I scroll through this sub, and I see a lot of men complaining about their situation and that they are expected to do lots of things (work out, make lots of money, have social skills, etc) in order to be attractive, and I wonder every time: what are you accomplishing here?

Yes it's a lot of work to make yourself attractive to women, yes women (especially young women) usually have it easier than men, but so what? You won't get anywhere by complaining, you can't complain your way to attractiveness and to getting a woman. Stop complaining, stop needlessly blaming women, and grow up.

A man's life is hard, always has been. So what are you going to do to change your situation? Moan and complain, or get to work? I know what I chose, and I've reaped the rewards after putting my head down and grinding. Take your life into your own hands.

Edit: btw women please share your thoughts too if you have any