https://youtu.be/h-Kgbonep8g?si=R5_GWrSYkTU6sjpt

The streamer Ninja was criticized for not not interacting with women. Remember guys women are so afraid of men that they would rather be alone in the woods with a bear. They would pick a bear over a man. Let that sink in.

Now all of a sudden it's a big deal when men decide to avoid women or not interact with women because they don't want to come off as creepy to women and make women feel uncomfortable. Keep this in mind guys, because it's important.

The women that would tell you that men should have nothing to worry about when it comes to interacting with women if they are not creepy, women say only creepy men that are "sus" worry about false allegations or coming off as creepy.

Keep in mind fellas that these are the same women that say they can't tell the difference between good men and bad men. So it's best for them to assume all men are potential threats, since they can't identify good men.

Do you guys see the contradiction here? A lot of women say they must be cautious of all men they don't know for their safety. But now all of a sudden it's considered misogynistic, an overreaction, and lame that those same men don't interact with women. Despite a lot of women saying they don't feel comfortable when men approach them

Is this hypocrisy? Is this cognitive dissonance? Who knows.

But there is something I do know though. I know a lot of women love to have it both ways. Have their cake and want to eat it too. Fellas be aware of the cakism. It's a brutal paradox that puts men into a lot of damned if you do, damned if you don't type of situations.

Jessica Valenti a well known feminist once said she hates the fact that society makes her miss cat calling. Let that sink in guys.

https://youtu.be/3Hh9EsFYmXg?si=oHUhOqQz8MFxoIlH

This is ironic because the Wrestler CM Punk is actually in the same situation the steamer Ninja describes. And you see how people are twisting the narrative already right. Saying that CM Punk is being too friendly, people saying he seems like a creep or predator, and people are even bringing up the fact that CM Punk is a married man doing all these "sus" things. The streamer Ninja brings up marriage, how ironic.

But the streamer Ninja got a call out for saying he doesn't want to be alone with a woman because of how that can look to people, especially being married. He was called misogynistic. But this CM Punk situation proves his point. Since people are already trying switch the narrative. Just how they were doing it with Ninja. For example, Ninja was criticized for being sexist who hates women or even criticized for being a closeted creep who is afraid women will temp him with their bodies. While CM Punk is criticized for being too friendly and also a potential creep/predator. The narratives are always switching with this paradox.

Note the pushback the streamer Ninja is getting and CM Punk getting interviewed at Comic Con, only just has a couple of days between both situations. Hence why I said damned if you do, and damned if you don't type of situations is being played out in real time in the title.

So in conclusion. Both situations are a perfect example of this paradox.