Can I kinkshame yet?

sassyheather · 2021-05-09T13:39:18+00:00

Nothing will stop me from kinkshaming those people, they’re clearly not of sound mind and need to be treated.

purasangria · 2021-05-09T13:54:44+00:00

Run. He's s pedophile.

ScalesHaveFallen · 2021-05-09T14:00:01+00:00

Kinkshame early, kinkshame often!

Maingurl · 2021-05-09T14:09:12+00:00

She needs to get used to kink-shaming lol. Period.

Like girl he wants you to suck a pacifier? And you're thinking about his "hurt" feelings? Couldn't be me lol.

Don't get me started on the LVM Redditors: "WoW hE's sO honEst. ThE faCt thAt he's sO coMfortAble telling yoU is so BraVe. YouRe suCh a GoOd gf. As a BroNy...."

Like, shut up! Friggen weirdos....trying to convince women to stay with questionable men!

dameagacee · 2021-05-09T14:47:02+00:00

I didn't know what DDLG was, that just pedophila with extra steps 🤢🤢🤢

Lemon_bars_addiction · 2021-05-09T14:02:11+00:00

Imagine if she ever had kids with him!!!!

biwinny · 2021-05-09T15:52:33+00:00

So can someone tell me why kinkshaming is a bad thing? Like are people for real acting as if kinkshaming is more damaging than allowing men to normalize the idea of fucking children more than they already have? 😐

thinktwiceorelse · 2021-05-09T15:37:33+00:00

Honestly, don't majority of people think that people with such kinks are weird? It can't be just us. I'm sure that only 0.01% of people in my country would say this is kinkshaming. The rest would say that he isn't of sound mind.

Technical_Moth248 · 2021-05-09T16:10:12+00:00

JFC when did people decide kinkshaming was the worst thing you could ever do? Don’t protect his feelings, he gets off to you looking and acting like a CHILD. He can’t even take you calling it weird because he knows it IS weird. No one that loves you ever wants to make you participate in sexual acts where you are clearly uncomfortable and unhappy (I do not care if she’s a “sub” and he’s the dom 🙄, they are always allowed to say no). He isn’t taking no for an answer and would rather she just deal with it so his pp can get hard while he thinks of babies. There’s never going to be a world where this is okay.

burritogirl101 · 2021-05-09T13:44:29+00:00

I find it really sad that she's opened this by saying "my boyfriend has always been the dom in our relationship". I was barely aware of BDSM and all that shit when I was 21, but now, so many young women have been completely brainwashed this sub/dom dynamic - and it is always women who are forced into being the sub.

Bleep_bloop5678 · 2021-05-09T15:43:32+00:00

What is ddlg kink? That’s just a whole damn pedophile! KINK SHAME, KINK SHAME!!

Zurflu · 2021-05-09T17:29:17+00:00

Out in the real world we have a name for guys like this: pedophiles

How do people get so disconnected from reality? Could a 21 year old woman really need to ask the internet if it's ok for her to not want to roleplay child r*pe?

Fuckdoesithurt956 · 2021-05-09T18:08:15+00:00

There's a recent thread of a woman whose husband had a ddlg kink. She tried, and couldn't bring herself to do it, and seeing how important it was to him she gave her permission for him to see an escort who would give him the DDLG experience. Now the husband wants to divorce her because he's in love with his escort. He has 2 children he doesn't actually take care of.

Much to my surprise, the comments were really supportive, telling her he's a pedo and sick and best out of her kids lives. There was the odd apologist but they were heavily downvoted.

pikkpie · 2021-05-09T17:45:51+00:00

Child predator alert!

Savorycorncake · 2021-05-09T15:24:55+00:00

What does DDLG mean?? I’m sure something horrifying

Jaelismyhomegirl · 2021-05-09T19:14:56+00:00

I love how they cry kInKsHaMiNg whenever a woman isn’t willing to cater entirely to her male partner’s desires, while having no desires of her own. Where are all the libfems that say women are allowed to leave if something is a “dealbreaker”? They’re being awfully quiet.

christmasforoutlaws · 2021-05-09T17:11:22+00:00

Brb, digging a grave for this man.

Davina33 · 2021-05-09T19:49:46+00:00

So gross, I don't care what anyone thinks about my comment.

UnstrirringCoffee · 2021-05-09T19:24:12+00:00

Ewwww!

warinmymind94 · 2021-05-10T06:33:16+00:00

These dd/lg and similar "klnks" have to a mental health condition. I honestly don't know why it hasn't gotten a diagnosis yet. These dudes are sexually turned on by acting like a baby and that's pedophilia. Im having awful flashbacks to when I was a pickme and this dude I was chatting with started telling me about his ex and how "she was into ddlg". I didn't know what it was so he explained and I was mortified. I instantly thought "whoa this guy's has all his screws loose upstairs". He went on to message me that they both would wear and use diapers too and reenact potty training ... and that's when I blocked him.

Its never just one "k1nk" it always has more to it and most k1nks seem to be about dehumazing/having power over someone else. They tend to be unsafe too

spinaflora · 2021-05-09T21:18:01+00:00

Permission to Kink Shame: granted.

Belovedembrace · 2021-05-10T01:30:38+00:00

Did she not fully absorb the facts he gets hard at pacifiers, and bottles. ..that is a damn baby. He is a pedophile and there is no way around it. I don't understand how people don't get that. 🤢 I would never leave this guy around kids, and babies.Leave him.

throwaway1378420 · 2021-05-09T16:07:06+00:00

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Title	Can I kinkshame yet?
Author	anxious-american
Upvotes	209
Comments	43
Date	May 8, 2021 5:05 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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