for the day. Sometimes I feel "broken down" and I'll allow myself to just watch movies, have a cheat meal, and Friday nights I allow myself to watch some WWE because I love it.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 04:53 PM
2

In general my mission is to have quality individuals in my life while continuing to improve my abundance in self-love and happiness so that I can share these feelings with my loved ones unconditionally. I have a daughter so I also want to continue to feel peace and happiness so that my feelings and emotions become contagious in my household while also teaching from example to have genuine ambitions and healthy habits. Also, I'm 6'3 so I want to make enough money where I can renovate my home to w…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 04:48 PM
1

Okay then, take a break. If you're having 3 dates a week, cut it down to 1 a week but plan it out so that you do shit you want to do and do it with the girl that you most vibe with (or who most vibes with you "you're the prize").
/r/askTRP14/07/20 04:45 PM
1

That's her frame. Your frame is either you give hugs or you don't. I don't give hugs when I meet people but when I depart from them I'll give one. Sometimes they reciprocate the hug and sometimes they awkwardly go for it but it doesn't matter because it's my thing.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 04:43 PM
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Your frame is trash. You're trying to add things in your life to not seem boring to other people and your idea of a "cool life" is classic blue pill. There's no "ideal lifestyle" because every man has different interests and genuine pursuits. The "ideal lifestyle" is YOUR lifestyle. Doing shit for yourself because you like it.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 04:41 PM
1

Try pressure flip. "Why do you ask? Am I making you nervous?" (smirk).
/r/askTRP14/07/20 04:37 PM
1

Your mind is fucked. Buy some books on self esteem. Try "Models" by Mark Manson or "The Game" by Neil Strauss.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 04:35 PM
3

You're born with what you're born with. Can you be lean and maximize mass on your body? yes. Should you "not bother" for XYZ? No.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 04:32 PM
2

Do both. IF can help lower cholesterol, improve glucose control, reduce liver fat and improve blood pressure. I do 16/8, 11am - 7pm. 7pm is late enough where I can still have dinner with friends and family.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 04:30 PM
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For me the healthy medium is to just masturbate without porn. It can boost your sex performance if you are mindful of the sensations you're stroking. Become comfortable with what speed and intensity get you close to orgasm.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:37 PM
1

She won’t keep it up for 6 months if she’s faking it
/r/askTRP11/07/20 02:20 AM
3

Ideally: the best (and arguably, only) way to go about being in an exclusive relationship or emotional relationship is to keep them as plates for at least 6 months. The 6 month period is a vetting period in which you continue to see other people and you look out for any red flags from the prospect. There's no investment from you so even if the plate breaks it's no big deal. If the prospect continues to display LTR qualities during the 6 months with zero red flags and remains exclusive to you, th…
/r/askTRP10/07/20 06:38 PM
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You have to be careful. There are some girls out there who are absolute experts in manipulating a man's emotions. My old roommate is a 32F. Still a HB7-8. During quarantine I'd hear her listening to this podcast called "Call Her Daddy" that basically teaches girls how to get away with cheating and how do make guys fall in love. She'd also have books about relationships and listened to audiobooks about power. I didn't think much of it since I grew up with 2 sisters so I'm used to ignoring female …
/r/askTRP10/07/20 05:48 PM
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It basically comes down to frame. LOA teaches you to "feel" as if you already have something (positive). Having frame is in some way similar in which you don't let external resistances control you. In short, if you generally always feel good, good things will happen to you because your frame filters out the bad stuff and feeling good emits physically so it makes you more attractive. LOA also words it too soft. It basically says to be open to opportunities and once they're in front of you to just…
/r/askTRP10/07/20 05:24 PM
2

I get it. I've been there. It's still in your control though. It's your time, it's your schedule you're squeezing her in, it's your energy and attention you're giving her. It's also your fault. ANY time a girl gets blacked out drunk it should be an immediate red flag and you should definitely not pursue anything emotional with them and arguably, if you have options or don't, it's an immediate hard next.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 05:16 PM
1

My advice is to have trust and comfort in the bedroom if you're trying to avoid getting a rape charge. I wouldn't push this for any first lays and would only talk about it with plates that you've been fucking for a few weeks.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 05:14 PM
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You're good. You really don't need an income right now since you are living with your parents and don't have a car. Your priority right now should be your schooling. Do lifting at least 3x a week. I got rapid results during quarantine working out at home with just a pull-up bar and 1 resistance band. You don't need much money to eat well. Vegetables and chicken are dirt cheap. If you cook your own meals you can actually save money vs. buying out. Consider doing internships for jobs related to yo…
/r/askTRP10/07/20 05:06 PM
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Can I eventually bring her back and somehow keep her for sex and access? No. Biggest "revenge" you can get to an ex is to block them on everything and move on. Any other type of revenge is just going to feed her attention whoreness. You could've gotten so much more out of this. You could've kept banging her (with the understanding that she was on the CC) and you could've used her social hook ups to get yourself invited to parties and improve your social circle.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 04:58 PM
5

If it looks fake - whether it is or isn't - then it turns me off.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 04:47 PM
2

Don't cut out carbs too much and stick to the slow digesting complex versions like oatmeal, sweet potatoes, brown rice, etc. You need fat. Try and get .5g / 1lb body weight. Obviously make sure you're getting healthy sources of these from meats, salmon, avocados, eggs, nuts, etc. It's okay to do cardio but don't do it to burn calories. Only do it for health / stamina reasons. Obviously you don't want to be out of breathe from climbing a flight of stairs but it's a waste of time to use cardio for…
/r/askTRP09/07/20 06:22 PM
14

The Charisma Myth - for Charisma 48 Laws of Power - For “Dealing” with people
/r/askTRP09/07/20 01:33 PM
6

You do want to distance yourself from toxic people. Some toxic people LIVE to get reactions out of people and they'll continue to live like this all of their lives. I had a roommate 2 years ago who constantly talked shit about everyone in the house. Like she'd tell other people in the house that when she first met me she thought I was gay. And the funny part is that she was one of the lowest value people I'd ever met. She was in her 40's. Had kids that wouldn't even want to be around her. Her so…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:09 PM
2

Famous celebrities can afford a lawyer who provides them with a consent form and NDA, if they're smart. For regular people, this is like trying to prevent pregnancy. There's nothing that's 100% effective, but you still taking the safety measures. The most important things you can do: - Vet girls before you fuck them. IMO if a girl is down to go to your house for the first date then it's a red flag. Meet girls at public places and have your vetting process solid and carefully look for red flags. …
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:14 PM
5

It sounds like girls are just finding an excuse to talk to you. Try this, "Oh, these are just matching tattoos I've gotten with all my girlfriends." (show your other non-tatooed arm) "So what do you think me and you should get for ours?"
/r/askTRP01/07/20 05:12 PM
3

I was in a shit spot during the initial lock down in March. Drinking, eating frozen foods, PMO daily, video games, Netflix, etc. The first step I did was journal my thoughts / emotions. Pen on paper. Just victim puke, rant, express myself, etc. Some of it was cringy shit but it doesn't matter. 100% of the time I always feel better and my mind is clearer after journaling. I accepted that I was in a slump and I wrote down the actions needed to get myself back up. After weeks of not hitting the gym…
/r/askTRP01/07/20 05:08 PM
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is this because you have a truck? If you have a truck then people are going to continue asking you to help them move stuff. You should have a go-to answer for anyone asking you. "I can help, just fill up the gas tank and cover lunch. I'm free Saturday morning." It also sounds like she's trying to gauge you to be her beta neighbor bitch. Like whenever she needs something from now on she's going to make you do it for her. She doesn't have time to go pick up a bed? A fucking essential item for livi…
/r/askTRP01/07/20 04:28 PM
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I see it as a red flag. Like she has so much baggage packed in her suitcase that it’s literally seeping out. She’s just an overpacked suitcase.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 03:31 AM
3

Lowering your body fat is the best way to go about it. I lost 4% BF since last august and my face looks way better. I have a medium sized mole on my chin and genetically dark bags under my eyes. I grow my facial hair out to bring attention away from my mole (my beard is still patchy so I keep it really short) and for my eyes I wear blue light filter glasses. I work in front of a computer all day so I just leave them on all the time and they help hide my bags.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 01:56 PM
3

I could have saved a girl and I could have brought her on the right tracks. wtf. You can't turn a ho into a housewife. NEVER be a captain-save-a-ho. ​ Every girl you ever sleep with is going to have an n-count and you are never going to know how many dicks have been inside her. Accept it and get over with. Humans are sexual and honestly you're better off plating girls who have some experience vs. having to train some "virgin" who just star fishes and gives terrible head. She's going to get over …
/r/askTRP16/06/20 05:39 PM
1

Never take what a woman says at face value. Based on your post, her translation is: Your SMV isn't high enough for me to be exclusive with you so I'm going to ride the CC and keep you in my orbit in case I probably decide if I want to be back with you, but things aren't going to even be the same because you're displaying even less value by taking me back after I dumped you.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 05:27 PM
2

Read the room. This could either be a shit test or a rejection. If you get the "I don't want to talk to you" vibe then just move on. If she's giving you IOI's or you just feel some connection then treat it as a shit test and proceed. If she gives a 2nd excuse then eject and move on.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 05:23 PM
2

Check out "Mastery" by Mark Manson. Description of the book - Models is the first book ever written on seduction as an emotional process rather than a logical one, a process of connecting with women rather than impressing them. It's the most mature and honest guide on how a man can attract women without faking behavior, without lying and without emulating others. A game-changer.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 05:14 PM
2

Idk about the "oops didn't mean to call" excuse. Why not just own it? If you call and she don't answer and she text you if you called just say straight up, "I had some time to kill and you crossed my mind." Based on her response you can move forward with setting something up or just drop her if you aren't feeling her energy.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 05:11 PM
2

Close social circles do add value but they are overrated imo. Even if you become close with someone it's very likely that your paths will go different ways. Arguably the best trait you can have is being able to approach social circles at any given time and have them like you enough where you build a strong connection by the end of the night.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 05:05 PM
1

She sounds like drama. Any girl that wants to fuck you will not disclose any of your conversations to anyone. If she's willingly showing your conversations to the guy it's because she's trying to break his frame and she's getting you involved for attention. It's a win win for her while she reclines back in her chair and collects her passive social points.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 04:51 PM
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Treat it as a shit test. AA, pressure flip, etc. You should rarely answer a girls question directly that you are trying to game. Also, this is most likely a red flag. If a girl wants to fuck you she won't care how much money you make. I've only ever had 1 girl ask me a question like this and this is how I handled it. (I was at a backyard gig on a Friday night and I was texting this girl who I DM'd on IG. I'd asked her to hang out earlier in the day and she hit me with the "i"ll let you know") He…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 04:39 PM
4

Go to askMRP and get ready to get your asshole drilled. It's tough love in that sub but it is where you need to be now. What you have to do is talk to a lawyer and start gathering evidence against her.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 04:30 PM
4

Even if men are aware, it's only 20% of the process. Most of what TRP preaches is what you should spend your fucks on and what you should stop spending your fucks on.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 04:27 PM
2

Every year there are more and more books about RP principles so more and more men are beginning to become aware of these things. Most of them will not act on it and that is what makes the difference. Also, there is more easily available media for both genders. My roommate listens to this podcast called "Call Her Daddy" that apparently teaches women how to find out if their boyfriend is cheating and also how to get away with cheating, they also encourage cheating. I'd say that any type of pick-up…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 04:24 PM
3

Just own it. Every dude who even thinks about spinning plates needs to know "how to handle THE TALK". You absolutely NEED to be able to tell a girl that you are not looking for anything exclusive and that if she isn't on board with what you're offering then she's free to walk out the door. You HAVE to be okay with her ghosting you when you tell her you aren't looking for exclusivity. If you are afraid of her walking away the you have scarce mentality and / or oneitis. Also, the goal here should …
/r/askTRP11/06/20 08:27 PM
1

Look up Athlean-X on YouTube. He has amazing at home workout videos for every muscle group.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 02:16 PM
1

Could be other factors. More water, more fat in your diet, more vitamins from better foods, etc.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 08:28 PM
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I always just ask myself, "Do I want to jerk off to some hot chicks getting fucked or do I want to put in the work to be the guy who fucks these hot chicks?" Watching porn does have distinct negative effects in your life. Me personally if I PMO I'll immediately regret it after. I get noticeable brain fog, my drive and motivation plummet, and my frame around women takes a toll. If I relapse badly and start binging really hardcore porn I'll notice that I check out women frantically. What's bad abo…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 05:05 PM
3

Try calling. Less flakes this way. Quick chat, start with banter, schedule a time and place, confirm the date and you’re done. 2 minutes tops.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 05:39 PM
1

You can take 2 showers. One at night where you shampoo, shave, wash your body and then one in the morning where you can take a really quick 5 minute COLD shower. Look up cold showers if you don't know why I'm telling you to do it. If you have a girl over then you have options for reducing any bad smell. You can easily just change your socks / underwear. Obviously deodorant and light cologne. If your ass / groin area is a problem you can a. wipe your area down in the restroom (girls do this all t…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 11:18 PM
1

RP relationships are made during the plating process. Do dread game and if she isn't your cup of tea then just hard next.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 04:44 PM
3

Shit testing at the work place is on a whole other level. You’re around people all day that you willingly wouldn’t want to be around, there’s the “corporate ladder” of everyone trying to fuck each other over, and then there’s all the sexual tension of, again, being around each other all day but having to act professional and appropriate.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 01:31 PM
2

I don't know if I want full custody. I have been more than happy with 50 / 50 but if fighting for full custody is the best route to go then I will get bloody doing so.
/r/askMRP24/05/20 02:40 PM
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No she isn't. She's actually been taking the baby out to Target and such while I absolutely never take baby outside when I've had her. Like I said, she was stalking me. She's been insanely insecure and paranoid about our relationship. When I ended things she immediately assumed that I was doing so not because I wanted to move away from her (she fails to take responsibility for anything) but because there was someone specific I wanted to date. This is why she's using our daughter to try and keep …
/r/askMRP24/05/20 02:35 PM
1

Yes I have been preparing myself for this and I have had baby under my care half the time. She has been taking anti-depressants / anxiety prescribed medication for years and she was checked in to a mental facility (her psychiatrist checked her in because apparently she was showing signs of wanting to her herself and the baby).
/r/askMRP24/05/20 02:31 PM
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No, I had a 21 yo LTR and she was on BC and showed me the empty pill case that she was taking as proof. We went raw and poof, pregnant. She claims “oopsie” but I’ll always feel it in my gut that she did it on purpose.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 01:53 PM
1

Sorry, I made the same mistake in trusting the girl with birth control and now I’m celebrating my daughters 1 year next month. Get a plan b pill now or get ready to fight for abortion. If you’re really that stupid with conforms then get a vasectomy.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 01:49 PM
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From my experience and coming across other experienced men who acknowledge this, the “magic” age is 25 for men. At age 25 is when our brains finish developing so it makes sense that this is when we “start” our long term lives. I’m 25 now, turning 26 next month and this age has been the most improving and rewarding time of my life. Like the things I want in life are so singular and the “how” is so much simpler and clearer. Like, I know my purpose in life, I know what my goals are, I know which go…
/r/askTRP21/05/20 06:15 PM
2

This should’ve been acknowledged during the vetting process. If blowjobs are a deal breaker then consider keeping them as plates at best, if the PIV is good enough. I had a plate 2 years ago that swore she’d never given head before. I tried pushing it the first few times but she was firm on not doing it. She’d say that if I LTR’d her she would then give me a blowjob. LMAO, no. She lived like a mile away and PIV was great and she had a really nice ass so she stayed but I had 2 other girls that en…
/r/askTRP21/05/20 06:03 PM
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As long as you wash your dick there shouldn’t be a problem. My last LTR couldn’t do cum in her mouth but she would still do blowjobs and I’d just cum on her tits. My LTR before that would always swallow. Some girls let me blow my load on their face which is my favorite. Point is, all girls should be ok with giving head. If she asks that you keep it washed then that’s reasonable. None of us like stank pussy either.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 05:52 PM
1

I’d say initiate a meet up (with low investment) and fuck the conversation out of her memory.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 04:11 PM
1

“Ruined” is such an absolute word to use for this. If you can’t distinguish between shit tests and comfort tests then you are not ready for an LTR. If you feel the need to show a bit of a softer side then do it how you want to express it, not how you think she might want you to. And always, STFU.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:50 PM
3

Renting something low cost with a high quality individual can add serious value to your market. Especially if they’re social butterflies you can easily jump in on their social circle.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 03:47 AM
2

Journaling, going on walks, home improvement, doing calisthenics and other resistance training daily.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 10:04 PM
34

Watching stand up comedy will vastly improve your sense of humor and story telling skills. Just kind of “imitate” what they do and practice.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 04:51 PM
1

Most of the time they’ll just ghost you. Their hamster might spin for a day or 2 but remember that women are the ones that like to be chased and they have an abundance of options so they’ll hop on the CC real quick.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 04:12 PM
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You shouldn’t care this much. You’re getting all paranoid over nothing. If you hold frame and DGAF she’ll actually tell you willingly as a shit test. One day when she wants to fitness check your frame she’ll ask if you know (ex) and she’ll tell you they had a thing or whatever. You asking and pressing about it seems insecure.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 07:38 PM
1

Alcohol is a hard one because it lowers your logical decisions. Usually what I do if I’m going out and don’t want to get too drunk is I’ll go for dark beers. Brown ale or Guinness. These aren’t beers you chug so just sip on them and enjoy them. I sometimes do a double shot of whiskey on the rocks and just slowly sip on it throughout the night. Being DD and not an idiot can help you pace yourself and know when you’ve had too much. In regards to weed just continue not being around it. Don’t purcha…
/r/askTRP13/05/20 06:23 PM
2

I’m Hispanic so I’m already darker skinned.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 05:13 PM
7

Same. I actually love my kid. Because of her I was able to quit a 7 year addiction to nicotine and now I only drink like once a month. The worst part is dealing with the mother.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:34 AM
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ALWAYS WEAR A CONDOM (or get a vasectomy). I was in an LTR and I thought I had all my bases checked. We both got checked for STD’s, she went on birth control and we waited the 1 month. We started having sex without a condom because I thought we were safe. 2 months later she ends up pregnant. The “reason” was that before she went on birth control she had some stomach infection that she got antibiotics for. She says that the infection went away so she didn’t take them but that after she was on BC …
/r/askTRP10/05/20 08:59 PM
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Bro I’m in the same boat as you but you’re playing it wrong. You use the roommate to build your SMV. You bring a girl over and the first thought the plate has is, “wow she’s pretty. I wonder if they’re fucking.” Let the plate get jealous. It’s going to boost her attraction towards you, trust me. Also, if you’re on social media then post pics with the roommate. If your roommate is high SMV and you make an image of making people wonder if you guys are fucking then that’s huge points for you.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 12:34 AM
1

Depends on the roommate. Unlike everyone in the comments who have lived with slobs i currently live with some who’s extra clean and very decorative. It rubs off on me and I’ve found myself keeping a nice clean room most of the time, my car is clean and the interior gets wiped down. Even my office room at work is set up nicely while the rest of the building looks cluttered and messy (at my work it’s 6 guys, no girls). My point is it’s a “you are the 5 people you hangout with the most” situation. …
/r/askTRP10/05/20 12:29 AM
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Probably repeating the other 207 comments but at this point (after the update) there's absolutely no relationship. From this moment on she's not in a relationship with you anymore. She's going to start seeing other guys (she's probably doing this already) and maybe she'll see you when she needs comfort or all the other dudes are busy. Face it, this is unsalvageable. Sorry dude, I know you're hurting inside but the only option for you is to read the sidebar. A great mindset to have is what Joe Ro…
/r/askTRP09/05/20 10:22 PM
2

Meditation can help you maintain your emotions. You’ll feel more content in general. You do HAVE to have roughly a 10 day streak going before you really start noticing the benefits. 10-15 mins a day for the rest of your life.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 03:51 PM
2

Way of The Peaceful Warrior by Dan Milman has some strong nuggets in it. A lot of monk mode lessons. It’s great as an audiobook or hard copy.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 03:21 PM
4

Do you masturbate with porn? Never watch porn ever again and let yourself masturbate every 5-7 days.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 12:30 PM
4

Let her do her thing. She needs to want it. Best you can do is invite her to do fitness stuff with you. Start by going on a walk every day.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 06:08 PM
1

I was pretty depressed at first but the last 2 weeks I’ve been working out every day with an exercise band, a kettlebell, and a pull up bar. I miss deadlifts but I’ve gotten creative with my equipment. Meditation has made me feel more content with day to day tasks and just feel more present. I’ve been following a carb cycling plan which is getting me a slimmer waist and larger arms. If I feel panicky i just victim puke into a journal and it helps me get over shit more quickly. Intermittent fasti…
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:22 PM
1

Going on walks and listening to music has been helping me a lot. Meditation helps tremendously.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 09:42 PM
6

Follow marriedrp and askmrp primarily from now on. You’re going to be going through hell.
/r/askMRP30/04/20 12:19 AM
12

Basic comfort tests. Just listen to her and don’t take anything personal. If this is your first time with a pregnant SO then I recommend skimming this sub religiously and building your frame.
/r/askMRP29/04/20 11:21 PM
2

The honesty part is what’s attractive. The big NO NO is being nice ONLY cause you want the girl to like you (niceguys). If you haven’t read Models by Mark Manson I highly recommend it.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 01:00 AM
2

Go for walks if you can. Being your kids along and invite your wife each time. Just be mindful that right now we’re going through the biggest pandemic of your lifetimes. Every single person is struggling and dealing with it in their own way. Do you video call family friends? Do so once a day. Play some sports with your kids if you can and try and keep everyone active. A 10 minute walk with your wife can really turn things around.
/r/askMRP01/04/20 03:50 PM
1

If your metric is how much $$ shit costs then you’re doing it wrong. Experiences are more meaningful imo so go for a walk in a garden or do a Disneyland trip. More expensive dinners don’t make you more alpha or attractive.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 12:24 AM
3

Consider seeing a therapist honestly. You might pick up on some insights. What about helping people? I do design for this guy who’s devoted his life to finding and rescuing children who have been picked up for trafficking. He’s fighting the good fight and doing beautiful with his life
/r/askTRP01/03/20 12:33 AM
3

I was so fucking high that I couldn’t make a move. Start by not cock-blocking yourself before you try and fix your logistics situation. ​ would it be weird for me to suggest us going inside her place to watch a movie or something? If she wants to invite you over she'll let you know. Just be aware of any passive invitation from her. ​ Either way I plan on fucking her when we trip together but I don’t know if waiting that long is a good idea (we’ve been hanging out for three weeks) It sounds like …
/r/askTRP28/02/20 05:21 PM
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The first 2 or 3 times with my LTR I also struggled to get rock hard. I was nervous, she was the hottest girl I'd ever laid with. I managed to get it hard enough for penetration but couldn't get the blood flow going for round 2. The awesome part though was that she was really patient about it.. If she was rubbing me off and noticed that I wasn't ready yet she'd ask me with sincerity if I wanted to take a break for a few minutes. So the good news for you is that it happens more often than you kno…
/r/askTRP27/02/20 04:33 PM
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Ideally you should've talked to other girls at the bar and gotten IOI's from them. If the HB9 was honestly interested in you I bet money she would've walked up to you and handed you a napkin with her number and a bright red lipstick kiss. Maybe she was trying to make her bartender boyfriend jealous or just looking for a free drink. Either way, remember it's a numbers game so just keep approaching and having a good time.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 10:49 PM
8

Good luck. Always wrap up, don’t date these types of girls. Just learn from this.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 06:05 PM
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Don’t do LTR’s and get yourself tested for STD’s ASAP
/r/askTRP17/02/20 05:50 PM
4

Don't discuss personal topics at the work place. Some people will give you a hard time for a week just because you're left handed. Avoid anything controversial. If anybody asks about your love life keep it vague, "Just waiting for that special someone" or some generic BS.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 04:40 PM
1

It sounds like you need help in the social circle game category. Ideally you can be the one controlling the conversations and negging people or making them prove their value to you. People giving you shit is 100% unavoidable but the goal is to have a frame strong enough where these comments hardly even faze you.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 03:11 PM
2

Whenever I'm having one of those days I'll do a 10 minute meditation in my car during my lunch break. Helps a ton. It also helps to have a journal where you can kind of rant. Some deep breaths and washing your face in the restroom helps whenever you need a quick boost. Overall just do your best and tell yourself that this job deserves a good fit into the position and you deserve a position that's a good fit for you. This can help relieve some of the pressure. Lastly, consider pausing on other pr…
/r/askTRP06/02/20 04:59 PM
1

Focus on the red areas of your MAP first. The book also has a list of priority to organize your problems (health and fitness are at the top). Re-read the book and write shit down. Then once you know what your biggest problems are in your life, try and only study / practice principles and exercises that relate to that. Ex: If you're a fat fuck but ok financially / socially / etc then you should concentrate all your fucks to losing the weight. Study fitness and health and spend all your free time …
/r/askMRP05/02/20 04:54 PM
2

If I were you in your shoes I would first become a fitness trainer. I always see fitness trainers talking and get approached my attractive people. Building your body should be motivation enough to get out of bed and working out and eating nutritiously.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 03:07 PM
1

Try posting this on the askmrp sub where you'll get some advice from more men in your situation. I don't know how old your son is but I would basically explain to him the situation. Not in detail but explain to him why you can't be with him every day.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 04:49 PM
2

I'm not an expert on cold approaching but I've done my fair share. I've been to concerts by myself and approached random people. I've had rejections but mostly successes by following some guidelines. • Until you gain more experience and confidence, don't be so straight up on your first line. Chad's get hit with the same situation all the time. The only difference is that they actually dgaf and genuinely believe that it's the girls loss. IMO the best strategy is to first build comfort / trust and…
/r/askTRP06/01/20 04:45 PM
1

Yes with time it'll go away. You might even miss it because a lot of what you're feeling is excitement. It's like getting a new job. First few days you'll be nervous and overwhelmed with all the new tasks and responsibilities but after a year or two of doing the same thing you walk in to your office singing Christmas Carols and doing your daily tasks in 45 minutes so you can spend the rest of the day browsing Reddit. With this example you can also keep in mind that you'll want to challenge yours…
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:24 PM
2

No. Unless you're married or have kids do not ever "take a break". Either you take responsibility in making the relationship work or you end it and go NC indefinitely. "Taking a break" is a waste of time and you should not be surprised if she's contacting the dudes she's had waiting on her DM's and riding the cock carousel right now.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:19 PM
2

My LTR makes more than me but we still split everything 50/50. It doesn’t bother me because I make a comfortable amount and as long as I can afford my bills and treat myself once in a while I’m happy. It’s more important to be happy with your job and to keep moving up your career ladder little by little
/r/askTRP19/12/19 06:49 PM
0

Drunk female co-worker cornered me at the work Christmas party, told me that I need to step up my work Your response should've been, "Let's not talk about work during this Christmas Party. We can set a meeting next week if you need to express your concerns." She also told me how she was going through a rough time because she broke up with her ex at the beginning of the year and I stopped her and said “okay so what does this have to do with me stepping it up at work?”. Replied with, "Sorry to hea…
/r/askTRP19/12/19 05:02 PM
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Read "Sex God Method" asap. Escalating to sex should feel natural and very much "in the moment". The best thing you can do is have logistics set up at all times and look out for IOD's. Basically if she forces you off or rejects your physical advances more than once you should end the date then and there and kindly invite her to leave. If you decide to "tone it down" physically you're entering her frame thus displaying low value. Also, if you continue to try to escalate after she's said NO you be…
/r/askTRP19/12/19 04:53 PM
0

I eventually learned to simply hang up whenever she did this to me. Getting butt-hurt is very low value. Last night, while on the phone with my LTR, she pulled the same shit. Told me to wait while she went pee and the line went silent for a minute. Once she got back on the line, I told her I had to pee, and told her to wait to fuck with her which she laughed at. Wow, getting butt-hurt again? Twice in 1 post?
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:17 PM
2

I saw a post on another sub of a dude who posted a detailed graph of the data he inputted during his Tinder journey. It starts off with him matching with 200+ women and then how many responded, how many gave a number, how many set a date, how many showed up for the date, how many he ended up f-closing, and how many he ended up plating. Out of the 200+ women he matched with he only f-closed with 3 of them and only plated 2 (f-closed more than once). So with this dude's data, the chances of him ac…
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:14 PM
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I mean, if it's not you it's gonna be someone else. and IMO finding a virgin nowadays is a myth. I had a co-worker who I thought was the 1 exception. Went to church twice a week, really shy and innocent. She even wore those long skirts that religious women wear. Once in a while I'd fantasize about "breaking her in" but I was smart enough not to shit where we eat. Anyways, a few months later I met up with some co-workers (none of us worked there anymore) to catch up. The dude who was my manager t…
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:08 PM
1

If something isn't working for you then try something else. Consider reading some pick-up books like "The Natural", "The Game", and "Models" to try and add more direction with your approaches.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:04 PM
2

I'd say ideally you'd want to restrain her. Hold her wrists and tell her you aren't gonna let go until she stops trying to assault you. Of course you can still get arrested and shit but you definitely don't want to leave any marks on her. If you HAVE to hit her, do open palm (slap). The shock of the hit will probably subdue her. I think that it's okay to call her out although it's not your job to "teach her a lesson". A good idea would've been to video record her being loud in the library and th…
/r/askTRP17/12/19 05:08 PM
3

Is this how.most people feel No. Most people feel average or slightly below average every day. IMO how you feel is how we're supposed to feel. In Western culture it's become the norm to always be moving and working fast and constantly stimulating our brains without break. What you're feeling is basically just how people are capable of feeling when you remove the overwhelming stress and anxiety and also by being in the present moment.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 04:39 PM
1

If you had more freedom I'd recommend finding some side hustle you could do like Fiverr so that you could be making extra money during your free time. If you're under surveillance then you really don't have any other options than to keep doing what you're doing or just present to your manager that you're looking to take on some more responsibilities and learn new skills.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 08:36 PM
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In HS I somehow attracted a LOT of girls that had boyfriends. They would always be really touchy and flirty with me but I refused to escalate because it was "wrong". There is a ton of conditioning for younger guys and it takes a lot of failures to start realizing that maybe your paradigm isn't working out well. Also, remember that 20% of men get 80% of the women so the 30-50 Chads at your school were the ones getting laid easily. Lastly, expect a major spike in n-count during college because soc…
/r/askTRP13/12/19 08:32 PM
3

5x5 is good. If you have a problem gaining weight you should have more liquid calories. Last year when I was bulking I would make myself a morning shake - 2 protein scoops, 1 packet of oatmeal, yogurt, banana, peanut butter. I'd chug it down and just like that I'd get ~700 cals. Have 2 of these a day plus some solid meals throughout your day and a few more protein shakes around your workout and you'll start seeing some gains.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 08:15 PM
2

THIS. I went out to a club event with a group of friends and we were all having a good time in the middle of the dance floor. These 2 girls notice us and get in on our circle. One of my buddies pulls one of the girls and so I go for the other one. We're just dancing mildly and I try to escalate little by little until I try to kiss and she pulls away and holds her left hand up displaying a ring around her finger. I shrug it off and meet my friends out the back to get some fresh air. We head back …
/r/askTRP13/12/19 07:06 PM
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Giving a few days of NC is good because it makes her hamster start spinning, especially if there's no mention of a 2nd date. If she contacts you then just set up the date then because she's already displaying her attraction for you so just "lure" her in. I usually hit them up 2-3 days before I am available to meet up with them. Ex: If we meet up on a Thursday I'll avoid initiating contact until I decide if a. I even want to see this girl again and b. when I am free and what I want to do. Then, I…
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:58 PM
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Yea don't try and "red pill" anyone. Waste of time and you risk your reputation. This "2 am" rule reeks of low value. It's feminine to "test" your relationships in this manner. If you need a metric of how much a girl is into you then just pay attention to how many times you get her in your bed.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:52 PM
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I think that visualizing what you want long term helps out tremendously with vetting and how you present yourself. Like, if you one day want to have 3-5 plates who all give good blowjobs and all have similar work schedules to you so it's easier to make time for you and they all have their own place then you use this "goal" as a filter for what your current mentality is. If you're out on a first date and the girl keeps checking her phone and you find out that she works at the mall where she usual…
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:49 PM
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What I would do is I would tell her, "You know what, let's list 6 things that WE can improve together." and list shit like exercising more, eating better, having more nights out without the kids, etc.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:30 PM
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Same shit for me only we didn't get married thankfully. 4 months into the relationship where she was bringing me lunch on her days off and nurturing me when I was sick and giving constant blowjobs, etc. She went on BC and I thought we'd be "safe" but she had some anti-biotics stashed away which counteracted the effects of the BC (I didn't even know this was possible). Looking back it's almost as if she laid bread crumbs for me. "Training me to get her pregnant" is the exact description I could u…
/r/askMRP13/12/19 06:26 PM
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From my experience most girls didn't really have the logistics to easily bring guys over. Most of them lived with their parents or family. One girl did have her own place but the first time we smashed was at my mom's. If you don't have logistics set up then you are shooting yourself in the foot. If you are going out with the hope that the girl will have logistics set up for you then you're going to have some bad luck. I'd highly suggest getting your own place or you can try having sex in your ca…
/r/askTRP13/12/19 12:42 AM
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You don't have to do anything until after she has the baby. After she has the baby and she claims you are the father, talk to a lawyer and get a paternity test and take the steps from there. Even if the kid is yours, you are not obligated to care for the mother while she is pregnant. I would just keep my mouth shut and enjoy the short time I'll have with the new girl and if the cousin starts claiming you're the father then just STFU and say you'll get a paternity test when the baby is born. I'd …
/r/askTRP13/12/19 12:22 AM
5

Your insecurity is a red flag. Work events kinda suck but it makes you seem like a really asshole when you miss them.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 12:14 AM
1

I'd try new things with the date. You need to practice your outcome independence skill because you aren't going to be gaming girls in your backyard all the time, are you? What about if you travel and are in a completely different country? I'd avoid completely unfamiliar locations, for example, If you've never been to a gay club or to a Mexican tequila bar then I'd avoid them for a first date. Once you have a plate spinning feel free to get out of your comfort zone and try new areas.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 12:12 AM
1

Don't ever sit across from them. Sit at a table that has 4 chairs facing each other and have her sit at 3 o'clock or 6 o'clock from you or sit at a rounded booth where you can sit beside her. From here you have a few options like grabbing their arm to look at a tattoo or a bracelet, putting your hand on their lap, going for the kiss, etc.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 12:04 AM
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The beauty of cold approaching is you see their face and body before you decide to game.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 11:57 PM
1

Just feel it out. If she's pushing for it then I wouldn't settle for that. Just be careful as it might make her feel like you guys are more serious.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 11:56 PM
2

You need to imagine where everyone is going to be in 5-10 years. The kid right now is with a loving family with both parents married. You are living your life and in 5-10 years you might be happily married with your own kid that you and your wife planned. Even if you "decide to raise your kid" you're going to make a lot of lives very ugly. Most importantly the kid's. She's going to grow up knowing that she is a byproduct of her mother's infidelity. The mother is going to despise you for the rest…
/r/askTRP12/12/19 07:39 PM
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I met this girl from Bumble once and she was pretty okay to hang out with. I didn't have too many options at the time and I had just gotten out of a 5 year relationship so I valued the experience (and company) of gaming this chick. The first night we met I fingered her in the back seat of my car. I didn't have a condom and my windows weren't tinted (we were in a public parking lot) so I didn't escalate further. Another night we met up and she brought a friend and I invited my friend and we had a…
/r/askTRP12/12/19 06:45 PM
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