Unfriendly Reminder

cnemidophorus · 2021-05-19T12:13:06+00:00

Also, If the woman was raped then she’d like still have to prove it and we all know how well that goes inside of the patriarchy.

all_or_nothing_bet · 2021-05-19T03:49:33+00:00

Wow. I didn't even think about it in this light even though I have always been pro-choice. This is a whole different and very powerful point.

thicctoria · 2021-05-19T14:29:10+00:00

I was raised in a very religious household and it makes me want to vom in my mouth when I think about the kind of bullshit I used spread back then. Thankfully I wised up but also I went through pregnancy and labour and I will never EVER respect someone who feels like they have the right to force another woman through it. For me it was a planned pregnancy that I felt positive about and yet still it it was one of the hardest things I have ever done emotionally and physically. Oh, and then there’s the whole almost dying part.

Meanwhile you have places around the world that are straight up just saying they hate women. In Poland you used to be able to get an abortion in the case of rape, danger to mothers life or fetal abnormalities. As of I think this year or last year you can no longer get an abortion on the grounds of fetal abnormalities (something like 98%+ of abortions in Poland) so women right now are being forced to give birth to stillbirth babies who never had the chance to survive in the first place and babies with severe disabilities that they may not be able to care for. Imagine being told at 12 weeks that your baby has a chromosomal abnormality and it’s certain they won’t survive but you still have to go through 9 months of pregnancy and pains of full labour, only to watch them struggle and die 20-30 minutes after birth. These people are so demented that they don’t see how an abortion, which is painless to the fetus, is the ethical option here for both the mother and the fetus.

But of course, there’s already talks about banning it in case of rape too. And the only reason it won’t get banned in the event of danger to mothers life is because who would then incubate all these fetuses, right?

pickmieshaexorcist · 2021-05-19T04:09:57+00:00

People who only support abortion in cases of rape and incest are showing their hand that they believe pregnancy is a just punishment for “sl*tty” women.

While I don’t agree, believing abortion is always murder, no matter what, is a logically consistent belief. But if you “allow” women abortions in situations you deem allowable, then you don’t think abortion is murder. If abortion isn’t murder, then....why are you against a woman choosing to get one that has nothing to do with you? 🤔

TellCerseeItWasMe · 2021-05-19T04:07:02+00:00

They don't think we have a right to our body ever

They're pro-birth, not pro-life

ennu_i_sao · 2021-05-19T04:11:15+00:00

I was pro-choice but pro-life personally but after seeing Gabrielle Blair’s twitter thread on how pregnancy is 100% a man’s fault, I’m way more comfortable being choice now. Reading the book Zikora, where the main character is giving birth and at one point thinking back on an abortion she had also reinforced this point to me. Whatever soul you may think babies may or may not have, I really don’t think it would be present until you gave birth, especially with treatments we have nowadays like IVF or how humans lose more pregnancies than we know earlier than we know. Sometimes the smartest thing a woman can do to get away from messing up her life or the life of her future progeny is to terminate a pregnancy

radsera99 · 2021-05-19T09:43:43+00:00

The woman’s life always matters more. And that’s why pro lifers are misogynists. They see female lives as replaceable, irrelevant, unimportant. There is no morality in ‘saving’ a fetus over a woman. It just proves how little female life is valued in society.

Newwavesupport3657 · 2021-05-19T05:54:14+00:00

I want to make stickers if this and put it outside the Mormon church. Fuck them. (Ex Mormon.) this is what they taught. Woman hate.

Motherofvampires · 2021-05-19T10:02:13+00:00

Its a logical inconsistency to be against abortion but think is ok after a rape. Either you believe the foetus is a person or you don't.

People who hold the view that abortion is only ok after rape are misogynists. Possibly even more so than those who are against it under all circumstances.

kerean1997 · 2021-05-19T14:12:36+00:00

Oh my lord this is so eye opening. I've never even considered that, even though I was always pro choice

ewoksareprettycool · 2021-05-19T11:04:43+00:00

We need to have protests on keeping abortion legal nationwide. If we don’t cause a national uproar about what we want, women will die trying to get an illegal and unsafe abortion just like we did before Roe V. Wade. This is so sad.

kangaskhaniscubones · 2021-05-19T21:13:30+00:00

I hate people who are anti-abortion. Such hypocrites. Men don't have to go through the horrors of pregnancy and therefore MORALLY cannot force a woman to. I hate that it's still an issue in our society. I hate that WOMEN fight to have abortion rights taken away from their fellow sisters. That side is all morons.

dutchie19 · 2021-05-19T11:39:45+00:00

Ugh that's a hard truth right there -

msromperstomper · 2021-05-19T17:40:55+00:00

This is really good. I hope people in the U.S. are gearing up for a fight now that the Supreme Court has agreed to hear a case on abortion. The time to mobilize is NOW.

fg_hj · 2021-05-21T21:13:00+00:00

Fetusses are violating women’s body if they are using it against her will. That itself is a violation, and a very extreme one at that.

Reporter_Complex · 2021-05-19T07:11:10+00:00

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Title	Unfriendly Reminder
Author	Softrito
Upvotes	3192
Comments	47
Date	May 19, 2021 3:44 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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