"johns" = Lowest life form

ASeaOfQuotes · 2020-12-15T19:55:52+00:00

And men will talk about it so casually sometimes like they’re proud of it when it’s literally one of the most alarming red flags I can think of.

Random192859184 · 2020-12-15T20:52:18+00:00

EDIT: FDS mods hate poor women and are racist, I’m out

FURYOFCAPSLOCK · 2020-12-15T21:34:50+00:00

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yesmme · 2020-12-15T20:01:42+00:00

Unfortunately, so many have. I even had an ex boyfriend who lost his virginity to a sex worker. He was an average looking journalism student (speaking of journalists) who thought everyone else was having sex so he paid for it : /

Sex workers are also strippers so if a man attended a bachelor party or organized one, he likely hired one or pooled his money with other men.

Twolipz_78 · 2020-12-15T20:30:31+00:00

Please explain to me what in GOD’S GREEN EARTH I was thinking when my most recent EXLVM straight up told me (when we first started talking) that he used to use call girls. Why would he tell me that and why did I continue to entertain him?

pinkcloudzzz · 2020-12-15T21:17:54+00:00

A man having paid for sex or attended strip clubs is LV trash and an immediate dealbreaker for me.

2020-12-15T21:34:57+00:00

Johns aren't human. They treat women as less than human.

localgirlcult · 2020-12-15T21:48:29+00:00

One revealed that to me in conversation ON A DATE but told it like it was a lighthearted story. Like something exciting and a bit bad that he did. He really did think I'd treat it as a throwaway story, smile and continue the (up until then) great evening. Which tells me he's told it before and it was treated like that. Whenever I think about it cause I'm still baffled, it really seems like he thought I'd think he's adventurous or some shit? He did it in a foreign country when he was in the military. It wasn't full intercourse. It was a massage parlor where he paid to get jerked off. Doesn't really change anything. Seemingly not a pos until that moment and I was already a bit invested. It really shook me, stopped the date, told him that I can't accept that for myself and went home. I didn't block immediately so he whined and begged for a while. Didn't respond. Thought he'd stop, HE DIDN'T. So I blocked. Got some calls from unknown numbers around that time. Didn't respond. Don't regret it.

LucysFakeTits · 2020-12-16T02:41:06+00:00

My husband's childhood friend paid a hooker $2k in Vegas for sex. He said she was coked out. Then he came down here where we live and started having sex with some girl he knew for a long time, didn't tell her about the hooker. Then he went back to where ever he lives with the army and cheated on her with some other woman while drunk on base. Then came back here to spend Christmas. I said im gonna tell her and all their other friends got all mad at me. I was like fuck all you pieces of shit I would want to know if someone was cheating on me and so would all of you.

Apricot_Ibex · 2020-12-16T03:16:45+00:00

It’s knowing a prostitute personally (a relative in extended family) and hearing her experiences that’s made me despise johns even more, but watching Lilya 4ever when I was 19 and reading reviews written by johns who did not give a SHIT that they were using the bodies of trafficked and abused immigrant women...yeah...I already hated them. https://the-invisible-men.tumblr.com/page/12

My relative had two crazy johns jump on her and beat her (she recovered, thank goodness) and one of them broke down her door, set her apartment on fire, and killed most of her cats. :-( FUCK these pieces of shit, all of them. Women aren’t human to them. The privileged few who speak of how great and liberating “sex work” is for women are all full of shit too.

Oomlotte99 · 2020-12-15T19:54:16+00:00

Yes. It’s a fear of mine that the majority of men have :/

Salt_Satisfaction · 2020-12-16T05:38:17+00:00

I stumbled upon a thread once that had several men complaining about how "normal" women didn't want to date them once they learnt they had paid for sex before. These men really said it was so unfair of the women who rejected them. There was some subtle reference to how men were so oppressed and discriminated against because women just didn't understand male libido

After all, it was just another job right? At least he paid! He's supporting these women, would it be better to let them starve instead? He's investing in local business! It was all consensual!

This just shows how they view sex and women, transactional, something to be used as long as you pay the price, any decent man would just give them money and not fuck them if he really wanted to help those women.

But many do know deep down why women avoid them. Would he be okay with his daughter or sister being a prostitute? Would he trust a John to be their boyfriends?

2020-12-15T20:48:23+00:00

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_tinyimp · 2020-12-16T06:00:47+00:00

Men will just as quickly trade things such as drugs in exchange for sex or even facilitate these transactions for their friends or drug dealer. My ex told me the same story THREE TIMES of when his friends and him had a girl have sex with the drug dealer for their weed and they would ‘pimp her out’. I’ve heard many more disgusting stories told to me by men with this weird reverence in their voice about a girl they knew who gave a guy a blow job for some shrooms or something. Like for the love of god, please fill you brain up with actual important information and do not go and tell me thinking I’ll be impressed by this. I don’t even know how to vet for this, like yeah they’re usually stupid and tell you eventually, but we don’t want to waste our time on them just to hear this. Men will use and abuse women then laugh about it later, and ironically these are the same spineless fucks who would lose their mind if they knew you did this in the past lmao.

Summerisle7 · 2020-12-15T21:30:52+00:00

They should be in jail not out there dating.

anotherdamnloser · 2020-12-16T04:12:22+00:00

I would never date anyone who has done so

waterloosunsetjs · 2020-12-16T00:26:54+00:00

Seriously. My nv ex told me about him going to a massage parlor in san francisco, he worked in a restaurant and said that one of his coworkers told him about it(he was probably talking about it in the BOH). so he went bc he was lonely, and heartbroken over his ex. i don’t know why i stayed. 3 years with that pos, never again. he told me one month into dating!!!

AstraeaOfJustice · 2020-12-16T07:44:47+00:00

A guy I was speaking to romantically told me about how he lost his virginity to some prostitute in the red light district in Amsterdam. As if he was so proud. It was so sad and pathetic. I was pretty vocal about my disgust afterwards. He then tried to change up his feelings about it and was telling me he felt bad. He certainly wasn't feeling bad about it when he was with his buddy window shopping for girls, and then fucking the one he chose.

BlackWidow960 · 2020-12-16T14:12:53+00:00

Johns and Jon’s are typically very low level and fadora tipping “nice guys” (at least all the ones I’ve met) who love to play victim. Hard pass

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Title	"johns" = Lowest life form
Author	AlienUtterings
Upvotes	782
Comments	97
Date	December 15, 2020 7:50 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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