Dating a gamer is never the move.

localgirlcult · 2020-11-29T17:32:39+00:00

Imagine calling yourself a bitch and just generally being this slow. If something unexplainable happens and I wake up stupid one day, just take me out back and shoot me.

BashRunes · 2020-11-29T15:05:20+00:00

They will 100% chase after women in the server. Personal experience. He'd go after them all, and it's really sad how many will respond.

And if he doesn't do that it's 8-12 hours of them literally screaming into the mic and smashing their keyboards with their fists until 4 am.

sstena · 2020-11-29T14:59:19+00:00

They will chase other women, absolutely. "Chase" after them on the game and try to form a romantic and sexual connection while you cook his dinner and wash his sh!t streaked underwear.

Or create a sexualized female character and masturbate to it while you birth his child.

Or both!

StellarSunDance · 2020-11-29T18:26:41+00:00

Plenty of female gamers around (Hell, I'm one) and the LVM absolutely chase after the female gamers.

cantsextihavebills · 2020-11-29T15:16:59+00:00

He'll also be exposed to so much porn and IG shares/screenshots from "model" accounts that his friends will post in the chat. Inevitably a girl will join and they will turn into animals falling over themselves to be the one that "wins" her. Since your boyfriend has a partner he may be socialized enough for the girl to like, and you will find texts between them that he's never told you about where they have deep conversations far removed from the two-word sentences he gives you.

Casual gaming is fine, and I guess if he's a professional- literally getting paid a lot of money- gamer then you know what you're signing up for from the start, but any guy that spends hours a day playing video games is low value.

Also she called other women ******* so definitely getting "cool-girl" vibes from this tweet. I hope she sees the light soon.

randomgirlimok · 2020-11-29T17:46:54+00:00

You mean they will use cam girl sites and comment on Reddit porn subs

strainedcrow · 2020-11-29T19:38:13+00:00

They'll flirt with gamer girls even if you live up to the gamer girl fantasy. Like even the hottest insta gamer uwu ahegao face girls have dudes messing around on them. Their fantasy addiction usually includes video games + porn and not putting effort into their real life and real people. Fantasy is always better to them

LevelTurbulent · 2020-11-29T16:03:32+00:00

They meet those homies and fuck them. These women who think their men can’t cheat are fucking morons. “Oh, he has no time, he can’t cheat on me, he’s home playing games!”

It takes 10 minutes to stop at a glory hole on the way home from work. Pretty easy to set up a Craigslist encounter on your lunch break or just fuck a coworker in the back room or your car. Run to the store for a few things and fuck your gamer friend you found out lives nearby.

It happens all the time. Gamers are tech savvy, it’s insanely easy for them to find each other and fuck. And they can hide all the evidence really fucking easily.

I was married to a gamer for 20 years. I’m lucky I don’t have AIDS. He cheated with hundreds of fucking people. But oh, I was so lucky he just plays games instead of going out partying!

Thejasminedragon1215 · 2020-11-29T15:27:52+00:00

So she's calling herself and all other women bitxhes. How fucking stupid of her.

ladyyninjaa · 2020-11-29T16:41:56+00:00

I dated a gamer guy for almost two years. All he cared about was making money during his day career and playing video games at night.

I'm convinced that he didn't truly love me. He loved his gaming life. I couldn't imagine him being there for me.

cherieblosum · 2020-11-29T20:37:44+00:00

Nah they're trading porn with their homies on discord.

MsVioletCline · 2020-11-29T15:25:27+00:00

Says no one who has ever dated a gamer

clairemaffeis · 2020-11-29T17:23:52+00:00

I saw this yesterday on Twitter and my heart sunk. How low is the bar again?

super_thinker_ · 2020-11-29T15:32:35+00:00

Commenting to add that "bromance" culture is the worst.

These guys treat their bros 10000x better than they treat their girlfriends. I wish they'd just date each other and leave us alone already.

JiltedGroupie · 2020-11-30T00:44:04+00:00

Only date a gamer if you want to constantly be asking why important things didn’t get done, only to be told he “didn’t have time.” Then he whines when you point out that he spends MINIMUM two hours on videogames every single day without exception and would absolutely have time to do basic life tasks if he cut down on that time a little. “Whyyyyyyy are you trying to CONTROL meeeee? The boys were right :( all women just hate video games for no reason.”
Personally I love gaming but for me it is a recreational activity that I make time for only after my obligations are done and my needs are met. Too many gamer dudes think it’s completely okay to have a messy house, no clean laundry, no food prepared, and to not meeting any of their goals - yet they spend up to four hours a day staring at a screen pushing buttons like a skinner pigeon, while claiming they “don’t have enough time” to do things that actually matter.

berned-out · 2020-11-29T17:32:36+00:00

I never met a HVM who had time for e-games, tbh. In addition, there's a tribalism with platforms, which always strikes me as "bro" behavior, not serious husband behavior. I've met lots of HVM who will play games in person, that's a long tradition.

bravebeautyx · 2020-11-29T21:09:10+00:00

My ex was an addicted gamer... so unattractive. At first I thought “oh he just likes to do it as a hobby ok I think that’s fine”

But waking up and the first thing you do is game & literally all day till the moment you knock out at 6am from gaming. Gross. Never again.

& yeah - they totally form weird “friend” bonds with girls online. Really weird. Also weird - them being girls online.... like I get that you can choose your gender but sometimes I don’t know what to make of that shit?

NottodayScrote · 2020-11-29T15:45:38+00:00

Somebody lied to her. There are tons of women on discord. Some of the app games I play use Line and discord as a way for alliance members to communicate outside the game

Trocek · 2020-11-29T17:59:50+00:00

I stead of flirting with other bitches he's grooming underage girls on discord & exchange porn with his homies

souredskittles · 2020-11-29T23:13:55+00:00

Lol. Should we date prisoners too? 😂 women actually do this for this exact reason. Okay girl, be happy with a mega dusty.

Jaymite · 2020-11-29T20:01:52+00:00

I'm a gamer and I find it makes the gamer dudes go wild. I try to stick to games where I don't have to play with other people

umbralgarden · 2020-11-29T21:10:39+00:00

My ex didn't cheat on me UNTIL he started streaming and had women basically making him offers. I think they thought he was slightly famous and must be slightly rich but he's a total loser with 0 life skills. I don't even trust the biggest male YouTube or streamer stars to have their shit together. Pewdiepie? Off camera is a bed on the floor or a girlfriend calling their doctor for them.

Novemberinthechair · 2020-11-29T22:44:07+00:00

Uhhh, no.

hopelesscanary · 2020-11-30T05:13:00+00:00

Oh, they flirt with women on discord too 🙃

matte_personality · 2020-11-30T13:53:54+00:00

My first ever boyfriend was a gamer and all the times I thought he was just with his boys, he had three other girls in his roster and was just waiting for me to be fed up with his shit enough to leave ✨

LeyMio · 2020-12-01T05:14:12+00:00

Don't forget the ones who are dating their virtual waifus. Most gamer guys are weird losers.

basicbagels · 2020-11-29T19:20:18+00:00

All the pickme vibes here

flowers4u · 2020-11-29T21:25:31+00:00

Girl your options aren’t either date a dude that cheats or date a dude that ignores me to play video games!

SayNad · 2020-11-29T20:26:22+00:00

I've been watching tik-toks couple "pranks challenge" and a large majority of them is about trying to make their partner jealous or "tests" whether those partner flirt with other people.

All I can think is if you have to be constantly on "jealous mode" and watching over your shoulder about the possibility of them cheating behind your back..... Why the fuck are you in relationship again? This sounds like torture.

kiki_do_u_luv_me · 2020-11-29T21:16:45+00:00

“Instead of this shitty behavior they do this other shitty behavior. It’s the move!”

pikkpie · 2020-11-30T09:58:34+00:00

Yikes. Imagine being thing salty

sammytheforsaken · 2020-11-29T18:23:08+00:00

I can confirm this.

Title	Dating a gamer is never the move.
Author	super_thinker_
Upvotes	440
Comments	61
Date	November 29, 2020 2:44 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/k3ah48/dating_a_gamer_is_never_the_move/
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