Usually men commit money to women

Women commit sex.

But the commitment is not treated the same way by society.

Women simply CANNOT commit to have sex.

For example, say you want to have sex with a woman and you fear that some day she will cry rape and get you 50 years in prison like Danny Masterson.

Can you get consent in advance like 1 month?

Nope. Can you proof that sex is consensual? Nope. The woman is in your house. If she doesn't want to have sex with you she can just leave. Yea but any sex can be deemed rape much latter.

It is extremely difficult for men to proof consent and Donald Trump and Danny Masterson case shows that there aren't a lot of evidence needed to convict men for rape.

Consent can always be withdrawn.

Men, however, are treated as committed on things beyond explicit commitment.

Men are forced to pay alimony, palimony, child support beyond what he EXPLICITLY agreed.

In fact, what's puzzling is the women themselves cannot commit to a separate deals.

Say I want to have children. Say I already have a budget $5k a month for each child. Say a woman agree. We can't have that deal. After a child is born she can always sue me for $50k.

Why is that?

Because governments want women to pick poor guys. So government ensure having sex and children with rich guy is extremely complicated. Government also wants to prevent people from easily planning their children.

There is a way to mitigate this.

Men should NEVER commit anything to women.

Marriage is a big no no.

What happened is when both sides "commit", the commitment looks equal. The truth is she can't commit to anything. She is free to fuck other guys, leave, etc.

The men commitment however stay. The man has to provide for her anyway irrelevant of who she fucks etc.

Here is an alternative. If she wants a man that stick around, offer her an option, but not obligation, to sell sex.

Making a contract where she has an obligation to have sex is useless. But she probably want men that stick around. The men probably don't mind financially taking care of her as long as she behaves.

Just give her an option.

It's like signing contract with a child.

So make sure everything is as transactional as possible.

If she doesn't want to have sex, No means No. Leave her. Move on.

That's it.

Always be transactional, always split transactions into smaller pieces. Do NOT commit anything to a woman.