I can't believe this

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spinsterchachkies · 2021-03-20T19:58:30+00:00

Wait... he was talking sexual advantage of his mentally disabled younger sister.....

thedrunkcuteblonde · 2021-03-20T19:39:21+00:00

Well, she clearly didn’t communicate properly. How dare she leave him and not work things out! Women and their standards...

-relationship advice on Reddit

bizzybumblebee · 2021-03-20T19:58:47+00:00

this is so exhausting

riseaboveagain · 2021-03-20T21:18:10+00:00

The ending made me sad. Sounds like she just ran to a new man instead of taking time to heal and learn how to be strong by herself.

Lavender_flow · 2021-03-20T22:02:31+00:00

I am sorry but I have zero empathy for a woman going back to a man who is a CHILD ABUSER which she KNEW ABOUT. And picked him up from jail. Idgaf if she had it bad. A child suffered and was molested and she had her own kid around A PEDOPHILE after she knew. I can't with these kind of people. Like #nahsis and also what if her new perfect man turns out to be molesting her kid? It has been seen so many times mothers turning a blind eye on their kids abuse because the abuser is "a wonderful husband". I dont care if I get down voted to hell. But children matter more than the feelings of a adult.

eveloe · 2021-03-20T20:55:53+00:00

This is just sick

throwaway32132134 · 2021-03-20T21:57:09+00:00

I never realized how common is for women to leave and come back. All that does is teach him not to take you seriously. He literally didn't change a thing and she got back with him multiple times. The sister thing is so disgusting it's unreal and she still got back with him.

2021-03-20T21:06:53+00:00

Jesus christ.

I found out that a guy I was dating in highschool allegedly molested his younger sister, and I broke up with him immediately. I literally could not imagine the emotional toll it would take to sit through a court hearing like that, hear the details of the crime, pick his ass up from jail, and still be with him.

Magnolia_Mirage · 2021-03-21T03:39:57+00:00

This is why being a pickme is horrible.

Edit: also. I just I have a deep hatred for women who continue to tolerate certain things. Molesting his underage sister and she STILL decided, "yeah I'll be with him".

WTF. How could you stay with someone like that. Why.

ALSO, when you have a kid, you have to be strong for them. And she was not taking care of her son. Thank god her son had nothing happen to him.

spicyveggieramen · 2021-03-21T02:58:21+00:00

Umm what the fuck! This a not a normal or common anecdote about dating a loser and leveling up. This is a severe, life threatening lack of self worth. Finding a “good man” is not the type of happy ending this sick story needs. She should be getting intense therapy, mental help + celibate for AT LEAST 7 years. I’m so SO bothered by this.

dembar126 · 2021-03-21T01:41:08+00:00

My sympathy for her as I read this. 📉📉📉

_queeeen_ · 2021-03-21T04:10:22+00:00

Sorry I couldn’t read past “he tried to stab me” but stayed for the last paragraph when she left him and had full closure when she did so.

It’s so fucked up that women (through brainwashing and abuse) let themselves get dragged to their wits end before she leaves. I’m incredibly rare that a woman breaks up with a man, ESPECIALLY with kids in the picture, when things are less than DIRE.

afrodeasyak · 2021-03-22T08:57:19+00:00

This was an exhausting and defeating read..

ItLou · 2021-03-27T06:06:24+00:00

Fuck him & fuck her too. She stayed with a fucking pedophile.

_HEDONISM_BOT · 2021-03-27T13:42:24+00:00

Proof that if you give them an inch, they take miles and expect more

Raquel22222 · 2021-03-21T00:15:06+00:00

I’m surprised that some of these comments are blaming HER that she kept going back :-/

Title	I can't believe this
Author	cat_lio
Upvotes	278
Comments	52
Date	March 20, 2021 7:24 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/m9e6r3/i_cant_believe_this/
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