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Cautionary tale - a man will literally take your kidney and cheat on you with no remorse

fdschickadee

January 22, 2022
379 upvotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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Title Cautionary tale - a man will literally take your kidney and cheat on you with no remorse
Author

fdschickadee

Upvotes 379
Comments 44
Date January 22, 2022 5:30 PM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/sa7grx/cautionary_tale_a_man_will_literally_take_your/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/cautionary-tale-a-man-will-literally-take-your.1098188
https://theredarchive.com/post/1098188
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Comments

[–]DontAskTwice-A-RoniFDS Newbie 273 points274 points275 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Didn’t that happen to George Lopez’s wife. She gave him her kidney and he STILL cheated.

[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple 95 points96 points97 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Men never respond to great acts of sacrifice with gratitude or the same levels of devotions. We've seen this with men cheating on women who supported them financially and emotionally for years, or women who took care of them while sick and this case where they even gave them an organ! Men are programmed to do what's convenient for them, always. If they can receive and receive without having to give back, they will, specially if it's women. It's another story when it's other men who've helped them and been there for them, then they manage to express some gratitude and give back to their bros when they get the chance.

[–]vaguelinenFDS Newbie 28 points29 points30 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I supported my ex husband for years despite being ill myself. When he left me, he explained that my illness had been hard on him. He was a porn addict and it was that statement that made mw realise he didn’t actually see me as a person, only as something to use.

[–]Coconut975FDS Newbie 74 points75 points76 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I came here to say this.

[–]souredskittlesFDS Disciple 42 points43 points44 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Yes and I’m not too convinced that having only kidney doesn’t have side effects

[–]lansburysodaFDS Newbie 174 points175 points176 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I’m not donating my kidney to anyone other than a parent or sibling. Fuck that

[–]all_or_nothing_betFDS Apprentice 102 points103 points104 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Only for my child. My bro, who isn't taking care of his own health, can figure it out himself.

[–]lansburysodaFDS Newbie 39 points40 points41 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I didn’t think of children, but good point. I’d put them first

[–]ConfusedBisexual1992FDS Newbie 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I’d donate to my younger brother in a heartbeat if needed. Anyone else - nope.

[–]scorchedsouIFDS Newbie 362 points363 points364 points 4 years ago2 (18 children) | Copy Link

Women donate to men all the time, either willingly to their boyfriends and husbands or through coercion and violence inside families in certain countries.

Men aren't dumb enough to return the favour. Not even a little. Their bodies are absolutely, indisputably theirs, they're not a resource to share with people who don't matter, or with people who matter. Those others can be strangers, the love of their life, their own children, it's irrelevant, men's personhood is sacred. Unlike women, men are very well aware that their body is their personhood, and that letting others use it, or parts of it, is a crime against human nature itself.

They won't even tolerate an argument that implies otherwise, they won't even pause to think of the possibility, because it doesn't exist in their minds.

[–]SayNadFDS Disciple 170 points171 points172 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Know someone whose son needed either a kidney or a stem cell transplant - and the father is a compatible donor.

He REFUSED. And the son, his son - DIED.

Tells you enough about men.

[–]all_or_nothing_betFDS Apprentice 122 points123 points124 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I know of a family where the father is a compatible kidney donor to his child, but him and his pickmie wife tried to bullied wife's 18 yo sister to donate her kidney! She is a smart girl and cut all contact with them.

[–]Covfefe-Beans 62 points63 points64 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Dude the procedure to donate stem cells isn’t even that invasive. That’s truly evil to deny your own child a life saving treatment.

[–]SayNadFDS Disciple 55 points56 points57 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Where I came from (asia) people's view about organ donation is pretty much still in the post-war time - aka robber will rob your organ and you will die on the street-side.

But the most important thing is that that man is a coward - like so many other men here. They have no problem letting their wives bleed from pregnancy and whine about them being "lazy" because they can't instantly spring back to life and do chores after birthing a child.

But those very same men will faint at the sight of blood. So like I said, cowards.

[–]Jandi18FDS Newbie 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And yet they try to control our reproductive rights! Fuck them and fuck patriarchy.

[–]lostmilleniaFDS Newbie 136 points137 points138 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

We need this belief ourselves. Our sisters we have all been brainwashed.

[–]fds_throwaway_4_uFDS Newbie 106 points107 points108 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So fucking true. Women NEED to adopt this mindset goddamn.

[–]europoor24FDS Newbie 69 points70 points71 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

When I started to adopt this mindset, being more selfish my time and body are mine etc.. I was shamed by him, the stepmonster, and all his friends.

*him - my ZVM father and when I used to still live there.

[–]xpressurself111FDS Newbie 26 points27 points28 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Tbis is also why women get their tubes tied and men refuse vasectomies.

[–]RussianAssholeFDS Disciple 20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Can someone put this in the FDS hall of fame? Jesus this gave me chills.

[–]bananna_nutFDS Newbie 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is an amazing comment but it's so heartbreaking at the same time to realize how badly women are gaslit. Men are never bullied into giving women they don't like attention or dates, or pressured into carrying children and damaging their bodies just for their spouse.

[–]tzijoFDS Newbie 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This comment should be in the handbook!!

[–]purasangriaFDS Disciple 246 points247 points248 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Do not help men. Just stop.

If they want help, they can ask another man, or pay for it.

[–]souredskittlesFDS Disciple 38 points39 points40 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is the rule of life lol

[–]leekykeeksFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is the way.

[–]biwinnyFDS Newbie 361 points362 points363 points 4 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

The way I'd take my kidney back

[–]driftinglochaweFDS Newbie 64 points65 points66 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've got a rusty spoon you can borrow

[–]Ana_jpFDS Newbie 226 points227 points228 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

You’re scary. Let’s be friends.

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[–]Davina33FDS Disciple 34 points35 points36 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol

[–]DeterminedblondeFDS Newbie 37 points38 points39 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m the same! 🙌🏻 if you take it and I’m angry, I want it back!

[–]The_Cat_EmpressFDS Newbie 29 points30 points31 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Scoopity scoop!!

[–]firestorm717FDS Newbie 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I’d go full Repo! The Genetic Opera on him.

[–]fdschickadeeFDS Newbie[S] 46 points47 points48 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That was my first thought as well.

[–]vforvendetta87FDS Newbie 66 points67 points68 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don’t know many people who voluntarily detach a much-needed body part to look good. 🙄🙄

[–]spinsterchachkiesFDS Disciple 33 points34 points35 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Chump move. He was a boyfriend. Not your family. Never do this stupid shit ladies. Stop being so damn nice to them

[–]BrightIdeaGeneratorFDS Newbie 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If a family member ever needs a kidney, she can't help now. What a peice of shit. "to look good". My gods.

[–]gravedestruct1onFDS Apprentice 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Reminds me of the story regarding Francia when she donated her kidney to Selena Gomez, and how she found out Selena was still drinking....

Some people will take even the gift of life and squander it. There are few people deserving of your literal body. I’m sad that this girl had the misfortune of finding this out the hard way, that people can be so cruel. 😞

[–]placemat24FDS Newbie 35 points36 points37 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No one on this earth is getting my organs, ESPECIALLY not "my man."

[–]hexriot2001FDS Newbie 34 points35 points36 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I really want women to stop posting their L's online. We have enough cautionary tales, we need to see more women taking W's. Fuck men, stop giving them any attention, good or bad.

[–]AyemHerselfFDS Disciple 23 points24 points25 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

New vetting strategy: Date a man with an incompatible blood type. /s

[–]Jandi18FDS Newbie 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I will tell him I tested and we aren’t a match.

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