Men will date you while still looking for his wife ..

_differentmentality_ · 2021-03-05T17:49:05+00:00

Men will NOT turn down an opportunity to get sex. Always remember that. All they need is a willing warm body to use and they’re sold. Never make the fatal mistake of assuming that a man that wants to fuck you wants anything to do with you beyond that.

Inspection-Critical · 2021-03-05T17:55:17+00:00

He may not even be looking for a wife at all. And even if he is, rest assured he won't treat her well either.

Remember, ladies: This behavior is a reflection of his shitty character. It has nothing to do with you or your worth. Keep moving.

BBQCoolRanchQueen · 2021-03-05T17:35:32+00:00

I've been the placeholder over and over again. I've always questioned where I went wrong to be good enough to bed but not to wed. Turned out I was letting scrotes have access to me and ignoring red flags. I've been married before, but turns out it was because my nvx's religious grandmother pressured him. I'm remarried to a hvm now who wanted to be with me for years.

Scrotes don't care, and brag even, when they waste years of a woman's life while out finding a wife. Even marriage isn't a guarantee. Many men have starter wives and leave them when they find someone younger and more naive. It's sick and depraved. Which is why I'll never date a divorced man.

giftofnocondemnation · 2021-03-05T18:01:42+00:00

Men want husband benefits without giving you wife benefits. And they are getting away with it! I wish all women collectively will stop giving men sex they don’t deserve. They have become so bold they expect sex just for buying you dinner 🙄. Like motherfucker you were privileged to have my company. That’s it and you’re welcome 😉

LogisticBird · 2021-03-05T17:14:31+00:00

Being a placeholder girlfriend is 100x worse than being alone!!! Protect yourself and move on from idiots that treat you like a second option.

LetsGetin_Formation · 2021-03-05T23:20:51+00:00

“Waiting for his wife” is a false narrative.

A man sleeping with a harem of women is NOT husband material full stop. There is no “waiting for his wife” it’s just waiting for his most naive victim who will let him run the same game he’s running on you. At best he’ll just hide it better and maybe show her off in public. At worst her trauma is pending.

We need to stop comparing ourselves to these invisible “wives” and just leave men who do not treat us well. If you want commitment and he doesn’t? LEAVE.

kycake · 2021-03-05T21:43:24+00:00

if u even have to ask him “ what are we” then u should block and delete.

2021-03-05T17:12:11+00:00

The importance of this cannot be overestimated.

Plot twist: enough times, even being called the gf does not mean he stops looking for his wife behind your back/gets external validation/attention by flirting with other women.

That is why, over and over again, if efforts drop -> drop the relationship.

_queeeen_ · 2021-03-06T01:32:10+00:00

Even the ones who were using me as a placeholder couldn’t remotely match or fulfill my sexual libido and creativity. There’s no point to f*king men who don’t 100% want us.

If you read this and think: bUt I NeEd SeX! Lady. I see you. I get it. I been there. Try a few months of celibacy and orgasms well distant from LVM/NVM. The withdrawal from their abuse will start to wear off and you’ll realize: you. do. not. need. them.

SpicyScroteRoastery · 2021-03-05T21:05:00+00:00

She out here saving women.

donttextme_k · 2021-03-05T16:35:34+00:00

Side note: no idea why the video was uploaded without sound

Worldly_Sell · 2021-03-05T16:47:03+00:00

I feel personally attacked...situationship right now 🤦🏽‍♀️

Edit: I know I need to leave him be but I’m honestly lonely because of covid and I’m afraid I’ll feel even worse without the little attention I’m getting.

daisy_0720 · 2021-03-06T08:41:19+00:00

Yep, and the only reason they'll leave is when they're reasonably confident (like 80%) they've got a replacement lined up. They won't jump ship until they're sure they've secured another supply of sex.

Their inability to be alone for even 24 hours is honestly mind-boggling. What kind of self-loathing.

BungalowBootieBitch · 2021-03-06T04:50:13+00:00

I'm glad my friend finally left the guy she was "seeing." He raised her voice at her, which had been the second time, and she realized this was a pattern. I hate that it took him verbally disrespecting her to realize he wasn't right. I feel bad she feels so awful but at least I know she's safe.

breadandbunny · 2021-03-06T05:48:43+00:00

Something I can't understand about ***. I have never even done this to a guy. I just like having my one man knowing he is just into having me.

jupiter_sunstone · 2021-03-06T01:00:53+00:00

I love her.

TheFinalGirl_21 · 2021-03-05T19:32:45+00:00

Can we please stop with these tiktok posts?!

bananababy101 · 2021-03-07T20:46:31+00:00

I love violet benson

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