Do women judge other women who cheat?

RATTLECORPSE · 2024-09-02T09:22:01+00:00

Women definitely judge other women who are home wreckers / cheaters, because many women themselves have been in the same situation. It's definitely a disrespectful thing to do and not something you would openly talk about to your female friends.

Friends might give each other a pass, but this is highly dependent on the friend group. I would consider that to be a more trashy-friend group tbh. I myself would not want to be among those types.

EulenWatcher · 2024-09-02T09:10:08+00:00

That depends on a woman, but I don’t think the majority of women excuse female cheating. Cheaters are terrible people imv. It’s something I judge very harshly and something that would make me stop hanging out with a person.

Sorcha16 · 2024-09-02T09:10:27+00:00

Cheaters are cunts regardless of gender. The people that makes excuses for their own gender while vilifying the other are pathetic.

Makuta_Servaela · 2024-09-02T11:30:46+00:00

I've met a homewrecker once who was proudly telling me all about it. She had no issue whatsoever with the morals of it, and the only way I could convince her to take pause was by pointing out that the girlfriend would likely blame and want to harm her over the homewrecking. Other than that, the homewrecker seemed completely unable to comprehend anything wrong with it.

It was a bizarre conversation and I wanted nothing to do with her.

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Planthoe30 · 2024-09-02T08:51:11+00:00

Do women judge other women who cheat?

Women judge each other but friends tend to overlook their friends faults.

She says that women have valid reasons to cheat whereas men only do it for selfish reasons.

Some people weren’t dropped as a child they were thrown on the ground.

NoDanaOnlyZuuI · 2024-09-02T12:33:10+00:00

A cheater is a cheater. Regardless of the reason.

starksoph · 2024-09-02T08:37:51+00:00

Yes I judge people who cheat

AngeCruelle · 2024-09-02T09:21:18+00:00

There is nothing that destabilizes redditors' views of humanity like one person talking on TikTok.

As with virtually any other moral question under the sun the answer is that like attracts like. Women who cheat are probably going to be friends with women who cheat and/or tolerate cheating. Similarly, this woman is going to attract women looking for parasocial relationships with other women who think similarly. And by sharing and giving attention to this kind of content you are helping that person get more views and increasing your own chances of getting similar content from similar women in the future.

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attendquoi · 2024-09-02T13:36:20+00:00

I view cheaters the same way regardless of gender.

DJ_Dialga · 2024-09-02T15:41:59+00:00

The kind of women who would cheat on her guy would also cheat with yours since she has no morals and doesn’t care about how others are impacted by her actions. So yes I’m going to care and actively avoid her.

operajunkie · 2024-09-02T16:06:21+00:00

I do. Cheaters have poor character. I don’t want people like that around me.

SandBrilliant2675 · 2024-09-02T16:10:40+00:00

Yes, women judge each other for cheating. Cheating is shitty regardless of who does it.

Edit: I’ve cut numerous friends off for cheating on their boyfriends.

Flightlessbirbz · 2024-09-02T12:45:18+00:00

No such thing as a “valid reason to cheat,” so she already lost me before I even clicked. Most women definitely judge women who cheat. It seems men are more likely to overlook and cover for their friends cheating as some kind of a “bro code” thing even if they don’t condone cheating in general. I’m sure some women do this too, but I haven’t seen in.

januaryphilosopher · 2024-09-02T09:42:45+00:00

I mean they often don't spend enough energy on other people's relationships to care but if they do care enough to form a judgement it's overwhelmingly negative. (Depends on the circumstances obviously, if someone was abused or cheated on first the reaction is more likely to be neutral to positive.)

DreaminInChocolate · 2024-09-02T13:53:32+00:00

I think all cheaters are disgusting.

beautyloser · 2024-09-02T13:55:12+00:00

personally i have dropped a friend over her being a willing accessory to cheating (homewrecking) and i think my friends would all do the same with each other. it’s skeevy behavior i/we don’t want to be associated with.

-Shes-A-Carnival · 2024-09-02T13:58:36+00:00

i dont care what "women" do at all, I might care about a female friend or relative

sweetestpineapple · 2024-09-02T14:07:04+00:00

I don’t feel comfortable being close friends with women who cheat because what’s gonna stop them from trying to homewreck my relationship? Also, if I get to know their partner over time I feel shitty having to keep their secret or being expected to cover them.

CatallaxyRanch · 2024-09-02T14:08:38+00:00

I think people of both sexes cheat for a lot of different reasons, and I don't really consider myself the moral arbiter of other people's relationships. What happens between them is between them, it doesn't affect my friendship with the person at all.

SaBahRub · 2024-09-02T15:03:23+00:00

You know they do

holyskillet · 2024-09-02T15:57:06+00:00

I understand that everyone in this comment section is comfortable with the idea of having some poor person glued to them and bound by obligation to flush their life down the toiler no matter how much you guys fuck up, but... Hot take: a cheater is not necessarily in the wrong just because they committed an act of infidelity.

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kalashhhhhhhh · 2024-09-02T12:31:53+00:00

This is literally the same thing SOME guys do when it comes to other men cheating. "It's different when men cheat" , and even SOME redpillers encouraging other men to sleep with other women while in a relationship.

In other words, both genders can have stupid members who are going to justify their own shitty behavior, there is nothing new.

I personally look at male and female cheaters the same.

When it comes to my own friends cheating- I honestly don't care and it's not something that concerns me. I disapprove of it but I'm not going to stop hanging out with them because of it. And yes, this goes for female and male friends.

Keto_cheeto · 2024-09-02T12:52:37+00:00

We ABSOLUTELY do

kayceeplusplus · 2024-09-02T10:50:40+00:00

Cheating is bad regardless but there’s a lot of truth to what she’s saying. Men and RPers in particular often like to excuse men’s cheating with that explanation so she’s turning it on its head. Also lmao, this TikTok only has a few views/likes, stop ragebaiting.

flipsidetroll · 2024-09-02T09:52:48+00:00

Repeat a lie often enough and it becomes the truth. This is one law of propaganda and is known as the illusion effect. And red pill thrives on it. People become convinced something is the truth, because “they’ve seen or heard it before”. Repetition builds new neural pathways. So it becomes a part of your brain. That’s why people leaving a cult need to be deprogrammed. And why red pillers and feminists seem to not be able to change their minds even in the face of data to the opposite.

Another law is how propaganda doesn’t need to convince you, it only needs to convince others to convince you. Once people see how others believe it, they do too. Again, a classic red pill/feminism tactic. So comments are filled with bots and fake accounts that flame people into getting angry and agreeing.

That’s how people used social media to manipulate elections. That’s how bell pottinger launched a campaign to rob an entire country. And that’s how you believe that ALL women forgive other women for cheating.

All cheaters are bad people. And they are cowards, or greedy or both. Instead of breaking up with someone, they play both sides, too chicken to pick one. Or they use people. Either way, they are trash, doesn’t matter which gender they are.

Title	Do women judge other women who cheat?
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Date	September 2, 2024 8:35 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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