Oh my god I accidentally went on the female dating strategy subreddit and what the hell??

ArgueLater · 2021-04-14T20:58:03+00:00

The fact that sub hasn't been banned as a hate group yet blows my mind.

barbershopbbqbrrr · 2021-04-14T23:10:52+00:00

Reddit recommends that garbage subreddit.

DiedSl0wly · 2021-04-14T22:52:45+00:00

I just ignore it. Those are some very sad and hateful people. I really do hope they get over it or they are likely to be sad for a long time.

dukunt · 2021-04-15T00:02:39+00:00

FDS is an odd horse.

They claim that they want to date men. But they hate men at the same time.

They prop eachother up and tell eachother how great they are and that they shouldn't ever lower their standards as they all sit back and wait for a "king" that will never come.

They don't welcome advice from men (in fact they ban us), even though it is "us" that they want to date. If I wanted to date women and I wasn't having any luck, I'd listen to what women have to say because it is them that I want to attract.

They should listen to what men want in a partner and stop thinking they they alone are the prize. Because judging from what I've seen in FDS, none of them are much of a prize.

I have 2 words for them that would forever change their perspective on dating and save them from a bitter life of loneliness...even tho they don't want to hear it, they need to hear it, those words are: "Kevin Samuels"

anticensorship10 · 2021-04-15T00:59:24+00:00

I'm Muslim and kept seeing some not only pretty stupid dating advice but some blatantly anti Muslim dating strategies being recceomnded when that sub just opened up. All I could do was keep thining to myself 'not even the most degenerate muslim men would put up with that'

We now have women coming in their 30s coming to our subs wondering where there prince charming is

Everyone gets the wakeup call. Everyone. Living in a bubble is doing harm to women

armaadi · 2021-04-14T20:36:16+00:00

Yeah, don't go there. It's a hive of scum and villainy.

Drugrere · 2021-04-15T02:39:23+00:00

Jesus, I just checked that sub out and it has nothing to do with dating. It’s just hate how are people this delusional I wanna give them the benefit of the doubt and say that some of them had bad experiences but holy hell

quorn_king · 2021-04-14T23:54:06+00:00

Lol scrote is a derogatory word used where I live in the UK for like.. Scum bags, chavs, townies. I guess a USA version would maybe be hillbilly?

Hayaidesu · 2021-04-15T00:22:26+00:00

That subreddit made me feel like men and women are at war

CrouchingTiger8 · 2021-04-15T03:07:50+00:00

What is the subreddit named my dude? I want to experience the cringe.

EJSGA · 2021-04-15T03:49:16+00:00

We need to pull an AHS and find a way to prove they’re transphobic then Reddit will ban them in a heartbeat

brunicus · 2021-04-15T05:00:23+00:00

That sub is so cringe it’s hilarious. I’ve laughed out loud so many times just reading posts and replies.

WartimeDad · 2021-04-15T01:55:11+00:00

The funniest part is that they are literally all single.... huh... wonder why!?

croatoan34 · 2021-04-15T03:10:03+00:00

Just call them what they are. Femcels. They crave males, especially high quality ones but seemingly can’t attain them.
They just sit around and insult men all day in a sort of disgusting, misandrist circle jerk. And heaven forbid you have a different opinion, because they ban you immediately.

dtyler86 · 2021-04-15T04:16:51+00:00

My man. It’s just a blatant reminder that at no point should any MRA doubt their choices. It’s horrible :(

Jackfly0114 · 2021-04-15T00:03:07+00:00

It’s r/feminism 2.0, electric sexism

idontwanttobeavirgin · 2021-04-15T02:46:34+00:00

people do call this sub sexist

LoFiGai · 2021-04-15T00:26:14+00:00

Full of sub human garbage people

clique34 · 2021-04-15T01:57:54+00:00

Lol the sub exists but Red Pill movement and such were removed from Reddit while Pussypassdenied always has a handful of prepubescent cunts instantly trying defend women as if they’re protected species

fatguyonsteroids · 2021-04-15T03:07:49+00:00

Female dating strategy is just the female equivalent of mgtow. Both cesspools of hate and sexism.

matthew-jk · 2021-04-14T23:07:30+00:00

I just went on the sub and now I’m pissed off it hasn’t been banned yet

vanillapopsicle · 2021-04-15T03:18:29+00:00

I would love to see the success rate of their strategies, but it’s more like a religion not to be questioned, hence the banning of all counter viewpoints.

Cybernetic_Phantom · 2021-04-15T05:41:23+00:00

FDS is the definition of feminism on steroids

iLuv2Cut · 2021-04-15T05:52:07+00:00

Holy shit I just looked and it is filled to the brim with man-hating femcels. These women will never be happy a day in their life

Borogaga · 2021-04-15T06:36:35+00:00

Well. Cunts.

Dani_CC · 2021-04-15T08:26:35+00:00

If a sub had flairs called "Womens Depravity" or "Roast a Vag", in less that 1 week the whole sub would be banned; But they're hating on men so who tf cares.

123matchcat · 2021-04-15T02:36:55+00:00

Literally just incels

Metraxis · 2021-04-15T02:27:32+00:00

They're just incels. The vocabulary is different, but the sense that they are owed something by people they find personally attractive is exactly the same.

speedythesequel · 2021-04-15T02:40:49+00:00

I get the impression its a response to the red pill subreddit.

I bunch of highly narcissistic women who essentially want to normalize women having the highest possible standards, because they see themselves as valuable and in demand, therefore we should be paying for it.

Like they clearly want a relationship thats entirely transactional, but only if you're attractive. Like if you are a sugar baby or a prostitute and openly take money for companionship, they will shame you for it.

But if they go on a date and the guy asks to split the bill, its like their motto to ghost and never speak to them again. Like theres no semblence of equal respect between to consenting parties. Its pay me or Im never speaking to you again. But at the same time, if we pay for everything nothing is guarenteed.

So its like a prostitute that might have sex with you regardless of if you pay her.

I mean the expectation to be paid for, and not provide anything in return other than your prescence which only exists because its being paid for, is absurd.

zeroicemaze · 2021-04-15T02:54:04+00:00

Woman wanna man hate yet they ask where are all of the good men when they hit the wall

zeroicemaze · 2021-04-15T03:08:15+00:00

Let them get messed up by the bad boys thats their choice im not paying for their fucking mistakes

rainingtacos31 · 2021-04-15T03:28:06+00:00

There are so many posts of awesome women helping men in times of need and all the commenters just call the men man babies and the woman naive or stupid

TriassicWade1 · 2021-04-15T04:08:18+00:00

Let them vags say whatever they want

uselessuser30 · 2021-04-15T04:30:23+00:00

I had joined that subreddit to lurk and check out the insanity. It gave me a good laugh most of the time in a very cringy manner.

But then I made a comment (a funny one!) on one of the men's rights subs (forgive me i can't remember off of the top of my head) and I was immediately permanently banned from participating in their sub.

Not that I ever would have because its an auto ban regardless with them (I'm a man), but they are really watching who they want to hate and are careful and quick to squelch any kind of "resistance" they might encounter in their echo chamber.

It's all a show for them. Women there seem to relish the chance to put men down. It's too bad they might never hear the other side of the coin, it could really help them better understand what they themselves are doing wrong.

2021-04-15T04:35:40+00:00

Holy shit. Just checked out that sub. Those are some VERY unhappy people, and there isn’t even any dating advice. The internet is ruining society.

TrashPandaPirate · 2021-04-15T04:53:55+00:00

I did a ban speed run on that sub. Joined, commented “r/mensrights” on a post, and within the minute I was banned permanently and my comment deleted.

B99fanboy · 2021-04-15T05:57:24+00:00

Holy shit I just visited that sub, it's a one huge collection of fools.

BlueberryGuyCz · 2021-04-15T07:14:11+00:00

I like how there's 4 posts everyday talking about decentering men form their lives but all they do is talk about men.

So do you care about men or don't? Shouldn't you finally choose?

KayraTheNomad · 2021-04-15T07:38:44+00:00

Oh god... As we say in Turkish, "Whatever happens to a man, its either curiosity or the dick." I was curious and I cringed hard.

BTW that rhymes in Turkish

I_need_an_adu1t · 2021-04-15T08:32:47+00:00

The mentality of alot of female reddtors.

MensRights - All white privileged males that have never experienced sexual harassment or bullying

FSD - All men are terrible people that treat women like shit. BTW look how great this woman is for cheating on her husband and leaving her kids. GO FEMALE POWER

MarsRisen · 2021-04-15T09:03:18+00:00

Subs like that are ran by lesbians trying to poach disgruntled straight women.

An_Anonymous_Acc · 2021-04-15T01:14:59+00:00

That sub is just a bunch of women with ugly faces and even uglier personalities. Shitty people exist in this world, just ignore them

Sikloke18 · 2021-04-15T02:34:02+00:00

Let them have their fun over there. These are the ones you can see a mile away when you go to date them. It's more for our benefit.

ridderrobby · 2021-04-14T21:05:39+00:00

I have a list of therapists if u need

MisfitAngel669 · 2021-04-15T05:58:33+00:00

Definitely going to see what all the fuss is about. 😂

Jamicandude69 · 2021-04-15T08:27:20+00:00

I just checked the sub out and its so fucking stupid and sexist.

daniellederek · 2021-04-15T02:38:09+00:00

Don't waste the mental energy, just post wall single moms, post menopausal cat ladies and girls ratchet sugarbabies.

All they have to offer is misery and decades old student loan capped with 6 months wages in credit card debt.

And they know it but blaming men is easier.

veiakas · 2021-04-15T05:09:25+00:00

Just a reminder: Normal women don't go online to complain about men in general. It is a sub-class of narcissists who go and post on FDS.
If you think that subreddit is breaking Reddit guidelines ( Content Policy - Reddit (redditinc.com) ), then I encourage you and everyone to report that subreddit.

fluffyshuffle · 2021-04-15T02:52:10+00:00

That sub needs to be required reading for all dudes.

TheElementalSniper · 2021-04-15T04:50:47+00:00

You can’t join or comment unless u are a woman and will be permanently banned if you are a male

American_Dreamer98 · 2021-04-15T05:19:29+00:00

Have you been banned from it yet? I commented here and got perma banned.

Synikey · 2021-04-15T08:12:12+00:00

It's hilarious, and no one on reddit takes it seriously.

pierco82 · 2021-04-15T08:27:32+00:00

its one of the most toxic subs ive seen, advice is to ignore and stay well away

DevilishRogue · 2021-04-15T09:46:51+00:00

Think of it as natural selection in action. The people who post there are voluntarily weeding themselves out of the gene pool as no man that comes remotely close to measuring up to their 'standards' would ever be interested in such a woman.

ostrieto17 · 2021-04-15T11:34:51+00:00

Misandry everywhere sadly

Benedikto_ · 2021-04-15T14:06:00+00:00

Yep, the first time I saw it, I thought it was legitimate so I offered advice on a certain post and got banned for it. See, I get told very often that men hate women but I'm a man and I hang out with other men. Some of them treat them like sexual objects but that's because all they want is sex. They don't really hate women.

But a lot of women hate men.

montereybay · 2021-04-15T01:56:07+00:00

Sounds kinda like TRP...

ExiledSenpai · 2021-04-15T11:35:37+00:00

"Imagine if we had something equivalent"

I don't have to imagine, some assholes will refer to a woman as a cunt. It's just as offensive.

isthebuffetopenyet · 2021-04-15T02:45:39+00:00

They're all a little crazy over there, some of the strange stuff they quote!!. Just remember, these aren't representative, most women do have an equal and shared respect for men.

WorthlessPeritsi · 2021-04-14T22:16:33+00:00

Hey! That's my favourite sub!

DarkMaldova227 · 2021-04-15T03:38:06+00:00

We've had subs like it. All of them have been wiped from reddit usually within six months

DonCarleon114 · 2021-04-15T08:25:38+00:00

We do it's called things cunts say 😂

ASCIITable · 2021-04-15T00:43:57+00:00

FDS is just inverse MGTOW ( which is misogyny filled )

elt-edits · 2021-04-15T04:11:08+00:00

Eh, show a little empathy. I've been browsing lately and while some things may seem "harsh" .... it's really been eye-opening the horrible things us guys do while dating / starting to date women. It's stuff I've done and wish I could take back.

If you can not take it personally, it can certainly be a positive learning experience.

iloveyou77777 · 2021-04-15T10:35:53+00:00

I don’t agree with that sub but men call us cunts all the time. So that argument is mute. And men do hate us. Ever been on an incel sub. Even on here, 99% of posts are shitting on women.

MrCarnivora · 2021-04-15T10:08:35+00:00

We already have this, literally, every PUA Website calls women like "HB8", or similar things.

Didn´t find an explanation (as hyperlink) for the term, but it isn´t nice either. So the women are just adapting what we already perfectioned. I think like everywhere there will be some women, just educating how to be a Better Person, and some will do the disgusting dark shit.

Because that's what intended with this subreddit. Just teaching how to accomplish more in life.

Yes, I understand it isn´t nice to be called like that, I feel the same as a man. But nothing to get on the barricades.

Jimmy-T094 · 2021-04-15T12:37:01+00:00

Things Cunts say

Owenmolava · 2021-04-15T07:38:39+00:00

Funny we got on the hate subreddit but FDS seems to be able to matrix dodge those bullets because "Men are not discriminated against". But us incels, we are truly hateful lol

Frontfart · 2021-04-15T07:58:07+00:00

No wonder they can't get a date.

crisis_aktor · 2021-04-15T08:18:28+00:00

The problem you all are having is taking on the same victim complex they do. We’ve built this world on our backs, sacrificed living with our children, yet I still hear you complain about weak shit. ARE YOU BOT ENTERTAINED? remember the red pill subrettit? It’s gone. Doesn’t mean you men have to cry. Rise up and chad up

2021-04-15T08:26:55+00:00

And then you have subreddits like AHS that go after this but not that. It’s like the same for the whole exmuslims and extomatos subreddits. The former is hateful like anything, legit just insulting and what not. But the former comes into light cause we call out their bs. -.-

2021-04-15T08:29:28+00:00

I avoid those places like a plague.

Lupin_The_Fourth · 2021-04-15T08:50:43+00:00

There is /r/DumbTwoXChromosomes but it's not active at all.maybe there should be a /r/DumbFemaleDatingStrategy

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Varkasi · 2021-04-15T09:47:07+00:00

Just checked out that sub and wow, just wow. The hate on that subreddit is on par with the hate I see on 4chan against minorities. That sub needs banned.

Wulfle · 2021-04-15T11:39:07+00:00

It' litterally r/niceguys but it's acceptable to hate the group they see as second-class.

AccidentallyBorn · 2021-04-15T12:24:05+00:00

Imagine if we had something equivalent like “things vags says” or whatever

You mean like… “r/pussypassdenied”?

Like, I agree that FDS is a shit subreddit, but let them make jokes at our expense. Humour (and free speech) is an important part of life and we shouldn’t be trying to shut down offensive jokes or speech IMO.

Let them spout their misandrist shit for the world to see. Eventually the tides will turn and they’ll be the bad guys.

xdzgor · 2021-04-15T06:43:47+00:00

That subreddit used to be funny, now it's just sad.

TheSecondLesson · 2021-04-15T01:30:01+00:00

FDS is subversively run by MGTOW trolls-it is known.

Ashley_Titor · 2021-04-15T02:38:14+00:00

Now now, can we not refer to the human flesh lights as "vags"

No step on snek

AtTheEnd777 · 2021-04-15T05:03:17+00:00

r/MGTOW2 and r/Whereareallthegoodmen are just as hateful, if not worse. It's not a one-way street.

chainer1216 · 2021-04-15T08:41:22+00:00

This is a hilarious perspective because this sub is just the equal and opposite of that one.

nbh1995 · 2021-04-15T07:50:39+00:00

Both subreddits are sexist. This and them. I mostly encounter single mindedness in every subreddit possible. Honestly every subreddit is full of single minded sheep.

GeekRemedy · 2021-04-15T11:31:55+00:00

I vote to add a flair of “things T&A say”

Title	Oh my god I accidentally went on the female dating strategy subreddit and what the hell??
Author	ConCon1321
Upvotes	1658
Comments	315
Date	April 14, 2021 8:23 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/mqz6y1/oh_my_god_i_accidentally_went_on_the_female/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/oh-my-god-i-accidentally-went-on-the-female-dating.830879 https://theredarchive.com/post/830879

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