If a man cannot manage to get laid, why would he have an easier time getting commitment?
The reality is, as a woman, I could probably find a new sexual partner everyday for a year, if I wanted. Further more, I could probably find someone new to enter into a committed relationship with each week.
The reality is, the "gate-keeping" of commitment is not gendered. It's all relative and situationally dependent to individuals involved. Furthermore, it's a sad attempt at persuading men that they have something that is as demanded by women as sex is for men.
Well... The reality is, they do have something that woman demand as much as sex, and that is attention. And, as it turns out, men give it away 10x more easily than women give out sex.
Think instagram, parties, clubs, etc. Even just on reddit, if she wants sexual validation, she can go to gone wild. If she wants to be made to feel attractive, she can go to rateme. If she even just wants male conversation without expectations of sex, she has r4r. A single post as F4M will get you dozens, if not hundreds, of people willing to talk to you... even without knowing what you look like.
Attention from a male satisfies the same form of indulgence and validation that men get from sleeping with a female.
Commitment is something else entirely, and, in general, requires a woman to only want her mans attention and requires a man to only depend on her for sex. Similarly, it requires their needs for attention and sex to be met. There are really no "gate-keepers" here. It's either you meet each others needs or you don't. The only possible way for an imbalance here is if one of the individuals in the relationship becomes a door mat or feels they have no other options.
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