A post titled “It feels like he doesn’t care about me anymore” by the lady who was fed slugs. It started so small and “innocent” to evolve into her bf feeding her slugs less than a year later. Red flags evolve into life danger sometimes.

fdssavedmylife · 2021-04-09T10:21:59+00:00

I don’t understand why LVM can’t just break up with us. This guy chose to poison his girlfriend instead of letting her go. Men: if you don’t like us, aren’t attracted to us, don’t respect us, don’t want to take care of us... LEAVE. I don’t need an explanation. Stop wasting our time and go.

Fuckdoesithurt956 · 2021-04-09T09:31:34+00:00

Oof. This is similar to what I used to write when I was still with my ex, especially the part about not talking to anyone about it because I didn't want them to think badly of him.

I kept making excuses for him, telling myself it was because he was stressed about his work, family, his disability, my mental illnesses, whatever, and once he worked through it he'd be my prince charming again, I just had to be patient and understanding and supportive. So I was, and the abuse ramped up.

If I'd known about FDS then I'd have left.

Platipus6 · 2021-04-09T10:09:07+00:00

The map checks out

If you find yourself courting a man, desperately trying to earn his love, halfway through the relationship, and saying the words "he's good for a week and then.." RUN.

Salt_Satisfaction · 2021-04-09T11:44:46+00:00

Someone very wise in this subreddit said that if you have to start hiding from your family and friends how bad he really treats you because they'll think badly of him, it's time to dump him.

souredskittles · 2021-04-09T09:23:48+00:00

Idk about y’all, but it sounds like he started cheating at the 2 year mark. My mom said when they completely start treating you bad suddenly, like a switch went off, he’s probably seeing/talking to another woman.

AlextheAnalyst · 2021-04-09T09:48:21+00:00

Wait, wait... fed slugs...?

Weremaid · 2021-04-09T16:56:05+00:00

In another post she mentioned that he kept her medication for her, and was replacing her blood pressure medication with salt capsules... salt. This man knew that her heart issue was bad enough to need medication and he purposely fed her salt to make it worse. He could have replaced it with sugar or cornstarch, but he chose salt because he enjoyed hurting her. Legitimate psychopath. This woman is lucky to be alive

pugaczalla · 2021-04-09T09:40:24+00:00

She didn’t ‘love’ him. She was trauma bonded to him. The more unavailable, cold and shitty he was, the more pressure to perform for love for her. Trauma bond feels like love if you don’t know the difference and are used to hot and cold behaviour throughout your life.

throwaway32132134 · 2021-04-09T13:03:44+00:00

Believe consistent actions not words.

eveloe · 2021-04-09T21:53:45+00:00

My goodness. My life at 21 was filled with fun, travelling on a shoestring budget with my friends and snogging male models. I’m sad when I see women getting their early twenties robbed.

I keep thinking of that judge that was telling a 20 year old to dump her older boyfriend. She needs to hear that clip because wow.

thecrazywitch31 · 2021-04-09T12:39:44+00:00

It is not small and innocent if he was feeding her slugs. I would snap the man in half if I could, had I been in her place. Goddamn how much have we lowered the standards for men ?

"He must not have murderous tendencies, haha"

Fit_Juice · 2021-04-09T21:29:25+00:00

She could get lungworms through slugs, those are fatal to ppl with healthy hearts image someone with her condition.

Twolipz_78 · 2021-04-09T13:25:45+00:00

She should have gotten someone to put slugs in his PlayStation!

HlGHFIVE · 2021-04-10T02:03:45+00:00

I did a little light research on this. The lady and all those commenters are so dumb.

The title of her post was similar to: "My bf has been feeding me slugs, I don't know how to forgive him." Uhm, how about don't forgive him?

A lot of the comments seem to jump to: "He is not psychologically well." Before telling her to leave him. Who cares if he's well or not?

Is there a term for a bootlicker but for men? I know men have "simps." But these people are seriously man-simps.

2021-04-09T12:05:15+00:00

This is heartbreaking. Is there any way to get this poor woman over here?

tubelcek · 2021-04-09T12:19:23+00:00

That poor woman 😔

wordy_fries · 2021-04-09T15:21:36+00:00

I feel so bad for her 😔😔😔😖😖😖😖

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