5 Tragic Reasons Why The Average Guy Doesn't Get Girls

brinkrunner · 2019-01-17T23:37:37+00:00

yet another guy who cites 5 common knowledge things and then subtly pitches his "program"

renfsu · 2019-01-17T21:35:42+00:00

I like it and it's to the point. Many people will turn away when you say looks don't matter but the kicker is, the less attractive you are visually, the more skill you need to attract women and vice versa.

SmashBrosNotHoez · 2019-01-17T22:53:08+00:00

I can't even get a date, let alone kiss a girl, or even have sex. That's how bad I am with women. If dating were like money, i'd be the broke homeless man.

Having sex with 7 different women would completely blow my mind. Even having sex with 1 girl would completely blow my mind.

BonvivantNamedDom · 2019-01-17T23:34:50+00:00

I know an pick up artist who is kinda the neil strauss of germany, and we talked recently and he totally changed after the years of no contact. He says that dating became so much harder since tinder. Because women value themselves so fucking high because of all the fake attention they get from thirsty guys.

He told a story. Short version is; 20 years ago he was new in a job and his coworker was super hot. Totally out of his league material. Funny, smart aswell.

And they got together simply because she met him, and he was the best offer. But he was faaaaaar from the seducer this relationship made him.

Because, so he, back in the day women didnt meet so many guys aswell. Like they jad to pick from a few hundred guys in their lifes, whilst today they have access to thousands.

Of course they dont take whats there they tend to go search for the best possibility in the extended market.

Thats the shortened version of what he said, and to be frank; It sadly does make sense.

Pelon01 · 2019-01-18T01:11:49+00:00

Wait so the average guys has slept with 7 women? Somehow I doubt that. not to mention that 7 women definitely gives you some sexual experience. You’re not “lost” sexually if you’ve had at least 7 separate experiences.

tofu_tot · 2019-01-17T23:58:03+00:00

So true, some of my friends take all of this for granted they'll never fight this wall of anxiety that block them to go speak to women's. It make me sad for them but one of my friend made great progress and I saw him go talk to some women's irl.

classylassy28 · 2019-01-17T22:25:29+00:00

Whats so bad about 7 sexual partners/relationships... That's a really good number, especially if you are having good sex which usually comes in long term relationships with a compatable person.

Once you go over 8 partners your chances for divorce actually go up/and long term relationships failing.

jamiehula · 2019-01-18T11:33:18+00:00

I’d like a female version of this post

LORD-THUNDERCUNT · 2019-01-18T07:22:10+00:00

You make a good point. Basically every women in 2019 is essentially a mini-celebrity because of social media, even the ones who claim to have “life-crippling social anxiety”. Even the shyest girl at your job/school probably has hundreds of guys lusting over her. This has absofuckinglutely made every girl’s standards skyrocket. Because the reality is, any girl, even extremely ugly ones, can still get with guys who are way out of their league thanks to Tinder/Bumble/Instagram/etc.

And honestly, I can’t blame women. If I was got 100s of messages a day from women I would definitely pick the prettiest one. So the average guy is indeed, fucked.

wont_give_no_kreddit · 2019-01-18T04:47:13+00:00

Hummm But did you know that not every guy dreams of sleeping with "more" women ? I personally do not want my body count to be high (I'm at one and I'm 23 yrs old), I'd rather settle with one girl and keep it that way So am I guilty for not wanting to "get girls" ?

wont_give_no_kreddit · 2019-01-18T02:59:53+00:00

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iceporter · 2019-01-17T21:50:35+00:00

/u/TheJoeyJoeJoe

man I really enjoy your article but damn I don't use telegram

I wish you keep posting in here really nice to have you in this community

by the way /u/TheJoeyJoeJoe did you have post about how to get emotional attraction from woman?

SyrusDrake · 2019-01-18T06:06:26+00:00

Just seven women!? Fuck, I'd consider having sex seven times my entire life a rousing success!

SIM90210 · 2019-01-17T22:51:09+00:00

Shout out to the timing of the universe for this one 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

jackandjill22 · 2019-01-17T22:26:59+00:00

Interesting

55redditor55 · 2019-01-18T07:57:41+00:00

Two questions: how do you date women without money, one date at the park I get but how do you continue to invest 0 money on dates? Who are you to be giving this advice?

TheJoeyJoeJoe · 2019-01-18T12:08:10+00:00

All I got from this was I am below average with 0 women under my belt

officerkondo · 2019-01-18T15:51:22+00:00

Now, women are logically attracted to looks and money. However, they experience emotional attraction far more powerfully than logical attraction. In fact, she’ll often disregard all logic if you can learn to stimulate her emotions properly.

If your looks do not meet her threshold, you will never get the chance to stimulate her emotions.

squanchyfetuss · 2019-01-18T02:29:10+00:00

As a girl I can go ahead and say this is true . But another thing to add is confidence. In your head believe you are a 10 , don't be cocky but pretend you are hotter then you are and it'll get a girl . Personally that confidence will get me and a strong personality . I'm pretty damn attractive and have gone for way less attractive guys just because they made themselves SEEM unavailable and gave me a Chase . This dude is completely right. It's the dating game , I like a challenge . Nothing is hot knowing the guy wanted me forever and obssess over me , the chase is more fun . Saying this doesn't mean be a dick, doesn't mean blow off the girl all the time . Find your happy medium but best example is find a stud of a guy and kinda do what he does .

The_Neck_Chop · 2019-01-18T00:18:09+00:00

What is something smart to say to a woman when approaching her at a bar for example? Because making the first move is the most daunting task in existence to me.

cobalt172 · 2019-01-18T07:35:31+00:00

The average man believes you need good looks and/or money to attract women

Meanwhile, Chad attracts women based on his looks alone.

You can't honestly believe that an average guy vs the same average guy, but just better looking has it the same. The 2nd one will experience a richer sexual / romantic life, have more women attracted pasively to him, just because of his better looks.

asthebroflys · 2019-01-17T23:25:16+00:00

What does “encourage her to be emotionally free” mean?

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prashanttt · 2019-01-18T04:12:04+00:00

Emotionally independent? Could you please elaborate?

2019-01-18T05:25:11+00:00

Great post

Aeneas23 · 2019-01-18T09:42:54+00:00

What does emotionally free means?

iMadVz · 2019-01-18T10:20:35+00:00

Geeezus getting girls isn’t everything, dont listen to society and everyone who makes you think it’s this big deal and women are the holy grail.... the only person you should priorities is yourself. Love yourself, know what you deserve, what you want and your goals but make sure it’s from YOUR heart no one else’s. People be busy trying to love on everyone else BUT themself. It’s sad. :)

mattliamjack · 2019-01-18T16:11:05+00:00

The same principles apply to getting anything in life

onkizomba · 2019-01-18T16:16:43+00:00

Tragic (not so tragic) but true!!

mamooeed · 2019-01-18T17:03:05+00:00

Encourage her to be emotionally free. What do you mean? Examples??

2019-01-18T18:03:37+00:00

cobalt172 · 2019-01-18T18:33:31+00:00

Lol even the seduction subreddit is now blackpilled

Chabubu · 2019-01-18T19:59:51+00:00

Average guys don't want average girls, they want attractive girls.

I've met many guys that have minimum standards that are way out of their league.

Especially considering they don't want to do any personal development to improve themselves.

TheJoeyJoeJoe · 2019-01-19T06:52:38+00:00

The most shocking comments on here are those that say: "7 is actually quite a lot."

Let's say you were only single for FIVE years of your adult life. (I think that's a conservative estimate).

Even then, that means you're only seducing a new girl once every 37 weekends.

Are your standards for life really that low???

Slideboy · 2019-01-17T22:06:17+00:00

I never approach women, women approach me. If you approach, then only one and you have to do it straight away. Like right when you walk in you approach the first you see. Most importantly: good vibes before going out( you know what im saying here). Enjoying being present.( but dont look everywhere, use perephiral). Listening actively. It takes much practice, and you have to keeping it sharp for the rest of your life ( social collibration). It is just as working out, if you stop, you will lose your muscles in time. Good luck.

Also, dont listen to advice like this. You know yourself better than any coach or textbook. Only you can find the key to your lock, there are no cookiecutters, keep trying and learn from misstakes. Good luck.

muff_marauder · 2019-01-18T00:26:28+00:00

Excellent post, JoeyJoeJoe Shabadoo

mtriad · 2019-01-18T14:08:29+00:00

This post is full of bullcrap.

MetalPandaDance · 2019-01-17T23:36:09+00:00

The real blackpill. Great post.

Liquweed · 2019-01-18T08:57:46+00:00

pretty true.

I got my 1:1 swedish blonde gf now after hundredas of thots. Seduction is all a game of self confidence. Having money and a degreee and a shiny car also helps. But I know guys who live in basements fucking multiple chicks a week.

This guide is huge for beginners to understand how stuff works in the very basic level

chronosthetitan · 2019-01-18T01:45:38+00:00

I’ve already surpassed the average guy in high school with how many girls I’ve gotten, I get hired guns without using the fact that I have money to my advantage and tell them later about that. It’s true, in high school I realized I had it while a lot of my peers even better looking than me didn’t do as well. Even got the girl that the quarter back was trying to talk to in high school, plus ripped a ex hooters girl from a rich guy. The problem I see with most guys is they lack value or substance personality wise and think to much which is why they have trouble getting results.

Title	5 Tragic Reasons Why The Average Guy Doesn't Get Girls
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Date	January 17, 2019 8:59 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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