Women should help men out with happy living without sex

dicklord_airplane · 2017-12-23T04:03:07+00:00

if you have any doubts about how hormones can change a person's sex drive, listen to this NPR show on people who went through testosterone replacement therapy:

https://www.thisamericanlife.org/radio-archives/episode/220/testosterone/#

especially the part about a lesbian who transitioned to male presentation with the aid of testosterone supplements. she experienced a massive shift in her sex drive and modes of sexual arousal. all of a sudden, she could not stop thinking about fucking women. she said that after she started taking testosterone supplements, she could not stop staring at women she saw on the street and could not stop imagining them naked. also, pay attention to the guy who took testosterone supplements because he was deficient. he had the same experience: after his testosterone level was brought up to an average male's, he experienced a much stronger sex drive. This is from NPR, not some red pill or right wing psuedo science punditry.

most women possess a hell of a lot less testosterone than men. that's their secret. if women all suddenly had the same hormonal makeup as men, they would all be oggling men and looking at porn just like men do. if men all suddenly had the same hormonal makeup as women, their obsession with sex and seeing naked women would drop off significantly.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2017-12-23T03:26:43+00:00

why do "women" have a duty to do anything for "men" at all?

SpaceWhiskey · 2017-12-23T03:55:57+00:00

As a woman who has actually tried to talk to men about this only to be met with hostility, I have to roll my eyes a little. Why should the burden fall on women to educate men on something they don’t even want help with? It’s exhausting.

RockinSocksII · 2017-12-23T03:23:18+00:00

We don't have anything for you. Many women can do without sex because most of the time it gives little to no pleasure, and at worst, it can be painful for days after.

MagicGainbow · 2017-12-23T03:10:52+00:00

The difference here that you are not getting is testosterone, women do not possess any solutions, they just have a lower sex drive you dolt.

Scatre · 2017-12-23T03:37:54+00:00

You are asking advice from a bunch you are lusting for.. it just doesn't make sense. If you want to have an expierence of true celibacy and how to cope with it, then ask priests. Not women.

SkookumTree · 2017-12-23T04:10:51+00:00

Why do we need women for this? We men can do this on our own. Cultivate stronger friendships, for one. Friendships where there's nonsexual intimacy and emotional support. And we can stop measuring our self-worth by our sexual activity.

quotient_is · 2017-12-23T03:38:21+00:00

aside from sharing our experiences (which many of us do on a regular basis) there's nothing we can do. it's the responsibility of a given man to listen, and/or apply what he's hearing to his own life.

i don't think most women are happy living without sex, though, so that will only go so far.

ThrowawayCactus6012 · 2017-12-23T03:52:33+00:00

I don't think women can help with this particular issue. What men need to do is develop a stronger backbone and not get caught up in the pressures put upon them to have sex at all costs. Men make themselves susceptible to "virgin shaming," or being called "fag" or "pussy" if they're not getting laid regularly. Men have to be stronger than that. They have to act more like...men.

All these thirsty men, PUAs, etc., falling all over themselves trying to get laid - they are a disgrace to manhood.

[deleted] · 2017-12-23T03:43:24+00:00

We don’t center our lives around sex or pleasure that’s dépendant on other people.

dead_pixel_design · 2017-12-23T04:45:49+00:00

I don't know anyone of either gender that enjoy not having an active sex life, and feel like in my experience both men and women's moods are negatively effected by long dry periods. I think women in general are more reserved/tactful, so it presents itself very differently. But I don't believe women are better at living without sex than men are in a vacuum

Salty-Bastard · 2017-12-23T03:47:59+00:00

What the hell.. this is the second eunuch post today.

oneprettycoolcat · 2017-12-23T07:19:04+00:00

Women actually hate living without sex and are just as horny, if not more horny, than men. It's just that their sex drive is focused on a few men at the top of the attractiveness pyramid, whereas men find almost all women sexually attractive.

762Rifleman · 2017-12-23T03:27:44+00:00

Happy living WITHOUT sex? The closest thing I can think is chemical castration, which requires fucking with hormones with routine drug doses. Otherwise, well, testosterone, the main male hormone, has side effects like horniness and aggression. Women usually have lower testosterone and less desire for sex. For men, sex is a hydraulic need. It HAS to happen. There's surplus of gametes and hormones related to discharging them, and the plumbing has to be regularly cycled to keep in working order. It even reduces stress as well as cancer risks for males to regularly have sex and ejaculate. And from looking at incels, the psychological burdens of a lack of sexual outlet and companionship are equally as destructive. It is a physiological and psychological imperative for men to have sex. We need it to be healthy! We need it in the same way that women need to be emotionally validated.

N0blesse0blige · 2017-12-23T06:00:04+00:00

What is it with this new escalating narcissistic solipsism in certain women? Is it the new woman’s autism, or what?

Try rubbing some testosterone containing balsam on your chest. I once saw a documentary where a woman said that after having done this she suddenly understood what it’s like to be a school boy going through puberty.

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Dubslav_von_Chekem · 2017-12-23T15:47:11+00:00

They could, but they shouldn't.

Yes, the sex drive can be tamed. Men have done it. Some men do it even now.

In the old model, men could abstain from sex, but they needed family. Not playing the masculine role of father was shaming.

Now, men have to have sex or be shamed. Take away this drive, and only a few weirdo men will bother.

Extinction.

Or do you expect women to approach?

KerPop42 · 2017-12-23T03:13:55+00:00

Men have a naturally higher sex drive, so being abstinate will be harder. However, the only real trick to going without sex is self-control. There's no secret.

JezebeltheQueen5656 · 2017-12-23T16:21:17+00:00

Why the fck should the burden fall on us women to educate males on something they don’t even want help with? No way will I help you. Take a look at all those sexist philosophers from Schoppenhauer, Evola, etc. Learn from them, it wouldn't be hard because you males are all mysogynists.

ReluctantSlimeball · 2017-12-23T19:19:19+00:00

Biological determinism.

Men NEED sex. It’s a very unfortunate affliction for us.

Mr_Smoogs · 2017-12-23T03:22:05+00:00

The male need for sex is analogous to the female need for validation.

Women need validation from men and from other women just as much as men need sex.

The female need for validation is so great that if she were to post a selfie on Facebook and get zero likes, she would probably spiral into depression.

Asking men to not seek validation of their being from sex is like asking women to never against seek validation from anyone as well.

TRP_Hoplite · 2017-12-23T04:08:25+00:00

So if I'm an avid book reader/collector and can't walk into a bookstore without leaving with a bunch of books (all obtained legally), should I seek advice from an illiterate since he or she us doing OK without ability to read?

Doom_and-Gloom · 2017-12-23T08:43:40+00:00

Women know how to live without sex

That's because most women are frigid by nature. Men are not.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2017-12-23T04:29:08+00:00

What does this even mean? Men are much more likely to have hobbies and interests that aren't netflix and starbucks. Men do much more things, of all kinds, that aren't sex. They also want sex. Should men teach women to be less boring and useless?

Title	Women should help men out with happy living without sex
Author	SoberMisanthropy
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Comments	174
Date	December 23, 2017 3:03 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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