Is a girl resting her hands on a guy's thighs supposed to be a sexual advance?

PuempelsPurpose · 2022-02-13T19:03:58+00:00

This reminds me of the time when a girl pulled my cock out and started slobbering on it. Women are just so mysterious!

singleguy79 · 2022-02-13T18:49:11+00:00

Dude, I suck at reading signals, but even I would get that

mrpodo · 2022-02-13T18:44:29+00:00

Actually the embodiment of Reddit.

roakmamba · 2022-02-13T19:28:16+00:00

Her hand was just tired bro and she wanted to rest it near your crouch. Nothing to be seen here, carry on.

Electric_kundalini · 2022-02-13T18:13:26+00:00

I'm glad you're not a pilot because those where clear signals.

CleverFox3 · 2022-02-13T19:08:38+00:00

I was young and stupid too once

Thegame78 · 2022-02-13T19:53:25+00:00

Some of y’all are going to die single. Like it doesn’t get any clearer than that my guy.

Bin2Good · 2022-02-13T18:26:29+00:00

Lol that’s like the ultimate signal! Lol rookie

willgo-waggins · 2022-02-13T19:09:11+00:00

Uhhh…YES!

The woman I took in our first actual “date” this past Thursday night did this just after we sat down with our drinks.

I was in her bed and her less than an hour later.

shared0 · 2022-02-13T18:18:54+00:00

dude.... seriously?

saryiahan · 2022-02-13T18:17:40+00:00

Do the same and see what happens. If you don’t get slapped it looks like you’re good

Heavybench420 · 2022-02-13T18:24:46+00:00

Yea. It was. U messed up and over thinking it.

If she sees you again she's probably gonna be too embarrassed to be around u lol. Next time if a chick does that grab her hand and play with it or start moving it towards your dick.

OKKira · 2022-02-13T23:07:45+00:00

When I really want a guy to take me I like to slip a foot out of heel and step on his feet. I do that because I feel it's a little less obvious than putting my hand in his lap, which I have always felt was a little too aggressive. Like, stuff that a milf or cougar would do.

It has never failed to convey my intent. So I just can't imagine... Poor woman.

ZidaneLoire · 2022-02-13T19:26:34+00:00

You really can't tell. I mean, maybe she didn't have a place nearby to rest her hands. Maybe she was just trying to make a serious point across and wanted you to pay attention. Best thing you can do is keep on the look out for more signals.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=xa-4IAR_9Yw

nelsne · 2022-02-13T19:30:36+00:00

Lol what else could it be?

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Legal_Development · 2022-02-13T20:06:39+00:00

bro i don't fucking know anymore, a chick was literally grabbing my dick from outside my pants and i slowly moved my hand down her pants and she denied me...... that's why i fucking hate these games

kidcatti · 2022-02-13T22:37:54+00:00

Not necessarily a sexual** advance, just think of it as her saying “you are welcome into my space”. Meaning you are free to initiate intimacy. Hand touching, face, hair, etc. A sexual advance would be her touching sexual parts or rubbing (not just touching). But then again everyone is different. If she is a prude (no its not a bad thing) then that may he her way of asking you to initiate but to do it slowly. Its always scary at first but you really just have to read who youre with. If she declines just laugh it off and go back to hanging out and make her feel comfortable. If you do that she’ll probably initiate more aggressively when she’s ready so their is no uncertainty like the first time

2022-02-13T19:15:12+00:00

Whenever in doubt just do what she does. If she put her hand in your thigh and you don’t know what to do then put her hand in her thigh. Put the ball back in her court.

But yeah you minimum should’ve gotten a blowjob out of it

VorpalPaperclip · 2022-02-13T18:59:57+00:00

Well, yeah….

Phil-Da-G · 2022-02-13T20:46:01+00:00

"Guys, if she's pulling down my pants and starts suck my dick, does that mean she want to have sex?" Go for it my friend, and remember the basics.

thabat · 2022-02-14T02:22:05+00:00

Girls avoid even eye contact if they aren't interested in someone.

If she put her hand on your thigh, she wants you. Period.

What to do? Make a joke like "Heyyy hands off the merchandise, take me to dinner first".

And then actually take her to dinner. If you think too hard on it, you won't get anywhere. She was playfully giving you the signal to ask her out, not to fuck her.

mikebra93 · 2022-02-14T02:23:13+00:00

I'm just gonna leave this here.

Is She Into You?

2022-02-13T19:09:55+00:00

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SoberDragon1st · 2022-02-13T19:20:59+00:00

It's a compass 🧭 bro

that_old_white_guy · 2022-02-13T21:31:59+00:00

No.

When she wraps her hands around your throbbing cock, that'll be a sexual advance. Stop thinking with your dick.

l_wear-fedoras · 2022-02-13T20:38:42+00:00

Lmfao bro are you serious

jetsfan83 · 2022-02-13T20:59:48+00:00

Well I’m guessing you were getting your slacks fitted, so don’t think anything about it. She was just trying to do her job

neomanthief · 2022-02-13T21:27:07+00:00

Slowly place your hand over hers and see if you can guide her hand further down your thigh. If she goes along, then you'll know.

Estropelic · 2022-02-13T21:42:34+00:00

Female can do that to you and it means nothing. Relax man. Now if she was moving the hand slowly and gripping ever so often, you might want to ask for her number.

Roxiee98 · 2022-02-13T22:45:15+00:00

Guys don't be too hard on OP. When something like this happens men's brains tend to glitch out.

themanbat · 2022-02-14T01:27:54+00:00

Everyone is having fun but we really need more context to properly advise. Were you on a date? At work? School? A club? Was this a friend? A complete stranger? Talk to me man. Set the scene. She's probably into you, but I can't advise on how to proceed without more details.

FlanneryODostoevsky · 2022-02-13T22:01:53+00:00

Man if you don’t get the fuck out of here

sohappyred · 2022-02-14T02:02:32+00:00

Oh my, You poor soul. Well if she really likes you mate, she will probably be around.

Take 2?

Humanoidfreak · 2022-02-14T02:07:12+00:00

She is just being Canadian. No worries eh.

2022-02-14T02:10:01+00:00

Absolutely, it's never an accident when someone touches you, unless the accident is obvious. People are spatially aware. Even when it's not 20 seconds it's intentional and I encourage guys who are out on a date or whatever that physical contact is an easy way to show you are into her without difficult talking. It also increases attraction.

Mikeyandwind · 2022-02-13T18:45:12+00:00

Actually, not so bad even if you did not react. Next time, she will be trying even harder to let you know that she likes you. Just escalate from there. Had the same thing happened to me. Did not react. Next time she was grinding on me. So not all is lost. Keep your cool.

GaryK119 · 2022-02-13T20:42:26+00:00

She's obviously into you...Man up and see if she's about it

2022-02-13T21:36:01+00:00

She’s probably fucked someone else that night

2022-02-13T19:14:16+00:00

OP, watch this video. You need major help, you scrub

FaithInStrangers94 · 2022-02-14T01:07:34+00:00

Reminds me of the time my uncle Steve tripped and fell behind me and his pork sword accidentally entered my poop chute. He apologised but then he did it again he was such a clutz

GaryK119 · 2022-02-13T20:33:50+00:00

I think it's her subtle way of letting you know she's into you

GaryK119 · 2022-02-13T20:38:07+00:00

True but some people have a harder time expressing that

LumpyTown4103 · 2022-02-14T00:27:00+00:00

These comments 💀💀

Powdered_Toast_Man3 · 2022-02-14T00:59:10+00:00

You deserve this.

KounterMaze · 2022-02-14T01:09:52+00:00

Well a female friend invited me over to spend the night years ago. She was 30ish i was 25ish. I thought we was just gunna hangout with her group and watch movies. Till she got me alone, giggles and placed her hand on my thigh. I jokingly shove her, she lets herself fall back on her bed keeping eye contact that says “What else we gonna do?” Reading signs is all about instinct, less about thought.

Ketchup571 · 2022-02-13T21:01:14+00:00

Yes, but don’t feel too bad. I had the exact same thing happen to me when I was young and also did nothing. You’ll know for next time.

PimpDawg · 2022-02-13T21:38:44+00:00

Next time you could try putting your hand on top of her hand. If she calls the police you'll know that she wasn't into you.

Dan-tastico · 2022-02-13T22:24:54+00:00

Are you serious? I don't think you can physically get a clearer sign without her committing a crime if you're not into it.

Rockembopper · 2022-02-13T22:41:57+00:00

May I ask how often you rest your hand on the thighs of your friends?

2022-02-13T22:42:04+00:00

You should have put ur hand on her thigh to assert dominance

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2022-02-13T23:57:36+00:00

She prob checked if u got balls. Nd seems like results came negative. Once ur even asking about it. Rather than using opportunity

TyranuZ1 · 2022-02-14T00:02:49+00:00

rozen30 · 2022-02-14T00:28:32+00:00

No, her hand was cold and she just wanted to warm it up. Don't overthink it, she obviously just considers you a friend.

CoolKid2326 · 2022-02-14T00:40:37+00:00

Mr_Believin · 2022-02-14T00:49:27+00:00

Reciprocate equally. Possibly look for signs she wants to be kissed.

Read Models by Mark Manson and 3% Man by Corey Wayne

AdventurousPhysicist · 2022-02-14T00:55:40+00:00

~85% of the time yes, but not always

2022-02-14T01:22:01+00:00

No it was a hallucination

yhiml · 2022-02-14T01:45:29+00:00

You can't really tell..

Jokes aside, she is INTO YOU!!

donofdons21 · 2022-02-14T02:16:18+00:00

I had a female co worker who use to do this. I just thought she was over friendly

Suspicious_Loan8041 · 2022-02-14T02:33:43+00:00

Yes it was a signal but it’s not your fault you didn’t pick up on it. It’s a limitation a lot of us guys have.

Past-Concentrate2807 · 2022-02-14T02:38:12+00:00

OP def rubbing his head rn after reading these comments clarifying that the girl wanted to get it on. 😂😂😂

He’s like; dang it I missed that fucking chance 🤦🏽‍♂️

KyleTheKing24 · 2022-02-14T03:08:12+00:00

she wants to fuck

KyCrippler · 2022-02-14T03:22:17+00:00

bearsarescaryasfuk · 2022-02-14T04:37:51+00:00

Last time this happened, I ended up banging her for a solid 12 hours. So probably.

SpiritOfAnAngie · 2022-02-14T05:48:11+00:00

She wants the D.

😏👍

sam_phil · 2022-02-14T06:07:33+00:00

Smile, look in her eyes, sooth her hands & as soon as finger locks in. It's time to go all in.

BigusDickus099 · 2022-02-14T06:12:09+00:00

She just wanted to warm her hands.

60% of all handjobs are actually just women trying to maintain warmth during the winter. Trust me, its science.

EzioisaSlav · 2022-02-14T07:01:57+00:00

A group of my friends had gone out for dinner. One of my friend's wife was sitting in between me and him. As night kept progressing she started rubbing my arms first and then my thighs. I'm like what the fuck is going on.

I'm bad a reading signal and always second guess is she interested in me and when I realise it, it's too late. But this time I was well aware and didn't make a move cause I don't want to get punched in the face.

(Apologies for the poor English)

skrollchampion · 2022-02-14T07:07:12+00:00

No. If she wants to hook up, she'll point to your Zipper and move her other fist up and down. That's the correct protocol.

spicy_simba · 2022-02-14T07:20:29+00:00

It depends on the context, are you alone at home or in public group of friends ?

Best person to answer you in any case is her ! You have the right to ask, asking will not change her mind, if she likes you that way, she likes you that way, if not then you will avoid an awkward interaction with a friend

RageRags · 2022-02-14T08:22:59+00:00

If you suck at signals, then always remember the golden rule, whatever they do to you, you can do to them.

Flyleaf531 · 2022-02-14T08:39:29+00:00

Give her a smirk and do the same back with a little squeeze of the thigh Before u touch her you should realize by her expression if shes teasing or not I love getting into those one up games

HapMeme · 2022-02-14T08:47:57+00:00

Bro she wants to marry u

Title	Is a girl resting her hands on a guy's thighs supposed to be a sexual advance?
Author	Krypton252
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Date	February 13, 2022 6:11 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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