So been near 12 months since me and my stbxw separated after I caught her fucking around and threw her out. Done lot of self stuff in the good way and also done a lot of the stuff guys on here say not too. I'm in my home,y grown ass kids decided to stay with me rather that their mum. I have the house, the pets and the kids. I managed to get past the whole hate, bitter, angry shit a couple of months ago, wasn't pretty after a 25 year marriage blowing up but I've been very happy recently.

Background shit out the way, I'm a 45 year guy, very active life again, hobbies, friends, things I used to love before the marriage, they've all flooded back as has my confidence. I'm no Brad pit but I'm in decent shape, look I've been told eay 30s by a few female friends.

Last few weeks a local woman from my local bar started to flirt. I'm not one for playing games etc, I like her and we get in so flat out asked if she wanted a date. She was very quick to say yes and we are planning a date next week.

The big thing is yes I'm a 45m but she is a 25f, I've not issue with liking her as we've one way or another known each other for a while. I'm not even that fussed about what others say but my only worry is that this is actually my first date since my 25 year marriage ended and I'm sort of not just out of my comfort zone dating but to be dating a woman whom is barely older than my son.

Is this stupidity or just 2 normal adult who get on going for a first date?