If two guys go for a woman at the same time, what could you do to make her choose you?

SeveralAcorns · 2024-02-05T13:09:35+00:00

Same thing that you would do if there was no other man.

Dude, there is always another man. Even when you are married. You can never stop being the person she chooses over everyone else.

SecondEldenLord · 2024-02-05T13:27:28+00:00

I wouldn't change anything to impress a woman. She either likes me for who I am or doesn't. It's that simple.

Over_North8884 · 2024-02-05T14:05:00+00:00

Don't compete for female affection.

SerpentCypher · 2024-02-05T14:55:23+00:00

Just don't compete for a woman. It isn't worth it. SHE invariably isn't worth it either.

Also, ironically enough, if 2 men are vying for her attention, a woman is always drawn to the guy that cares less, so by taking yourself out of the equation and not caring you are more likely to end up with her anyway.

IronDBZ · 2024-02-05T15:42:42+00:00

Don't compete for women.

There's no guarantee that anyone gets picked, let alone should you debase yourself waiting for her to make a decision.

Sad_and_grossed_out · 2024-02-05T17:25:26+00:00

I had a friend trying to decide between two guys pursuing her not too long ago. One friend of ours said to check their Instagram following to decide. Dude one was following like over 200 porn stars, guy 2 was following friends, family, hobby/art/music accounts. She went with guy 2.

Solid advice from friend honestly.

_izual · 2024-02-05T13:55:54+00:00

Be taller, be richer, have a bigger dick.

DarayRaven · 2024-02-05T12:50:16+00:00

I mean he can have her for all l care, not about play this middle school games

EvilManDevil · 2024-02-05T12:41:07+00:00

Be taller and make more money than the other guy.

East_Effort_9813 · 2024-02-05T17:21:03+00:00

I was in a similar situation. Dating a woman who was also dating a pilot. I ended losing because I wasn't willing to commit and the other guy was. So I would say if a woman already likes you and you like the woman, be willing to commit. The only thing that sucked was that I was new to the city and she was the only relatively close person I knew at the time.

2024-02-05T18:03:25+00:00

Literally pretend she doesn’t exist. There’s a good chance she will become obsessed.

Khanluka · 2024-02-05T23:59:47+00:00

Cut yourself out anyone that not sure about you or a other guy is not worth your time.

If woman is dating mutable men even if there all in the still dating phase she not worth your time.

RodVerga · 2024-02-05T14:30:53+00:00

Open up to her.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2024-02-05T15:56:55+00:00

I wont "make her choose me"

Either she wants me or not.

I ain't gonna compete for her as if she is a prize or as if we are in middle school lmao, that's a disgusting way of thinking

toasterchild · 2024-02-05T16:06:08+00:00

Women aren't a video game there is no right button sequence to make them like you. The key really is to avoid shit that will likely turn her off. If you are the type who likes to try to guess what she likes to hear stop doing that, it's the biggest turn off ever. Genuine people always have better luck.

Literal_Jesus_ · 2024-02-05T18:25:00+00:00

Be clear with your intention and relaxed about the outcome. Don’t change anything for her she’s already made her decision and altering your behavior won’t change the outcome anyway

ReplacementPasta · 2024-02-05T12:08:55+00:00

So you interact on a week to week basis, but you have not tried to flirt or escalate it into anything?

TRTGymBro · 2024-02-05T13:14:36+00:00

Wrong question. Man is the chooser.

UVIV · 2024-02-05T18:09:32+00:00

I think your mindset is wrong.

If something is highly sought after, expect competition. Things that are not valuable, nobody wants it. Embrace competition and win.

My advice:

Assault and advance! Make your move! Do it before the other guy does it! This is the exiting part about dating.

Dating is a speed, time, opportunity kind of game. It’s almost like trading stocks and investing, or getting into an entrepreneurial venture. It has risks and rewards, just not to a scale of startups.

You are a man. You are supposed to shoot to kill. She’s your target. What do you do when there’s another hunter nearby who wants to take your prey? You just let go and let him take it? Fuck no!

You ain’t gonna come home hungry! You hear me? Go take THAT shot! Be bold, be courageous and make your move. Ask her out and be clear about your intention.

Cjaylyle · 2024-02-05T17:37:21+00:00

Be confident sexually and emotionally unavailable

KingLancelot1991 · 2024-02-05T17:09:10+00:00

Look up Nash’s game theory, your example is literally what inspired it.

Cethlinnstooth · 2024-02-05T12:42:29+00:00

Ask her before she realises he wants her too.

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Barneysparky · 2024-02-05T13:47:25+00:00

Ask her out, if she says no move on.

Or you could get a boom box and stand outside her window, your call.

campskills21 · 2024-02-05T15:35:46+00:00

This happens nearly every time with girls on dating apps. If she’s stayed the night with you, have her do it again. Wake up and demand exclusivity with her, say you are my girlfriend. If she declines, ignore her and use her for entertainment and sex only.

HighestTierMaslow · 2024-02-05T16:37:44+00:00

There is no way IRL this would ever happen to me, I was lucky to get a somewhat compatible guy I liked who liked me and would be showing basic effort...but if I had two guys at the same time and I was equally attracted and compatible with both, the tie breaker would be who seems more interested in me genuinely.

Toxic_LigmaMale · 2024-02-05T19:25:45+00:00

Every date you go on is a competition against many other men.

Preme2 · 2024-02-05T20:48:39+00:00

Get on your knees and beg.

harmonica2 · 2024-02-06T21:26:33+00:00

Sleep with her first.

Gold_Supermarket1956 · 2024-02-08T04:38:18+00:00

I don't... If she's playing the field I remove myself from it I'm not gonna play the compete game which is literally who has the bigger bank roll

SnooSongs8797 · 2024-02-08T18:02:02+00:00

Absolutely nothing

GetStickBugged1337 · 2024-02-09T23:44:08+00:00

Just have a 😈 🔺️

Title	If two guys go for a woman at the same time, what could you do to make her choose you?
Author	StreetParsley
Upvotes	1
Comments	84
Date	February 5, 2024 1:32 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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