Long story short, we have talked about divorce and she said she wanted it, initiated it, and then when we couldn’t come to an agreement she back tracked and stated that she “doesn’t know what she wants”. Well tonight she tells me that she is taking her family to a football game where my favorite team is playing. I have told her my entire marriage that I would love to go see my favorite team play. When I asked her about it she says at the time she set it up with her family that “we were in a bad place”, she got free tickets. Well tonight she was talking to her family on the phone and I heard her laughing to her family about how she told me she was talking her family to the game, they were all laughing. Brought it up but she says I shouldn’t have been eavesdropping, when in reality J heard it because she was talking so loud. We started to argue to tell her how it made me feel and she said I was starting an argument so she didn’t want to talk about it..left it alone and then later tonight when we had both cooled down I asked if we could talk about it and her response is “no, bring it up to the counselor” lol…the whole point of our counseling is to improve our communication. I asked her if the roles were reversed how would that make her feel..no response other than “bring it up to the counselor” I said “would you prefer I held it inside and didn’t bring it up?”..again her response is “bring it up to the counselor” Overall pretty shitty thing to do in the first place taking her family with out me, and even worse laugh about it. Overall I feel she just did it in spite. We don’t talk to our counselor for 2 weeks so we will have this unresolved issue that she refuses to discuss. I swear I am so close to telling her goodbye forever. Thoughts? What are some shitty things your wives or stbex has done to you.