A loving marriage ❤️

wrathofroc · 2024-03-06T20:26:30+00:00

What’s yours is mine and what’s mine is also mine.

TenuousOgre · 2024-03-06T21:16:58+00:00

She wants a husband with character and integrity while offering neither herself. Can't make this shit up.

Chama-HUH · 2024-03-06T20:34:19+00:00

At least she was honest on how much she doesn’t care about her husband and same thing can be said for the women in the comments, most men only have themselves or thankfully in this woman’s husband case he had his friends to fall back on. Traditional gender roles are shit. Men need to be more selfish.

Panskilicious · 2024-03-06T20:43:52+00:00

Damn, she did absolutely nothing of value other than praying for him when he was going through really tough times. What an absolute keeper right there.

That's the kind of woman that doesn't give a shit about you when you're struggling, but leaves you when you don't get her the purse she ~~demands~~ politely asks for.

WhereProgressIsMade · 2024-03-06T20:51:00+00:00

She sounds like a peach /s.

My wife set her paycheck to direct deposit in a joint account and is happy I take care of all the financial stuff - bills, investing, etc. She only has a pretty decent Roth IRA balance now entirely because I set it up and max out the contribution every year.

sewerboi_0 · 2024-03-06T21:49:09+00:00

I dont know how feminist can say equal rights but then say marriage shouldn't be 50/50

MeisterMGTOW · 2024-03-06T20:35:21+00:00

Simps gonna simp and there is an endless supply of providers out there.

weirdgroovynerd · 2024-03-06T21:05:02+00:00

Can't she give him the money, then pray for more?

It'd be a win-win!

prateekster · 2024-03-06T22:23:35+00:00

The fact that she never even once offered help tells a lot about her character.

HotwheelsJackOfficia · 2024-03-06T22:51:53+00:00

if he asks you for money when he's broke, he was never a provider to begin with

That's YOUR HUSBAND.

Illadrex2 · 2024-03-07T00:02:35+00:00

Man that's the mentality of a lot of women in America, they are just less apt to say it aloud...but especially women of all these countries the passport bros want to hold up as symbols of virtue, many of those women have been taught to do nothing but look pretty, and fetch a high price for her family...not crazy to hear at all

Billmacia · 2024-03-07T02:38:27+00:00

"I want the same salary of a men, but the men MUST provide." They only want slaves, not love one.

DifficultPapaya3038 · 2024-03-06T20:43:31+00:00

Asteroid

Now

penduR7 · 2024-03-07T04:02:31+00:00

“I have my own money so without him I’m good.”

Why do they always have to slip shit like this whenever they speak? Lmao if anything makes her look worse, like she could have helped contribute but didn’t. But yas queen you’re so independent 💅

DrewYetti · 2024-03-07T05:54:15+00:00

She did nothing to support her husband but then expects him to continue on supporting her? She’s a stingy parasite.

bigdickk71 · 2024-03-07T00:41:31+00:00

I bet she still asked him for money

Frird2008 · 2024-03-06T20:57:06+00:00

Good thing my dream woman doesn't share her mindset.

Koush · 2024-03-06T23:48:44+00:00

Well the woman isn't wrong, if you get essentially a slave who does all your bidding, provides for you endlessly, never bothers you and you don't have to do anything to achieve this then that truly is winning in life.

How do I sign up?

KelVarnsenIII · 2024-03-07T00:50:19+00:00

This is why society is destined to fail. This is where feminism and equality, or lack there of, come into play. THIS is why I will NEVER EVER get married again and I don't care if women fail, if they're homeless, if they have no food, no clothes, no shoes, nowhere to live, that's on them. They want equality, let them have it full force. Whoever wrote that is the biggest flaming back of horse poo whoever lived.

ChaosOpen · 2024-03-07T06:47:46+00:00

Another classic "My money is mine and your money is ours" marriage. Honestly, the fact that society doesn't see how an unequal relationship could be a problem in marriage is truly astounding.

Chaos92muffin · 2024-03-07T06:20:27+00:00

Even as a Christian any man would feel insulted by this woman's actions.

What happened to being one in christ? If you hurt I hurt of you bleed I bleed? If you struggle I struggle? Don't even get me started on proverbs 31

That doesn't scream of a Christian woman in my eyes

trowaway123453199 · 2024-03-07T03:34:45+00:00

even if this woman cocked, cleaned and cared for their kids 24/7, if you have to deal with shit like that, if she just resents you for even daring to suffer, then is it worth it?

like, do tradcons really see this shit and think "damn I whish I was that man"?

kingullu4 · 2024-03-07T04:01:07+00:00

Thankfully there are some women who don't behave like this selfish woman. Hopefully he realises this before it's too late.

meakixy · 2024-03-07T01:51:53+00:00

This is a foreign language to me. I help my boyfriend and I only have disability money, its not much at all but I still help anyway. He makes way more than me but he needs to be appreciated so there should be no issue with helping with things

4thaccount-1989 · 2024-03-07T07:06:42+00:00

And what's the point of a gf/wife if her helping you in any way is a no no? Doesn't this just make them leeches?

tampahotwife1 · 2024-03-06T21:32:25+00:00

And you did not offer to help...you bitch. You used your usual stand as an ATM machine.

rhoo31313 · 2024-03-07T04:26:48+00:00

That made me angry.

kingslayer990 · 2024-03-07T07:08:37+00:00

Husband is just as big of a problem as she is

BigCommercial5351 · 2024-03-07T04:40:28+00:00

2nd baby momma and wife for me right here !

Never again ill rent one now

Catch-the-Rabbit · 2024-03-07T06:17:37+00:00

Well. This is something no one with any emotional intelligence would be down for.

mr_ogyny · 2024-03-07T10:47:23+00:00

These type of women want to be provided for, validated for their insecurities, emotional support from you, and be taken out on dates and romanced. However, because they see you as a resource to extract their needs from, they will not do these things for you.The entire relationship is centered around their feelings and needs so they put in the least amount of effort towards you as possible.

If you start expecting reciprocation, she will leave you for another guy she can use. She doesn't love you, only what you can provide.

Milk--and--honey · 2024-03-07T04:57:05+00:00

Sadly that's very common in middle eastern cultures. 50/50 is mostly seen in the west

Mindless-Spare-2454 · 2024-03-07T09:41:38+00:00

I have said for a long time the only woman most men can depend on are their mothers. That right there is unrequited love, it’s why women don’t like men who are close to their mothers. It’s why “mommas boys” was used as an insult.

Your mother will tell you straight if she things a woman Is good enough for you, she will always be able to tell. It’s why toxic women don’t like strong female personalities in men’s life.

Eastwood96 · 2024-03-07T11:20:44+00:00

"In sickness and in health..." Sure.

PUMA-420 · 2024-03-07T13:09:01+00:00

I was okay with everything until I read this.

"I have my own money so without him I'm good". Modern women call themselves independent until expect to be provided for, and they never thank you for providing because they claim they make their own money.

1antinomy · 2024-03-07T13:19:22+00:00

Modern women wanna be able to make their money, keep it & spend it frivolously—

While the man becomes a pack mule to sustain the lifestyle

And there are really men out here who sign up to do this, just have a woman around…..absolutely pitiful

ButWhatOfGlen · 2024-03-06T21:44:28+00:00

At long as that was "the deal" from the beginning. "I'll support us all through thick and thin. You remain faithful, handle the home and children" 👍

OkWillingness3123 · 2024-03-07T14:28:22+00:00

whole point of a relationship is to be there for your partner, you’re literally supposed to be a team and support each other. wtf is the point of a relationship if she doesn’t even care for him and left him to deal with all of that on his own?? this woman is ridiculous

ConstructionFun194 · 2024-03-07T14:41:45+00:00

Good luck to those of you that marry them. Can singledom really be much worse than such a relationship??

horonlapsi · 2024-03-07T15:19:07+00:00

literally just roommates lol

Sudden_Pop · 2024-03-07T04:42:37+00:00

This isn't a post by an American woman, she's Nigerian. A lot of women in Africa think like this and in some cultures you are required to pay the family to marry their daughter.

This isn't a western idea, plenty of women in Africa will think they should do absolutely nothing in their marriage and plenty of men have been told their whole lives that it's the way it should be.

This is a cultural issue

PaulGoddard987654321 · 2024-03-07T07:24:55+00:00

She sent thoughts n prayers but no practical help.

Specific-Ad3525 · 2024-03-07T12:13:04+00:00

Says alot about you when the Person he should be able to trust and talk to neglects him and don't give a f

Wonderful_Working315 · 2024-03-07T13:54:13+00:00

Glad I'm not that guy

WirFliegen · 2024-03-07T15:53:01+00:00

Disgusting. Truly disgusting.

Elterchet · 2024-03-07T17:30:25+00:00

,,Partnership" and ,,equality" in hetero marriages...

IcyBee4871 · 2024-03-07T19:15:10+00:00

I think this relationship is unhealthy.

TheShade570 · 2024-03-08T02:31:11+00:00

Good the he doesn't ask, but he shouldn't need to 💀, she should have just helped 🙂

Quiet-Worldliness709 · 2024-03-09T09:14:07+00:00

Well shit, if this guy wanted parasites he could’ve just eaten gas station sushi instead of marrying this vile massive blood sucking worm.

Scoring_Borealis · 2024-03-09T17:53:22+00:00

Hateful woman

WLL20t · 2024-03-07T07:58:16+00:00

She is from Nigeria so I would think they think a bit more conservatively.

Syshoem17 · 2024-03-07T00:19:07+00:00

Sounds like a chore

PristinePilot6599 · 2024-03-07T12:52:40+00:00

What a philosophy... Let him beg others for money, take loans from close friends, let him cry and feel helpless when he can't arrange some cash. But he should feel embarrassed to ask his wife. He is the provider even if he's dying

gabriel-kornilov · 2024-03-07T14:10:08+00:00

Show me how much you love me, honey! Work hard, provide, keep your mouth and do not ask me for anything.

Some men really love pain...

titanicboi1 · 2024-03-06T23:57:11+00:00

At lest she didn't leave him at his lowest

Mountain_Collar_7620 · 2024-03-07T14:12:54+00:00

Guys unlike in my experience so at least she got out of the way, kept quiet and ….. didn’t then backstab him/ finish him off in his misery so …

With my realistic western civ set of expectations -> “This seems Fine 😂 “ 🔪

X_BlackBirdX · 2024-03-07T19:31:15+00:00

I vomitted. She better ypung and thicc atleast otherwise put her into tresh

CalligrapherMobile79 · 2024-03-07T04:54:20+00:00

She right 110% What kind of loser man would ever take money from a women, that's why y'all dudes will never find a keeper. #pimpinissimpin

Mehmet_Jamukhov_7860 · 2024-03-07T05:55:29+00:00

Respect to the Man! 🙏. Great man he is. He could have asked for money. No problem. But his choice. He may have thought that asking for money is not good thing so he earned it back. Great man. Big respect to him!

blamphsgamer · 2024-03-07T04:08:57+00:00

This woman is trying to empower women, not put down her husband. She's not the most articulated for sure. She could have worded things better yet the amount of assumptions and hatred directed towards this woman seems a bit drastic to me. We simply do not know the inner workings of her marriage. All we know is what she told us. The message for women that I took away, given that I am a woman is essentially "do not settle" this is a message that promotes strong boundaries and self-advocacy. She clearly focuses on money too much and her story isn't perfect or should be applied to other women's lives, and that's where her faults lie. I mean, personally I don't mind the message. I can see how her story seems bad, but she also said her husband didn't even ask her for help. Overall, this post seems a bit irrelevant to mens rights- seems like a sad excuse to assume the worst in this scenario.

Title	A loving marriage ❤️
Author	-Sphinx-
Upvotes	627
Comments	143
Date	March 6, 2024 8:19 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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