Dump Him.

ironymaiden87 · 2020-04-10T11:26:18+00:00

Good lord. "Other holes"?! This man is a piece of dog shit.

hating-life · 2020-04-10T08:54:41+00:00

Men need to taste their own cum and shove a dildo up their ass before they make requests like swallowing, trying anal... at the end of the day though, no means no.

HoneyNJ2000 · 2020-04-10T12:57:41+00:00

Ugh.

I stopped reading at, "He says since he's finished in my other holes...."

She's nothing more than a cum dumpster to this degenerate.

Leavyx · 2020-04-10T10:27:37+00:00

He is nasty and she should definitely split up. Or sit on his face for a good long time after "finishing in one of her other holes".

Sekina7 · 2020-04-10T10:19:02+00:00

DUMP HIM, he is selfish and does not respect your boundaries. Understand that as a young women you have PLENTY of choice and he is trying to coercively control you which is a serious red flag.

Tough_Fruit · 2020-04-10T11:24:24+00:00

Sometimes when I read stuff like that, I wonder what it really takes for some women to leave men like that. Like when you wrote this paragrah, wasn't it obvious that this man is not worth your time and treats you like an object ? People in the comments even emphasize on breaking up. I do not know what else he has to do for you to find him repulsive and find yourself a better man.

PicklesNBacon · 2020-04-10T12:57:18+00:00

He’s just using her as a body with ‘holes’ to shove his peen in. Nothing more, nothing less.

2020-04-10T13:35:55+00:00

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notroyaltyyet · 2020-04-10T09:07:52+00:00

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Reachingout365 · 2020-04-10T11:21:16+00:00

Sounds like sexual abuse...

thowawaywookie · 2020-04-10T13:01:10+00:00

The more I read, the worse it got.

She did mention she was afraid to leave.

You have to wonder how much this creep has isolated her.

The good thing about her posting is that she realises this is wrong. Hopefully the validation she's getting and the overwhelming agreement on how shit he is, helps her to see that there is more out there than this abuser.

azngirl7689 · 2020-04-10T12:28:52+00:00

He totally has a porn problem- see use of the word “holes.”

SaltyQueefs · 2020-04-10T13:55:13+00:00

In this situation ladies the correct thing to do is snowball him, if he wants you to swallow so badly then share in the joy of it with him, kiss him and push some into his mouth.

I doubt he will be up for that suggestion then query why he won't even eat his own cum yet he's so desperate that you do.

juliet-elia · 2020-04-10T13:56:39+00:00

Stand your boundaries. You're a human being and not a fucktoy.

ritablueboys1 · 2020-04-10T13:59:48+00:00

I wanna punch him for her. She should hold it and spit his baby juice on him

rosa_sally · 2020-04-10T15:19:04+00:00

My rule is you go first then I’ll do. Swallow your whole load then maybe I’ll think about it? Don’t want to do that? Same.

raeven98 · 2020-04-10T15:51:17+00:00

Lol I just saw this!! Luckily there were some mildly intelligent comments and I was glad to see that. Most of the time that sub is filled with misogynistic pricks who have never been in a healthy relationship.

SOfoundmyotherone · 2020-04-10T10:13:38+00:00

This is borderline abusive.

jeanneeebeanneee · 2020-04-10T17:24:29+00:00

It blows my mind how many people (esp women) there are who would rather tolerate this bullshit than break up and be single. The response to "Why don't you dump him?" is always "But I love him." Do you? Do you really? Or do you just not have any idea what romantic love is supposed to entail? What's there to love about this?

The best thing about getting divorced is discovering that being single is amazing. The next part of your life begins when you realize that being in a relationship is not the goal.

imthehoodmonalisa · 2020-04-10T12:04:07+00:00

Sadly I had a similar experience in my bangmaid days. When I didnt swallow or refused anal my ex would literally stonewall/ silent treatment me for the rest of the day or night, pull up his phone and make sure that I see him swiping on Tinder. I would always apologize for not "doing what he wanted" and beg him to give me another chance. This behavior went on for 3 years, I was a sad dumbass pickme so I have 1 million other stories like this.

Big red flag: when a man views sex like a checklist of their little porn inspired fantasies (like anal/swallowing/ddlg/choking).

Proud-Purpose · 2020-04-10T20:13:22+00:00

She should spit it in his eye lmfao. Or suggest to empty a diva cup in his mouth since he's already tasted pussy anyway.

FierceMango · 2020-04-10T20:45:22+00:00

“Other holes” men are truly disgusting creatures

venomoth91 · 2020-04-10T18:05:14+00:00

I hate swallowing too and I always felt bad about it because I was taught by many LVM that it’s important and I must be weird since apparently other girls do it. I’m glad to see I’m not the only one.

2020-04-10T13:04:18+00:00

What the hell how creepy do you have to be to have the nerve to try to manipulate someone to do something sexual they don't want to do? like I think the thought of a guy cum in my mouth or all over my body is gross as hell. He should go get men cum in his mouth before he talks Jesus. I will never do it because I'm not interested and damn she putting up with this nonsense since 18 years old. If I were her I think she needs a mental break from dating. This behaviour was probably last straw from his controlling selfish ass.

Lethalprincessrabbit · 2020-04-10T13:23:19+00:00

omg i just commented on that post telling op to dump his ass

mypretties · 2020-04-10T14:53:35+00:00

u/throwRAhdiebdowi

a_place_for_my_head · 2020-04-10T19:20:33+00:00

"Disrespectful" ? OMG

SigourneyReaver · 2020-04-10T23:20:39+00:00

"Disrespectful." You're not his subordinate. If I heard that, the next thing that guy would feel was my incisors.

Tell him that if he doesn't feel like it's a big enough issue to break up over, it is not an issue to bring up ever again.

And that he can get respect when he starts showing it to you himself.

DazzlingMolasses7 · 2020-04-11T00:58:32+00:00

She dumped him. Good.

throwaway19283939 · 2020-04-10T13:20:49+00:00

I hate men

WTFseriouslyWTH · 2020-04-10T19:39:12+00:00

Is she tagged in this post somehow? If not, Can you send her a link OP? It is easy for us to talk about other women but I strongly believe we were all there in some way and we all have to learn how to do better. Plus, we all know how slanted the other subs can be on women with super basic entry level standards. We need to be able to ensure the OG posters can see the advice from FDS without making them feel attacked.

Sewud · 2020-04-10T20:44:39+00:00

Who's being childish?????? So manipulative!!!!!!

And also with these guys you just know they never do something they don't want to do.

Boyfriend: pushes me to swallow, have sex without comdons, watch porn, and a thousand other things

Me: try this salad I made

Boyfriend: nooooo I don't want to!!!! I want chicken!!!

Kekekeke7777 · 2020-04-11T00:38:44+00:00

Men need to taste their own sometime. 99% of it is disgusting, vomiting inducing if you don’t hold your breath, every singe time.

Plus, you just got oral sex. Why are you being picky what they with it after?

meanemad · 2020-04-12T14:21:15+00:00

Can somebody tag this young lady here? That man sounds abusive, she should dump him soon as possible🤯

Title	Dump Him.
Author	100piecepuzzle
Upvotes	528
Comments	79
Date	April 10, 2020 8:52 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/fyc49q/dump_him/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/dump-him.678629 https://theredarchive.com/post/678629

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