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[–]Commercial_Place9807266 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Yeah, BS. No woman is going to give a man she’s dating her secret FDS account.
Hell, I didn’t even give my fiancé my main Reddit account that I don’t even post on FDS with. I have a dummy account just for him where I talk about like makeup and shit.
[–]Vaahla118 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
You don’t give anybody your Reddit name lol. That’s weird. I have friends I know IRL who use it just as much as I do but we’d never dare suggest trading users 😱
[–]dazedandcofused_27 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Thank you! The fact that there are ladies saying they have dummy accounts for their partners is beyond strange. Reddit is an online forum, why would they possibly need to know your Reddit accounts and the stuff you post to begin with? Makes 0 sense
[–]SwampDwellingPirate16 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Omg, same!
My friend who recommended me fds and is always talking to me about it and even sending screenshots and links, has never sent me her handle and I never sent mine. Imagine giving your handle to a man...
My IRL friend who recommended me FDS could be you and I wouldn't know LMAO.
[–]Vaahla5 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
😈 you’ll never know, lol.
[–]ConfusedBisexual199226 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Right? Literally no one except me knows either of my Reddit accounts. There’s some possibly identifying info on my other one, but I normally use it for posting in beauty/vegan/interest subreddits.
[–]AnonymousRooster16 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
OMG same! He's a fantastic guy but I wouldn't want anyone I know irl to read my comments and posts- I don't even know a single friend's username and will happily keep it that way
[–]extraodi241 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
BS. “I added her on Reddit.” There’s no such thing. Plus, if he suggested splitting the bill and she posted about it on here most likely she wouldn’t of wasted 8 months with him. That’s a quick block and delete.
[–]ChgItToRayGunYouFuck83 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Yep, exactly. Suuuper fake just to drum up more hatred for this sub.
[–]ALISHAISHERE12357 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Right? Who adds people on Reddit??
[–]ScrappleSandwiches24 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I don’t even understand the “follow” function.
[–]alpinepunch202116 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Same. I've followed people on here just so I could remember their usernames since their posts are consistently really good, but it's not like reddit actually highlights their posts for me or shows me more of them or anything, so I'm not sure what the point is other than to maybe just have a list of names stored somewhere of people whose content you usually like.
[–]ScrappleSandwiches2 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Yeah, I guess? And then the “people” who follow me are mostly spammers.
[–]Equal-Ear231245 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
probably stalked and followed her? but yeah, there's no "add".
no, scratch that!
he just stalked her and made a wild guess. we all know men's reddist are full of porn subs unless they make like 50 other accounts.
nah, this is fake. he has no girlfriend!
[–]Mimosa_usagi13 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Precisely. Most of us would pay for what we had and just never contact him again.
[–]Ok-Performance5997223 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I call bs, unless this woman wants to step forward and show herself, then I don’t believe him 🙃
[–]ScrappleSandwiches150 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Yeah, this is another Reddit fantasy story. Nothing gets upvotes like field reports of horrible wimmins doing scandalous things like questioning 50/50 on dates.
[–]ChgItToRayGunYouFuck32 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
How dare us!?
What's the worst thing that guys do to women hmmm... Rhymes with milling...
[–]BBQCoolRanchQueen49 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
That came across as some fanfic to me as well. If this is real, well, we know the value of that man. No HVM will take issue with their partner being an active member of FDS.
[–]jetcake9 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Guaranteed he went through her phone.
[–]BooksandEarlGreyTea151 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Say this is real - this is why FDS recommends having an alt account, he now has access to our playbook and could use it to manipulate her if her wanted to. At least here, he is looking to leave,
Also, I find it creepy he stalked through her post history once he knew her reddit account. Feels like he was fishing for something to use against her.
Edit: just done some quick fact checking on this subreddit & am unable to find a post about about splitting the bill on a date from 7 months ago. Definitely is BS
[–]Buggy121859 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Thank you! Assuming this is true, why would you feel the need to stalk seven months worth of post history of someone you’re dating?
That’s walking a very thin line between curiosity and crossing boundaries. Does he also go through her phone? Check her FB messages?
[–]Davina33113 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I think he is lying. Scrotes make up posts to try and make us look bad constantly. Like any of us would take the time to do that to them.
[–]Carneliancat95 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I think it's bullshit, but let's pretend for a second that it's real: If he wasn't a scrote at heart, he wouldn't be pressed.
[–]pitiful_cherry13 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Exactly! I read the post and wondered what the issue is lol
[–]edwardianemerald77 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Thanks for the free publicityyyyyyyy
[–]Davina3357 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Now that sub is where the incels migrated to when the ban hammer came down. There was a post in there a few days ago by a 21 year old scrote saying he felt very upset about sub. Said he felt judged for his penis and everything. It's trash.
[–]Technical_Moth24847 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
This is fake, but this post has also been posted and removed twice already lol
[–]saragc9240 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
This hurt, but it hurt the pick me in me. And that’s good!
If your rejecting us because we dare to have standards, we’ll then I guess it is our loss,
Bye!
Thank you FDS, this group has fundamentally saved and changed my life.
[–]Mcccy29 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Yay free advertisment!
But cmon. "Idk what to do now/ I'm embarrassed?" He sees they don't don't have similar views so why can't he just....break up with her??
[–]Equal-Ear231222 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
"FDS is known for being toxic towards men"
I don't know what can be toxic to a radioactive cockroach but it sure ain't FDS.
[–]xfelugirlx18 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
They always lie about theis stories just to get clout, so pathetix
[–]lostmillenia18 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
My ex HATED that I found FDS. He is convinced my internal change caused our breakup 🤡
[–]lansburysoda12 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Fan fiction
[–]greatornothing10 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I hope that the girl breaks up with him first!
[–]sikulet6 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Hi. Let’s edit that screenshot and remove the name of the other sub lest it’s treated as brigading OP.
[–]aeorimithros6 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
If it isn't bs it's an important reminder to always be vetting if he is dating a FDS member, and she has been vetting they're still together despite him being this way.
Always, always vet ladies.
[–]spinsterchachkies5 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
In case this story is real;
He dates her for 8 months, he should know her well enough. Why would he dump her for being in a sub Reddit where women talk about dating and shit? He must not like her that much because like bro wtf? This isn’t a reason to break up with someone. It’s controlling to most normal people. These are probably the same dudes that would freak out if a woman asked him to stop watching porn. And she just talked about how she was not sure he was into her on their first date? He reeks of insecurity but frames it like she was the one with the problem. 🥴
Every woman in this sub is different. We all have our goals and dreams. We are all different people with our own standards. The one thing that really unites us is the desire to avoid shitty low value men. And we support each other and help each other avoid those scrotes despite our differences because no women, even our enemies deserves that. 🚮
So he is judging her because of what Reddit dudes say about this sub, because frankly men can’t comprehend a group of women supporting each other, they are used to pick mes tearing each other down over mediocre dick. And we know what Reddit men are like, and no one here wants them. ❌🖐🏻
So if this is a true story, then he aligns more with Reddit tier guys then normal well adjusted people, I’m sorry but it’s true. This is not a big loss for her, in my opinion. She should have bounced at the 50/50 date and saved herself those 8 months. I weep for the time that she will never get back. Take this as a lesson. Time is precious.
[–]I_know_right_AS_IF2 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I saw this yesterday too and cackled 😂
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