My girlfriend is very single on social media

SexySPACsMan · 2020-09-17T14:58:28+00:00

I'd leave before she does

benhurensohn · 2020-09-17T15:04:36+00:00

Your time's up

qwerty_asd · 2020-09-17T14:59:25+00:00

Your relationship is done. No red pill dude is going to tell you to stay with her.

Keith_Valentine · 2020-09-17T15:13:49+00:00

Get one last fuck,

then ghost her.

lmann81733 · 2020-09-17T15:20:07+00:00

It’s not retaliatory, she wants a new guy and doesn’t want prospective suitors to know she has a boyfriend. You could give her the benefit of the doubt and say it’s a subconscious plan. Either way, it is time to look for another gf.

TeddyMGTOW · 2020-09-17T15:12:27+00:00

You found your way to TRP forum. You know the deal, its not your lady, just your turn in line.

TigerXtrm · 2020-09-17T16:39:15+00:00

“why cant I stop catching feelings for anyone who looks at me”.

Cuz you a ho.

Seriously, drop kick this bitch out of your life.

mattreps510 · 2020-09-17T14:59:02+00:00

Bro get the fuck outta there, what are you still doing?

2020-09-17T15:41:47+00:00

You got maybe 1 - 2 more fucks then it's not your turn anymore.

NexusReflexX · 2020-09-17T15:51:22+00:00

Trust your gut.

TheStumblingWolf · 2020-09-17T15:49:37+00:00

me all the time. Now she makes an effort not to show me in her stories

This tells me she's trying to catch another fish. Even if she's telling you the truth, that she's doing it because you're not posting about her, that's a highly manipulative of communicating her needs. If this is what she's like now, what's she gonna be like 5 years down the road?

In any case, redirecting to you seems like a deflection to me, rather than her telling you the problem.

Qwesterly · 2020-09-17T16:20:24+00:00

I would sit down with her and tell her that her social media posts were really making me uncomfortable, and that I really loved her, and needed her desperately. I would ask her what I could do to make her more comfortable, and feel more loved, and then I would do all of those things.

And then when she branch-swings to Chad Thundercock in two weeks, and starts posting all "Teh Fun💕 💖 Timeses💖 Tee💕 Hee❣" she is having with Chad to her IG, I would come back here, devour the sidebar, start following blogs and podcasts from the manosphere to learn best-practices and get the perspectives of many men who practice red-pill, and perpetually remember, for the rest of my life, how bad I fucked up with Mary-Sue Rottencrotch by simping.

Or.... just hard-next with no explanation or closure for her (she'll know!), and start spinning plates, and you'll have sent a message to the Wahmosphere about how men handle misbehavior in the adult world.

4thAndLong · 2020-09-17T17:22:00+00:00

She belongs to the streets, my guy.

southflsup · 2020-09-17T15:29:44+00:00

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BlocknGhost · 2020-09-17T15:44:14+00:00

She’s doing more than most girls would in the midst of getting ready to leave by openly sharing it on social media. Run Forrest run.

rpthrowaway1104 · 2020-09-17T15:49:15+00:00

Good lord that relationship is over

Project_Zero_Betas · 2020-09-17T15:24:26+00:00

Shes getting ready to swing over to a new guy.

Bungeeeeee · 2020-09-17T15:26:43+00:00

I hope you are emotionally disengaging, lining up potential plates and brushing up your game. Your ltr doesn't function properly, you need a new chapter.

Unlikely_Composer · 2020-09-17T16:23:18+00:00

Not your turn anymore dude. Leave.

2020-09-17T18:55:55+00:00

it’s over dude... it’s over. if you don’t leave, she’ll cheat on you anyway.

DougIIJ · 2020-09-17T15:22:55+00:00

Run for the hills bro 😂

LuciidEnigma · 2020-09-17T17:28:12+00:00

CODE RED I REPEAT CODE R.E.D. GET HIM OUT OF THERE ASAP🚨

Zabi4 · 2020-09-17T19:02:13+00:00

"Why cant i stop catching feelings for anyone who looks at me"

Fuck her one last time. Dump her right after you cum on her face. Make her feel like a slut since she wants to act like one.

TheBadGoy · 2020-09-17T15:49:16+00:00

Find a replacement before she does

custoscustodis · 2020-09-17T16:07:50+00:00

Run for the nearest clinic and get yourself checked. She's out there, but using you for the boyfriend bennies until another boyfriend type can replace you.

Skinny_Wizard · 2020-09-17T17:36:20+00:00

She made up her mind a while ago. Its blatant disrespect and she just observes how much of a pussy you are. Break up.

AngTheEphemeral · 2020-09-17T17:54:33+00:00

The medium is the message:

https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/06/the-medium-is-the-message/

TheTrueLordHumungous · 2020-09-17T18:00:41+00:00

Your turn is over.

Fingerblaster007 · 2020-09-17T19:14:39+00:00

Yea, eject. Immediately.

pyth0ns · 2020-09-17T15:49:56+00:00

Enjoy your (now) plate.

anonbudy · 2020-09-17T16:00:17+00:00

Ruuuuuun and do not look back. Been there done that

mr4kino · 2020-09-17T17:03:59+00:00

Any advice? You know the answer. Have some self-respect and leave her.

dynospectrum7 · 2020-09-17T17:09:13+00:00

You know what time it is, bud.

Danielsavv · 2020-09-17T18:00:09+00:00

chalk her up to the game bro before she has u looking stupid

BestVersionOfMyself_ · 2020-09-17T18:15:05+00:00

Now she makes an effort not to show me in her stories and posts things like “why cant I stop catching feelings for anyone who looks at me”

I'm sorry brother but I think deep down you already know the truth. Your turn is over.

Hard next.

revrev4405 · 2020-09-17T19:05:31+00:00

Shoulda set a harder boundary, you don’t need to post her for her to know she’s yours. Next

Dudewheresmymoto1 · 2020-09-17T19:12:51+00:00

Ottorton · 2020-09-17T19:36:38+00:00

She belongs to the streets. Let her go bro, youve had your turn..

yoitsericc · 2020-09-17T19:58:27+00:00

She is getting ready to branch swing. We see this behavior in females all the time. Women mentally check out of a relationship months before they actually leave.

Tell her to get off social media or you and her are done. Or better yet just leave her.

jhx264 · 2020-09-17T20:42:12+00:00

Tried and true "My girlfriend doesn't do this."

Pezotecom · 2020-09-17T22:34:53+00:00

You should listen to her and start uploading daily photos of yourselves!

And when you finally find her in your bed with 2 guys then you can swallow the fucking pill and read the motherfucking side bar.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2020-09-18T04:56:20+00:00

All women are single for the right ~~man~~ Chad.

This is where this ends

HumanSockPuppet · 2020-09-17T20:28:14+00:00

My girlfriend is very single on social media

That's funny, because you're single IRL.

Ebrii · 2020-09-17T20:31:31+00:00

you still havent broken up? You idiot lol

Scores_Man_Mund · 2020-09-17T16:21:23+00:00

Jesus, I'm sorry about that, but this is a relationship out of which you must get. Best of luck in the next one, my friend

buttgoogler · 2020-09-17T17:47:55+00:00

I told her it bothers me

Bad idea, champ, now she knows that you're ~~her bitch~~ too invested, ghost her ass before she does.

ForeverInYou · 2020-09-17T18:08:52+00:00

Your post history tells all man, do the right thing, you'll find someone way better

ThenIJizzedInMyPants · 2020-09-17T18:11:54+00:00

She's not your gf anymore. Just a plate who is mooching off you.

Treat her accordingly

rad_dynamic · 2020-09-17T18:21:33+00:00

Yea man, don't fight it, u will lose. You could probably keep fucking her for some time but u will have to cut your balls off to keep her, saying how much u love her, finding a compromise, etc etc. Pointless.

If you stay she WILL make it out like you are trying to control her and that YOU are the manipulative one. Trust bro, the best thing to do is to LEAVE HER BEFORE SHE LEAVES YOU. Maybe 1-2 month you will be back on your feet with a new healthy rotation.

2020-09-17T18:22:38+00:00

She probably knows that you'll read every post of her and tries to tell you something. If you ignore this, it will eventually worsen over time - which means she wants something else or she will stop. Don't push it, be patient, do your things, don't think about her, spin some plates and soon you'll know what to do.

9NUMBERS9 · 2020-09-17T19:27:12+00:00

First off this is EXTREMELY toxic and borderline abusive. Like WTF are you doing even entertaining this shit bro? IMMEDIATELY disengage emotionally and accept that this bitch is trash and not worth YOUR BIOLOGICAL GIFT. A woman with value doesn't do this crap. 2nd IMMEDIATELY start working on maximizing your SMV. The better you are? The better you navigate the SMP bro. 3rd: Dont give her any ultimatums/ Let her know " Baby, this shit is trashy as fuck. Im not on this vibe and dont have room for this in my life. You do whatever is you want to do, but im letting you know if it continues im going to do what i have to do maintain my peace and happiness. I love you but this type of stuff doesn't work for me. You decide whats best for your." The moment you try to control your bitch is the moment YOU BECOME HER BITCH.. You need to become OUTCOME INDEPENDENT. If you're going to tolerate this crap from her then you;ve become her beta cuck bro. Sad truth, but truth nonetheless. Let her know it doesnt work for you and that she can do whatsoever she wants... but ultimately at the end of the day YOU are going to do what YOU want. You know what to do.

Lightways434 · 2020-09-17T19:31:43+00:00

That ain’t your girlfriend

seefromabove · 2020-09-17T19:43:33+00:00

She is obviously looking to replace you. In this situation, whoever leaves first, has a psychological advantage. Double your efforts to look for her replacement while using psychological and sexual comfort she provides to increase your confidence in the meantime.

thrwawy09007 · 2020-09-17T20:26:30+00:00

plate

Pycnostyle · 2020-09-17T20:39:34+00:00

Dude. Is this chick LTR material? Really?

If it's true that she's doing this "social media slut" routine to retaliate against you and you social media, that's not how grownups resolve conflicts.
Her social media slut routine reflects a hell of a lot worse on her than it does on you. Assuming her contacts think you two are still together. I mean, would would you think about someone who wrote that?

So no, this chick is not LTR material. You can do way fucking better. If you have feels for her, this is a hard next. If you are just sorta hanging around for the sex, tell her you realized that you two don't do well as boyfriend/girlfriend so that's over, but she's still hot AF so you can still bang sometimes if she's down.

ay-fuh-q · 2020-09-17T20:58:08+00:00

A girl you think is your girlfriend is an attention whore.... at the very least of types of whore she is.

jackandjill22 · 2020-09-17T21:07:58+00:00

CogGear · 2020-09-17T21:09:07+00:00

"Women hold the right to change their mind at any given moment"

RivenHalf · 2020-09-17T21:23:01+00:00

Lmao...bro

Your girl is posting about catching feelings about other people. Why the fuck are even asking for insight. I would insight you to grow some fucking balls bro. Come on dude. Do better.

Snowboard18 · 2020-09-17T21:24:52+00:00

She said “why do I catch feelings for anyone that looks at me” ?!?

That’s disrespectful as shit, dump her immediately and never talk to her again because she will try to get back with you after you dump her just for the sole purpose of her “winning” and dumping you

Warren_Bateman · 2020-09-17T21:42:54+00:00

My girlfriend is very single ~~on social media~~

FTFY

throwawayinthetrash3 · 2020-09-17T22:17:24+00:00

Dump that bitch

XXXMersenne · 2020-09-17T22:50:55+00:00

Slonk eggs

SMash weights

Pet kittens in line at the store and get lost in some juicy goss with the arthoe you bummed a cigarette from. This should fix her Objet small a issue.

robbiedigital001 · 2020-09-17T23:00:16+00:00

An ex did the same with me, hid relationship status and posted about "needing big change"

Get rid of her asap

failingtheturingtest · 2020-09-17T23:09:18+00:00

My girlfriend is acting single, so I'm acting more attached.

This is the very core of RP. She's (intentionally or without knowing it) dreading you, and it's working.

Read the 12 Levels of Dread. The first few (up to and including flirting with other women) should be your natural state.

As uncle V would say, "this wouldn't be a problem if you were maintaining sexual relationships with multiple women"

boihuh58 · 2020-09-18T00:47:50+00:00

She is “testing the waters”

Ryzza778 · 2020-09-18T00:51:21+00:00

Fuck her once more before she dumps your ass hahha

adilluminati · 2020-09-18T01:46:51+00:00

Plan your exit

OneTrueQ · 2020-09-18T01:56:32+00:00

Hard next it man. Or stay in it. See it through to the most utterly painful outcome. Your feelings will be hurt enough to never tolerate that retarded shit again.

phisch13 · 2020-09-18T02:00:34+00:00

Not even the blue pills would tell you to stay here lmao

She’s literally actively hunting for her next dude, bragging about it, and you’re just chilling

woodencrown · 2020-09-18T02:35:35+00:00

Run Forrest, run!

tatinos · 2020-09-18T03:27:59+00:00

Op haul ass and go get some new ass. This girl is not feeling you.

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2020-09-18T03:32:39+00:00

Massive red flags!!!!!!

In that 8 months...

1)you've become VERY invested

2)you've displayed enough beta,emotion

3)you've shown some vulnerability

4)you've shown some jealousy

5)you've probably changed your look,the look that originally attracted her

6)you've changed your behaviour to show more comfort,bitch has gotten TOO comfortable and takes that for granted.

7)women have wondering eye that NEVER stops bc she wants to find "the best mate she can get". She doesn't view you as that mate.

8)newness of the "thing" you 2 have has LONG worn off. She needs that newness like a crack high...

...even if it's with someone else.

Solution:

She may ALREADY be cheating,may be planning it(most likely). Whether you want to save the ltr or just get another better chick,this should work.

Show more indifference towards her,don't worry so much about who she's texting, where she goes,who she's with,or what she does.

FOCUS ON YOUR SELF IMPROVEMENT.

1)eat more eggs(protein), preferably 2-4eggs daily.

2) supplement good multivitamin daily

3) meditation or prayer daily

4)crunch numbers and get finances in order(cutting expenses and putting at minimum $50-100 away each week for rainy day). At end of month that shit adds up.

5)track your calories,macros. MyFitnessPal.

6)lift or intense calisthenics 3-5 days a week. Really targets your Traps,Lats,Triceps,Chest,Delts to Build that v-taper physique. Cardio too if you need to lose extra fat(beer gut,love handles,chest/face fat).

7)walk with more masculine swag(think Thor or the Rock)

8)grow short beard or stubble,if already got it,then start grooming religiously. Trimmed,lined up cheeklines/neckline.

9)get better more ruggedly handsome haircut(think Beckham/Zayn haircut or good buzzcut if hair thinning).

10)start spending time away from her where she DOESN'T KNOW WHERE YOU ARE.

All this will do 3 things:

1)show her that your world doesn't revolve around her asshole or the fact that comes out it.

2)make you ALOT MORE ATTRACTIVE, Physically and otherwise.

3)build lots of dread with gf WHILE getting more attention from other females.

So either way,you win. If gf stops her bullshit thoting you win and if she doesn't.....OTHER GIRLS WILL GLADLY BE READY TO REPLACE THE BITCH (ie you win)

Good luck, stay safe

illusiveab · 2020-09-18T04:17:57+00:00

I love seeing posts where the answer is so obvious but it gets posted anyway

send_it_for_the_boys · 2020-09-18T05:17:12+00:00

Been in a similar situation, the girl I was with had already cheated or atleast had her prospects lined up and ready. don’t be like me and ignore your gut, get out ASAP and never look back, you’re doing more harm to yourself by staying....hit the gym hard man, start lining up some other girls, stay productive. Good luck

SteveSan82 · 2020-09-18T06:54:58+00:00

Move on dude.

aDrunkenWhaler · 2020-09-18T10:31:19+00:00

She met someone to branch swing

entrep4 · 2020-09-18T10:39:21+00:00

Give less comfort and more dread. Start looking for new options. Flirt with other people.

Make sure you're not slacking and haven't let go and got fat.

2020-09-18T13:40:01+00:00

She considers you a beta bucks now.

Fuck her over as best as you can. Then dump her. Or vice versa.

gcaa99 · 2020-09-18T14:16:47+00:00

Fuck her one final time. Eat her good, give her the best sex you can, then leave. Give no explanation, don't say shit

Tambamwham · 2020-09-18T16:58:33+00:00

I don’t think you should do anything. I think you should just focus on yourself. Lift everyday and eat with a purpose. Put career goals into overdrive. Pursue a robust and varied social/hobby life. Meet other women. Pull back. Treat the relationship as a casual one where she can do as she pleases because you are.

ppanther92 · 2020-09-18T17:39:10+00:00

"why cant I stop catching feelings for anyone who looks at me"

Lol... Have you any self respect?

Darkknight5422 · 2020-09-24T01:39:18+00:00

She belong to the streeeetss

trv22 · 2020-09-17T23:03:19+00:00

Wrong forum should post on relationship advice. Over here you already know what the answer is.

rudybasd · 2020-09-18T00:56:45+00:00

Just when i read that you told her that this thing is bothering you. I quickly realized that your time is up.

marowitt · 2020-09-17T18:05:08+00:00

Tell her to drop social media or you will drop her, social media attention whores are the 2nd worst to LTR

Title	My girlfriend is very single on social media
Author	stoicAce
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Comments	115
Date	September 17, 2020 2:56 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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