Wow. This is sad.

Pahapan · 2020-09-21T20:39:09+00:00

People act like teaching girls to pay on dates will magically fix the issue of men feeling entitled to sex because they paid. It doesn't fix shit, it just side steps the issue and avoids confrontation. If he's the type of guy who expects sex because he paid, a woman should know that asap so she can cut him off immediately and move on. Avoiding the issue doesn't make him a better man, it just allows him to hide who he is longer.

cupittycakes · 2020-09-21T19:28:40+00:00

Lol y'all I commented on that thread about the toxicity of it and so far I'm at -9 votes and an old man and a lesbian telling me women are not to be prized

samarsharqi · 2020-09-21T20:45:21+00:00

One of my coworkers bragged to a break room full of us about how she had paid for her uncle’s dinner because he’s sexist and “that sure showed him”. It took all my strength not to look straight at two of my coworkers who are in relationships with HVM. One of them then said “Did you really show him though” and I had to leave the room because I was about to pee myself laughing. You know when I feel empowered? When the money in my bank account is growing. That’s it. Bye.

basicbagels · 2020-09-21T18:48:54+00:00

Sooo many moms encourage this kind of behavior in their daughters. It’s very sad for society...

LevelTurbulent · 2020-09-21T19:46:25+00:00

She's independent so her mommy will pay?

So they don't know what independent means for starters.

2020-09-21T19:45:11+00:00

I think that (sadly) some gen X mothers are prone to buy into libfem propaganda more than their daughters. They see ambitious, independent girls and (especially if they have no sons) they assume young boys are also flourishing. They aren’t aware of the amounts of depravity and pornsickness and how it peaked.

x3meteor · 2020-09-21T20:21:45+00:00

i cant stop cringing

howdoilogoutt · 2020-09-21T21:35:49+00:00

Ehhh what that makes no sense, if she wants to be independent get a Saturday job, and don't use your mum's money. Better yet don't write fake posts, because this is fake as hellll ahahaha.

Mulkvistee · 2020-09-21T19:09:26+00:00

EDIT: I literally read that as her Dad encouraging this. After reading it again I see it's the mom, but my brain actually rejected the possibility a woman would do this to her daughter. I've reached peak levels of "can't even" apparently. That she went to go farm karma for making her daughter pay for the privilege of male attention broke my brain.

rinabean · 2020-09-21T22:31:16+00:00

Maybe I was a late bloomer but I think 14 year olds dating is pretty off from the start, asides from the crazy low standards her own parents are attempting to instil.

OrchidLion · 2020-09-21T23:08:27+00:00

This mentality is so dumb. "I will make males BENEFIT OFF OF ME and get nothing in return. That'll show em!"

galian84 · 2020-09-21T21:20:59+00:00

Umm, wow. This woman's daughter is going to wind up with a deadbeat cheapskate loser. Ask me how I know...

I'm so glad my parents never promoted this. They always told me "you better make sure the man takes care of you!!" But of course to take care of him in return. I just didn't listen and thought I was all independent by paying my own way, and even for him. Well, I wound up with lazy cheapskates who were content to leave me as a forever girlfriend.

vmuzondi · 2020-09-22T01:10:57+00:00

I hate this so much. A man paying doesn’t mean you’re not independent. It just means you’re giving him the chance to show his generosity. Her mom is setting her up to be with stingy men. She’s also making her put herself in the pursuer position. Bad parenting at it’s finest🤦🏾‍♀️

cherieblosum · 2020-09-22T03:16:42+00:00

This girl is so brain washed. So sad.

Idk if 14 year old girls should even be going on dates.

Muffy217 · 2020-09-22T02:41:41+00:00

Y’all, let the boy use his allowance and buy her a happy meal. My god.

blueveinnoble · 2020-09-21T22:32:32+00:00

Dafuq!?

muricaxoxo · 2020-09-22T06:59:04+00:00

Hahaha "independent" yeah girl that ain't it, independent means she can pay for herself and relies on NO ONE ELSE (mother included). When I was 14 I had a job, as my parents were sick of me asking for money (to help teach life skills etc), as did many of my friends. that's what her mum should've done instead of patting herself on the back for teaching her to go 50/50, help her get a job and manage money. She's 14 she should be learning, growing and focusing on a future. Not dating! Call me old school but an education is more valuable then a date as it's rare that teenagers stay together forever anyways.

Sewud · 2020-09-21T22:59:18+00:00

She's right that she shouldn't go on a date at 14 and it's not a date if they are each paying their own way. That's just hanging out with a friend.

plummyjellyfish · 2020-09-22T01:53:47+00:00

Honestly, the kid sounds like an entitled little shit. "You need to pay as my mama :)" When I was 14 I personally didn't run around saying, "Mommy, pay for my food, pwease!" I would have whooped this kid if she were my daughter...

sewingmachinesavior · 2020-09-22T02:58:22+00:00

Well, for balance in the universe I recently told my young teen son that a date is where he takes a girl out AND PAYS.

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Title	Wow. This is sad.
Author	liondale
Upvotes	163
Comments	64
Date	September 21, 2020 6:44 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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