Out there who actually believed the stuff about fertility these women post in here, who clearly are jealous they have a tight biological clock and men dont. They try to say oh men also become infertile after 45… which is a hilarious claim. Bob Marleys dad was 64 when he was born… you don’t create bob marley with messed up swimmers. It’s a bad argument if you’re trying to paint being a dad at an older age in that light, you’d be better off pointing out how hard it would to be a good dad at 60 than it is at 35.

And I’m sure there are some studies you can post showing a slight increase in risk for certain defects the older the male is. Like instead of 1 in 50,000 births it becomes 1 in 30,000 births. I don’t think women should get self conscious about the biological clock but they shouldn’t ignore it if they do want kids. It is true generally that women peak in mid 20s and go down while men often don’t even start to see things going up at all until they hit 30. They gain experience. Men go after fertility, women go after status. It’s biological