You can literally improve your game by 50% overnight

loofyd · 2021-07-04T01:00:12+00:00

as someone who has never danced and is extremely shy of dancing .. i don't know what to do with this advice

good post though !

Sweet-Palpitation473 · 2021-07-03T23:58:40+00:00

Imaginary Pectoral Syndrome eh?

LeGoat333 · 2021-07-04T07:54:43+00:00

Sometimes this subreddit is just funny as fuck

Haunting-Pride-7507 · 2021-07-04T02:53:17+00:00

Fit of the clothes a crucial part of the style.

heathrowaway678 · 2021-07-04T00:19:04+00:00

50% of zero is still zero

krispykreme01 · 2021-07-04T02:35:17+00:00

Fake it till you make it

Anyways Is there much difference in delusion and confidence nowadays in western society I think not lol.

Woodpecker7330 · 2021-07-04T03:41:05+00:00

There’s a phrase in the book The Magic of Thinking Big “to think confident, act confident” it’s the best thing that I ever read & it is 100% true

SlyderKmK · 2021-07-04T01:23:31+00:00

So the guy had "game" bc he was dancing with a lot of girls who were his friends?

TheSnuggler88 · 2021-07-04T10:41:20+00:00

You mean good posture, and not giving a shit what anyone thinks?

thelambofdeth · 2021-07-03T23:56:39+00:00

Sure, Jan

Fantastic_Web45 · 2021-07-04T09:00:57+00:00

I can confirm that seeing a guy at a club enjoying himself makes him instantly attractive.

yoowhatisthis · 2021-07-04T01:45:17+00:00

is it sad that i thought about video games and not your dating game only to realise i dont follow and gaming subs

OrangeMustard101 · 2021-07-04T02:11:31+00:00

Wait so how do I dance lol. Do I just jump up and down during hype music and move my arms around when there’s a good song?

ReditGuyToo · 2021-07-04T02:03:12+00:00

HA! Too bad you can't see how you do with my face.

The only thing that helps my game is either finding a bar/club that is very poorly lit, or just an area of the bar/club that is very poorly lit.

Once they see my face, they're gone though. But at least I had them on the hook while it was dark.

youKnowImRightBitch · 2021-07-04T19:12:27+00:00

This sub is pathetic

2021-07-04T06:09:44+00:00

It wasn’t your clothes that drew them to you, it was because you were having more fun than anyone else, and girls go to clubs to have fun

observenlearn1111 · 2021-07-04T02:38:06+00:00

Male Pigeons does this.

jmh90027 · 2021-07-04T06:47:20+00:00

Fake it till you make it. It works

tru3boy · 2021-07-04T19:05:10+00:00

Went from

“Last night”

To

“That night”

🤔

Impressive if true.

Alternative_East8996 · 2021-07-04T13:34:22+00:00

Lmao this is cringey

noodlyjames · 2021-07-04T14:17:03+00:00

Most men are so desperate to get laid that they reek of desperation. Thats not fun or engaging. That’s why finding something which you actually like to do is so important.

ChrisishereO2 · 2021-07-04T08:06:18+00:00

It's crazy reading this since I've been reading Jordan Peterson's book: 12 Rules To Life. The first rules is basically to stand with your shoulders back and chest out. Body language, including putting on a smile, even if it isn't genuine, can dramatically alter the way other people see you and can actually reinforce confidence in yourself.

Having a good posture and positive facial expressions creates a positive feedback loop on how good and confident you feel and becomes genuine. Then, by observing how other people see you, that in itself, causes you to be more confident. It's actually a very good tactic.

Also, I highly recommend the book. I'm reading it now and it's fantastic.

MakeItGain · 2021-07-04T04:45:43+00:00

I find the opposite. A friend of mine calls me terminator because I always have my shoulders back and look so stiff. If I lower my shoulders I look more relaxed and do better.

I don't think it was probably a more relaxed attitude when you were dancing that got you attention.

nightmarefairy · 2021-07-04T08:34:33+00:00

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Wild-Association-475 · 2021-07-04T15:01:24+00:00

I never had an issue dancing like crazy when I had a few drinks in me. Now that I don’t drink it just feels super weird and like what’s the point. I actually avoid club scenes all together

BeardedBandit · 2021-07-04T17:20:03+00:00

Can you imagine this situation from the other guys perspective? Just out, have a great night at the club. A little conversation with a a random shy guy. Then out of the corner of your eye you see rando's posture change, his sleeves roll up, and his energy just kinda magically..... adjusts. Then that guy starts slaying. All because of you and your inspiration.

Damn, that has to feel good

6AeyBee9 · 2021-07-04T17:41:49+00:00

Can I point out that insecurity of height does hold us back a lot? I say this since OP made a mention of it in the post. Clubs [or any social place where we see a lot of women] can be a place that amplifies our insecurities. I have it as I am 2 inches shorter than OP and I see men way taller than me...leading to a better frame and all that.

But the other fun guy OP mentioned is so on point... Game while having fun.

Jarhae · 2021-07-13T14:13:56+00:00

🤣🤣I never laughed to hard in my life, for some reason I imagined him going to toilet looking in the mirror unbutton shirt, pop collar, and walk out with the smoothest walk, if anyone remembers that scene of Ben Stiller in dodgeball

Bubbly-Department-36 · 2021-07-19T14:49:08+00:00

thx man!

JackedUpStump · 2021-07-30T04:23:56+00:00

Someone finally gets it

Zangief89 · 2022-05-04T03:45:22+00:00

Try checking out a game on Amazon called Chickenshit. Straight up cheat code, you’re welcome.

greatlifeahead · 2021-07-04T03:47:19+00:00

It is a numbers game. You approached a lot of girls when you danced. A lot of guys might go into a nightclub and spend all night drinking with friends and not approaching anyone. You should instead focus on approaching and approach dozens of girls. Club is a meat market and you go there to sample the wares not to drink with your friends.

SuaveFuck · 2021-07-04T15:11:06+00:00

that is the news of the century. you get girls, by not being needy and desperate for girls. yep.

2021-07-04T10:27:56+00:00

Confidence is key. Literally takes you to a different level.

Thesinglemother · 2021-07-04T04:27:34+00:00

Thats called confidence. Proud of you.

2021-07-04T09:52:08+00:00

Your game ?

You didnt do anything game related, you just danced.

Game is seducing girls

HellsCandy · 2021-07-04T17:27:27+00:00

I fucking love this more than i should 😂

Docarky · 2021-07-04T17:36:41+00:00

Oh this is true, I have a similar story: once I was with some class friends in a big disco, but the PR took us too far away from the center , it was dark, we started drinking but it was boring caus we couldnt see anything, so we bet to go to the center and start dancing with girls, I went with one of my bestfriends, he was shy as me too but with him I felt more confortable, we asked every girl too dance and to have fun, no interest to pick them up, guess what… we got 0 rejecton and we never came back to the class table. We were like a magnet… all eyes on us, and most important we didnt know how to dance either but in that moment was irrelevant.

Jintoad1970 · 2021-07-04T08:24:06+00:00

Clubs are open? Covid?

gbizzle2 · 2021-07-04T00:14:00+00:00

Thats not game. You dont know what game is. Dancing with women doesnt make you player. Did you go and talk to the girl?

ThrowingKnive · 2021-07-04T05:07:49+00:00

I wish I could, sadly I'm extremely shy of dancing. Legit panic

CallOfReddit · 2021-07-04T10:08:59+00:00

If you got this kind of pressure on you, you could try the exercise of going out all week but you're not allowed to close in any way : no numbers, no IG, no Snap, no make out in the back seat.

Ace11791 · 2021-07-04T11:41:50+00:00

Oh I really like your post, but I for example I am a good looking guy that does not how to dance to save my life and I have very very low energy and I think I am shorter than you "5,6" which is not bothering me at all, it is just that eveything goes well until I dance, like I made cute latinas go from receptive girls to fleeing the scene when I started to "dance" I have dancing, the only place I feel confortable to dance is when I am with a bunch of white people dancing to the whitest music possible and everyone smiling

rhytmecatcher · 2021-07-04T12:59:35+00:00

Lmao, another tool that works for normies and above

I was taunted and wished the worst when i did this.

-WolfieMcq · 2021-07-04T04:11:01+00:00

Take some lessons idiot. At least learn to slow dance. Then try other stuff. Stop taking yourself so seriously.

drion4 · 2021-07-04T05:33:13+00:00

Forget seduction, I think you found your long-lost twin. Take his number instead!

Spacemage · 2021-07-04T05:55:50+00:00

So I stepped back and looked at his outfit, he wore tight clothes and stuck his chest out to look buff. And he just had a lot of energy.

TLDR; wear clothes that makes your body look good, roll your shoulders back, and stick your chest out.

As far as the the shoulder and chest go, that's probably just good posture. Most people have abhorrent posture, slouched, hunched and primed to get hurt. Especially if you're going to the gym and lifting weights.

Your arms should hang off your shoulders, and if your posture is bad this is going to feel like your sticking out your chest. Similar to queezing your scapula together - those wing bones on either side of your spine. They shouldn't be sticking out like you're a stegosaurus, but your shoulders shouldn't be forward. It's uncomfortable to fix this initially, but you'll notice a huge difference once you start working towards fixing it.

Moreso, there are three muscles in your upper back that are attached to your shoulders, under your scapula. Generally, because we sit a lot, the top one which you we associate with our traps, is often the strongest. Counter to this, our chest muscles are weak because they're not engaged properly. Additionally, the other two muscles in our upper backs are also weak, which adds to our shoulders rolling forward and our scapula being in the wrong place.

Improve this posture will make it look like you're sticking your chest out, but it should be. It shouldn't be sagging and pointing anywhere but forward. If you're not doing this, you're going to back neck, shoulder, and back problems, which will impact the rest of your body.

So definitely get used to sticking your chest out.

fictitious-name · 2021-07-04T11:21:48+00:00

I think you are able to see part of your problem in how deep you analyze things. Some might say overanalyze but you do have a point. "Fake it til you make it" does indeed work and you actually reach a critical point where you aren't in fact faking it anymore and have actually gained confidence from the theoretical romantic success you'd have.

Dzeko_1 · 2021-07-04T11:52:05+00:00

I do that all the time but a little fit, 5'10 175lbs. I dance with checks all day everyday but I have don't have so much success in smashing!

MrNightFall · 2021-07-04T13:11:14+00:00

Act like you belong, lol

TimberMountaineer · 2021-07-04T14:34:03+00:00

This reminds me of the episode of Arrested Development where GM wears the muscle suit all the time to impress Maeby

totally_cool92 · 2021-07-04T14:42:26+00:00

Dont waste your time dancing with every girl , find one you really like , if she dances with you shes more likey to go home with you , bounce her out of the club/bar immediately

arbitrageur_ · 2021-07-04T16:31:45+00:00

Lol I'd be nervous to even go talk to that guy

2021-07-04T16:49:48+00:00

On the one hand, this is fucking hilarious.

On the other hand, there is some truth to it.

2021-07-04T18:42:02+00:00

Ah yes. Just look and act confident.

Explain how I should get rid of my nervous energy that I've had all my life.

2021-07-04T19:22:33+00:00

Reminds me that I need to check the weather.

2021-07-04T19:38:35+00:00

That's not "50 percent" improvement on games. That's just you relaxing and girls giving you more attention. You didn't create any attraction through your verbal, move the girl around the venue, build connection or pull. Congratulation in improving your game, but this will only impress the newbs.

Top_Statistician_589 · 2021-07-29T21:31:42+00:00

dude this is not magic. I do the same and lots of women pay for my drinks and have fun and like how i approach and talk and how i behave. Still no sex or date or number. It doesn't matter what you do there. There real question is are you smashing?????? If not it all doesn't matter because then you see game is useless if you want a chick in bed.

backhone · 2021-12-25T13:13:53+00:00

I ended up dancing’s with her for a while and went on to dance with about 8 other girls that night.

How many you slept with? Become your girlfriend? relationship? I mean what is the point of this advice ? You had X experience and you drawing Y conclusion and giving Z advices?

2022-04-21T16:15:48+00:00

guys the advice here is to dance more lol, being a good dancer will 100% improve your game

Title	You can literally improve your game by 50% overnight
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