This post is to share my experience of being with escorts in my entire 20's years. It could help in your analysis of the sexual strategies. I don't know if this is a good or bad strategy, I just wanted to share my experience. This strategy is not winning (nor losing) is just that, a sexual strategy. This happend to me because of a combination of beliefs: madonna/whore complex, ambition, porn/videogame addiction, lack of friends, perversions, emotionally unattached, some natural mgtow beliefs. I will try to be objective in the pros and cons of not chasing women in your 20's.
I am 30 years old, I don't consider myself ugly but I am shorter that the average male. I am not autistic nor a nice guy and I don't have any apparent problem. I had sex with more than 100 prostitutes and never got an STD (I did an analysis last month of my blood/urine and nothing) In my country, the cost of an escort is 20-30 dollars. This is like 2-3% of my monthly net salary, please consider that the dollar is an expensive currency in my country.
List of PROs: -Lots of time. -Fit because I felt I needed to stay in shape to have sex with escorts. I lift 4-5 times per week. -good/hardcore sex with hb 8-10. -I am highly educated (above master degree and with certifications, my LinkedIn profile is impressive for my age), I studied a lot because I didn't know what to do with my time and focus. -good job because of my education. -no unwanted pregnancies/relationships. -no drama. -time to improve myself (or do nothing or play videogames depending on my mood). -time to mature emotionally and psychologically before making a big decision with or because of a woman. -the power to change my path (to be a red pill or purple pill man in my 30's if I start putting the effort). -not needy regarding sex. -I simply focus on myself (I invest all my money in myself). -no big expenses (actually, I have an excess of money now). -women can't control me.
List of CONs: -solitary personality (being a lone wolf is a pro because you have time to improve yourself like reading and lifting but a con in social aspects). -people don't understand you because you are ok without women. -some attacks to your masculinity like 'are you gay?' (except of the few friends that I confessed). Never have a girlfriend or at least desire to have a girlfriend. After reading some PUA stuff, I started to ask some women out, they said yes but after a few dates I rejected them. -no game/smv knowledge (I had to read some books to understand even the most basic things). -no relationship experience (I had to read some books to understand even the most basic things). -fear of women to some degree. -fear to have sex (or relationship) with a civil woman to some degree (feeling that the risks are higher than the rewards plus a little unworthiness). -lack of social awareness (when you do not chase women, you are less willing to go out and socialize. But I am not socially retarded and my job requires me a lot of communication and leadership skills). -lack of awareness in the choosing signals from women (when you have sex with escorts, you ignore women in general). I actually rejected more women than the opposite. -lack of the necessity/desire to take action with women. -low frustration tolerance (if I try something with a woman or dating strategy and it is not 100% as I wanted, I just stop). -difficulty to date down and up (why date a 5-7 because of my lack of game when I have escorts. But at the same time when it is a 8-9 it is hard to manage and handle this kind of women, so same thing, why should I put up with this person when I have escorts.).
My final words. I don't think I am cooler or smarter (or a loser for that matter) because I chose this path. No one is wise during their 20's. It definitely has its pros but some cons and I am sharing the consequences that I had. I am starting to improve my social life and trying a little more with women but I will never leave the escorts. Since now my life is in order (lots of time, money and my own apartment and I don't know what to do), I will try to be a red pill man that spins plates but if I can't do this I am ok being a MGTOW with escorts. I will never stop improving myself, that is my mission (everyweek stronger, with more money, better skills, etc). In the end you have to love yourself, no matter your path.
Sorry for my English.
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