I came across a thread in r/changemyview about how Men shouldn't have reproductive rights. That men can't financially abort even though woman can physically abort.

She said it is selfish and shortsighted.

My response was:

That is sexist. If I get pregnant I am allowed the right to decide that I don't want anything to do with it, I don't want to put out the money required to raise a child, I don't want to go through the emotional stuff that is required to raise a child. I have the right to have an abortion and end all that.

But a man can't?? A man can't decide they don't want to put out the money required to raise a child, they don't want to put out the emotional stuff that is required to raise a child? I don't see anything wrong with that.

If a girl gets pregnant and decides she wants to have an abortion, the man already doesn't get a say in what happens. If I get pregnant and want to have an abortion but my boyfriend really wants this baby, he is shit out of luck. He gets NO say, that baby is being aborted.

But if I get pregnant and decide I want to keep the baby, but my boyfriend really does not want to have a baby right now, he is, again, shit out of luck. I'm having this baby.

I believe he should have every right to say, "Well, you made that choice, so deal with the consequences. I am making the choice that I am not ready to raise a child, financially and emotionally, so I am aborting this financially. If you want to make the decision to have this child, you have every right, but since you made that decision you take care of it emotionally and financially."

To say the man should have NO reproductive right is sexist and bullshit.

I think woman shouldn't have reproductive rights, I mean obviously we can't take care of it financially without the man, so if we expect men to pay for it then they should tell us when we can or can not have children. It's only fair.

How can someone believe that without thinking they are sexist?