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[–]ErikaNaumannFDS Newbie366 points367 points368 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Pear shaped men with manboobs:
"YoUr bOobS aRe Too SmAlL"
Yes sir, compared to yours, they are.
[–]hoIds_up_sporkFDS Disciple187 points188 points189 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Men should be legally required to post photos of their abs, hairline, and jawline before they are allowed to criticize any woman's appearance.
(In before the triggered lurkers go "iF ThE GeNdeRs WerE RevErsed aNd a MaN aSkEd WoMeN tO pOsT hEr BoObs-" congrats on almost getting the point)
[–]Mountain_Mew3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or they just shouldn’t criticize anyone’s appearance no matter what
[–]MagicAte_8FDS Disciple69 points70 points71 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
👏👏👏
On top of that, boobs get bigger when a woman gains weight, gets pregnant, or goes on birth control. When it comes to penis size, however, only extreme plastic surgery can make a small dick bigger.
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[–]ivy176FDS Disciple14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ewww
[–]lisasimpsonfanFDS Newbie105 points106 points107 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It was like this man baby crying on a post because no pretty girls will go out with him because he wasn't rich or handsome..blah blah blah.. I asked him how many average girls he asked out and he said none. I replied that he didn't deserve any dates since he was "too good" for average women.
[–]Sage_PlanterFDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I worked with a man like that once. He was by all accounts an average late thirty something. He'd whine about being single but exclusively chase twenty something models. Any seemingly average woman his own age wasn't good enough, but he'd keep complaining about how he was lonely and unloved.
[–]LeolikesmeFDS Newbie36 points37 points38 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They don't get it. There is a trade off with pretty girls. They either want someone as attractive as they are, or if not, who compensates for their lack of looks with wealth, success, fame, charisma, power, laugh a minute, something. Beautiful women and pretty girls don't settle for men who have zlich to offer them.
[–]GypsyStar79FDS Newbie160 points161 points162 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
This is so true, a guy once told me a pooch isnt sexy. I said take off your hat and look in the mirror and see If its sexy. Having 2 strands holding on to faith. The nerve😄.
[–]Throwaways355FDS Newbie53 points54 points55 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yes, I have a similar experience with a man who told me my breasts were a size to small for his liking. He liked to crap on my body whenever he could even thought his pack of flesh looked like a body double for my 600 pound life. The boobs thing was the last straw with this POS.
[–]TullyPrideFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Did you tell him you didn't grow boobs with his pleasure in mind?
Or tell him he doesn't need to be triggered his are bigger than yours?
[–]Throwaways355FDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Partly the second statement. I told him no need to be angered over my body even though yours looks like an inflated beach ball. Funny how his uglyass thought he was in the same league as me and that he was doing me a favor If I had sex with him. Nope bye lol.
[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist275 points276 points277 points 4 years ago (25 children) | Copy Link
Lol I saw a fat dude on MaleDatingStrategy say he wasn't attracted to girls at his level ?!!
..................................this is precisely their problem. Forever jumping out of their lanes trying to use you for ego points & getting slammed down
Does he even stop to consider whether he should put effort into himself or realise he's not all that himself? :S
[–]sweatydeathRuthless Strategist[S] 196 points197 points198 points 4 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
Men rate themselves higher on a regular basis! It’s ridiculous! I think their mommies convinced them they were a catch and it was forever cemented in their skulls. I have to laugh when I see them punching above their own weight - their lifestyle would NOT complement a fit girl’s lifestyle. Do they honestly think she is going to sit there and watch him play video games? Yes, yup, yeah. DELUSIONAL.
There’s a male dating strategy sub??!! 🤢
[–]cutestkillbotThrowaway Account54 points55 points56 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I want to scream when out of shape guys get crabby that I don’t want to date them. What are we going to do together?! Seriously! You won’t be able to keep up with me and both of us will just get frustrated. I love to mountain bike, hike, trail run, rock climb... yet chubbs who do none of that feel that they are entitled to my time and I have to just give them a chance. Let’s not be naive, they like my body because I am super active and workout a lot - don’t they then get that if we want to spend real time together we will need to have some of that stuff in common?
[–]ResponsibleCharacterPickmeisha™️8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup they like your body because it's sexually attractive due to the choices you make re: diet and exercise... but if you want a man who also takes care of himself so YOUcan be sexually attracted you're a ChAd FuCkInG WhOrE. Women aren't allowed to have preferences, they aren't allowed to enjoy sex, we are just supposed to be receptacles for whatever scuzzbucket is interested. They can choke on it lol, no amount of whinging and bitching will ever make me fuck a fat dude in 1,000 years
[–]rapat1234FDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And when you don’t have anything to do in common he’ll complain about it and expect you to fix it. “But my exes learned to play Magic the gathering to spend more time with me”
[–]radical__daphneRuthless Strategist54 points55 points56 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly. If you are fit and active why would you date someone who isn't? What are you gonna do, watch him watch Netflix every night? Because that's your future.
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[–]sweatydeathRuthless Strategist[S] 46 points47 points48 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
LOL at them thinking fooling a Pickmeisha is a feat. The fu**ery they have to resort to in order to obtain validation is pitiful. Oh gee wow you seduced a pick-me.... so did all of your friends. When you have to lose all of your values in the process, it's not really something to be proud about.
I had to raise the bar as well because I was only dating guys in tech fields before. I figured since we have that in common, we might be able to have several topics of discussion! WRONG. These males felt so stifled that a woman could achieve their level of success (if not more), and they were lazy man babies. They would lie and say they worked out 3-5 times a week (the reality was 2 times a week, if at all). Their lack of stamina was definitely reflected in their sexual performance. They would nut once and roll over and sleep lmao. Once you get used to great performance, the rest of the duds stick out like sore thumbs.
And he got a bit self-conscious as his was fading and said 'I guess I need to get back in that gym then!'.
It's so attractive when men have this healthy competitive nature. Instead of getting pissy and insecure he pushed back harder. That's the type of behavior that makes me swoon!
[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist24 points25 points26 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Exactly- wow you fooled a vulnerable damaged person with codependency issues, low esteem, mental health probs, is a bit slow or who is suffering from a lack of family support / heartbreak etc....aren't you such an alpha! Not. Preying on the weak doesn't make you an Alpha male- the alpha male is a guy who is confident enough to be vulnerable as himself and doesn't fear rejection, so doesn't need to resort to masks. Any smart healthy woman with sense and good esteem will weed them out in 3months 90% of times - as they'll be used to rejecting men and see through them when their mask drops off. If they stay beyond that they're probs suffering from 1 of the issues above and have poor self control / stuck in scarcity mindset....or he's a very very skilled liar (still hiding) /has changed. And pickmeisha's chase after/ react like that with any guy...not just him...because they're trying to make any1 fit the fairytale- they just want a boyfriend full stop. I see severe, even very pretty pickmeishas quite often- and they're constantly chasing every man they come in contact with at 200mph and being cut off. So the fact he fooled them doesn't mean anything- they're just not clued up on men. HVW will get suspicious and cut them off- so them being rejected is hardly an achievement. You can't know someones patterns/personality properly until you've known them at least a few weeks/ months.
Lol I went on a date with this tall latino guy from OLD once (I rarely go on dates with men off there due to past failures- so I had to gear myself up for it)...and he had a photo of him in the gym on his profile....admittedly it was a bit further away (I dunno how I missed that flag)
But from my experience a lot of latino men I have met are in good shape / decent looking so I didn't worry. However I could feel he had a dad bod stomach when I hugged him and you could tell he was depraved and had a fragile ego- escalating super quick being very pushy- so he didn't get a 2nd date. His dry, overly serious personality matched his disappointing physique. He sent me some huge butt hurt paragraph afterwards looool he knew I good smell SDE.
Why have a photo of you in the gym if you have a dadbod belly &don't lead an active lifestyle? Its false advertising. I have a nice hot young body I am proud of and I am perfectly entitled to only date men who also have a nice hot young body that's in shape. This idea women should be in tip-top shape for some lazy insecure guy with a dad bod at 25 & 'not be shallow' is ridiculous & entitled. If he's slacking off at that age- there's no hope for the longhaul. And I cba to nag a man- he should want it for himself.
Most men are meh in the face so them having muscles/definition is pretty important for me to be able to feel attracted/turned on at all. And you're right- lack of stamina definitely reflects in performance. The men I found good in bed all worked out and have definition/ athletic bodies- I've yet to see an exception to this tho pickmeisha's love to claim their big teddy bear is great in bed :S. 'Once you get used to great performance, the rest of the duds stick out like sore thumbs.' 100% agree- I can smell ir a mile away now.
[–]sweatydeathRuthless Strategist[S] 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think he was hoping to lure you in, make you became emotionally attached to his personality, and then slowly reveal his dad bod. LOL NICE TRY 🤡
Lmfao it took me a second to realize that SDE = small dick energy. Perhaps I should add SDE and BDE to the glossary 🤔
[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
oh yeah he had a right sulk face on and had showed a massive temper problem after one date so I was right to get rid of him....men with fragile egos and short fuses set off my danger flags
Haha I think we should you know because it is a legitimate thing- I'll reject them if I get a whiff of it now
[–]ivy176FDS Disciple24 points25 points26 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, it's a small sub. Some regular guys who actually want strategy tips and agree with some aspects of FDS, mixed in with incel trolls who call women "roasties", and then some that don't like FDS but still want the trolls to piss off.
I found it because one of the serious trolls kept DMing me and asking me to defend FDS/myself on his random vulgar posts lol. I just had a look to see if it'd be of any interest and I do post there sometimes. They're not currently male-only. But yea, it's not a place where men will find much of anything useful for dating.
[–]aclumsygirlAt-Risk Pick Me Youth35 points36 points37 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lmao that there's a MaleDatingStrategy sub 🤣
I can only imagine that dumpster fire. But hey, imitation is the sincerest form of flattery 🤷♀️
[–]Unable_CaterpillarFDS Disciple68 points69 points70 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I’m not even bi and I’d rather date a fat woman than a fat man. Women carry their weight better. Men’s dicks literally shrink with weight. Nope. Just nope.
[–]sweatydeathRuthless Strategist[S] 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Wait really? I will never look at a fat guy the same way again........
[–]JoyJonesIIIFDS Newbie32 points33 points34 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Yup, it gets buried in the fat.
[–]LeolikesmeFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
And you have to lift the fat up to have a look!
[–]JoyJonesIIIFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So I’ve heard. Nothing I want to see for myself!
[–]GreigebabyFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's called a DickieDo, but it's more like a Dickie Don't.
[–]ThrowAway3879284FDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wait, do they have a Male Dating Strategy sub?
This further confirms we can’t have anything for ourselves, these 🤡 be jealous of our sub and they can’t tolerate the idea of not being able to supervise us lmao
Scrotes be mad 🤭🤣
[–]ivy176FDS Disciple6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yikes, I didn't see that post. Was he for real or one of the trolls?
[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
it was a comment and who knows lol
[–]babybellenotcheeseFDS Newbie60 points61 points62 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
My ex was physically disgusting. I’m not trying to body shame, but this gutter goblin of a man had the audacity to violently shame 95% of the women on this planet for being anything and everything he didn’t like. Ugly, fat, hairy, not dressing sexy enough, being too sexy and not available, flat butt, fake boobs, real boobs but too small, you get the picture (and the list goes on).
Let me paint you a picture of the God he apparently thought he was. 5ft 7inchs tall. Super overweight, flabby gut, saggy butt, horrible cankles, chipped and uneven teeth, constant skin rashes (eczema) one dead eye (yes, he literally had a dead eye that acted like a lazy eye), and balding beyond repair (which he didn’t recognize).
This fucker shamed every fucking woman he saw. On TV, in the streets, anywhere and everywhere he brought up “she’s so fat,” “she needs plastic surgery,” blah blah blah. HOW DOES SOMEONE SO UGLY SHAME OTHERS WHO ARE 50 SHADES OF MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN THEM?!
Coping mechanism, perhaps?
[–]lluviaazulFDS Apprentice29 points30 points31 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He definitely hated himself and was just projecting to seem confident when deep inside he knew damn well he’s worthless. But also.. how the hell did you come to date cave goblin?
[–]babybellenotcheeseFDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I hope that’s why. He claimed he had no idea if men were attractive (including himself) or not and that he only noticed pretty or ugly in women.
Because in the beginning he had an a outstanding personality that eventually shed off within then next few months. Annnnnd I kept him around for career opportunities.
[–]jetpatchAt-Risk Pick Me Youth148 points149 points150 points 4 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
In swear men get a male version of PCOS when they eat crap but no doctors care because no one is pushing those guys to breed.
[–]radical__daphneRuthless Strategist74 points75 points76 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Fat tissue produces its own estrogen so the more weight they gain the more estrogen they will have and then they'll gain more weight. Drinking lots of beer or smoking lots of marijuana also increase men's estrogen. Having porn addiction and masturbating multiple times a day also increases men's estrogen... 🤷♀️
[–]jetpatchAt-Risk Pick Me Youth46 points47 points48 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
We should farm them for hrt.
[–]radical__daphneRuthless Strategist7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ouch!
[–]MagicAte_8FDS Disciple34 points35 points36 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Masturbation in men increases estrogen AND prolactin. Prolactin is the hormone that signals to a female she needs to produce milk for her baby 😂😂
Man titties indeed 🤮🤮
[–]ivy176FDS Disciple11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup, excess adipose tissue increases oestrogen and they will develop other consequences of the insulin resistance, they just have no ovaries to affect but they can 100% have the same underlying causes like genetics, diet, lack of physical activity, obesity
[–]themissdaydreamerFDS Disciple5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
so that's why sometimes I'd swear my ex (who's hella fat, with childbearing hips and boobs) had no testosterone than me. he was so lacking in virility, I felt no sexual tension when kissing him, to the point I second guessed if I liked men anymore. now it all makes sense. adipose ex definitely has male pcos
[–]blackopium777FDS Apprentice27 points28 points29 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Actually there is a rising concentration of estrogen in the water, so it's not even eating unhealthy, there are just more and more males who have more estrogen in their systems due to that. It does have an effect on male fertility and how their bodies develop.
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[–]blackopium777FDS Apprentice8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
When my husband got tested for male infertility 3 years ago, the doctor said exactly what I said. I was not really interested in researching it further (and I dont really care now). It would only make sense that the estrogen levels are rising, tho. It seems the main cause is HBC that women are still frequently taking, it does make sense.
[–]radical__daphneRuthless Strategist7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What I think she meant is the chemicals we keep using and manufacturing, a lot of them have an estrogenic effect in the body, and they're going right into the drinking water.
[–]ivy176FDS Disciple11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Plastics contain xenoestrogens/chemicals that exert oestrogenic effects, so yeah that ends up in food and water
[–]radical__daphneRuthless Strategist4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thanks for the term!
Well I got down voted by two pickmes, I guess.
Suppose I'll have to keep myself warm with the knowledge that I'm correct. 🤷♀️💅🏼
[–]CuriousCatNYC777Ruthless Strategist40 points41 points42 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This WHOLE thread is GOLD 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
[–]sweatydeathRuthless Strategist[S] 20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I love how brutally honest we are 🥰
[–]CuriousCatNYC777Ruthless Strategist14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
RUTHLESS Brutality 💀
[–]quasarbarFDS Newbie43 points44 points45 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm in a Facebook group about "law of attraction" stuff (TBH I barely pay it any attention but joined out of curiosity) and a man posted recently asking how to manifest a woman who isn't fat even though he is himself fat. Dude, try manifesting less hypocrisy first. It'll make you more attractive!
[–]ResponsibleCharacterPickmeisha™️9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Try less manifesting of food into your face hole first bruh.
[–]This-RegisterFDS Newbie29 points30 points31 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
ohh shit 🤣🤣🤣🤣
[–]circescircusFDS Disciple47 points48 points49 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lmao
So many men are built like melted mozzarella cheese, and they have the audacity to be critical of women's bodies.
[–]FodderFigureIllushunFDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your mboobs say differently.
[–]byeclownFDS Newbie53 points54 points55 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
YUP. I dated a guy who was a giant manbaby. Began emotional eating and crying that I didn't want to fuck his pornsick, premature balding ass. Buddy got hourglass hips, complete with CELLULITE. On a man who is 6 foot 2. Revolting.
[–]Dirty_Commie_JesusFDS Newbie41 points42 points43 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have a tall, athletic build and once dated a man in his twenties that had cellulite and less upper body strength than me. I should have broken up with him the day he sat on the couch while his 57 yr old mother and I moved her washer.
[–]supremelyparanoidFDS Apprentice24 points25 points26 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Love your reddit name haha
[–]byeclownFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Use it as a mantra while vetting ;)
[–]jewdy09Pickmeisha™️125 points126 points127 points 4 years ago (31 children) | Copy Link
I dated a man like this for a minute. His thighs and butt felt so large and feminine. It was a total turn off. I have thick, feminine legs with lots of muscles. Most men have smaller legs than I do and I’m glad because that guy’s huge curvy body felt so feminine it was gross.I tolerated the big girl body but I ended it when his horror show of a financial situation was revealed.
[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist53 points54 points55 points 4 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link
I tried a bigger guy once just to be nIcE. He pursued me heavy and was otherwise good looking. NEVER again. Its a god damn safety hazard for a small girl like me. I don't think he actually cared about my sexual attraction/pleasure tho- since a lot of men think physical attraction is a myth for us and they don't need to put in any effort. /s
He kept saying he'd lose weight but wouldn't (he didn't join the gym ONCE whilst I was with him & was still eating shit whilst drinking the odd weightloss shake- pathetic) and tried to sad face / shame me into tolerating it like I was a superficial meanie (yeah like he'd of came over if he didn't find my body hot lol) even tho it was a major turn off and I was used to athletic guys. Plus I agree, it feels really feminine and squidgy and just not attractive at all especially when you're in good shape. Its a turn off before you get started and it gets in the way. Leave the curves to the women! I soon got back to iron clad 6pack abs just how I like it. I will never stray again! NiceGirl life just gives you a one way ticket to deadbedroom
[–]MagicAte_8FDS Disciple19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Its a god damn safety hazard for a small girl like me
Cause of death: Suffocated by her fat boyfriend rolling over on top of her at night. ☠☠☠
There's no end to the way men endanger women omfggggg
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[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist21 points22 points23 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah they're just lazy, delusional and entitled- they would rather beg someone that lost their little bit of attraction to stay and try coerce you into sex occasionally or put up with dead bedroom....rather than actually putting the work in to improve or going for someone more in their league. Well that isn't healthy. Their fragile fee fee's can't take it. Just lazy and entitled..........but that's how they got that way anyway.
But this is what happens when you play nice and overlook things bc 'personality' as if sexual attraction doesn't matter with sex obsessed men...you get lulled into some unsatisfying deadbedroom situation where they emotionally groom you to try tolerate sub par unenjoyable sex (which they wouldn't)- when you have ZERO need to be settling that low. They need you far more than you need them- which is why they beg, tantrum and sympathy seek so much to try stop you from leaving. Because they know you have no need to be tolerating it and have way better options.
Yeah I got the 'used me' bullshit cope at the end as well. No chubby- you were batting out of your league and overcompensating with emotional grooming... being lazy and entitled instead of putting in the work in.......that's not my problem. A relationship is two people putting the effort in- not one lazy fatso getting a hot woman who keeps herself healthy & in the shape on top of him. Its not my fault he assumed I was willing to put my satisfaction and needs on the backburner to accommodate his sheer laziness, bad habits/diet and entitlement so only he can reap the benefits. That's like voluntary rape for decades.. Next!
I solemnly swear too sis! Tbh that relationship was the one that woke me up and I decided to not settle on anything physically anymore because a lot of men find me attractive anyway- I was only making allowances bc of brainwashing from my pickmeisha mother/society about 'not being SuPeRfIcIaL', less attractive men treating you better (lie lol- just as fickle) and personality being the ONLY thing that should matter to women (what a lie when you're dating men who want sex often LOL you NEED strong physical/sexual attraction). I've dated much more attractive men in my league since- amazingly libido has been on top ever since and I'm far more enthusiastic.
[–]MagicAte_8FDS Disciple13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
used him for what
Sis he wished you were "using him" for sex 😂😂
[–]hilariouslystatedFDS Newbie47 points48 points49 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't like men with round, child-bearing hips.
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[–]HennyyenniFDS Apprentice28 points29 points30 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I’m like men shouldn’t have thighs and a butt that touch/rub each other. Not in a scrawny way but your thighs shouldn’t be touching like mine do and you shouldn’t have a booty like mine. All the guys I’ve dated were slim, slim legs and small butts and I like that because they’re men they’re not supposed to be curvy/thick. The fuck? But I have the opinion that guys have no excuses to be “thick” because honestly they burn calories way faster than we do so if you’re fat it’s cause you eating wayyyyy too much and it’s not like they’re meant to have fat like women do and none of them ever gave birth or formed a whole baby so.
The only thick boy I will love is my 16 pound Yorkie 😂😂he got a booty and I like him that way but that’s about it lol!!
[–]DelicateDreamFDS Disciple18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This. What’s their excuse?! They get in shape waaaay easier than women.
I’ve perused r/brogress and men start regularly working out for a few months and stop eating total junk and they transform into Greek gods. Out of shape men are just plain LAZY.
[–]HennyyenniFDS Apprentice23 points24 points25 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
More than lazy, they are disgusting. Guys can eat disgusting amounts of food and if they even move a little bit during the day they can stay slim. If a guy is fat it’s because he eats a lot and doesn’t move at all. Which is nasty. They don’t have any excuses except for they are taught that they can eat a lot and be pigs because if they are fat they are still attractive because women shouldn’t care about looks lol
Also the same dudes that be like my wife gave birth to twins and breastfeeds them why isn’t she back in shape after 2 months?!?!! I started watching porn of animated teenagers and she’s upset tell me that’s she’s a bigot and I’m an angel because I haven’t cheated on her yet
It’s also like it’s always been the slim or muscular dudes I’ve dated who enjoyed being fit for themselves and to look good but never pressured me into losing weight because they liked women with thickness and never insulted any women for being too big or too skinny or whatever. It was always the ugly bald BROKE fatsos who had something to say because they were insecure about themselves and how no one wanted them
[–]g0neph1shingFDS Newbie31 points32 points33 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
There’s such an important difference between a cute butt and a feminine butt. Big butts are yuck on men, but I can appreciate a cute butt
[–]grand_tiremasterFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A bubble butt on a guy always gets my attention..
[–]matchablizzardFDS Newbie71 points72 points73 points 4 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
Well depends whether the butt is big due to muscles or fat ;p
[–]jewdy09Pickmeisha™️78 points79 points80 points 4 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
A muscular ass hits different than a fat ass. If it’s solid muscle, it’s not going to feel feminine. As much as I would love to be attracted to women, I’m not. I don’t want a man with big soft curves.
[–]byeclownFDS Newbie43 points44 points45 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
There are overweight men now literally choosing "curvy" as their body type on dating apps 😂😂😂
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Oh god nooooooooo
[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist40 points41 points42 points 4 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
Oooo girl say it louder for the back! I've seen a few impressive muscular butts in my time. Its way hotter grabbing onto toned muscle, that he's put in the work for, instead of whimsical flabby soft dadbod fat. Greek god bod hits differently- brings the animal spirits out!
[–][deleted] 28 points29 points30 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
IME a muscular ass means better thrusting finesse.
[–]DallasOMalleyFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
THIS. Flabby ass = disappointing sex, IME.
[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not just that- but if he has a stomach like a washboard (frail) or its just a bit podge with no definition (dad bod alert)- I guarantee you his stroke game will be weak & he's got a fragile ego/ nerves. He's just generally not going to be worth going there
You gotta watch out for these tall men with the deep voice and a loose shirt/multiple layers on. You never know what they're hiding under there- but you can usually tell if they're escalating too fast (depraved) or just seem easily offended (fragile esteem/ lack of confidence/ rejections)
One way to test them out with a new guy ( ESPECIALLY from dating apps- where many seriously try to bat out of their league) is to brush the stomach, in a flirty way whilst talking- like just run your fingers down with pressure whilst you're joking. If you feel no definition or it feels too soft/squidgy......NEXT. I better be touching hard abs and feel something solid or I'm not interested.
[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
100% facts
Only exceptions to this would be a guy who is too big downstairs (so HAS to be cautious in case he hurts the woman) or a guy with a personality that's way toooo slow and laidback (so he's ticking slower mentally- might be a bit nervy too).
This actually makes sense if you're working your muscles often in the gym anyway- better grip control. Higher stamina, more confidence etc.
Which is why I have 0 time for men that don't work at their bodies. Too many men are meh in the face- they should get their ass in the gym.
[–][deleted] 62 points63 points64 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Facts. My husband has an ass and legs like those statues of Greek gods -- I've literally bounced a quarter off that rear end. Nothing feminine about it, compared to some jiggly soft butts I've encountered. Not sure if soft ass is worse than no ass and legs that just kind of end at the bottom of their back, though. 🤔
[–]byeclownFDS Newbie20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
jiggly soft butts
🤮🤮🤮
[–]Davina33FDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is too much, I'm busting up over here 🤣
[–][deleted] 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You can tell I like me some sculpted man-butt.
[–]AliceKingslyAt-Risk Pick Me Youth35 points36 points37 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I've always hated too much ass on a dude. Never understood why the women in movies fawned over it. 🤢
[–]ana-moss-cityFDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bhahaha voluptuous hips!! I think called a barr body (medically)
[–]fuckCharDMacDennis2FDS Newbie27 points28 points29 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I laughed so hard.
[–]ShieldMaidenLagerthaFDS Apprentice9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
🤣🤣🤣
[–]thedarkertheberryFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The worst is when they're ugly and fat as fxck but broke as well ugh
[–]DatonecatladyuknoFDS Apprentice11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That is the worst look on a man, childbearing hips 🤢
[–]Demon_of_lust_0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think they’re hot tbh, guess it’s a matter of preference
My guy is big— 6ft, large frame, wide shoulders, huge biceps, etc etc. He is 275 lbs. not fat at all. I am 5’7”-5’8”, very small frame, slim, 140 lbs. I have always preferred men with meat on their bones.. big guys. Not fat/obese, big like John Cena with a little more body fat percentage. I don’t know anything about men with feminine hips.. but skinny on skinny isn’t comfortable or fun in the bedroom. My exes were skinny and damn, resting my head on their chest was like resting my head on hardwood flooring.
A big guy can absolutely get a dainty little lady.
My bf has feminine hips, he’s still handsome
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