Men: would this be a dealbreaker for commitment?

itspinkynukka · 2026-03-31T01:17:42+00:00

I'd wonder why she felt the need to suck off some rappers.

corey____trevor · 2026-03-31T03:03:15+00:00

I consider oral sex even more intimate than regular sex, so the virgin status here would be meaningless to me. That alone is fine, but specifically with rappers/athletes, especially multiple, would be an easy dealbreaker.

Bouldershoulders12 · 2026-03-31T02:43:32+00:00

I consider head a body. It’s literally oral sex . When I think of a “virgin” I’m thinking absolute purity and no sexual encounters. But that’s just me.

But I’d say the dealbreaker is the rappers and athlete access. Once she enters that domain hypergamy won’t allow her to be happy and content with anything under that status wise

abaxeron · 2026-03-31T08:14:08+00:00

Assume everything else is perfect in the relationship

I can't. I am with arguably the best person for me that took thousands of miles through several large cities to find. Everything is still NOT perfect in our relationship. But everything is workable. If I could imagine "everything (except this one tiny detail) perfect", I would never let a real woman at two arms' lenghts to me.

Also, have an upvote; this is a weird yet decent question, I have no idea who is downvoting you.

throwaway73737828 · 2026-03-31T04:24:25+00:00

Ye its all over GGs. When another high status guy comes she will fuck on the side 100%. Not only that she is used to the lifestyle of those dudes. Unless you are like a 1% male, that relationship is going to sink fast if you cant give what those guys gave.

DietTyrone · 2026-03-31T02:28:48+00:00

Tough one. I'd have a tough time believing she's been with rappers and athletes, yet didn't let a single one hit. But for the sake of this example, let's say it's true that I'm the only guy she let get that far. I'd give her a chance but I'd definitely be on high alert for red flags at the start.

SeemedGood · 2026-03-31T01:10:30+00:00

Casual “encounters” chasing status says that she’s not going to be compatible with any sort of sound LTR. But were that her mindset, she wouldn’t have been attractive enough for me to have been considering for an LTR in the first place.

N_Count_Council · 2026-03-31T10:14:06+00:00

It's a dealbreaker because her hypergamy won't allow her to be happy with a normal man after a celebrity.

kongeriket · 2026-03-31T13:03:58+00:00

rappers, athletes

That's the dealbreaking part. Once a hypergamous hoe, always a hypergamous hoe.

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MarioWilson122 · 2026-03-31T04:10:36+00:00

Nah, for me the virgin status would help some, but it would not fully save it. I would still be looking at her overall sexual pattern, not just whether or not actual sex happened. So when it comes to commitment, that would still hurt how I view her, because it would make me less likely to see her as a serious long term option. So I’d say yes, it is very likely to be a dealbreaker. I’m sure there are other guys who would be fine with it though. There are definitely some bp type of guys that would be okay with it, so she still is likely to find someone willing to accept it.

Normal_Red_Sky · 2026-03-31T07:51:51+00:00

She's still got a low body count and had most of her sexual experience in relationships, so that's a good sign, though it sounds like she has some hang ups around penetrative sex which we may have to work through. Would be concerned about why they don't seem to last very long though.

Wouldn't blame her for blowing a few high status guys, it's natural for her to be attracted to them, though I'd be concerned that she might cheat if she got an opportunity with another high status guy.

Title	Men: would this be a dealbreaker for commitment?
Author	nainep
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Comments	77
Date	March 31, 2026 12:26 AM UTC (4 months ago)
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