In the west it is women that police promiscuous women, not men

slavicslothe · 2022-03-21T02:10:51+00:00

A lot of the fine fellas around here seem pretty concerned about increased promiscuity and the “cock carousel”. I mean how many god damn n-count posts do you see in the last month?

social_mule · 2022-03-21T01:19:06+00:00

Women don't like promiscuous women because they lower the price of pussy. Price in the sense of time and resource investment. If sluts are putting out without requiring men to make much of an investment it puts pressure on other women to do the same and disincentivises men from making much of an investment in other women.

DillonTheFatUglyMale · 2022-03-21T04:02:45+00:00

Women police women to keep their group power. They don't want one to spoil the bunch. Aka they want men to keep having to work for it. So when a woman gives it up easy it ruins it for everyone else, which is why they are quick to slut shame

greedyleopard42 · 2022-03-21T02:12:32+00:00

the only time i get annoyed about promiscuity is if a girl is doing it thinking she’s gonna win some guy over with sex and feels special when he clearly doesn’t see her that way. that’s pathetic. if it’s all good fun i don’t see an issue.

randodeez54311 · 2022-03-21T03:29:47+00:00

Uh you didnt read the whole thing

She added that prior research shows that men often view promiscuous women as unsuitable for long-term romantic relationships, leaving these women outside of many social circles.

What you’re showing in the OP is that men dont care if other men are whores

techr0nin · 2022-03-21T01:14:43+00:00

What you're about to read is pure anecdata, but I thought it might be an interesting addition to this discussion.

I am openly religious/waiting until marriage but also very curious and non-judgmental when it comes to talking to more sexually liberal friends about this sort of thing. I always kinda assumed that those sorts of girls wouldn't be interested in hanging out with me at all once I started at a secular college because I would just be a buzzkill or a nuisance.

Well...no. If anything certain girls in those circles liked me more because of it and had almost protective/motherly attitudes toward me. I think at least part of it was that I wasn't interested in the kinds of guys they were into, they weren't into the guys I liked, and I basically posed zero threat to them. If anything I experience more tension in conservative circles because those are the kinds of guys who tend to like me best.

Flightlessbirbz · 2022-03-21T16:54:33+00:00

I’ve heard this take before but I’ve also heard men claim that women encourage each other to be slutty. I don’t believe any of this is always true. In reality, it’s not exclusively men or women who police promiscuous women, it’s a certain type of person. If you look just on here, you’d think all men care a lot more about sexual history than they do. Some women judge other women for promiscuity, plenty don’t. Personally, I couldn’t care less about other people’s sex lives. I just want women to be aware of the risks and nature of casual sex and not do it if they don’t really want to.

BlackPorcelainDoll · 2022-03-21T01:02:11+00:00

Duh. But it's not for the reasons men think.

Wide-Illustrator2906 · 2022-03-21T04:42:49+00:00

Most women on this subreddit have said that they've never been asked about their body count or past sexual experiences because most western men do not care. They realize that the woman they will marry will have somewhat of a promiscuous past so they just accept it and try not to dwell on the past.

ohdiddly · 2022-03-21T01:30:10+00:00

“but only women inflict costly punishment” What punishment?

The title of your post is incredibly inaccurate. You go on to admit that both men and women police women’s sexuality and promiscuity. And in my personal experience, 90% of the time it comes from men.

houstongradengineer · 2022-03-21T01:14:57+00:00

Having feelings or inflicting costly punishment for poor behavior isn't the same thing as how men punish women, but men still punish women publicly and verbally for any minor misstep men don't like. We have all heard how men talk about slitty ladies. Don't act like you don't know. You can't really believe that's not costly? It costs women social opportunities, dating opportunities, even using opportunities in an indirect way when men get involved having their feelings (strong or not) about the personal lives of random women.

kartu3 · 2022-03-21T08:13:12+00:00

but only women inflict costly punishment

Logical, as such women are a threat to other women, but not to men.

I do agree (without evidence) that slut shaming internet trolls are 99% men though

"Evidence shows exactly the opposite, but let me state my debunked opinion here".

Classy, chuckle.

trettles · 2022-03-21T02:34:37+00:00

I can only speak for myself, but my friends & I always loved sharing stories about our slutty exploits. They’re all married/partnered now, but still seemed to enjoy hearing about mine until I went celibate 1.5 years ago. There never seemed to be any judgment or jealousy.

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nemma88 · 2022-03-21T10:06:55+00:00

The sentiment that sluts will hit the wall and no good man will want them is pretty prevalent here.

I think if that was the case women wouldn't slut shame because there's no threat. What I see IRL and out and about is sluts 'get theres', and the 'non slut' shames 'slut' because they're with the man they want.

To put it another way, if men valued chastity to the extent PPD keeps telling me there would be no women slut shaming other women. Even here there's 'They want men to keep working for it!' - but the chaste woman is high value and sought after... Sluts taking themselves off the market would only increase Ms chastes value right? Right?

Striking-Shopping796 · 2022-03-22T16:10:38+00:00

I think this phenomenon is caused by most women having mostly other women in their social circle. As a man I can't shit talk a woman for being promiscuous, cause she probably wouldn't even tell me if she was promiscuous. She'll tell her friends, who are mostly female, who then have ammo to use against her.

eyelinerqueen83 · 2022-03-22T22:33:10+00:00

It’s called internalized misogyny

Title	In the west it is women that police promiscuous women, not men
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Date	March 21, 2022 1:00 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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