That's why they don't understand that 90% of the Male population wanting to fuck a Woman is not validating at all. Male attention is completely worthless, especially with the rise of social media. Women already know most guys would, could, and want to fuck them anyway, so a guy demonstrating sexual interest isn't some sort of gift. Women don't give a fuck that the average schlub would bust a nut in them and then leave, they'd do that shit with literally most girls walking down the street.

Sure sexual attention is validating to most Men, they barely get any anyway, but they wrongly project this attitude. Even worse is when Men pretend they're not trying to validate a Woman sexually, and try to monopolize her attention by blowing up her phone or overly pursuing like she's the last option he has in the entire world. He's basically a bitch.