What makes a woman a bad woman?

ashpr0ulx · 2025-05-18T17:57:00+00:00

dishonest
disloyal
selfish
poor work ethic
mentally unhealthy with little desire to change
mean, vindictive
arrogant, prideful
materialistic

EulenWatcher · 2025-05-18T17:59:35+00:00

By a “bad woman” I guess you mean a bad partner.

Negative traits for an LTR are pretty similar among men and women: poor morals, behavior inconsistent with their morals and values, prone to violence or lying, cheaters, poor financial habits, a lack of self-control, DT traits, poor communication, jealousy issues, anger issues, unresolved trauma that they use to justify their poor behavior, addictions etc.

hakunaa-matataa · 2025-05-18T18:24:45+00:00

I’d say pretty much anything that makes a guy unsuitable as a partner.

— going on TikTok/Reddit/any social media and shitting on men/women going “where have all the good men gone?!1?!1?1” (if they’re being sincere).

— Financially unstable

— A felon

— Refusal to reciprocate in relationship (taking a guy out on a date, getting him special gifts, doing things that make him feel valued)

— Physically/financially/emotionally abusive (hitting, slapping, demeaning partner, using someone for their money/social status/etc., sexually assaulting, blah blah blah yada yada)

— Refusal to communicate needs

— Refusal to compromise

I don’t think any of these are gender specific to be honest. I’ve seen both men and women display these.

ThatBitchA · 2025-05-18T19:02:28+00:00

Same things as a man: law breaking, violent, abusive, hateful towards others.

AngeAware · 2025-05-18T18:47:32+00:00

My mom's brother dated a crazy womanchild heiress who messed around with his best friend and drove him to hang himself so something like that probably

MiddleZealousideal89 · 2025-05-18T19:33:23+00:00

I'd say the same things that make a man a bad man - being dishonest, unstable (both financially and behaviour-wise), abusive, arrogant, superficial.

waffleznstuff30 · 2025-05-18T18:22:57+00:00

Are we talking in context of a romantic relationship? Or are we talking in general?

Flightlessbirbz · 2025-05-18T21:49:26+00:00

Pretty much the same that makes a bad man. Someone who treats others poorly and/or manipulates and uses them. Could include cheating, abusive behavior, lying and conning, etc. Men and women tend to have slightly different MO’s, but it comes down to the same character flaws found in the human race.

Now, some people are undesirable as partners, but not “bad.” That’s where things like finances and appearance come into play. Being broke or ugly doesn’t make a man or woman “bad,” but less desirable.

sadmatchatea · 2025-05-18T21:58:15+00:00

If she doesn’t care about getting with taken men or worse, purposely pursues men in relationships.

Downtown_Cat_1745 · 2025-05-18T19:03:51+00:00

Literally anything, according to men on this sub.

In my opinion, things that make people bad people are pretty universal: dishonesty, lack of empathy, hypocrisy, prejudice, abusive behaviors, etc.

Things that make people bad partners but not necessarily bad people can include financial irresponsibility, lack of executive functioning skills, or laziness

Dapper-Suggestion462 · 2025-05-18T18:31:07+00:00

This question gets asked everyweek, here it goes

I have my own version on BAD

Apart from usual convicts and criminals

-if she practices internalized misogyny

-if she controls and manipulates her man/son/daughter

-if she hates her son’s girlfriend just because she exists(or daughters boyfriend)

-if she trauma dumps constantly

-if she creates religious trauma

-if she always plays victim and never learns from life

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Saturn-Returns-Real · 2025-05-18T22:30:08+00:00

Same things that make a man a bad man

GridReXX · 2025-05-20T14:38:35+00:00

OP, you seem to not like answers that are about adults being a good romantic partner.

I think you have your own list of what makes a woman a bad woman for a relationship.

Can you share?

Manifestival1 · 2025-05-18T18:29:57+00:00

It's interesting that you understand a bad person to mean not a good potential partner and assume everyone else makes the same connection. People with widely understood negative traits still have their matches in the opposite and same sex, depending on their sexuality. Universally a poor choice of female partner might be a woman who's 'high maintenence', a gold digger, unfaithful, jealous, 'psycho', needy, controlling.. but for each individual there will be large variation is who is good / right for them. These are just common negative descriptors of poor female partners. Generally speaking there is no such thing as a good or bad person. There is good and bad behaviour but humans are far too complex and capable of change to categorise in such a permanent and basic way.

Title	What makes a woman a bad woman?
Author	Haej07
Upvotes	10
Comments	117
Date	May 18, 2025 5:50 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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