I have a view of the world that is not very pretty, but that I believe is reality. It is based on scientific facts and personal experiences.

My view of the world is the following. Sexual attraction evolved for the purpose of getting us to mate and produce offspring. Mating is the cornerstone of the survival and propagation of the species. Therefore, we feel sexually attracted to the opposite sex for the purpose of making kids with them.

Separate your logical decisions such as wanting to have sex for recreation, not wanting kids and being on the pill. We still want to have sex with people we feel sexually attracted to even if we consciously do not want to have kids. If that wasn't so, we'd be having sex with anyone just to have sex, but that's not how it works.

So what does this mean. It means that we have certain mate selection criteria baked into our genetics that we have inverted over thousands of generations of human beings. We've been around for a very long time and have had a lot of sex as a species before dating apps, TikTok, smart phones, flights to Dubai, 6'5" white men with beards and so on and so forth.

So, why do men select certain women to have sex with? Why are men universally attracted to women with big, plump breasts, round butts and hips? A certain waist to hips ratio? Why do men universally like younger women with pretty features, long hair, red lips, etc? It is simple. A woman's physical attributes are a sign of her reproductive ability and since women carry the baby in their body, her body needs to young, strong and fertile enough to produce a healthy and strong baby. The above physical attributes are all associated with reproductive health. Look it up if you have to. These are not arbitrary criteria that we are attracted to.

So, if men want good looking women because they are more likely to produce a healthy baby, what do women want? Well, they want a man who is the best for their offspring. Read this again! We want the same thing - someone who is best for our offspring! Who gives us the best chances for our offspring to survive.

So if physical attributes are what we need from women, what do women need from men? Is it his body, although he doesn't carry the baby in his body? Is it his bank account and 401K, although a woman decided to leave the bar with you without asking to see a bank statement or the performance of your portfolio? Is it your car which is parked at home or your boat, docked in a place far away? No.

Women have learned to judge which man is best for making kids by the way he behaves. When a woman sees someone who acts confidently and with power and authority, she assumes that he is in charge and as such, he must be good for making kids. This has nothing to do with how nice the man is or how much he cares about her. A woman will rather go with a jerk who treats like she's expendable, because the jerks kids will be strong and will be able to fight off or intimidate male competitors. The nice guys kids will be cowards and will shy away from confrontation. They will not be very competitive and others will walk all over them and steal their resources.

So the question for all men here is the following. What do you bring to the table that shows you will be good for making kids? Are you athletic, tall, strong, successful, powerful and authoritative? Are you in a leadership position or position of authority? What do you offer to a woman? If you can't offer financial gain, confidence or looks, what are we talking about here?