A lot of women have an exponential amount of dating/relationship experience in their life, which simultaneously helps them reach their full potential, but men have far more untapped potential that exceeds women when it comes to knowledge in dating/relationships.

CraftyCooler · 2024-03-19T09:52:28+00:00

the man will always instantly know when a girl is suitable for a long-term relationship

Not really. Women also have their ways to seduce you - men make a first move, but if it clicks women can do quite a lot to push things further(including hiding of their bad traits).

Cethlinnstooth · 2024-03-19T06:29:11+00:00

"an exponential amount"

Describe how that is graphed in this instance.

RubyDiscus · 2024-03-19T08:16:33+00:00

How would it help them reach their full potential?

The title and the body contents don't line up

Lenovo_Driver · 2024-03-19T13:18:44+00:00

It’s always wild seeing red pilled men talk about knowing the nature of women in one post and complaining about how lonely and sexless they all are and how sex robots are needed in another..

Y’all need to stop letting bitterness drive your arguments and use actual logic.

MikeArrow · 2024-03-19T02:46:23+00:00

I'm not sure about the body of your argument, but I do believe the general sentiment of "people that have an easier time getting into relationships are able to gain experience much more easily and therefore become better partners" is accurate.

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2024-03-19T02:39:57+00:00

Lol men don't know that much about women. You still don't understand our responsive desire

KayRay1994 · 2024-03-19T02:50:53+00:00

You say that, yet many men still don’t understand women - sure, the ones who are able to maintain a strong romantic relationship and good relationships with his female friends/family members do. Though most men, even successful men, don’t.

Flat out, most sexually successful men who aren’t actually personally close to women only understand how to either manipulate a woman or turn her on - which doesn’t go too far in the long run and it eventually ends in failure. That’s why so many men who actively give this kind of advice are either single and/or divorced and bitter.

TRTGymBro · 2024-03-19T03:05:42+00:00

If all these women are fucking so much and men are not fucking at all, who the fuck is fucking them?

noafrochamplusamurai · 2024-03-19T02:56:15+00:00

You're overestimating how many relationships women have, and underestimating how many men have. I'm their adult years, the gap isn't really that large.

Safinated · 2024-03-19T02:36:59+00:00

That’s what happens when you want relationships and especially babies more than sex

It’s a logical hazard of caring 🤷🏼‍♀️

LittleRainSiaoYu · 2024-03-19T06:12:54+00:00

women are more likely to admit to being\ abused in relationships*

FTFY, also think of all the dudes who are run through the divorce wringer and just have to grin and bear it, gotta man up! Right there that's a lot of abuse that's basically normalised, doing a smash and grab on a dude because you got bored is just an occupational hazard for the Nice Guy types who fall for the marriage meme.

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Badger1276 · 2024-03-19T14:13:41+00:00

Women are more likely to be physically abused, but all genders have the same risk for emotional abuse and instantly spotting an abusive personality is not as easy as one might think. They usually present themselves in the beginning as everything you have ever wanted. We are all susceptible to that.

henrycatalina · 2024-03-19T17:30:15+00:00

In my experience, specifically my wife, her 1st love provided her attraction as he has cool, made her provide all the attention, and treated her as needing improvement. Then, she had a period of trying out more men for fun and validation. As she said once, she early on tried to treat me, like her ex treated her. There was lots of anger left to deal with. It mostly has gone away. Her full potential was reached in a good relationship despite her experiences. If anything, the relationships left some baggage, some good memories, and some WTF, what was she thinking.

Men see a woman as either good enough for a wife, temporary, or hope no one sees me with her. Maybe temporary could be a wife. Best men be friends with the last category and avoid incisere relationships. I guess the same goes for women.

toasterchild · 2024-03-20T00:00:41+00:00

If guys have such awesome lady radar then why are the bots and romance scammers on online dating sites so plentiful? If they never get any success why do they keep trying?

Commercial-Way-1011 · 2024-03-21T17:05:44+00:00

Fuck this. Theres no reason dating should be this painful.

YearnsToDestroySun · 2024-03-19T07:28:29+00:00

Ya, it's because dudes are actually smart and analytical and can parse logic from emotion to address the challenge on a more objective level.

I finally have good dating photos once and for all so now I have enough matches to experiment with. I'm just going to practice, practice, on many first dates primarily as a science project for my developing "game", see what woos them and what doesn't especially on first dates because women have gotten so unforgiving and impatient with first dates, and see what tactics I feel good and comfortable with, master them, and use that xp to finally pin down the best woman I can get.

I just have a lot of lost time to make up for losing most of my 30's being a bit of an isolated single dad.

A big thing is exactly I do agree women have a struggle understanding the nature of men which I think why so many women can come off as childish or low IQ to men when they write or talk in this emotional vernacular non stop.

For example, a profile prompt can be something like 'name your favorite hobbies ' and 30% of women would write something as dumb as akin to " favorite hobby is 'kindness'". It cracks me up the flowery vapid platitudes women all pepper their profiles which make most men just 🙄 eyeroll as they decide if she's hot enough to put up with how dingy she is lol.

SlowEffective8146 · 2024-03-19T12:25:42+00:00

I don't think an exponential amount of dating leads to "reaching your full potential". Really all it does is leave you jaded because you see reoccurring bad behavior. It's why so many women are misandrist but act like they aren't.

Independent-Mail-227 · 2024-03-19T02:45:29+00:00

Do you think the passenger of a car knows how to drive? Of course not, so why do you think women having relationships have experience?

Pathosgrim · 2024-03-19T13:23:36+00:00

The experience between both sides are different. One side involves sitting on their ass, doing nothing. The other side involves pursuing as well as constant trial and error. Ofc men have a higher glass ceiling. We're always trying, so it's only right that we have more knowledge vs women wanting mind readers.

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