Men should direct their discontent to Alphas

goatismycopilot · 2017-03-17T14:48:17+00:00

Penis make woman lose value. Man wanna put penis in woman. When woman have penis in her, slutness happens, value drain out like blood from vampire victim. Bad. bad. bad.

hyperrreal · 2017-03-16T21:58:19+00:00

For men to be happy, their partner has had sex with only him.

Totally untrue. Drawing conclusions about men from PPD commenters = bad idea.

Doom_and-Gloom · 2017-03-16T22:09:19+00:00

There's a reason the true villain of the Hunger Games is President Snow and not the other hunters Katniss Evergreen is put up against. Hate the people forcing you to play the game, not the ones who are better at it then you.

rufflethesefeathers · 2017-03-16T21:55:50+00:00

Many TRPs will never blame other men because they are gender identitarians. they believe that they have more common motivations and common interests with an alpha man than with a woman. i don't deny that. However I think the issue is that those common motivations actually harm each other. To me it would be in their self interest to not help or align themselves with alphas or even try to imitate them but to try and reduce alpha control over the SMP

TheThingsIThink · 2017-03-16T22:59:31+00:00

This is one of the bluest perspectives. 'Women would be chaste if chads weren't seducing them'

This post is off the mark. It de-sexualizes women and takes away their agency. Women enjoy sex as much as men, moreso! I declare.

The risk aversion is hard wired into them because one random dick could enfeeble them for 9 months, plus everything that comes after.

Offhisgame · 2017-03-16T21:55:20+00:00

Its not most men. Its just weak insecure rp men. As a hung attractive man i could care less if someone has fucked 20 dudes before. I know im gonna be at the top of the heap. If you were only 5 inches and 5 8 yeah i get the insecurity

EchoZeroEleven · 2017-03-17T01:10:26+00:00

men feel "retroactively cheated on"

Years ago I felt such a thing with someone I loved. I can tell you that it starts as a small, insignificant insecurity. It soon becomes a black hole, in which everything beautiful and lovely becomes sucked away and torn asunder. It's a self-inflicted gunshot, which has much much less to do with the partner in question, and much more to do with the individual who can't stop hurting him/herself with obsessive, self-destructive thought patterns. And these emotions often explode viciously and without warning, leaving shrapnel in his/her lover. It's a special form of hell that I wouldn't wish on others.

Where does it come from? An immature and jealous mindset.

How does it leave? With a simple admission - it isn't about you (cue that one scene from Dr. Strange - wish I could find a video to link it here). Eventually one must stop focusing on self-destructive thoughts, and focus on creating a great relationship. Which is better? The musicians, the instruments, the conductor, or the music created from their collaborative efforts? Focus must be put on the music, the relationship.

reepbot · 2017-03-17T00:13:42+00:00

Well I personally think blaming others for your failings is useless and won't achieve anything. So being angry at alphas is just as useless as being mad at women.

FairlyNaive · 2017-03-17T02:16:22+00:00

Men should direct their discontent into working harder in the gym.

NalkaNalka · 2017-03-17T02:23:40+00:00

Have to disagree men did not make the current system. Men made the old sytem of single partners for life and no (or very little) premarital sex.

Our current system was made by woman rebelling against the old restrictive sexual system.

Men now have to adapt to the current marketplace. Dosen't matter if they would want to marry a young virgin girl when they are virgins themselves and live happly ever after. The reality of this day and age is that is no longer an option. What they see as options is be the cuck or the bull.

chateaubriand__ · 2017-03-16T22:47:44+00:00

pls read this refutes all ur points https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2011/11/18/we-are-trapped-on-slut-island-and-traditional-conservatives-are-our-gilligan/

KoennonTiger · 2017-03-16T21:59:04+00:00

Yes the old control and emasculate all men method. It's working out so well isn't it?

Ok here are a few probs for you babe. If there are 100 men and 100 women and you patriarchally oppress 50 of those girlz that's fifty girls that beta guys can then go marry. And 50 sloots for the rest of us to enjoy. But if you feministize and emasculate 50 of those guys then no girlies want to touch them and the other 50 guys have a great time with 100 sloots. Hell you can take this farther though. Let's feministize the school system and force all men to go to gov schools. Let's drug the shit out of any little boy who struggles to be an emaculated pseudo girl. Hell maybe we can destroy the psyche and emotionally abuse 99% of little boys into ball-less supplication. Then that one remaining guy will go fuck all of the other women while the women grow ever more miserable wondering why the boys aren't asking them out anymore.

TL;DR - One way works. One way doesn't work.

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SoupTyrant · 2017-03-17T01:59:15+00:00

men feel "retroactively cheated on" if their SO has had sex before meeting him.

For men to be happy, their partner has had sex with only him.

Come on, if you want to make a point or have a discussion at least start with an honest premise.

tallwheel · 2017-03-17T02:48:15+00:00

I agree with the title. Alphas are the men with the power, and are mostly responsible for the current gender relations we have now. Most alphas are BP, and will white knight for women. Some of them even post on TBP. They are the ones looking around at other men and saying, "Gee. I wonder why other men say they have trouble getting laid. Maybe it's because they are creepy misogynists who don't deserve to be loved by anyone."

The body of your post, though, is just an over-exaggeration of the fact that men like women with low n-counts. I agree to the extent that, traditionally, women were expected to be virgins at marriage in most cultures. This was for good reason, though, when you realize that birth control and contraception weren't what they are now throughout most of history. Men today still have this preference because our genes are telling us to find a woman who we can be reasonably sure will give birth only to offspring who carry our own genetic material.

ppdthrowawai · 2017-03-17T03:01:33+00:00

Sounds like a pretty beta suggestion if you ask me.

bakedpotato486 · 2017-03-17T06:29:47+00:00

men feel "retroactively cheated on" if their SO has had sex

My first GF asked me "how do you feel about all my previous BF's?" I responded "as long as I'm the one." Simply put; as long as our relationship lasted.

For men to be happy, their partner has had sex with only him.

And women simply don't get mad at their man fucking other women.

the guy who wants the virginal wife

Is someone who wants, while possibly not virginal, someone who can respect a two-way relationship. A slut would fuck whomever while still garnering value from the "boyfriend." It has been enshrined into law that men owe women something for being in relationships with them. What does a woman owe her man? Sex. If she's freely giving it around, even while in a relationship, she's a slut.

It just seems like if men weren't seducing women into sex, sex wouldn't be had.

You probably believe women cannot rape, too.

DashneDK2 · 2017-03-17T09:24:32+00:00

For men to be happy, their partner has had sex with only him.

I'm not one of the guys who think so much about n-count, but all things equal, if I was in a scenario where I had to choose between a girl who had had sex with 100 guys and a girl who is a virgin - all other things being equal, yeah then I'd choose the virgin.

In any case, no people shouldn't direct their discontent to Alphas. You aren't marrying the alpha, you are marrying the slut. That's like, if your partner is unfaithful you should be angry with your partner, not the other person he/she was unfaithful with.

For the guys who want to experience multiple women and also have a virginal wife, how do you complain about the SMP, whilst admittedly wanting to screw someone else over in the process?

Most men are more considerate and patient if the girl is a virgin. I know I have been that. But if she already has had sex with multiple dudes, not so much.

GermanEgo · 2017-03-17T11:59:13+00:00

Your issue is that you all want to be Chad, but you know that being Chad means "ruining" a bunch of women

You say this like its a a bad thing, were all defilers deep down

Also, how does directing their discontent towards alpha actually do anything?

the_calibre_cat · 2017-03-17T13:44:22+00:00

Sidenote, again: You would be less stressed if you didn't consider penises so evil.

Are you even for real right now.

crankypants15 · 2017-03-19T16:09:58+00:00

Former delusional shy guy here.

Redirecting someone's discontent only deals with the emotions, not the source of the problem. If people want to change their life, they need to change themselves first. A culture of "accepting yourself" does not include all the bad points necessarily, as accepting the bad points, and denying change, will not bring the results the person wants.

Letting someone else make you mad also reinforces the idea that one has no control over their life, which is also not true.

If one wants to change the outcomes, they must change their habits. This goes for everyone.

Subway_Bernie_Goetz · 2017-03-19T20:24:37+00:00

Right. So a woman's sexual choices are not her responsibility but are the responsibility of all the men she willingly had sex with. Kinda like how if I take all my money out of my checking account and just start handing it out to people on the street, the fact that I am now broke is not my fault, it's the fault of all the greedy bastards who were willing to take free money.

SetConsumes · 2017-03-16T22:09:35+00:00

Ahahaha the idea that it's men that are doing the seducing mostly is utterly fucking hilarious.

Lets just ignore that women make their behavior and appearance and language seductive, that it is women that focus and want sex(really they want men) even more than men do.

I get your point that if someone is fucking sluts it's hypocritical to then hate on sluts. But at the same time, there's a large difference between 'turning' a girl into a slut and fucking a slut that's been a slut for a while, his extra cock isn't really changing anything for the already slut.

Blaming alphas is pointless. It won't solve anything and it doesn't matter. The problem is society, women can't keep their legs closed adequately, and we do not tell men or women not to be promiscuous, or really to care much about how their sexual behavior affects others.

HitchensTwoPointOh · 2017-03-17T02:01:39+00:00

It's the tragedy of the commons. If you don't dick that slut down someone else will. If she wants to maintain her value she will, it's really not the guys fault.

Title	Men should direct their discontent to Alphas
Author	GridReXX
Upvotes	23
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Date	March 16, 2017 9:51 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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