And that’s the tea!

applestorm · 2020-07-02T13:20:44+00:00

I'm loving how women on social media are more and more calling LVM out and getting thousands of likes for that.

Maisiebr · 2020-07-02T13:35:22+00:00

Oh, and if they want you to be dominant, it just ends with you performing for their weird fetishes and behaving exactly like they want you to. No thanks!

sofiacarolina · 2020-07-02T19:26:29+00:00

Every time a man has ever brought up anal I ask them if they'd like to be pegged. Their answer is always no. It's a really great way to get them to shut the fuck up about anal ime.

ucouldahadasandwich · 2020-07-02T13:54:38+00:00

Let me slap your ass repeatedly so you tense up from the pain and make it feel better for me. Mate I want to be played like a harp not a drum kit!

TheSatanicVegan · 2020-07-02T17:13:07+00:00

😂😂😂

"I'm a freak as in- you letting me doing what I want to you." [the things men don't say]

siberiansummer · 2020-07-02T18:42:26+00:00

My ex boyfriend actually asked if he could choke me. The answer was hell no. I’d never let it happen. I knew one woman who’s bf liked choking her and couldn’t get hard without it. I found it extremely weird back then. I didn’t realize how common all this crap was until FDS

Sea_Soil · 2020-07-02T16:41:14+00:00

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askmeifilikeanal · 2020-07-02T18:58:18+00:00

This is like the only sub where we can admit men use bdsm as a way to abuse women legally and not get crucified for saying it and that’s bs!! Men will do ANYTHING to erase and dominate women.

ManchurianCantaloupe · 2020-07-02T20:32:09+00:00

So many reports on this post from triggered men who like hitting women during sex. :c

Katie-MR · 2020-07-03T01:03:07+00:00

When my ex asked for anal, I responded “Only if I get to do you first” (pegging is a kink of mine) and the extreme level of disgust he showed only proved to me that he saw anal as an act of dominance and degradation, not of sexual pleasure.

mrs1001nights · 2020-07-02T13:17:57+00:00

“I say I’m a freak but what I mean is I want YOU to push your boundaries to areas you may not enjoy for my enjoyment, not the other way around”

buttofdog · 2020-07-02T14:27:03+00:00

If a dude says, he likes BDSM, I always offer him pegging. If he doesn't agree, then he just likes abusing women. Go next.

Pasdepromesses · 2020-07-02T13:28:51+00:00

Men should never hit you, whether it’s inside or outside of the bedroom.

Adding abuse to sex has nothing to do with making love or a healthy emotional connection.

coasspellman · 2020-07-03T00:29:24+00:00

When men find out I’m bi they always suggest a FFM threesome, so now I ask them “do you plan on sucking a dick for me?” I’m not going to exert any effort that he won’t exert.

Novemberinthechair · 2020-07-02T23:08:38+00:00

My soon to be ex husband would badger me for anal sex. I (knowing he would say no) said that if he bought me a strap on, and did it to him first, maybe. Never had anal. Then I dumped him.

eatchickpeas · 2020-07-02T15:13:21+00:00

its something the bdsm community will never acknowledge, bdsm cannot function without the abuse of women

LovedDemons · 2020-07-02T13:58:32+00:00

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littleredpartydress_ · 2020-07-02T14:46:48+00:00

For real lmao, don’t even get me started on wannabe doms

miwamus · 2020-07-03T04:27:03+00:00

It's been very common that guys ask me to choke them. I'm not into choking so I just hold their neck like my hands are a poorly fit turtleneck until they get tired of it.

I've only had one guy trying to talk me into anal. He said he was "good at giving anal" I said "okay," and then he said he was "reeeally good at giving anal" so I went home and never talked to him again.

Coercion is one hell of a turnoff.

Hb0495 · 2020-07-02T15:45:20+00:00

Saw a tiktok video tagged 'kink' of a man just calling women 'pussies' when they wont let him choke them or spit in their mouths.... like when did this just become so normal to say out loud 🤦‍♀️ we need to start kink shaming again 🤦‍♀️

wootykins · 2020-07-02T16:55:33+00:00

I love pegging! Wish more women would do it

CroneRaisedMaiden · 2020-07-02T17:34:40+00:00

I don’t even like men with a “high sex drive”

onemoredaydream · 2020-07-03T14:43:43+00:00

This so much!!!

Porn has ruined men.

huna-lildahk · 2020-07-02T13:05:17+00:00

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WeWereOkay · 2020-07-03T00:07:42+00:00

I love you ladies. Everyday, you post things I have been thinking and saying for years. I thought I was all alone in these views and it feels sooooo validating to know so many of us were on the same page all along.

LyricalMuse · 2020-07-02T19:56:39+00:00

My fiancé and I had made a deal that I would do anal as the woman if he let me do prostate play and/or peg him as a trade. Well, guess he’ll never hit 5th base.

420everydayweed · 2020-07-02T16:51:35+00:00

do you know how many men just wanna hot woman during? like i don’t get what that’s about

adventurelillypad · 2020-07-02T18:10:05+00:00

💀 I have no words

smart-tart23 · 2020-07-02T18:29:34+00:00

soundslikeautumn · 2020-07-02T21:37:47+00:00

So fucking true! So true!

Title	And that’s the tea!
Author	thegypsybean
Upvotes	3923
Comments	93
Date	July 2, 2020 12:45 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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