Why is this a question?

SSininkas · 2019-07-25T05:42:06+00:00

The sick part is that some people needed researchers to tell them that rape is rape.

I swear I see the same thing all the time with cutters. "Haha you think babies feel pain? Then why hasn't anyone proved it with an experiment huh??? Checkm8 lol"

epalsliphead · 2019-07-25T03:15:23+00:00

Fucking duh!

Goes to show that people are just getting more stupid if they think there isn't such a thing like female-on-male rape.

anonymousguy3000 · 2019-07-25T04:21:50+00:00

"Perhaps it should be"

So only maybe perhaps in some cases seldomly, forcing sex is rape? Wtf

ysidrow · 2019-07-25T04:49:43+00:00

The title and intro are stupid, but the legality is a real problem. Many legal terms in the UK use very old definitions which do preclude equal application of the law. In short, these regions need to update their laws.

industriald85 · 2019-07-25T07:08:55+00:00

The best way to compare getting a boner when getting raped is: some women report orgasming during a rape, but still did not enioy it. "Its like when you get tickled. You laugh, but its unsufferable"

teeny_big_tree · 2019-07-25T06:50:00+00:00

Replace "perhaps it" with "it fucking well" and it's a start.

TheDwiin · 2019-07-25T07:15:15+00:00

I love it when feminists use the "it isn't about sex it's about power and dominance" argument (which I believe is sometimes the case) but when I start bringing up that women can rape men because it's a power and dominance thing, they backpedal saying that "women wouldn't enjoy the sex without a participating partner so a woman wouldn't rape a man."

RoryTate · 2019-07-25T04:21:13+00:00

Because somehow when genitalia is internal to the human body and unwanted contact is made with it...well, that is just so much more traumatic and hurtful. Unlike external genitalia of any type, where it's like the appendage was just asking to be grabbed and violated, you know? Any man who claims otherwise...anybody who has the audacity to say that contact with his genitals is unwanted is obviously lying, and similarly any protests of distress and pain from him can be safely ignored. It's just not the same thing after all. /s

auMatech · 2019-07-25T06:36:36+00:00

Well, if they want to try and put in place legislation to finally classify it as rape, they should. I wouldn't be surprised if feminists successfully lobby against it like they did in Israel and India.

As someone on here once said, history might not repeat itself, but it sure does rhyme.

Gozie5 · 2019-07-25T07:01:30+00:00

They ask stupid questions like these and then they "Pikachu face" when their son gets raped in school by a female teacher.

Lion_amongst_gods · 2019-07-25T04:43:19+00:00

Of course, it is. That thing in your head that says that it is, is called 'logic'.

feckinghound · 2019-07-25T08:49:54+00:00

The law is that it's sexual assault, just like sodomy, objects inserted into vaginas and is gender neutral - actually a far worse crime than rape. Rape is a penis forcibly entering a vagina only.

Plenty lawyers want to see rape scrapped from the law books and only have sexual assault as it covers everything. It's just that rape has made it into the common speech of the public and it's been misconstrued.

The article is wanting rape to be more than just a penis forcibly entering a vagina. Personally I think we should be using sexual assault as the law is already written.

SageBus · 2019-07-25T07:02:58+00:00

When they are the victims, men are regarded in sexual abuse cases as little more than walking dildos that spit out money.

2019-07-25T05:45:59+00:00

Perhaps.jpg

MisPlacedNeuroBlue · 2019-07-25T09:55:02+00:00

And theres women fighting against that rape definition!

Jex117 · 2019-07-25T11:02:51+00:00

https://soundcloud.com/889-wers/male-rape

Theresa Phung: "For the men who are traumatized by their experiences because they were forced against their will to vaginally penetrate a woman.."

Dr. Mary P. Koss: "How would that happen...how would that happen by force or threat of force or when the victim is unable to consent? How does that happen?"

Theresa Phung: "So I am actually speaking to someone right now. his story is that he was drugged, he was unconscious and when he awoke a woman was on top of him with his penis inserted inside her vagina, and for him that was traumatizing.

Dr. Mary P. Koss: "Yeah."

Theresa Phung: "If he was drugged what would that be called?"

Dr. Mary P. Koss: "What would I call it? I would call it 'unwanted contact'."

Theresa Phung: "Just 'unwanted contact' period?"

Dr. Mary P. Koss: "Yeah."

https://imgur.com/n4NZfxA

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mary_P._Koss

Famous feminist, Dr Mary P Koss, is widely heralded for petitioning the FBI to change the definition of rape to include male sodomy victims, and widely criticized for deliberately petitioning a definition that excludes male victims of female rapists.

Mary Koss is one of the most famous and influential leaders within the Feminist Movement. Until Feminists start calling out rape apologists in their own ranks, I simply won't trust them.

Juris-Prude · 2019-07-25T07:03:04+00:00

Because the law is currently unequal. It's not like they're asking it because it is rape and they're suggesting it's not. It's because it's currently classed as sexual assault. While carrying the same sentence, it does not carry the same social stigma.

tw1nm3t30r · 2019-07-25T07:51:01+00:00

Is the sky fucking blue? Rape is Rape, no matter gender age or anything.

daredevilk · 2019-07-25T06:56:01+00:00

"Phenomenon"

Jonne999999999 · 2019-07-25T07:47:03+00:00

What if a man forced himself on another man? Is that a rape then?? Or a woman on a woman(since a woman obviously canNoT RapE)???

lahavior · 2019-07-25T07:49:32+00:00

Female on male rape is not defined by law in Isreal as well, the punishment you would get for that crime is half the punishment for male on female rape, i am a man, and i live in Isreal, I'm scared

BudnamedSpud · 2019-07-25T08:57:22+00:00

Thats the point of the article. Its about how its not considered rape in parts of the UK.

DeltaPX · 2019-07-25T10:28:46+00:00

This is the source: https://www.bbc.com/news/stories-49057533

And the picture is cut. It says: “When a man has penetrative sex with a woman without her consent, that's rape. But what if a woman makes a man have penetrative sex with her, without his consent? That's not rape under the law of England and Wales, but the author of a new study of the phenomenon says perhaps it should be.”

I totally agree that it should also be called rape.

cww7869 · 2019-07-25T11:37:39+00:00

That’s the same way it is in New York State

azazelcrowley · 2019-07-25T04:41:58+00:00

It's a question because feminists fight to ensure male victims cannot be protected.

my-2econd-account · 2019-07-25T07:09:51+00:00

P E R H A P S

MR_9uy · 2019-07-25T08:51:35+00:00

The article isn't too bad to be honest, it even touches on men being victims of domestic violence. It's worth a read in my opinion.

The biggest take away for me is that it's a article highlighting an issue men face, and it's on the front page of one of the most popular news sites.

A_one_legged_man · 2019-07-25T09:24:19+00:00

So if a woman sticks a gun to a man's head and forces him to have sex, that isn't rape? Did he have a choice?

frisch85 · 2019-07-25T10:19:23+00:00

2024 News Headline: Shocking! "For no plausible reason, all men seem to have left the country" female prime minister of the United Kingdom says

CelticTiger1012 · 2019-07-25T10:56:38+00:00

Yup, if a woman rapes a man in England and Wales the most she can be charged with is sexual assault. It’s pretty fucked

camletoejoe · 2019-07-25T11:06:51+00:00

IF a woman rapes a man. Is that rape? DERP!

5th_Law_of_Robotics · 2019-07-25T11:10:57+00:00

I hope one day people will look back on these "men, can they really be raped" articles the way we look back on "the negro, can it truly feel pain" discussions.

2019-07-25T11:53:16+00:00

Well, at least they are getting aware of it :/

boringcarpets · 2019-07-25T12:18:21+00:00

It's crazy how they can't get their heads around, yknow, equality. Treating men and women the same is baffling

SMGcraycray · 2019-07-25T13:01:49+00:00

If I force someone to kill themselves is that murder

Lethn · 2019-07-25T13:09:58+00:00

This is just yet more moral gatekeeping from feminists, because they always view men as the abusers, they won't ever admit they can be raped by a woman. They'll rant about men all day and about how men can rape other men, but that again goes back to their ideology of how only men can be abusers.

These people must be isolated from the criminal justice system and psychology industry, they have had control for far too long and are enabling abusive women. By the way, this is the thing about feminists too who claim 'We don't hate men' no, they don't, they might genuinely believe that, but they will always view men as potential abusers and rapists even if they don't openly 'hate' them the way a lot of feminists in the mainstream do.

Don't let them get away with all this sneaky wordplay and mental gymnastics.

chambertlo · 2019-07-25T17:23:01+00:00

Perhaps it should be

This is shit. Of course it should be.

I-have-ED · 2019-07-25T17:54:00+00:00

how is this even a question

2019-07-25T18:42:16+00:00

You’re not just wrong, you’re stupid

CantBanFacts · 2019-07-25T19:34:33+00:00

This question isn't even being asked over here across the pond.

Bringing this up gets you called a nazi-rapist.

goodmod · 2019-07-26T02:31:12+00:00

Although this is a good post, the title does not say enough about its subject. This forces people to click and read before they can decide whether they are interested. It also makes searching impossible.

If everyone did this, the subreddit would become unusable. Moreover, it means that your post will fail to reach some readers because they won't know what it's about.

So please don't do it in future. Take the time to describe your link, and save the time of hundreds of other people.

When making a title, it's best to assume the reader doesn't know what you're talking about - but don't go overboard with every detail. Then check if there are any words you can cut out without losing any important information.

rozz121 · 2019-07-25T06:31:33+00:00

NibblyPig · 2019-07-25T08:05:16+00:00

As per a petition to the UK government

All non-consensual sexual penetration is dealt with by specific serious offences, including those that can be committed by a man or a woman. For example, the offence of assault by penetration carries the same maximum penalty as rape.

The sentences available under the Act for all sexual offences are significant and reflect the seriousness of the offending.

Issues surrounding the definition of rape were considered both in the “Setting the Boundaries” consultation published prior to the introduction of the Sexual Offences Act 2003 and, during the passage of that legislation through Parliament. In the consultation there was a considerable amount of agreement that rape should remain an offence of penile penetration, but that the definition be extended to include penile penetration of the mouth.

It is true that “rape” under Section 1 of the Sexual Offences Act 2003 is, in the majority of cases, committed by a man, but there are some rare exceptions for example, when a woman is actively involved in the commission of a gang rape.

We therefore have no plans to amend the legal definition of rape in the Sexual Offences Act 2003 as suggested by this e-petition.

Ministry of Justice

neoalfa · 2019-07-25T08:08:48+00:00

Perhaps...

Dalinair · 2019-07-25T08:12:53+00:00

There are many things i'm proud about living in the UK, this is not one of them, we are still backward on way too many things.

Pompeyfandan · 2019-07-25T08:27:52+00:00

Under UK law this is called sexual assault. It's not called rape, but it carries the exact same penalties and sentencing guidelines, so really it's just a matter of terminology.

xmx900 · 2019-07-25T08:39:37+00:00

Isn't it already a thing in the us though?

iMnotHiigh · 2019-07-25T09:38:38+00:00

2019 clown world

miroku000 · 2019-07-25T11:05:40+00:00

Why do we even need to talk about this?? Of course it’s rape!

Flowmeyo · 2019-07-25T11:25:15+00:00

perhaps

alabamaispoor · 2019-07-25T11:36:12+00:00

Can someone please provide me with the link?

MopFish · 2019-07-25T12:32:46+00:00

technically in the UK its sexual assault if a women forces a man but it does have the exact same punishment, though it kinda fucked

2019-07-25T12:57:25+00:00

"Perhaps it should be"

In my book, ethically, it always has been.

2019-07-25T13:20:54+00:00

"Phenomenon."

Like it happens so rarely that it really isn't worth considering in a data set.

scootmcdoot · 2019-07-25T13:29:08+00:00

The.... "phenomenon?"

GJokaero · 2019-07-25T13:32:17+00:00

It's not but under UK law women cannot be rapists due to how the law is worded.

Lil_Narwhal · 2019-07-25T13:46:01+00:00

Wtf of course that's rape. I didnt know that was a thing in england...

Ya-boi-alphape · 2019-07-25T14:22:35+00:00

Great. There’s some great discussion about this subject happening then someone has to swing in abortion. Can we please stay on topic?

_Mellex_ · 2019-07-25T14:24:31+00:00

PERHAPS

Kitsunemitsu · 2019-07-25T14:28:40+00:00

I was raped before.
Not proud of it, don't often admit it and I still kind of blame myself.

2019-07-25T14:29:44+00:00

The title literally implies it like omg

GetJukedM8 · 2019-07-25T14:46:55+00:00

Yes because raping of men doesn't happen. "Phenomenon" fucking hell

Dikklol · 2019-07-25T15:18:35+00:00

Perhaps

Shitpostradamus · 2019-07-25T15:19:04+00:00

Just another case of that damned patriarchy!!

randomhappydinosaur · 2019-07-25T15:26:54+00:00

ftfy

LunaTheNightmare · 2019-07-25T15:28:18+00:00

Uh yah! Rape is rape!!

ChaosOpen · 2019-07-25T15:44:44+00:00

People seem to think that because men like sex, they must like sex with everyone so there is no way they would turn down a woman's advances, however, even though women like sex as well, for some reason they think only women have the ability to control their libido.

Or they think that forcing someone to have sex can only be done through physical means, however, it is very possible to use blackmail to accomplish it. I'm sure the line "have sex with me or I'll tell everyone you raped me" has been spoken to many victims.

SharedRegime · 2019-07-25T15:59:17+00:00

"Perhaps it should be" its like they dont know what the definition of rape is.

But yeah we live in a patriarchy for sure.

2019-07-25T16:02:53+00:00

full article link?

facemoosh · 2019-07-25T16:10:15+00:00

Perhaps.

-paulpawlowski- · 2019-07-25T16:22:34+00:00

WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK

princeflare · 2019-07-25T16:48:21+00:00

Why is it even a question? Because some women still believe that only men commit rape.

2019-07-25T17:12:04+00:00

"Perhaps" it should be. Only perhaps?

2019-07-25T17:16:26+00:00

“Oh you’re a guy, you know you wanted it anyway”

“You probably liked it so what’s the big deal?”

fuyukihana · 2019-07-25T17:22:11+00:00

Damn I saw a post recently in a women's discussion subreddit from a man asking if he'd been raped, describing this sort of situation. The responses were resoundingly "yes, that is rape." Many recommendations on how to deal with the trauma and empathy for the lack of resources available for men to do so. If a bunch of women on a female centric subreddit understand this, what the fuck is wrong with those who dont? Who are these people so certain it isn't?

goldhelmet · 2019-07-25T17:22:42+00:00

No shit Sherlocks.

TwinkieMayhem24 · 2019-07-25T17:24:23+00:00

Happened to me, I keep quiet about it now because the few that I told laughed and said that men cant be raped.

EathanS2k · 2019-07-25T18:15:58+00:00

Good thing the article says England and Wales and not the UK, Scots law is different from English law and in an updated definition of rape in the sexual offences Scotland act 2009 the rape of males has been included.

ThreeLF · 2019-07-25T18:17:18+00:00

baby steps. baby steps. This article isn't discriminatory. I may not like the wording, and you probably don't either, but it's at least a good thing that the general public is discussing it.

Egalitarianwhistle · 2019-07-25T18:31:29+00:00

if a woman has ever had sex with you after youve had two beers then you have been raped.

hatrickpatrick · 2019-07-25T18:38:01+00:00

Why the fuck does the word "penetration" have to be involved at all? Rape is engaging in any form of sexual intercourse with another human without their consent. Why can't we just define it thus and leave it at that?

medi3val6 · 2019-07-25T18:51:36+00:00

Unpopular opinion: They are both still rapes, but I do think being penetrated is a more severe version. Like assault and aggravated-assault, or something.

SporkTornado · 2019-07-25T19:01:17+00:00

UK's legal definition of rape is so narrow, a woman can't commit rape.

Rape

(1)A person (A) commits an offence if—

(a)he intentionally penetrates the vagina, anus or mouth of another person (B) with his penis,

(b)B does not consent to the penetration, and

(c)A does not reasonably believe that B consents.

(2)Whether a belief is reasonable is to be determined having regard to all the circumstances, including any steps A has taken to ascertain whether B consents.

(3)Sections 75 and 76 apply to an offence under this section.

(4)A person guilty of an offence under this section is liable, on conviction on indictment, to imprisonment for life.

https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2003/42/part/1/crossheading/rape

talantua · 2019-07-25T19:03:18+00:00

Here is a link to the article

https://www.google.ca/amp/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/amp/stories-49057533

Personally i like this article. I've known for years about the situation. This is one of the biggest things that made me aware of the unbalance in many social and legal system.

I think it is a good thing that the question is still being asked as it forces people be aware and the fact that a big enterprise as BBC is the one publishing it, today i might add, is a good thing.

We WANT the question to be asked, we WANT people to talk about it. The worst thing would be for it to become ignored or worse, forgotten, and we'd be back to the starting point.

Real change happens overtime, not overnight, and people forget, new generations might not be aware. This is the one thing i'm aware feminism or any big social entott did right, no matter their intentions or results. They hammered their point, right or wrong, until it became the standard.

So do it, talk about it, let people know but be respectful. Just don't let it die or change won't ever happen.

Guilvareux · 2019-07-25T19:15:09+00:00

The author of a study?! Are you joking?! This is common fucking sense

2019-07-25T20:12:18+00:00

i was raped by a woman and to this day everyone thinks it’s hilarious, and that it want rape because women can’t do that. police, friends, family all think it was nothing

OrionTheWolf · 2019-07-25T20:25:55+00:00

It’s because we don’t have reproductive rights

wwwhistler · 2019-07-25T20:52:47+00:00

why?...a possable clue behind the reason can be found in the victorian laws against homosexual behavior. it was illegal for male gay sex but not female gay sex...why? because Victoria the Queen, did not believe that women engaged in such behavior and therefor no such law was needed.

azazelcrowley · 2019-07-25T22:43:48+00:00

I know it's a fucking ball-ache, but my fellow UK users could do our movement a solid here by clicking the link to "The Next Episode", her podcast hosted on the BBC website. They'll then prompt you to sign up to the BBC website to access it.

I know, I know, I clicked away too, because why would you sign up to the BBC website compared to using the IPlayer, well it turns out, for shit that's too thrown together in the back of a garage to make it onto the Iplayer like ms silvers podcast, my guess being they allow people to host their content there or have some kind of fucked up employee contract forcing them to do it there instead of on youtube or something, probably based on the vain hope that the BBC can reap 100% of the viewership from hosting it on the website and get more influence than having to credit youtube and reach a potential audience millions larger in a typical BBC move. But here's the thing. If their data collection is even halfway competent, they'll show a spike in registrations specifically being linked from this podcast on this topic. Read the article, click the link to her podcast, press play, get cockblocked, Sign up, watch or listen to the podcast, and then you're done forever, or you can just let it sit there in case this kind of thing comes up again.

There's nothing a company likes more than new customers, and if a story generates new membership on their website that's going to get them interested in publishing more of this kind of thing in order to keep that membership and potentially expand it.

Clown_molester69 · 2019-07-26T00:11:40+00:00

Perhaps it should be. Well no shit

ibelieveinsantacruz · 2019-07-26T00:23:34+00:00

How's he to keep his dick hard if he doesn't want to?

AssassinTable · 2019-07-26T01:39:04+00:00

"perhaps it should be" ~ Humanity - 2019

Rustythepipe · 2019-08-19T08:24:12+00:00

Good lord.

LurkingGinger1988 · 2019-07-25T07:43:39+00:00

Consent? What’s that? Oh yeah. Something only women need according to UK law. This is why my ex wasn’t charged with it and this is why I have a daughter now.

The law needs to change and move towards a more equal sentence.

RandommCraft · 2019-07-25T08:07:38+00:00

I might get downvoted for this butttt.

The question itself it somewhat relevant. Depending on your jurisdiction, rape only counts if the person 'inserts or penetrates the other person'

The law needs to be updated, yes.

The article is somewhat bias, yes.

But it has a good point. Please don't dismiss things straight away.

thuglanta · 2019-07-25T11:39:54+00:00

Perhaps it should be

memescauseautism · 2019-07-25T11:57:42+00:00

Perhaps

retardedwhiteknight · 2019-07-25T10:07:54+00:00

england is still in stone age

AnonymousChezz · 2019-07-25T20:57:11+00:00

“Perhaps should be.” Digusting

2019-07-25T22:25:44+00:00

Disgusting this means a 40 year old women can force a teen for sex and not be charged with rape

r8001 · 2019-07-25T07:54:04+00:00

"Perhaps".

jackcos · 2019-07-25T12:08:01+00:00

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/stories-49057533

Did you actually read the article, or just the title?

It's actually really positive, dispelling many of the myths such as "if a man has an erection then he wants sex". The study was carried out by a woman, and now she's advocating for a change to the law.

But no, you just read the clickbait headline.

EDIT: Why am I getting downvoted? The article does dispel the myth that men can't be raped. It's not dismissive like the title suggests at all.

Title	Why is this a question?
Author	vivatonymartial
Upvotes	3625
Comments	255
Date	July 25, 2019 3:06 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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