It’s extremely weird. For guys who swear being an alpha is the end all be all, they sure hate admitting they want shallow women who dont care about red flags, will fuck strangers, and gravitate towards alpha traits than beta traits. No, we get “AWALT”, “All women will loosen their standards for a super hot guy”, “all women say one thing and mean another”, “All women fucked a ton of assholes and then expect the good man to wait for sex like a beta”. Instead of projecting, why not just admit you want women who ignore red flags for intense lust and impulsively chase sex?

I’m trying to figure out why that is. I do wonder if it’s similar to women who use flowery romantic language to deny they just want to get fucked and everything else is secondary. I guess it’s because these people are very ashamed that they’re shallow, but they’re not going to stop being shallow. Or maybe deep down these guys find those women disgusting and they’re ashamed that those are the only women they actually want. Or maybe theyre mad that even the women with lower standards would rather fuck their bullies than him, even though he feels like the better option. Or maybe they’re still chasing that fantasy where a woman with principles is going to suddenly stop having principles from his mere presence, overcomed with lust, and fucks him immediately.

Though, I’m starting to think it’s more that they want their porn fantasy realized. That’s why they won’t ask for a hook up, because it ruins the fantasy of a woman just so overcomed with lust to just pounce on him. Because then that means he’s fucking someone who will fuck anything. That’s hardly better than paying a sex worker.

Then there’s the fact I see men who dont vet women based on the type of women they want, based on trying to better than other men. And these guys intentionally ignore that they’re dehumanizing women to be sex trophies whose sole purpose is validating his fragile ego. For example, instead of saying “I want a woman who cares about morals, kind of prudish, would rather read a book than go clubbing” it becomes “I dont want a girl who hooked up with bad boys”. Instead of saying “I want a women who’s just down to fuck and worry whether or not we like each other afterwards, it’s “if she hooked up with other guys, I want her to hookup with me too!” This is similar to a guy admitting he wouldnt date someone other people find unattractive.

Men responded to this, btw:

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZThyjbdre/

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZThyjtJkA/

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZThyjgseY/

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZThyjvCgb/

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZThy687xL/

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZThy68tf3/

For those who can’t watch them, guys are basically criticizing guys who date for validation instead of dating someone they like, and who likes them back.

And when the redpill calls early sex “getting the best treatment” that definitely shows shallowness and theyre no better than women who knowingly date/fuck assholes. Because then the woman could be an abusive deplorable piece of shit to you, but as long as she’ll fuck you, you see that as the best treatment a man can get? Seriously? So you want a woman at the expense of noticing her red flags, but want to deny that you want a woman who also ignores red flags?