As the title says, I (34m) think she (36f) is done. We’ve been married since Jan 2025, together since 2019. She resents me for a lot of different reasons and she feels like she made a mistake by overlooking what should’ve been red flags to her.

To be honest our hobbies, interests, and motivations don’t align at all. She’s religious, likes to run, likes reality tv, etc. I grew up religious, but mostly consider myself non-religious as an adult. I go to church with her, but more so for her. I hate running if it’s not for basketball and hate reality tv.

I say all this to say how can I prep for the divorce? I think I’m at peace with either decision. Would love for things to workout, but she doesn’t think she can’t wait for me to change to who she wants me to be in a reasonable amount of time. I told her this 6-7 year period will be a drop in the bucket in the long run, but she doesn’t share my optimism.

We have 1 loan (in her name) from our wedding together. We have a house with the mortgage in my name (she has a lot of student loans), but she’s on the title (purchased in May 2025). Other than that I wouldn’t say we have any other shared assets. Her car is in her name. I don’t have one at the moment as my lease was up so we’ve been sharing. Would a mediator be a good path for us?