comparison posts like these make me ashamed to be a woman

mythin · 2012-09-18T18:47:19+00:00

Meh. Yahoo answers. No need to be ashamed about your gender over trolls trolling trolls.

electriophile · 2012-09-18T22:18:19+00:00

Don't be ashamed to be a woman. Stupidity is gender-neutral.

Deafjams · 2012-09-18T18:58:27+00:00

Yeah, it's not women that are the problem. It's assholes. Unless you're one of those, no need to be ashamed of anything!

cthulufunk · 2012-09-18T20:16:32+00:00

Yahoo Anything: The Internet for the Functionally Illiterate.

TheGentlemanZombie · 2012-09-18T19:00:13+00:00

"comparison posts like these make me ashamed to be a woman"

This collectivist attitude is what Feminism relies on for support. Please cut it out.

We are individuals first, family members second, and residents of our communities third.

ignatiusloyola · 2012-09-18T22:28:04+00:00

Things other people do should in no way make you feel ashamed to be who you are. The actions of other women should not reflect poorly on you.

Yes, that is a disturbing trend in society. Thank you for pointing it out. It is one of the things we are fighting against here at r/MR.

Falkner09 · 2012-09-18T22:19:35+00:00

maybe i'm missing something, but doesn't the "1 vote" next tot he 100% mean only one person voted on each one? if so, then it's really just two peple disagreeing.

truthman2000 · 2012-09-18T19:07:17+00:00

The truth is oral sex on a female is less sanitary and more dangerous than oral sex on a male. A great deal of men are getting throat cancer because of HPV they receive from giving oral sex, which is more easily transmitted through a mucous membrane and often goes unnoticed by women who have it when it is internal.

I do not recommend men give oral sex to women unless they are in a monogamous relationship with a woman who has been tested STD-free.

2012-09-19T04:45:54+00:00

why do you even bother with yahoo answers? it's like kindy for trolls. primary school is kongregate.

ottawadeveloper · 2012-09-19T05:11:23+00:00

This is ridiculous, on so many levels. Even /r/sex would give you the better advice and give it to you for both genders:

Communicate with your partner. Find out what it is about oral sex they don't like. If they refuse to do it, that is their decision. Now you get to make the decision if you want to stay with them or not (if no oral sex is a deal-breaker).

evilbrent · 2012-09-18T23:48:27+00:00

To be fair, each response ought to be given to each person. it should be:

Reciprocation is a fundamental part of a healthy sexual relationship, just make sure you're physically clean (ie showered) and get yourself regularly checked out if you have had multiple partners recently. If your partner still refuses you should find a time to talk to then about how that makes you feel, if they still refuse to reciprocate it may be time to think about what that means for you personally.

On the other hand, if your partner is just plain uncomfortable with the act, perhaps because of something in their past, or for whatever reason, you need to respect that. No really does mean no.Whether our not you can live without oral sex in your life is a personal matter for you to decide, but it is never ok to pressure someone into performing a sexual act.

Veteran4Peace · 2012-09-19T07:06:03+00:00

They both have 1 vote, and one was rated as "good" by a whopping two people. It's not exactly a large sample size here...

Shermanpk · 2012-09-18T23:39:19+00:00

I am really pleased to see a woman (I am assuming you are a woman as you stated in your post) posting and contributing to this sub-reddit, I for one hope to see more girls actively participating in this forum.

As to what was in your post, I agree it is not idea but I think if we dwell on those kinds of issues rather than focusing on ourselves treating everyone (more or less) the same we end up falling down the extreme feminism line and I am doubtful anyone wants that.

On a personal note, it has been my experience that most partners (I am including an order of person evidence from my partners as well as my own evidence) are happy to reciprocate. I have always looked at it as: "If you are willing to that for me the least I can do is the same for you, if that isn't your think well I'll just have to find something that you particularly like and I will do that for you."

I have also found that some girls are reluctant to receive oral sex as they are uncomfortable with a male that 'up-close and personal' with them.

JoeRedtree · 2012-09-19T01:37:40+00:00

Everybody here’s saying it… but never be ashamed to be a woman! Plus I’m pretty sure Kenny is a guy’s name.

Sacrosanction · 2012-09-18T22:35:08+00:00

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downloadbitch · 2012-09-19T05:14:04+00:00

What kind of username is Horse?

2012-09-19T16:26:36+00:00

Two answers, with one vote each. It's hardly a trend.

2012-09-19T16:44:10+00:00

I'm ashamed for you because you felt this was significant enough to post this.

rykocolor · 2012-09-19T17:03:11+00:00

It's sad though. Men's sexuality is viewed as inherently disgusting, offensive, and demeaning to women. Women's sexuality is viewed is inherently sensual, innocent, and desirable and empowering for both genders.

Man asks for oral: your an asshole pressuring her into something she shouldn't have to do if she doesn't want to.

Woman asks for oral: she just wants reciprocal pleasure, and if you don't like giving oral then you must be gay/awkward/mentally ill

Man refuses to give oral: asshole who doesn't care about his girlfriends pleasure, and will be dumped soon (likely due to peer pressure from her gfs)

Woman refuses to give oral: She shouldn't have to do that if she doesn't want to, and your a disgusting pig for even asking and obviously don't care about who she really is.

Not to mention that if a woman says she doesn't like the taste, she is just being honest. If a man says he doesn't like the taste, he is being rude and hurting her feelings.

TimmyForeverMTGO · 2012-09-19T14:25:46+00:00

The obvious, reddit solution: Both people need to dump their SOs.

nwz123 · 2012-09-19T01:06:14+00:00

Top one: "I can't force BF to perform sexual act on me (attempted-sexual assault??), what do I do?" Answer: "Threaten him with his disposability, shower and make yourself feel all nice, and if he doesn't comply, challenge his man-hood!"

Bottom one: "I can't force my GF to go down on me. What do I do?" Answer: "Aww, you disgusting pig! Why are you objectifying her (pr0n reference??) and trying to coerce her into doing something she doesn't want??!"

Yea, incredible shit.

FireTruth · 2012-09-18T20:48:02+00:00

yahoo awnsers is one of my main and best sources for uncovering just how sexist and pathetic most women are... and how deep into luniacy women have gone and takken brain wash men with them

no offense.

but comparsons like this... make me ashamed i ever made the mistake of thinking women could be eqaul to men in the mind.

im talking about your average women.. not the author of this post.

i have done many experiments on yahoo awnsers... camparing awsners.... the baised is favord to womens bennfit to such an extream, i am concerned we may have to enlsave your gender for men to have eqaul rights...becuase no amount logcial debate is going to stop most women from being sexist.. its not in there natures.

electriophile · 2012-09-18T19:14:18+00:00

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2012-09-19T04:34:17+00:00

I bet anything that OP isn't a woman, but a neckbeard looking for more upvotes by pretending to be a woman.

Title	comparison posts like these make me ashamed to be a woman
Author	rollingstone-d
Upvotes	569
Comments	138
Date	September 18, 2012 6:36 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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