https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-modern-heart/202212/do-fertile-women-prefer-more-masculine-men

This shows women prefer masculine men when they are fertile and feminine guys when they are infertile.Yes as the study says it cannt be generalized but even other studies do point masculinity being biggest selling factor of men in mating .Maybe that's the reason older women want nice guys at last in their life .Masculinity is still the biggest selling point of guy in a dating no matter what any women says