It’s fantastic how I’m seeing more and more women in their 30’s and even late 30’s and early 40’s who have worked on their fitness and health and mind and career and stayed looking amazing and doing well for themselves. More and more it’s happening and luckily it’s easier than ever. Gym and exercise is a much bigger part of our lives, we know more as a society about diet, and how to look and feel not just great but genuinely athletic. More and more women are refusing to just degrade as they leave their twenties as they did in years past and added to that women are making amazing strides and in a lot of cases surpassing men at the career game.

It’s a good thing seeing more single women in their 30’s who are still very desirable and refusing to waste not only their own years, but the years of a man they don’t love, on a relationship of utility.

Those relationships are luckily on their way to becoming extinct, and now women are clocking on to the fact that they do simply not need to settle in their twenties, and as they work on themselves can actually raise their standards as they get older.

This will lead to a more compatible and genuinely happy relationship later down the line, that won’t be just for the sake of it and will be much more likely to last.

And whilst it’s true that not every woman has adopted this approach, that’s the point of my OP. MORE women should be encouraged and driven towards chasing success and looking hot in their 30’s - mid/late 30’s and keeping their standards high as opposed to settling with somebody who will hold both their lives back.

The trend of the beautiful 35ish year old single career driven women is is a GOOD one and I think more people should strive for it, and from what I am seeing more and more are. This will only lead to longer lasting and happier relationships overall in the future between more realised and experienced people.