Dancing will get you laid - a list of things boys can do to be popular with girls

saladfingers4141 · 2019-12-30T03:02:34+00:00

If you're bad with women don't listen to women on how to get better with women.

ohheyhi99 · 2019-12-30T02:48:23+00:00

Having interesting hobbies can give you more options once you get your foot in the door, but being as physically attractive as possible will get you in more doors more often. Being physically attractive enough to someone makes all your other qualities more interesting to them.

Nerdy women usually like nerdy men of similar or higher attractiveness. Outdoorsy women usually like outdoorsy men of similar or higher attractiveness. Many times, you don’t need to have major interests in common if the woman considers you attractive enough and you have OK chemistry.

Being as attractive as possible and interesting will do the most for you. The latter can occasionally substitute for the former, but it usually won’t for less attractive (below average) guys. It’s fine for platonic friendships though, which may help a man meet more women who might be attracted to him.

Edit: When I say “as attractive as possible,” I mean maximizing your own attractiveness, not necessarily being born handsome.

theobesegamer · 2019-12-30T04:08:42+00:00

this is so bluepill it sounds like dr. nerdlove wrote it

Hennythepainaway · 2019-12-30T02:46:12+00:00

I feel for the poor bastard who did ballroom dancing to pick up chicks and then was stuck living that life for the next 50 years.

Grek27 · 2019-12-30T03:57:21+00:00

"Jump around like a tard monkey in hopes of getting female approval"

CamoWoobie420 · 2019-12-30T03:09:08+00:00

This is ridiculous.....

This is framed like "Dancing will get you laid" but youre leaving so much unsaid.

Its more like "Being a top .01% TurboChad will get you laid but dancing will make it even easier".

If youre thinking she fucked some average dude who knew how to dance youre delusional

[deleted] · 2019-12-30T02:41:40+00:00

I met my SO dancing. He even said he knew how but he was lying. Turns out he had been watching me for awhile and thought it looked easy.

JaJammerJan · 2019-12-30T02:47:09+00:00

To be fair I was dimmisive of almost all men because I was only interested in svelte, mentally Dominant, sexual switches.

Yeah and I am sure you could know that from looking at someone's facial bone structure which is what caused you to swipe left on 99% of profiles and ghost 99% of the remaining 1% within 2 text messages.

But my husband met that criteria and had something to talk about passionately outside of the bedroom, and shared it with me.

Sounds like the 'talk about something passionately outside of the bedroom' is not important at all the way you formulate it here. Just some 'added bonus'.

and had something to talk about passionately

If you are a introvert who doesn't like talking much ( or messes up when you do) try ballroom or square dancing. Or an instrument.

so you tell this whole story where your husband likes to talk much and how good that is and then you follow that up with: 'so what you learn from this, if you don't like to talk much, try an extroverted hobby where you dont talk!'

??? wtf

NigroqueSimillima · 2019-12-30T04:23:03+00:00

As a serious dancer, who spent thousands of dollars and hundreds of hours on my hobby. Dancing is good way to meet people if you really like it, but if you don’t, you’ll never get good enough to impress anyone.

The overall idea of getting a hobby you will enjoy and put you around girls is a good one, but don’t imagine that if you go to dance class you’ll be surrounded with tons of gorgeous single women just longing for someone to dance with them.

taapy234 · 2019-12-30T04:04:59+00:00

OP, it sounds like you are a little out of touch with the year of 2020 here.

Your advice is a little dated now. I can definitely see how this can work before the explosive growth of online dating. So, your advice might work in 2004-2009.

I can see how your advice about choosing extroverted activities can work. But you are basically expecting dudes to literally change his personality markup to get laid. Which seems a bit too much just for a chance to get laid. As the saying goes, the juice isn't worth the squeeze in what you are proposing here.

But its still possible to choose activities bordering on extrovert level while still being your usual introverted self. This can be far more useful advice. Take for example, hiking, music festivals, comedy shows, niche communities, etc

Hell, if this is the legitimate advice you give while being a woman of your stature, I might as well tell guys to just pay 500 bucks and get a high class hooker. Its less stupid than your advice.

CHAD_TDK · 2019-12-30T02:41:25+00:00

Being popular with girls because you dance with them won't translate necessarily into sex. And if you go dancing with the ulterior motive of getting laid... well, how ethical is that?

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NEETVirginWinner · 2019-12-30T02:57:41+00:00

Interesting hobbies and interests, instead of introverted activities is the easiest way to invite women who are not addicted to their screens into your life.

Legitimately hate this, tbh. Introverted bullshit is mega-interesting to me, and extroverted bullshit isn't. There's a degree of me having to play dancing monkey for someone else's entertainment that I don't like about this.

brinkleybuzz · 2019-12-30T04:41:00+00:00

Dancing is the introduction, getting to know you and foreplay phases of a relationship rolled up into one interaction. If you're one of the couple of guys partying on a dance floor full of drunk, horny women, how can you not get laid?

Kwint86 · 2019-12-30T05:40:40+00:00

I appreciate the sentiment but...

I can't help but feel the premise is based in dishonesty.

I'm not going to take up things I don't enjoy just to get women to like me. I mean how would you feel about that?

"Yeah I met you in dance class, but I was only there to pick up chicks"

Solid guy.

Prodigy5 · 2019-12-30T07:47:01+00:00

This is incredibly false.

Freevoulous · 2019-12-30T08:43:46+00:00

Let me reframe that:

- a man should learn how to dance, because dancing is awesome and fun

- a man should be open to extrovert interests, because extrovert interests are super fun and make one happy

- a man should lift and take care of his body, because it will make him feel good, be healthy and fit until old age

- a man should learn how to cook well, mix drinks, play an instrument, fight brutally, drive smoothly, charm a crowd, sell high, buy low, chop wood, train a dog, entertain children, tell a joke, act silly, act intimidating, groom well, dress sharp, comfort a friend, terrify a foe, brew kickass coffee, roll a joint, shoot a gun, patch a wound, change a tire, and bake cookies.

- a man should strive to grow socially, intellectually and financially, because all of this will make him happier, live longer , and avoid hardships.

And yeah, a side effect of all of this Good Living is that chicks might find you attractive, but you are already winning regardless.

philomexa · 2019-12-30T02:52:50+00:00

I met an ex-b/f at a dance. He was one of a few guys on the floor actually dancing, and he invited me to dance with him. He's Mexican so over the course of our relationship he taught me all sorts of Latin dance styles.

As expected, he was quite popular with the girls because he knew how to move his body.

khaste · 2019-12-30T02:48:20+00:00

Lol good trollpost

Pastelitomaracucho · 2019-12-30T03:30:50+00:00

I used to dance so much women would actually line up for a chance to dance with me.

Almost none of all that dancing translated to sex.

Maybelowsmv · 2019-12-30T03:36:51+00:00

dancing in the right environment also allows for kino, dudessss

wtknight · 2019-12-30T04:19:39+00:00

I avoid extroverted interests because I don't want to date an extroverted woman. It has worked pretty well for me.

rus9384 · 2019-12-30T05:29:06+00:00

women who are not addicted to their screens

The thing is, when most women are addicted to their screens, most men starting to look for women who aren't is going to fail.

use guys for dinners

In fact, they don't have to be addicted to their screens.

To be fair I was dimmisive of almost all men because I was only interested in svelte, mentally Dominant, sexual switches.

So? Is it different now? You say you have a husband who hits these criteria, so I guess not.

Lifting and stuff might get you a tipsy girl who snap chats the entire night, but it's not going to get you a girl who admires how you make or do something.

As you said, your husband has already met criteria. So, men in the first place should be capable to meet them.

wekacuck · 2019-12-30T05:42:32+00:00

This post is peak Boomer.

Question for you. Why are you giving this advice here? Your advice is essentially useless because guys who have dating under control aren't here and the guys here are too ugly/autistic/weird to be attractive to women. Just be confident applies to your normal average guy with his head temporarily down, not a 35 year old virgin.

You're giving advice to guys who can't human enough to be enticing to women. Better advice would be going through an escort catalogue and seeing where the good deals are.

AntifaSuperSwoledier · 2019-12-30T12:26:14+00:00

I'm surprised at all the push back against dancing here. Doesn't TRP strongly encourage you to develop mastery in skills or hobbies - especially skills that are attractive to women.

goneaway2thewind · 2019-12-30T03:04:37+00:00

Women here think we don't know what to do to get laid, what they dont understand is that men want to be men, not dancing monkeys for their pleasure.

dylang92 · 2019-12-30T05:12:56+00:00

Jesus it’s so Bluepilled tonight. The only advice men need to follow is to do whatever you can to obtain Chad level looks. Everyone who has some sort of “strategy” and is successful is almost always Chad level looks. It has nothing to do with how they dance or what hobbies, it’s all down to face and height.

whydidntthey · 2019-12-30T06:12:23+00:00

Being able to dance is primo quality for a guy looking to have fun with a girl. First rule of dating is be fun. I don't know if it's any use to try to tell these guys though. "I stoically lifted two hundred pounds in front of her" got no one laid, ever. But a fun guy who grabs a girls hand and says come dance with me, then goes and dances with her?

noNooodleArms · 2019-12-30T04:20:09+00:00

I lift and dance. I should still be dancing tonight. Damn.

MubutuDeezNuts · 2019-12-30T03:24:38+00:00

I agree that extroverted hobbies that women like will get you around and socializing with women. That being said, it is also important for men to looksmax and learn seductive behaviors. Hobbies are good advice, but insufficient.

azngirl7689 · 2019-12-30T03:47:48+00:00

Being able to let go and have fun is a plus yes. No one likes Serious all the time Shane or Sally.

MrShakedown1 · 2019-12-30T11:23:48+00:00

Lifting and stuff might get you a tipsy girl who snap chats the entire night, but it's not going to get you a girl who admires how you make or do something.

Will do for starters.

NeedingAdvice86 · 2019-12-30T15:56:02+00:00

It certainly does not hurt to be able to dance...BUT

You had already fucked your SO before you knew anything about his magical things to talk about outside of the bedroom and to be honest, I can't think of any guys who are so boring that they can't keep a girl around and interested if they were attractive enough to the girl to have sex with her.

This seems to be a solution to a female problem NOT a male problem....men who struggle with women do so because they are not meeting the #1 criteria which is NOT meeting girl's attraction criteria, NOT that they are losing girls because they have nothing to talk about outside the bedroom.

Being nothing but a quick fuck is a Female problem because so many women don't seem have anything to offer outside of sex.....hence why your solution is more applicable to women who find themselves constantly getting ghosted after fucking because they have nothing to talk or interest the guy to keep him around besides their pussy.

The number of guys who are attractive enough to women to fuck but can't keep around because he is "boring" or "introverted" is less than .001% of the population....the number of guys who never get to display their personality, interests, and "things to talk passionately about" because they don't meet the attraction criteria of women is about 50% of the male population which is highly represented on these subs and other sites dedicated to helping average men attract women.

I think I can easily confirm for most guys that girls who I am fucking and who find me attractive are much, much more interested in my interests and "things to talk passionately about"....than the ones who are NOT attracted to me, who are like "bleh, bleh, boring, Who Give A Shit that you attended music festivals in 10 states last year, hiked to two peaks over 12,000ft in the Rockies or love the beach or can play classical music on guitar".

I suspect that if a poll was taken that 5x the number of PPD women would admit to having lost guys after fucking due to this occurrence than the number of guys who are losing a string a girls after sex because they were too boring to hang around....

Throughawayman80808 · 2019-12-30T16:05:37+00:00

This advice works better in conjunction with redpill teachings, not as a substitute.

exparadox1989 · 2019-12-31T01:55:05+00:00

This is some of the most incoherent nonsense on this sub

bonusfruit · 2019-12-31T04:11:27+00:00

Whenever you get advice like this, imagine a short ugly balding Indian guy following the advice. Visualize how ridiculous he looks. The women laughing at him, not with him. The futility of it all.

Title	Dancing will get you laid - a list of things boys can do to be popular with girls
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Date	December 30, 2019 2:35 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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