Cynics are LV and boring

SkiesEclipse · 2021-02-15T04:05:49+00:00

Yep. Had an ex who absolutely hated holidays. Like everything. Even Christmas and his own birthday. Put no effort into any holiday ever when we were together, and it bummed me out to no end. Now I know this is something I want from a potential partner, and I won’t compromise.

spinsterchachkies · 2021-02-15T05:59:45+00:00

Aw soooo nice ❤️ and he’s wearing the hat his wife made. That’s love. And he’s so youthful and happy, HVM quality

Bluefoxcrush · 2021-02-15T04:49:41+00:00

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daisy_0720 · 2021-02-15T04:55:07+00:00

Wife? Why did I think this guy was 17? 🤦🏼‍♀️

potmakesyouparanoid · 2021-02-15T04:34:33+00:00

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2021-02-15T04:31:38+00:00

Wholesome and lovely HVM. He’s setting the bar higher for his young audience on tiktok. I support!

Connect-Ad-9361 · 2021-02-15T06:29:58+00:00

While we're on the subject though, yall ever met/dated men that are weirdly adverse to their birthdays? Like actively hate celebrating them? It's an odd trend I've noticed

Connect-Ad-9361 · 2021-02-15T06:29:11+00:00

God THANK YOU.

I'm a very celebratory person. I love every excuse to have an occasion, holiday, celebration. Oh it's your cousins dogs half birthday? Well shit, let's throw a party. Thankfully I've never had to date this variety of soul sucking parasite, but it would honestly crush me to have to be around someone that doesn't get joy out of holidays like that.

This also goes for people that snarkily point out that Christmas is a pagan holiday every damn year.

Yes. I know. I dont care. I'm not Christian. You have no power here.

Novemberinthechair · 2021-02-15T12:21:03+00:00

Nice hat!

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-02-15T12:23:42+00:00

men who say they hate holidays, any holidays, use that as an excuse to break contact, to vanish (like narcissists usually do) or to eschew being part of a celebration.

Their cynicism is an excuse not to call you, not to give gifts and not to meet up. It is an excuse to continue being their unpleasant cynical selves, it is an excuse for not trying...

So if they say "I don't believe in gifts", " hate celebrations/ reunions/ family gatherings/ friend gatherings/ house parties" and always goes silent and disappears around very important dates of your relationship (birthdays, anniversaries, family/ friend events like engagements) or even major holidays (imagine, not getting even a Merry Xmas from them!), then let them go and forget about them.

The usual block and delete work just fine.

wedonthavetobeishtar · 2021-02-15T03:37:51+00:00

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Babooshka-123 · 2021-02-15T07:59:43+00:00

He’s a sweetheart

Hmtnsw · 2021-02-15T04:56:59+00:00

I'm a cynic. Found the closest man to be HV I've ever met and all I've done is vet him to hell and skeptical of him for everything. Like I'm waiting for him to fuck up and he never does. It's kinda toxic honestly and I wouldn't be surprised if I end up pushing him away due to it.

allergictoscrotes · 2021-02-15T19:08:05+00:00

This guy has such good energy— I always love all of his videos.

-pop-fizz-clink · 2021-02-15T16:01:51+00:00

Me: "so what are you and (gf ) going to do for Valentine's Day? Him: "oh, shit, I totally forgot" Me: "oops! Well there's still time, (popular grocery store) always has great bouquets. I think (gf) would really appreciate that! Him: * scoffs * "she'll just get mad at me spending money. It's not really anything to celebrate, it's made up".

Some context: -theyre both 24 and met as fwbs at 20. -they don't live together ; she lives on her own and he lives with his parents - he spends a lot of time at her place and doesn't usually bring things over. - they go 50/50 on everything while he brags about buying stocks and saving "as much as possible". - he's a proud MRA follower/supporter and a huge Joe Rogan fan. He only watches MMA and says his gf likes it too. - he likes to remind me that men have it so bad these days. He has no idea I'm a DV/SA survivor, and he likely wouldn't care. - he occasionally fat shames me for not working out. I had a bad back from riding but I also am only a size 2, sometimes 0.😂 Wtf?

I feel bad for his picky™️ gf in a way, but I'm glad I don't entertain manbabies like him.

alienflowercatz · 2021-02-15T16:39:05+00:00

This is good

Mind-Objective · 2021-02-15T23:23:50+00:00

He seem like a very loving understanding fella

GrungeAudrey · 2021-02-16T22:09:16+00:00

Valentine’s Day is not a thing in my country, even after some industries tried to push it, unsuccessfully. We have similar celebrations already: one day for friends and a different one for romantic love.

This last weekend I was invited to a barbecue and had to listen to a WoKe BoY and his cliché monologue on why Valentine's is imPeRiaLisTic, cOnsUmErist, etc. Luckily, he noticed people were getting awkward, and he was looking simple-minded and bitter, so he shut up after that.

This guy has plenty of opportunities to disappoint his girlfriend, but he is worrying and creating excuses for a potential new one. (LOL!)

I pity cynical men (but more the people around them) that consider doing nice things for others such a chore, or humiliating even. They navigate life making themselves difficult to love but then complain about feeling lonely.

Edit: a word.

Sensitive-Shoe-1079 · 2021-02-15T02:39:00+00:00

I dont understand the objective of this post. I watched it 3 times.

Title	Cynics are LV and boring
Author	blair2006
Upvotes	1296
Comments	64
Date	February 15, 2021 2:08 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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